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Spooked cat

Question:

We have a large, black cat who is usually very outgoing. Recently he has become afraid of everything, even the fridge door! He runs away and hides in any dark space. What is wrong with him?

Kitty, via e-mail.

Answer:

Dear Kitty,

If your “spooked-out puss” goes outside, maybe a new cat on the block is terrorising him. Look out for tufts of hair missing or bite marks on him. If not, you need to think about what has changed in his environment. Is there someone new coming around? Is there a new pet or baby in the house? Has something scary happened to him? Try to notice whether it is triggered by anything in particular. It can even be something that smells different, or someone who smells of a big, scary dog, for example.

You should also have him thoroughly checked over by your vet because cats that lose their sight (due to lots of different reasons — and it can be quite sudden), or that have other medical illnesses can become very disorientated and feel frightened.

If that checks out all okay, then your vet or animal behaviourist needs to consider the use of medication and behavioural modification to manage the anxiety.

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Cane toad poison

Question:

After an encounter with a cane toad one of my dogs was frothing at the mouth. I sat him down, poured three big handfuls of salt down his throat and gave him water to drink after hosing his mouth out to wash away the toad poison (point the hose towards the dog’s nose from the side/corner of his mouth to ensure you don’t drown him or force water into his lungs).

Answer:

This made him vomit successfully, so I repeated the process once more with just one handful of salt to be sure the poison was expelled. I then gave him a litre of full cream milk to drink, which absorbed any nasties and settled his tummy. Half an hour later I gave him six slices of fresh bread, shortly followed by four Weet-Bix with sugar and milk.

I’m happy to report that apart from looking a little sorry for himself, my dog was just fine. My vet said I had done the right thing and my dog needed no further treatment, as I was lucky enough to attend to him within 10 minutes of his toad appetiser!

Amanda, via e-mail.

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My boyfriend doesn’t know I’m a stripper!

For a Brit, arriving in Australia is like arriving in a parallel universe where everything is better. The weather, the people, the cities, the food are all amazing and so much better than back home. I had always wanted to travel Down Under but never seemed to be able to get the savings together. But one day, enough was enough in my boring office job in the south of England. I quit, got a working holiday visa and a plane ticket, and away I went.

I spent my first three months traveling the East coast of Australia and doing all the costly, tourist-y things. Eventually I ended up in Sydney and fell in love with the place and the people. I was low on cash so I started temping at a research centre. However, I soon learnt that keeping up the Sydney lifestyle on temping money with a huge English credit card debt was catching up with me — I needed cash fast. There was no way I was going home with my tail between my legs after just four months away.

In a backpacker magazine I came across an ad that offered good money for exotic dancers. Upon investigation I discovered that a club in Sydney was looking for pole dancers. I had never done anything of the sort before, the closest I’d come was a few belly-dancing lessons with a friend at home, but being a fun-loving girl I convinced myself it would be an adventure of sorts.

I auditioned and got the job. The belly-dancing classes came in quite handy as I just had to dance — no poles yet. Then I was partnered with a woman called Sherry to learn the moves using the pole and before I knew it, I was doing my first “dance” solo in front of quite a large audience.

Once I got over the nerves I felt sexy and empowered, and there’s really not that much to it. Each time I danced I was earning more and more in tips, and my money worries slowly but surely disappeared. I kept up the temping job for appearances’ sake as I was earning cash in hand (and g-string!), even though the temp money was a joke in comparison.

I can’t say I truly enjoyed it but the money made it worthwhile and stopped me from feeling guilty about what I was doing. It was after about a month of stripping that I met Simon. He was a research fellow who had just joined the research centre that I still worked at and I fell for his brains as well as his Aussie surfer-style good looks. We clicked immediately and quickly became an item but I didn’t tell him the truth about my weekend job. He is a lovely, straight guy and I didn’t want to scare him away. I told him I worked for a hospitality agency as a waitress for extra cash.

After a few months things got so good between us that it became impossible to admit what I did on Saturday nights, and the web of lies I had spun every week seemed impossible to get out of. I was also terrified that someone would recognise me because the club was popular for stag nights and boys’ nights out.

Now Simon and I are talking about living together and applying for a special visa for me to stay in the country. He wants me to quit my “waitressing” on Saturday nights so we can spend more time together.

Now that my debts are finally paid off, I know I can quit and no one would ever know what I did for cash. Although I would do anything to stay in Australia and be with Simon, how can I keep such a huge secret from him? Would he still feel the same about me if I came clean? I am scared my guilt about lying will ruin our relationship.

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Eyeshadow

Question:

My eyes are puffy and small. Besides brown, what other colours would suit my eyes and how do I apply them?

Yan Jackson, via e-mail.

Answer:

You can use any colour you want — the trick is in the application. To get a sparkling, wide-eyed look start by defining your eyebrows with a taupe-coloured eyeshadow and a slanted make-up brush. Brush away residue with an eyebrow brush.

Apply a cream-coloured eyeshadow as a base over the entire eye area to soak up any oiliness on the skin. This also helps your eye colours to glide on, giving an even application. Then apply a pastel green, mauve or pale blue over the eye socket and blend upwards. Add definition along the brow bone with a deeper shade in the same colour, and apply two coats of mascara to your top lashes and one to your bottom lashes.

Remember that dark shades around the lashes and over the eye socket will make your eyes appear small.

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I’m a loser!

'I'm a loser!'

By Annette Campbell

Amanda Logan has some wonderful news for those of us struggling with excess weight.

“I’ve lost 20 kilograms … and it really was much easier than I thought,” she declares.

“Honestly, I thought I’d have to eat almost nothing and run up sand dunes or something to shift this weight.

“But I’ve just been eating a little less and moving a little more, and 12 months later there’s 20 kilos less of me!”

Amanda, a 34-year-old government relations manager from the inner Sydney suburb of Erskineville, started to gain weight when she finished university and began shift work for a Sydney radio station.

“I was often on night shift, so I’d rest through the day and work at night and any exercise I hoped to do went out the window,” she explains. “I had no idea about food and never really thought about what I was eating.

“I’d always liked cooking though, and mum brought me up on low-fat food, so I was eating quite well, quality-wise … it was the quantity getting me into trouble. And the fact I was hardly moving.”

But the primary motivating factor for Amanda was the death of her elderly grandmother a year ago.

“She reached the great age of 91, and until she was in her late 80s she’d been very active and eaten well,” says Amanda. “So I thought: ‘I want a long and active life, too’. I realised then that my weight was becoming a problem, so I went to see my GP and we agreed I’d go to a dietician for help, because I wanted to lose weight and learn about sensible nutrition at the same time.”

At Amanda’s first appointment with her dietician, she weighed-in at 102kg. Today she is a much healthier and happier 78kg. “I’m a bit richer too, because my shopping bill is much less!” she laughs.

For the first few months Amanda cut out alcohol, cheese and chocolate.

“I used to get home after work and nibble on biscuits and cheese before dinner, and then eat a good dinner as well,” Amanda says. “So I really needed to change my thought patterns regarding food, and that was where a good dietician helped. I had to learn to stop eating when I was full, and even start to question: ‘do I really need a big dinner tonight? Am I really that hungry? Would a salad be better?'”

Amanda started walking for 40 minutes every day, joined a gym and invested in a heart rate monitor. “They’re fascinating things and really helped me learn what I had to do to get my heart rate up enough to burn fat and I was quite surprised at how little effort that took.”

At first Amanda lost up to 1.5kg a week but that evened out to, sometimes, a kilo a fortnight. And now, 12 months later, she’s dropped a life-changing 20kgs.

“If I’d known 10 years ago how good losing weight would make me feel, I’d have done it much sooner,” Amanda says. “I’ve gained so much more energy, and a wonderful new life.”

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Desexing my dog

Question:

I have a Staffy who is a six-month-old female. What is the right age for her to be desexed?

Rose, via e-mail.

Answer:

Dear Rose,

If you’ve made the decision that you don’t want to breed your dog, then you can have her done any time now.

She will have to stay in hospital, usually just for the day. She will have a pre-medication injection when you drop her off, to calm her nerves and get pain relief on board. Then she will have a general anaesthetic for the procedure. She will have an ovario-hysterectomy, which means both the uterus and ovaries are removed, and will be left with a few stitches that will need to be removed about 10 days post-operatively. Try and keep her quiet for a few days to recover and call your vet if you have any queries, but they usually bounce back very quickly.

I recommend desexing from six months of age, because they are developed but not sexually mature yet. If you desex her before her first heat (doggy equivalent of a period), you will avoid unplanned pregnancies. Believe me, male dogs will do anything to get to a bitch in heat! You also reduce her risk of infections in the uterus, called pyometra, which is a particular danger just after a heat, and also mammary tumors (breast cancers) later in life.

Although puppies are cute — no one will deny that — breeding takes a lot of work and commitment and if she needed a caesarian, you could be hit with a hefty vet bill. And there are so many homeless animals desperately needing homes that I would urge people to be like you and be responsible and desex their pet if they don’t want to breed. Ignore tales about needing to let them have one litter ‘to calm them down’ or that the procedure will make them fat and lazy or change their personality.

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He doesn’t know my breasts are fake!

Ten years ago, after my first marriage had broken up, my self-esteem was in tatters. Not only had my husband spent 14 years putting me down by saying I was unattractive, but after having had three young children, my breasts looked like two shriveled-up balloons.

I couldn’t imagine ever showing my body to another man. Then I had a great idea. I would have saline breast implants. All went well and my confidence was blooming. I eventually met the man of my dreams and he was very attracted to my “fantastic figure”.

We started dating and I discovered that he was a real health fanatic. He didn’t believe in inoculations or amalgam fillings. I wanted to tell him about my bust, but I realised he would be horrified by the truth. The more time we spent together the more difficult it became to tell him.

After living together for four years, we got married and I accidentally fell pregnant. The doctors told me that there was no problem with breastfeeding, so I fed the baby for three years and still my husband didn’t know about my implants.

We have been together now for over 10 years and I feel terrible pangs of guilt. I wish I could take my secret to my grave, but I know that one day he will find out — especially as one day I will need replacement surgery.

I wish I had told him the first day I met him … now it is like a time bomb that could end our relationship at any time. I have always been a super-honest person but once I withheld the truth, and now I live in fear of the consequences.

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Hungarian vizsla

Hungarian vizsla

The Hungarian vizsla is an athletic dog whose sleek appearance and distinctive gold coat makes them stand out in a crowd. Definitely a dog that likes to feel part of the family, the vizsla is known for its sensitive, loving personality.

A breed originating in, you guessed it, Hungary, the vizsla was a sporting companion for early warlords and landed aristocracy. This handsome breed was used for hunting birds as well as other animals, so this very active canine was a gun dog that retrieved from both land and water.

During the two world wars, the vizsla became almost extinct in Hungary, but the breed survived from dogs that had been moved to other parts of Europe. Now the Hungarian vizsla is a breed that has loyal admirers all over the world.

The Hungarian vizsla has a short, smooth coat that comes in attractive shades of rusty gold and sandy-yellow. They weigh from 20-30kg and are known for their sensitive, aristocratic expression. These dogs have thin, silky, hanging ears and, as befitting a breed that lives for exercise, the vizsla has a powerful build and moves very gracefully.

The smooth coat of a Hungarian vizsla needs little maintenance, but its sleekness means that these dogs do feel the cold and enjoy time indoors. The vizsla is a very loving dog and needs to feel part of the family. They have a great need for affection and play and, being so sensitive, it’s easy to tell when a lack of love is making these dogs sad — their countenance is very expressive!

If you are considering the Hungarian vizsla as a pet, the most important question you need to ask yourself is if you can meet their exercise needs. At least one vigorous walk a day is needed to keep a vizsla happy, so active and attentive owners are their perfect companions.

The Hungarian vizsla is gentle, loving and even-tempered, an ideal pet for someone who can give them the active life they need. These dogs can cost upwards of $600. The breed can be susceptible to hip dysplasia, so be sure to have parents of potential pups fully checked out.

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Cats and car trips

Cats and car trips

Most cat owners will have had the “interesting” experience of taking their cat on a car trip. Many cats don’t like travelling at all but sometimes it has to be done, whether it be a trip to the vet or moving house.

There are few things you can do to make a car trip with your cat easier. Firstly, buy a cat carrier. Cats should never be unconfined in a car, and although that carrier might look small to you, a cat will feel more secure in a small space with a soft blanket inside.

Most pet shops sell cat carriers and it’s a good idea to let the cat sleep in the carrier for a few weeks (of their own free will, of course — with the door open) before a car trip so they can get used to it. If you’re going on a longer trip, you might want to opt for a dog-size carrier so you can fit a small litter tray in.

If your cat is really not coping with car travel and you have to go on a long trip, you might want to ask your vet about mild tranquillisers to get your cat through a journey. Make sure you take your cat’s favourite food for the trip, and bring some drinking water from home — water can taste different in various areas and your cat won’t like it.

If you’re heading to new territory with your feline friend, make sure your cat is up to date with all his or her vaccinations, and that the contact phone numbers on their ID tags are still applicable.

You might want to put your cat on a lead if you can’t keep your cat indoors when you reach your destination, or if you need to take your cat out of the carrier and the car along the way. The best cat lead consists of a body harness and a lead, rather than a collar and a lead. To get your cat used to this, put a harness on your cat at home and let them wander around until they get used to it. Then you can try attaching the lead and allowing your cat to walk around until it becomes used to a lead.

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Dalmatian

Dalmatian

A Dalmatian dog is instantly recognisable, thanks to its distinctive spotted coat. These handsome dogs sport spots everywhere – even inside their mouth and on the bottom of their paws!

The Dalmatian was used as a carriage dog in 19th century England because the breed had a special affinity with horses and could keep up with them on long journeys. They would guard a carriage from highwaymen by day as they trotted alongside the horses, and by night in the stables.

The Dalmatian was then the natural choice to accompany horse-drawn fire engines. Brave and intelligent, the dogs were also company for the horses. Some fire stations – especially in the United States – still have a Dalmatian as their station mascot.

In Australia, the breed is very popular as a family pet. With the stamina they developed as carriage horses, Dalmatians need a lot of exercise and suit very active households. This dog needs a big backyard and at least one good walk every day to be happy.

Their short coat is very easy to maintain but they do shed. A Dalmatian is born white and develops its spots after two to three weeks. Their noses begin to darken at three months of age, and they are susceptible to sunburn due to their light colouring.

Dalmatians are intelligent, adaptable and well mannered. They can be quite reserved and shy with strangers but very loyal and loving to their owners. As their history suggests, Dalmatians make great guard dogs and should be trained from an early age due to their energetic and strong personalities.

A Dalmatian can be from 56-60cm in height, and their weight ranges from 23-28 kg. They live an average of 12-14 years and can range in price from $400 to $700.

Deafness can be a problem with this breed so have your puppy’s hearing checked before purchasing – don’t buy puppies that are less than four weeks old for this reason. Male Dalmatians can also develop kidney problems so make sure your Dalmatian drinks a lot of water – these dogs should do this anyway because of their high level of activity.

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