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Fussy eaters

Question:

Does your dog or cat dislike their food if it’s cold from the fridge? Well, just heat the food in their dish (non-metal) in the microwave for 10 seconds on high and then serve it to them. It works for my fussy dog. Try it!

Answer:

Laurinda, via e-mail.

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‘Mum died’, I lied

My mum and I have always been close. We look very similar, sound alike and share the same name. So from a young age, I had asked her questions about her younger days. In particular, I knew about “the love of [her] life” — as she always called him — Henry.

While my dad has always been a decent man and a good husband, his love could never compare to the passionate and complete connection she had felt with Henry. In fact, the only reason my mum married my dad was because Henry had broken her heart and married another woman.

One evening, my parents had gone out for dinner and I was at home alone. When the phone rang and a man asked for “Jenny”, I said “this is Jenny”. The man then identified himself as Henry and immediately began speaking.

He begged me not to hang up because it was important. At this point, I knew I should have pointed out the mistaken identity but I just let him continue.

Henry explained that his son had recently been in hospital. They had found he had a rare blood type, which neither of his parents shared. This had led to DNA testing, which had revealed that Henry’s son was not biologically his. His wife confessed to him that their son was indeed another man’s child. She had tricked him to snare him, lying that he had slept with her when he was completely drunk.

Henry sobbed that he had always loved “me” but had just wanted to do what was honourable and right. He implored me to meet with him.

It was then that I revealed I was actually my mother’s daughter and not his love. However, before I could stop myself, I also said “mum’s no longer with us”. Although I felt bad about lying, I was desperate to prevent Henry from entering our lives. I knew that if my mum found out the truth, she would want to be with Henry. The truth would destroy my parents’ marriage and utterly devastate my dad.

I then extended the lie, claiming cancer had taken mum and she had been cremated; her ashes scattered into the ocean as she had wished. We ended the call; Henry clearly upset and filled with regret, but still polite and sympathetic about my “loss”.

A few months later, we received a thank you note from the Cancer Council for our donation. I knew Henry had done this and I couldn’t look mum in the eyes.

I don’t think I’m as close to my mum anymore. I always feel so guilty about how I’ve changed her life and I’m so afraid that one day I’ll blurt out what I’ve done.

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Eyeliner

Question:

I recently bought an eyeliner pencil, but don’t know where or how to apply it for a professional finish.

Whitney

Answer:

The best place to apply eyeliner pencil is very close to the top lashes. Blend the edges with a cotton or slanted make-up brush to diffuse the line and give you a smoky eye effect. Follow with two coats of mascara on top and bottom lashes.

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Bathing dogs

Question:

If you have a big dog such as a rottweiler, instead of bathing them in water, just put a generous amount of bicarb soda all over them. Leave for a few minutes and then brush off. Your dog will be shiny and smelling clean!

Answer:

Jan Forde-Kelly, via e-mail.

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Three legs

Question:

Dear Dr Julie,

Last week my little golden retriever had his hind leg amputated due to cancer. I was wondering if you had any special tips for an expedited recovery and any advice on possible prosthetic attachments for my dog.

Thank you very much,

Selina, via e-mail

Answer:

Oh, your poor little man. The good thing is that hopefully they were able to remove all the cancer (which I assume was bone cancer) and he will be a much happier and healthier dog. Despite how emotionally upsetting it can be for us to make that decision, dogs actually cope extremely well with amputations, especially if it’s a back leg, so he’ll be fine.

Just take care at first that he doesn’t fall down stairs or hurt himself while he is getting used to things, as his balance will be affected. Follow your vet’s instructions about specific care of the wounds, when to have stitches removed and how much exercise he can comfortably do. Your main job will be to give him lots of TLC, which, I’m sure, is no trouble at all!

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I broke up my sister’s relationship!

My sister had recently bought a brand new, expensive laptop computer after months and months of saving. I couldn’t wait to get on it, so when she was out one day I slipped into her room and went on the Internet.

I was searching for some information on a project I was doing at uni, but the words I was searching for kept leading me to pornographic websites! Suddenly I heard my sister’s car, so I quickly shutdown the computer and pretended not to have been on it.

Two days later, I heard a sobbing noise coming from my sister’s room, so I went in to check if she was alright. She wasn’t. She told me that she had somehow contracted viruses on her laptop, so she had taken it in to work with her for one of her male workmates to fix.

After leaving the computer with him overnight, she went to see him the next morning, only to be informed that the viruses had been contracted from all the porno sites she had visited! She was totally humiliated! But that’s not the worst part …

She then went on to tell me how her boyfriend was the only other person she had let use the computer and because she knew she hadn’t visited those sites, it must have been him! So she confronted him, but of course he denied it. They then had a huge fight and broke up! I felt so bad … but I was in too deep to tell her the truth.

My sister still calls her ex-boyfriend a perverted liar, but the whole time I was the culprit!

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Wedding make-up

Question:

I am getting married and have a fair complexion. What colours would you suggest for a natural look and what down-hairstyles are in this season?

Heidi, via e-mail.

Answer:

I always think that a combination of peaches and soft pinks work well on a pale complexion. You should, however, have a trial before the wedding, just to make sure you are happy with the results. As far as hairstyles go, there seems to be a real swing towards soft, cascading curls pulled back loosely. Again, a trial prior to your wedding is advisable.

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Angie’s great golf adventure!

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By Annette Campbell

Angie Innes, a 45-year-old mother-of-two from Sydney’s north-western suburbs, has a health and wellbeing message for all of us. “Have a hit of golf!” she smiles. “It’ll do you the world of good.”

Earlier this year, just before her 45th birthday, Angie made a list of things she wanted to do for herself. “I’ve always been doing things for my husband, our kids and work,” she says. “I never really did things just for me, so I thought ‘If it’s not now, it’ll be never’ and that maybe I’d burn-out otherwise.”

Close to the top of that list were golf lessons. “Just because I’m 45, it doesn’t mean I can’t try something new,” she shrugs. “And I’m so glad I went ahead and did it. I love it. I’ve learned something and am getting better at it.”

Angie and her husband Ian have been married for 25 years. They have a son, Matthew, 19, and a daughter, Jessica, 15, and run their own sales and marketing company. Over the years Angie had often thought about giving golf a go, so when the kids were older and she and Ian had started working for themselves, she decided the time was right. Along she went to a beginner’s course run by instructor Anne Rollo at a local club. And after only a couple of lessons, Angie was hooked!

“I really liked Anne and the other ladies — we all got on famously and laughed more than playing any golf,” she beams. “I was having a great time with some fun women. And after about six lessons, four of us decided to keep playing every fortnight.

“I must admit that when I first started, I did think all the walking might help me lose a little weight, but have I? No! Sure, I’m walking a lot more, but then we go and have lunch!

“But I’m doing this more for mental wellbeing anyway — the pure fun of it! I’m used to sitting every day at work and I’m absolutely not a gym-goer. So this is my relaxation; my little escape. It’s just so wonderful to be outside and away from telephones, in beautiful weather and on a lovely green golf course.”

Now Angie even has her own set of golf clubs, thanks to birthday and Mother’s Day gifts from her family. So there’s absolutely no stopping her.

“My game is improving and at the same time I feel I’m more relaxed as a person,” Angie explains.

Angie is now keen to encourage other women to take up something new — at any time of their lives 7#151; for the physical and mental benefits.

“You’ve just got to do it, whether it’s golf or something else,” she enthuses. “Make time for yourself. It doesn’t mean you love your family any less. But you need time with yourself and just to be with other women and have a laugh.”

For more info about golf, including hints and tips, visit Anne Rollo’s website:

www.annerollogolfinstitute.com

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Fashion classics

What are the fashion classics? I’d like to add them to my wardrobe.

Karen, by email.

By investing in a good set of fashion “classics” you will find your wardrobe much more versatile and user-friendly. It’s worth your while to spend a bit of time and money finding quality, classic pieces that fit you properly. These items can be worn season after season, worn together for a timeless look or mixed up with the season’s more directional trends.

White Shirt

An item that can take you from corporate to casual. Try Herringbone (02 9212 2911) or Baubridge and Kay (1800 818 629) for high quality shirts.

Tailored 3 Piece Suit

The 3 piece suit consists of a pencil skirt, trousers and a jacket. Finding a suit that fits properly can often seem daunting, however starting at Myer (1800 811 611) or David Jones (13 33 57) could be a good idea. They carry a large number of styles and sizes. Cue (1800 060 706), Ojay (03 9827 4244), and Sportscraft (1800 002 477) also offer suits at affordable prices. Don’t forget, you can always have a suit altered professionally by a tailor or dress maker for the perfect fit or hem length!

Jeans

A good pair of denims is one of today’s most worn items and can be dressed up or down to suit almost any occasion! In our August issue we tested out some of the best jeans styles around. Our favourites included: Classic cut Levis from Just Jeans (03 9420 0200); Young innovative EDC jeans by Esprit (02 8586 0444); Comfortable stretchy jeans from RM Williams (08 8259-1000); Dressy dark denim from Simona (1800 654 116); Plus Size jeans from My Size (03 8420 1000); and cute and cropped from Blazer (03 9427 1466). If you shop around to find a pair that is comfortable and fits well, you’re guaranteed hundreds of wears from them.

Little Black Dress

It is always good to start with a basic wardrobe colour such as black, brown, grey or navy and accessorise to suit the occasion. Add a splash of colour with shoes and a scarf, add a touch of glamour with sparkly jewellery and an evening bag, or simply add sophistication with pearls. Some stores to try for the perfect LBD: Feathers (1800 800 670), Simona (1800 654 116), Witchery (1800 640 249), Howard Showers (02 8344 0999), George (02 9698 7233), or Leona Edmiston (02 9331 7177).

Trench Coat

A must have for the cooler months. A trench can be worn over almost anything and will instantly add a touch of Audrey to your wardrobe. Wear it with jeans, suits, skirts, or even by itself! Try David Lawerence (1800 100 366), Jigsaw (1800 621 757), and Morrissey (1800 061 047). For an evening look try a satin trench for and instantly sleek modern look: we love Carla Zampatti (02 9264-8244).

Accessories

Classic must have accessories include – black court shoe or pump – try Midas (03 9670-7111), tote bag – try Longchamp (02 9232 5173), sparkly evening bag – try Olga Berg (03 9419 6711).

The AWW Fashion Team

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Exclusive extract: the stockmen

Selected as the Great Read in the November issue of The Australian Women's Weekly.

Selected as the Great Read in the November issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly. Rosemary Highgrove-Jones focused on the dog through her camera’s viewfinder. She chuckled, then pressed the shutter down. Click. In the sweltering heat, amongst dozing red gums and drunken racegoers, she’d captured the image of a cocky little Jack Russell pissing on Prudence Beaton’s chunky leg. Yellow urine seeped into Prue’s beige pantyhose as she continued to sip, politely and obliviously, on equally yellow Chardonnay. Satisfied, the Jack Russell snorted, pointed his stumpy tail to the sky and scuffed up dried grass and dust with rigid legs. He then turned his attention to Prue’s Maltese Terrier. The two little dogs stood nose to tail, in a formation not unlike yin and yang, and began spinning slowly in a circle, oblivious to the throng of human activity above their heads. Rosemary had raised her camera again to capture the bum-sniffing on film, when she heard her mother’s voice. “Rosemary Highgrove-Jones! What in God’s name are you doing?” Margaret hissed, firmly pushing the camera down. “You’re supposed to be working! Duncan’s relying on you! You’re not going to let him down again, are you?” “Why do you think they do that, Mum?” “Do what?” Margaret frowned, momentarily creasing her perfect foundation. Rosemary nodded at the dogs. “Sniff each other’s bums like that.” “Oh, Rosemary!” Margaret Highgrove-Jones took her daughter’s elbow in a pincer-like grip and steered her towards the VIP tent. “Now come on, I’ve got some people who are dying to get their faces in the social pages.” Margaret, tall, slim and upright in her blocky heels, seemed to tower above her daughter. Rosemary squinted at the sun shimmering in her mother’s rust-coloured organza dress and chanted to herself, “I must not be anti-social when doing the social pages.” “Let’s huddle in close for a nice photograph for The Chronicle,” said Margaret as she gathered up a collection of old ladies sweating in race-day frocks. Rosemary raised the camera, her eyes scanning the women. Her mother stood front and centre of the group, looking like a blonde version of Jackie Onassis. Click. Rosemary took up her pen and notebook and began to scribble down who was in the shot. No need to ask how to spell their names. They were her mother’s regular rent-a-crowd of graziers’ wives. “Got time on your social rounds for a glass of shampoo?” Margaret asked, waving a champagne flute at her. “Fraid I can’t,” Rosemary said. “Got to watch Sam in the next race.” Rosemary walked through the crowd towards the racetrack. The men standing among the litter of betting slips glanced away from odds chalked up on the bookies’ stands to watch the pretty girl pass. Some of them wore their dinner jackets with shorts and Blunnie boots. Others in proper suits had their shirtsleeves rolled and ties slackened about their necks. Beyond the fringe of bookies and punters, boys in jeans, blue singlets and big black hats slumped on a sagging couch on the back of a ute, drinking beer. They clutched cans in stubby holders while Lee Kernaghan’s songs vibrated from the ute’s stereo. When they saw Rosemary, one boy whistled. Embarrassed, she looked away, but then stumbled as a green wheelie bin rolled past her. A tubby bloke stood tall in the wheelie bin, like Russell Crowe in a Gladiator chariot. He held his beer can high and roared “Charge!” as his mate pushed him at high speed over the bumpy ground, scattering the crowd. Rosemary watched the boys until they were out of sight, then turned to see her father’s serious face. Gerald Highgrove-Jones was standing tall, like a slim grey gum, with other gentlemen of the ‘tweed coat brigade.’ These were the men of the district who never loosened their ties no matter how hot it was or how much alcohol they drank. Royal Show badges were pinned with pride to the thick woollen lapels of their jackets. Among them, his fine long legs clad in moleskin pants, was her brother Julian. As usual, he looked subdued and bored. Like Gerald he towered above the other men, but instead of standing upright he seemed to stoop, as if trying to hide. Like Julian, Rosemary had tried so hard to fit in. Each year, she’d tried to get excited about the coming bush races. Weeks before, the volley of phone calls between the ladies in the district would begin. Who would do hors d’oeuvres? Salmon or shrimp in vol-au-vents? Caramel slice or coconut slice? She tired to gush over the dresses in the latest catalogues from Maddison & Rose and be upbeat and bubbly about her mother’s special trips to Laura Ashley and Country Road in Melbourne. Margaret was always striving for Country Style magazine perfection. But Rosemary and perfection just didn’t fit. She looked down at her now-creased white linen dress with its pattern of cornflowers and daisies. It had been ordered from Melbourne and cost a bomb. But still, Sam had said she looked nice. She looked for him now in the area cordoned off for riders. Pretty girls in tight Wranglers, cowboy hats and singlets moved purposefully about their horses, carrying buckets, adjusting buckles, rubbing rough brushes over their mounts. They were girls her age. She’d known a couple of them at pony club, but her mother had refused to let her go on with her riding once she’d left the district for boarding school. In the years since she’d been home, the girls had barely spoken to her. Except when she was with Sam. She saw him on the far side of the track. He was with a group of riders making their way to the starting line. Collected in on tight reins, the horses bowed their heads and swished their tails nervously. Sam’s black gelding, Oakwood, loped in circles. Sam rode like a stockmen, not a jockey, and he’d set his stirrups longer than the other riders as he always did at bush races. Rosemary eyed Sam’s strong, tanned hands as he expertly gripped his reins. Beneath brown skin, the veins in his arms stood out. Oakwood, too, had rivers of veins running under his glossy coat. His Australian stockhorse freeze-brand gleamed against his dark coat. Rosemary felt a tingle run through her as she took in how magnificent Sam and Oakwood looked together. It was as if man and horse shared the same blood, veins pumping as one.

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