As we dive right in to the fourth season of The Bachelorette, itโs hard not to make comparisons between seasons past.
As we get to know our guys, we canโt help but notice who the โBlake Colemanโ is (Nathan Favro), the โStu Laundyโ is (Damien Rider) and who the child is (Paddy Collier). Joking!
But in all serious, itโs the โJarrod Woodgateโ that weโre most interested in and that comes in the form of the builder, Charlie Newling.
The 31-year-old has had the first single date of the series and if history is anything to go by, he definitely will not win โ but heโs going to give it a red hot go.
Charlieโs entrance
When Charlie arrived on the red carpet in the premiere episode, he held in his hand a very special gift for Ali โ a handcrafted diary with her initials on it.
While you donโt think of Jarrod straight away when you see a diary, you do think of Cass Wood and thatโs practically the same thing right?
In Charlieโs diary, he wrote a note for Ali:
โAli, Tonight we begin this journey together which I know will be a rollercoaster of emotions.
Heading into this I couldnโt help but put myself in your shoes thinking about the challenging decisions youโll have to making in the coming days, weeks and months.
So Iโve made you this journal to write your thoughts and feelings down and to give you some clarity.โ
Awww very sweet, but also, is he hiding a pot plant in the pages?
Charlie meets Ali for the first time.
Charlieโs journal entry in the diary he gave Ali
The first single date
As mentioned previously, Charlie was lucky enough to score the first single date of the season and as luck would have it, so did Jarrod when Sophie Monk chose him for her first date.
During the high-rise twister (?!) game, Charlie made Ali (and us) feel things.
โCharlie seems too good to be true,โ Ali told the camera, but also said that she would keep herself โin check and not fall in love straight away this time.โ
And then next minute: โHow incredible is this guy? Iโm terrified and heโs doing everything he can to reassure me. No one could handle it better.โ
โHe showed what type of man he is, someone that is always going to have my back.โ
Ali decided to trust him so much that she gave him a passionate kiss, 60ft off the ground. Uh oh.
While we thought Ali had fallen pretty hard, it wasnโt until the second part of the date, safely back on land, that we realised Charlieโs intentions.
You see, the builder had talked himself out of applying for the show but โsomething kept pulling me back,โ he said.
โFinding out it was you, I knew instantly Iโve got to do this. And the one thing that really impressed me was in Paradise when you came straight out and said, I want to get married, I want the kids, I want the house with the white picket fence and I want this and I want it now.โ
Then of course they kissed again!
โSeriously, what if theyโre all like this?โ Ali quipped.
WATCH: Charlie makes Ali feel safe.
Allowing himself to have feelings despite the other โboysโ
Jarrod was infamous for feeling things and making a darned effort to get Sophieโs attention โ and it was with the โboysโ that he always showed respect for her.
Charlie, is not much different โ except maybe a lot more intense, if thatโs possible.
Coming back from his single date, tensions arose in the mansion.
โIs that lipstick on your cheek?โ Todd asked.
โIโm not going to answer those types of questions,โ Charlie said. โIโm not one to talk about that in front of the boys, about that type of stuff.โ
But when probed further: โSheโs awesome, sheโs an amazing girl. I can definitely see myself falling in love with Ali.โ
Paddy Collier, who is making waves in the mansion, said what the rest of the guys were thinking.
โItโs the first week,โ he told the cameras. โIf youโve fallen in love after knowing a girl for two hours at the max, then thereโs probably something wrong with you.โ
But it was when Charlieโs intensity went from 50 to 1000 in ten seconds.
โComing into this it was always my intention,โ he said of loving Ali to the other men. โI wouldnโt be standing here.โ
โShe knows exactly what she wants and sheโs very strong about it and if youโre not ready for that, well then thereโs the door.โ
โIf you guys arenโt here for the right reasons, youโre just wasting everyoneโs time.โ
Charlie and Ali share a second passionate kiss on their date.
Lurking in bushes and other such fun
During the cocktail party, Charlie went โpeak Jarrodโ and watched on with beady eyes as Ali was taken away by several men.
โIโve got to be noble and a gentleman and let the others go first,โ he said but then later on added.โItโs extremely hard for me to stop me from going up and seeing Ali,โ he said.
โIโve just been thinking all day. I just want to continue what we shared from the single date together and follow on from how sheโs feeling from that.
โIโm sure she wants to speak with me but at the same time, I donโt want to be the guy that comes on too strong.โ
Too strong? Feel familiar? Ahem. Jarrod.
During the tail end of the cocktail party, Charlie could not contain his excitement anymore so decidedly went and interrupted Cheyneโs (see ya) one-on-one time.
Cheyne admits defeat and walks off and when they are alone together, Ali asks Charlie how he is, and they kiss.
โIโm good now,โ he says and CRINGE.
โI want to be with Ali,โ he told the cameras. โIโve gotta think of me and Iโve got to think of her. Theyโre the only two people who matter to me right now in the house right now.โ
And thatโs when we look back at Jarrod, walking alone on the sand in Fiji. Just walking with his head down and we catch a glimpse of Charlieโs futureโฆ
Jarrod Woodgate, alone on the sand during the previous season of The Bachelorette.
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