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Christmas party beauty tips

Happy to ditch their hospital scrubs for party frocks, Jacinta Stapleton and Tammy MacIntosh joined their All Saints co-stars at one of Sydney Harbour’s most glamorous mansions for a casual-but-chic feast.

Celebrity make-up artist Chris Coonrod and award-winning hairdresser David Keough created our All Saints looks for the party season. Follow their step-by-step instructions on how you can copy Jacinta and Tammy’s “star” looks.

Get Jacinta’s look

Make-up: We chose a pale foundation to match Jacinta’s skin tone. Black eyeliner was applied close to lashes, accentuated at the outer corner of her eye. A soft gold loose powder eyeshadow was swept over the entire eye area, as her ’60s-style look means it’s all about the eyeliner. To match her short black hair and fair skin, a cherry-red lipstick was applied and a reddish-toned blush swept onto the apples of her cheeks.

Chris’s tips:

Always curl lashes before applying mascara. When applying eyeliner, begin at the inner corner of the eye, carry the liner to the edge of the eye then wing it up slightly to elongate the eye. I also added individual eyelashes onto the corners of the eyes to accentuate her look. Blot and then re-apply lipstick for long-lasting wear. I also used a lip liner first to prevent bleeding.

Hair: David defined Jacinta’s haircut by applying a volumiser to lift the shorter layers at the back for height, but kept the front looking natural and smooth. He then blow-dried it down with a round brush and finished with a light shine serum.

Get Tammy’s look

Make-up: A golden beige foundation was mixed with a few drops of liquid bronzer and applied with a damp make-up sponge. Lashes were curled and individual lashes applied to the outer corners of eyes. A smoky eye was created using a metallic gold cream on the eyelid first, with a shimmery brown powder brushed over the top. As the cream is gold and the powder brown, the gold seeps through. A soft pink lip gloss was brushed onto lips and an orange cream blush swept over the cheekbones.

Chris’s tips:

On a hot summer’s day try to avoid cream blushes as they tend to run or sink into the skin. Always set it with a powder brush for staying power.

Hair: A volumiser was applied from the roots to the ends to thicken Tammy’s fine hair and lift the roots. The hair was blow-dried with different-sized brushes to draw attention to her layers and highlights. The style was finished with hairspray and then a frizz cream applied to make it look fuller.

See this week’s issue of Woman’s Day for Alexandra Davies and Judith McGrath’s beauty tips. Plus: an interview with the All Saints cast!

Jacinta wears:

Basque dress, $179 from Myer.

RMK heels, $109.95.

Olga Berg bag, $19.95.

Equip charm bracelet, $12.95.

Citizen watch bracelet, $550.

Remington Salon One, $33.95

RPR Make Me Shine Ultra Light Glossing Spray 100ml, $15.95

Natio Natural Skin Foundation 40ml, $17.95

Dior Show Unlimited Mascara in No. 090, $49

The Body Shop Loose Face Powder, $24.95

Bloom Lip Definer in Lusciously Lined, $20

e.l.f Brightening Eye Liner in Midnight, $2.95

Aveda Petal Essence Cheek Colour in Plum Fresco, $29.95

Jane Iredale Pure Moist Lip Colour in Carrie, $36

Cozmetic Lab Mineral Makeup Loose Powder Eyeshadow in Cape York, $22.30

Bobbi Brown Mini Nail Opaque in Tomato, $20

Tammy wears:

Monica dress, $299.95.

Mollini heels, $148.

Bio Ionic Intensive Ion-Smoothing Brush, $42

Fudge Unleaded DeFrizz Natural, $19.95

Max Factor Bronzing Powder, $24.95

Yves Saint Laurent Perfect Touch Foundation in No. 9 Honey 40ml, $76

Covergirl Continuous Nail Polish in Tickled Pink, $8.90

L’Oreal Paris Colour Appeal Mono Eye Shadow in Crystal Brown, $15.95

Rimmel Metallic Cream Shadow in 014 Hoxton, $9.95

Designer Brands Mascara in Black, $6.99

L’Oreal Paris Glam Shine Juice in Nude, $21.95

Prestige Love Lipliner, $11.95

Avon Soft Mousse Blush in Cedar Rose, $14.99

Clinique Cream Shaper For Eyes in Brown Sugar, $32

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My baby has a slow heart rate

Judy Davie

‘I’m 2½ months pregnant and the baby has a slow heart. What should I start eating for the baby to be healthy and strong?’

— Emma

It’s so distressing to hear this kind of news at any stage during your pregnancy but there are many people who live to a grand old age with a slow heart rate. That said, you are quite right to do all you can, and your diet is certainly the place to start.

For cellular growth your baby needs protein. Good quality lean meat, poultry, eggs, fish and low fat dairy are all excellent sources of protein. Also essential for the growth and development of the brain, retina and heart is Omega 3 essential fatty acid. This fatty acid cannot be made in the body but is found in breast milk. Studies have shown the more Omega 3 in the diet, the more is found in the breast milk after birth, particularly with second, third or more children.

Many foods today, like eggs and milk are fortified with Omega 3, but it’s mainly found in oily fish, salmon being the highest source. Two to three 150g serves of fish each week is a great way to boost your overall health and your Omega 3 supplies.

Being pregnant, you should however avoid the species shark, swordfish, catfish, marlin, and ocean perch (or orange roughy as it’s otherwise known) as they have a higher content of mercury which can present a health risk to your baby.

The golden rule applies both in and out of pregnancy when it comes to vegetables — 5 serves, and in your case particularly green veggies such as spinach, broccoli, Chinese greens, asparagus and cabbage. They’re a good source of folic acid and provide numerous antioxidants to protect both you and your baby.

‘Is a lot of olive oil bad for you when you are using it for cooking?’ The old cliché ‘Everything in moderation’ applies to using olive oil even though it is a healthy oil.

High in monounsaturated fat, olive oil can help reduce LDL cholesterol (the bad stuff) and the risk of heart disease, but like any other fat, it’s high in energy. One tablespoon of olive oil is the equivalent to 673kj, so if you want to lose weight and are trying to stick to an energy controlled intake of approx 6,500KJ, you shouldn’t be pouring it liberally into the saucepan.

Another consideration when using olive oil in cooking is the type of oil you use. Many people are under the impression that cold pressed extra virgin olive oil is the healthiest oil to use. Cold pressed virgin oils are terrific for salads but have a lower smoke point than refined oils. When an oil is heated to the point of smoking it starts to decompose, effecting the taste of the food and increasing the risk of producing carcinogenic free radicals in the body.

So the bottom line is, olive oil is a healthy fat and should be included in moderation in the diet but don’t use cold pressed extra virgin oil in cooking.

‘I have recently found out I have an intolerance to citrus. What are the best substitutes for citrus fruits in cooking, and other sources of vitamin C?’

— Kirsty

Without knowing specifically what it is in citrus fruits you are intolerant to it’s hard to advise, however, assuming it’s not salicylates*, there are many other foods rich in vitamin C.

Vitamin C is a very unstable nutrient and is easily destroyed by cooking, so while most vegetables are a good source of this nutrient, unless you eat them raw their value is diminished somewhat. Kiwi fruit, berries and guava are particularly good sources as are raw veggies including watercress, red capsicum, broccoli, and tomatoes.

As a substitute to lemon in cooking you could use vinegar. Brown rice, white balsamic and red wine vinegars are quite good. Lemongrass can impart a slight citrusy flavour and olive and capers will give food zing.

Before following this advice you should seek the advice of a practising natural health practitioner to ascertain exactly what you are intolerant to.

*Salicylates are naturally occurring plant chemicals found in many fruits and vegetables and other natural foods

‘Gluten intolerance and diabetes combined — I have this double whammy and am in desperate need of help. Some tell me to get a diabetes recipe book, which is no good for me. Have you any combined recipes for my condition? I would be very grateful for your help. I’ve tried so many people and they can’t or won’t help me.

— Leonie

The difficulty with the double whammy of gluten intolerance and diabetes is the the radical change you must make to your diet. Virtually all cakes, pastries and bread must be eliminated, even the packaged products specifically for gluten intolerant as they are typically made with high GI grains, like rice and miller, and sugar.

The safest and often overlooked food group for someone with your condition is legumes and pulses. Buckwheat flour, quinoa and besan flour (or chickpea flour ) are also gluten free with a low GI.

The website www.thefoodcoach.com.au currently has over 600 recipes and each is labeled with a health description so people can quickly determine if it’s suitable to meet their needs.

Go to the recipe section and using the search criteria “health condition” select recipes for “gluten free”. There are 131 gluten free recipes. Scan through the list to select the ones you like the sound of before reading the recipe to check it’s GI status. If the recipe indicates it has a low GI then it’s suitable for both your conditions.

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Diet yoyo’s

Judy Davie

‘I’ve been on so many diets, have lost some weight, but never enough. Before I know it, I’m off the diet and the weight’s piled on again. Can you help?’

If losing weight were as simple as making the decision to cut down on food until we’d lost what we needed to, the entire nation would be slim. Many people have a relationship with food and/or alcohol that extends beyond their basic physical need for nutrition and energy. It provides oral satisfaction and can fill gaps in other areas of life where they feel dissatisfied.

In most cases it’s a need for love. Perhaps they’re in an unsatisfying relationship or desperately wanting a relationship. Perhaps it stems from not feeling loved as a child. Whatever the reason, food becomes the love. It’s guaranteed, reliable and can be drawn upon whenever we feel we need love.

Recognising that happiness can only be found within ourselves is a key to freeing yourself from the debilitating needy love of food. Rather than looking for love from others, consider ways to love yourself more.

The great thing about life is that it’s constantly changing and even though there are times in life where we feel we’re in Groundhog Day, your current situation will eventually change.

Much of this is about changing the mindset and self talk. Try this exercise in visualisation each and every day as you start to change your relationship with food.

Visualisation exercise

Visualise your life as a slow-moving wheel. It will move in a direction or you can steer it in the direction you want it to go.

Imagine you start pushing your wheel today. Think about where you are going, cut down your food intake, decide to cut out snacking, change what you eat to healthier but enjoyable foods, drink more water and take yourself out to exercise every day.

Remember your wheel is always turning. Keep pushing it as you start to shed weight. Continue with your new eating habits, but consider them normal. Keep pushing your wheel and feel proud of what you’ve achieved.

Notice your attitude to other things changing as you push your wheel in the direction you want your life to go. Things you may once have tolerated are no longer acceptable. When you started pushing your wheel, you didn’t have the courage to deal with these issues, but now you do and you wonder why it seemed so hard back then. Keep pushing. You’re feeling good. You look good. You’re enjoying wearing clothes you wouldn’t have worn once. Keep pushing. You venture out to do things you once wouldn’t have had the confidence or energy to do. Your wheel is still turning. New people are coming into your life: they are seeking you out. Keep pushing. You’re enjoying the company of others when once you were too insecure to participate in conversation that easily. And the wheel still turns.

Look back to when you started pushing your wheel. Where have you come to? It was your effort which got you here — you love yourself.

And finally, if you can forgive the cliché, remember it won’t happen overnight, but it will happen. Eventually, with acceptance, you’ll start enjoying the journey and not the destination.

‘I’ve heard that fructose is better than sugar for weight loss and health. Is this true?’

Fructose is a sugar naturally occurring in fruit, but it is also available as a sweetener twice as sweet as sucrose (in sugar).

Fruit is a good source of fibre, vitamins and many antioxidants and as such is a great food to include in the daily diet. On its own, however, fructose is not superior to sugar and plays no role in providing nutritional value. In fact, in excess it can have some adverse effects on the body. Irritable bowel syndrome, accelerating aging, gout, increased risk of heart disease, kidney stones and cancer are just a few reasons you shouldn’t supplement sugar for fructose.

Better to cut down on your overall food intake.

‘I’ve heard sushi rice has a lower GI than other rice. I have just been diagnosed with diabetes and have to lose weight and manage my blood sugar levels. Can I continue to eat sushi?’

Until recently, experts believed sushi rice (or koshikari rice) had a low GI, but reports are coming through to suggest that the previous research on the GI of sushi rice was incorrect. To be on the safe side, until we have conclusive research you might be better staying away from white rice altogether and eating more unusual low-GI grains like brown rice, quinoa, bulgur, freekeh, oats, barley and grainy breads.

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So sweet

My pet chihuhua / jack russell, Charlie. Kym.

This is a picture of my beautiful cat Mickey. He is 2 years old. Kylie.

This is our 14-week-old Golden Retriever Zigi, with his new teddy. Rosanna.

This is my turtle Crush. He is a one-year-old Murray River Short Neck Turtle. His personality and antics make him lively and interesting, and he has become my best friend. Jess.

My best friend Hemi likes to think she’s tough but she’s just a big softy. Bec.

This is my cute little Ragdoll kitten, Charlie. Celia.

This is my White Shepherd, Cassie. She is 8 months old and cute as. Rod and Mandy Bull.

My best friend, Toby. Janet.

This is my 4 month old baby Sage, she is a German Shepard x and just loves laying around in the garden after dinner. Mel.

Rocky

Up for adoption: Rocky is a Great Dane X who thinks he is a Chihuahua! He is very loving and a big mummy’s boy! If you can offer him a home, please visit www.petrescue.com.au

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Nasty Cockatiel

Question:

Recently one of my cockatiels died and the other one that was in the cage with him has turned very nasty ? like attacking people and flying at our head and body to attack. I thought they were both male birds, but maybe I was wrong. How can we get the bird to calm down?

Answer:

Losing a cage mate for a bird can be very stressful and frightening, so you will need to go gently here and it will take some time.

Make sure this bird is kept somewhere quiet at night, and away from TV, radio or household traffic. Your Cockatiel is going to need to learn to relax and trust you. Also cover the cage at night to give the sense of a day and night so you are not overstimulating the bird. A regular routine will help him (or her) know what to expect during the day.

Spend a few periods of a couple of minutes gently talking, then try opening the cage and giving some seeds or special treats so it becomes a pleasant experience not a terrifying one. After a few days or weeks extend a hand or finger and see if he will climb on, but don’t push it.

Also some birdie toys, a mirror, and birdbath will enrich his environment and prevent any boredom anxiety issues.

If you need further advice contact a bird vet who can prescribe some anti-anxiety medication for the short term while you carry on with his parrot psychotherapy.

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Stinging face wipes

Question:

I’ve been using wipes for my face and they work, but it sometimes stings and hurts in some areas of where I have the pimples. Are the wipes harsh for my face or is that normal?

? Gabriella.

Answer:

Hi Gabriella,

If your wipes are stinging your face then they are too strong for your skin type. Why not try something different? Jane Iredale Magic Mitts are fantastic! They don’t contain cleansing ingredients or chemicals so they won’t irritate your skin. Ideal for sensitive skin and problem areas, all you have to do is soak the mitt with warm water and use like a washcloth. After you have wiped your face, rinse the mitt and leave it out to dry for next time. You can find Jane Iredale Magic Mitts at salons and medical practitioners.

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Belinda Emmett: 1974-2006

Belinda Emmett and Rove McManus

Surrounded by her family and friends, actress and singer Belinda Emmett, 32, lost her eight-year battle with cancer at Sydney’s St Vincent’s Hospital at dawn on Saturday, November 11.

Belinda, a popular actress in the TV series Home and Away and All Saints and wife of comedian Rove McManus, the host of Network Ten’s Rove Live, was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 1998 when she was just 24.

Though she faced her fight with cancer with grace, dignity and immense courage, hers was not an easy road. A malignant tumor was surgically removed in 1998 and Belinda believed the threat was behind her until a secondary bone cancer was discovered in September 2001, while she was filming the Australian movie, The Nugget.

It was a grim diagnosis. Doctors told Belinda that the cancer would eventually claim her life, but she remained determined to do all she could to beat the disease.

Belinda researched and began a series of natural remedies in conjunction with orthodox treatments, all the while relying on the love and support of her husband Rove, also 32, whom she married in January last year.

Along the way, Belinda discovered, as she told The Weekly in 2002, that within her slender frame she held the heart of a fighter. “There are still ‘Why me?’ days,” she said in one of only two major interviews that she granted. “But then that fighting spirit kicks back in.”

In a statement, Rove thanked Belinda’s fans for their emotional outpouring of support. “I want to extend my sincerest thanks for all of your heartfelt messages and condolences,” he said.

“That Belinda obviously meant so much to so many people genuinely means a lot to me.”

Belinda’s family has requested that donations be directed to the McGrath Foundation, set up by Australian Test cricketer Glenn McGrath and his wife Jane, a breast cancer survivor.

Watch the news report of Belinda Emmett’s passing, hear Sarah Murdoch talking about Belinda’s battle with breast cancer, and flip through a photo gallery of Belinda and Rove over the years.

Learn more about cancer, what you can do to reduce your cancer risk, and find out how you can help.

To send us your thoughts about Belinda Emmett’s passing, email [email protected]

Here’s some of what you’ve had to say:

It’s for her smile that we’ll remember her. That indomitable “smile through the pain” smile; that she never lost. That one so gifted should be taken so early leaves us all lost. Lost for words, lost for reason.

She shone brightly in the short time she was here and has therefore left a bright legacy. To Rove, we can only offer the solidarity of mutual heartache.

Rhonda G.

My only hope in this your time of need, is that you’re surrounded by her trust, her trust that you will all be strong enough to face life without her beside you and be all that this beautiful woman knew you could be. My condolences to all that knew and loved her,

Arohanui J.

Dear Rove and Belinda’s family,

Our hearts go out to you at this sad time. Belinda was a beautiful and courageous person who my sister and I enjoyed watching. Heaven has gained an angel and her beautiful spirit will remain forever on earth. God bless you Rove.

Lucia G.

Like everyone else, we (along with our friends) are shocked at Belinda’s passing. Although none of us had ever actually met her, we all felt that we knew her because of the warmth her presence generated whenever she was beamed into our lounge rooms. Although well aware of the gravity of her illness, we still held out hope that she would somehow beat this. Such were the positive vibes she always exhibited. Her beautiful smile never waned, despite her obvious fragility. She was an inspiration to everyone dealing with adversity.

This lady is a huge loss to everyone who knew her and our hearts (and prayers) are with Rove and the Emmett family.

Margaret and David Y.

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I robbed my own house!

I grew up in a fairly boring country town, so I couldn’t wait to move to the city for university. My best friend Angela and I had it all planned: we were going to get a flat together and have the time of our lives. We found a great apartment in an inner-city location. I was able to afford some pretty nice furniture with my savings. We certainly didn’t have to slum it at op shops like some of our friends! I didn’t even mind that Angela had nothing to bring to the house; the fact that we were there together on this new adventure was all that mattered.

It soon became clear, however, that there was going to be one very big issue. Angela and I had been brought up to believe that the country was a safe, inviting, secure place, where it was okay to leave your doors unlocked, even open, on those really hot summer nights. But I had also been taught that the city was a place where you could never be too careful. From the moment I arrived, I was forever checking the locks on windows before we went out and triple locking the front and back doors before I went to bed. Angela used to laugh and call me paranoid and she was totally the opposite. There was hardly a day when she didn’t leave a window wide open or a door unlocked — once she even left her keys in the door! I began to wonder when I would come home to find all my stuff cleaned out by robbers.

“Why can’t you just do a quick check to make sure you’ve locked everything up?” I pleaded one day in exasperation. “I’m sick of walking up the front path, wondering if it’s safe to come inside.”

“You’re so afraid of everything,” Angela laughed. “I know we’re not in the country any more, but you make it sound as though we live in the crime capital of the world.”

“You can’t leave all the windows open when you’re not here!” I argued. “Insurance companies won’t pay if we invite people to break in.”

But nothing changed, in fact, things got worse. I returned from school one day and before I even put my key in the door, it swung open.

“Hello!” I called out fearfully. Nobody answered. I poked my head inside the door to see if there was any sign of a disturbance; it looked safe, but I still couldn’t bring myself to go inside. I stood out in the front garden wondering whether to call the police.

“Hey! What are you doing out here?” Angela came bounding up the front path, loaded with shopping bags. “Did you leave your keys behind, because the door’s open.”

“I know!” I exploded. “How could you do that? I thought we’d been burgled! Are you stupid?”

“I only went down to the shops,” Angela retorted defensively. “I was gone 20 minutes, max.”

“That’s not the point,” I raged. “My God, you don’t even seem to care. That’s my stuff in there!”

“Well, you’re the one who wanted to buy new stuff,” was Angela’s selfish retort. At that moment, I knew something drastic needed to be done.

A few weeks later, I left the house early, waiting in a café around the corner until I saw Angela walk past on her way to class. I then doubled back. Within a few minutes, a friend of mine arrived with his car. We quickly loaded my television and DVD player, CD collection and a few other bits and pieces into his car, leaving the front window Angela had carelessly left wide open the way it was.

That afternoon when I got home first, I almost got a fright when I saw the bare corners in the living room — until I remembered that I had done it. Angela arrived right behind me. She stood there with her mouth hanging open in total shock, as I told her we’d been robbed. I pretended that I had called the police and that they had ascertained the would-be-thieves had come through the open window. Angela was absolutely devastated and I felt triumphant that my plan had worked.

I intended to pretend that the “stolen” items had been recovered. But I never got that far.

Angela, it turned out, was absolutely traumatized by the “break in”. She fled for the safety of the country for the weekend and didn’t come back. Within a couple of weeks, she had dropped her uni course and started working back at her parent’s business.

I barely saw Angela after that and we grew apart as our lives changed. But I do know that she stayed in the country and never went on to fulfil any of her initial dreams — all because I pretended to rob our flat.

Picture posed by model.

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Get a flat tummy fast!

A toned and taut Kirstie Alley reveals how you too can look amazing in a cossie.

Kirstie worked hard to get into shape for her bikini debut on Oprah. She went hiking every morning for an hour, then tried for an afternoon workout of weights, circuit training, pilates or yoga. She also followed a 5000kJ-a-day Jenny Craig diet plan and drank at least six glasses of water to help her feel full and flush out toxins. She says the slow, sensible diet left her feeling energetic rather than tired and cranky. Kirstie insists she doesn’t have a personal trainer or her own chef and simply weighs in weekly with a Jenny Craig consultant.

  1. Have a carb curfew

Try not to eat starchy foods like pasta and potatoes after lunch and don’t eat after 8pm. And try catching up with friends for low-kilojoule drinks rather than dinner.

  1. Have a fruity morning

Have a piece of fruit for morning tea. It cleanses your system and is great for getting a nice flat tummy for the day ahead.

  1. Get a gym buddy

Arrange to go to exercise classes with a friend, because once you’ve made that appointment, you won’t want to let them down.

  1. Eat more fibre

Fibre is essential for a flat tummy. It aids the digestive system by soaking up water in the gut, softening food and making it easier to eliminate from the body.

  1. Chew your food properly

If you don’t chew properly, it may lead to wind and bloating. The process of chewing also alerts the stomach to start producing hydrochloric acid, which it needs to digest its contents.

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My son is overweight

Judy Davie

By Judy Davie

For further information about food and nutrition, visit Judy Davie’s website at www.thefoodcoach.com.au

‘My son has a very healthy appetite but is overweight. I don’t want to make a big thing of it but for his own sake would like him to lose weight.’

— Wendy

I often hear people describe their children as having “a healthy appetite”. Like many phrases which no longer have a place in our modern society, “a healthy appetite” is one which should be written out of our daily lingo.

Once considered a good thing, a healthy appetite might more appropriately be referred to as an unhealthy appetite or, more harshly, greed.

Appetite is not hunger, the physical need to eat; it is the desire to eat. Today there’s no question that many of us want to eat much more than we need and much more than what’s good for us.

According to a study in the British Medical Journal, children who are overweight or obese by the age of 11 are more likely to carry their excess weight into adulthood and suffer from weight-related health problems, so it’s a good idea to do something about it now. He may not lose weight but he’ll grow into his weight.

In an abundant world where consumerism is the number one sport, we’re tempted by special offers, new things to try, beautiful packaging and attractive displays. Before we know it, our cupboards are full of products ready to be eaten at any time. People today don’t eat when they’re hungry; they eat when they’re not full! There’s a vast difference. Mealtimes run into each other and many of us are like large cumbersome cows, constantly grazing.

Don’t make it so easy for your son to eat. At mealtimes, make enough for everyone but not so much to allow for second helpings. Don’t stock the pantry full so he can grab anything at any time. Encourage him to sit down to eat and discourage snacking. Give him water to drink when he’s thirsty and rid the house of soft drinks. Tell him you’re saving for a holiday and cutting down on spending but don’t deny him all his pleasures. By all means buy biscuits, but only once a week. Once they’re eaten he’ll have to wait until next week for more.

Activity of course is essential and you may have to lead by example here. A family activity where you all get involved in some physical exercise can be great fun for all concerned. Go to the park and play cricket together or buy a family pass to the swimming pool.

I was alarmed the other day to hear someone, on the subject of childhood obesity, indicate that we may reach a stage in life where we outlive our children.

As parents we have to set an example and show them what a healthy diet looks like. It’s as important as teaching them the difference between right and wrong

Good luck.

‘I have no problem controlling my eating at home, it’s when I go out that it becomes a problem. I always overeat. My partner and I often go out with friends for Chinese, Thai or Indian food. I always seem to eat more than anyone else and arrive home feeling fat and full.’

— Sally

It’s a curious thing, but when we see a variety of different dishes on the table we tend to eat more than if the same food was served on one plate. If there were three potatoes on a plate with the meat and veggies, it would be enough — but serve the potatoes separately in a bowl, we would take four and eat them! Buffets are notorious for encouraging overeating. Asian food is delicious but we typically share all the dishes with rice, topping up our plates continually as we eat. One suggestion would be to choose your own dish and not share or fill your plate modestly with a small portion of each dish when all the dishes have been presented and don’t go back for seconds.

If all else fails, steer clear of Thai, Vietnamese, Indian and Spanish tapas and only go to restaurants where you order your own meal and it comes to you on one plate!

‘I’ve been going to the gym quite a bit and always take a sports drink with me to drink afterwards. Are they okay?’

If you are a high performance athlete, there’s a place in your life for sports drinks. They have a very high GI for instant energy and contain electrolytes with sodium to replace what’s lost in sweat.

If, however, you workout for around an hour, sweat modestly and want to lose weight, you’d be better replacing the sports drink with water. Sports drinks contain calories you don’t need. Better to take those calories in from nutritious food after the workout.

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