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Inside Mary and Fred’s private world

The royal couple give a rare and intimate insight into life behind the palace doors.

For the first time since the birth of their daughter, Princess Mary and Prince Frederik have opened their hearts to the public about the pleasures and pressures of marriage, parenting and ascending the Danish throne.

The notoriously private couple, proud parents of Prince Christian, 2, and Princess Isabella, nine months, candidly admit in a rare interview with Danish newspaper Berlingske Tidende that finding one-on-one time together is difficult with a young family. But they wouldn’t have it any other way…

Read the full story in Woman’s Day (on-sale January 7, 2008)

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Bec’s marriage meltdown

Stress, boredom and the loss of a successful, glamorous career have many wondering how long the pair will last …

For years she was a successful actress and star in her own right. Now Bec Hewitt is reportedly struggling to find happiness in her isolated and sometimes lonely life as a tennis wife and mum.

The 24-year-old has been confiding in friends about the pressures of being a full-time mum and wife, with those close to her fearing that her loneliness, boredom and isolation could cause her to crack — and maybe even destroy the marriage she so treasures.

“She loves Lleyton to bits and wants to make him happy, but she does complain that it’s all a one-way street. Bec loved working on Home And Away, she’s a hard worker — but now she’s just bored,” says a close friend of Bec.

Read the full story in this week’s Woman’s Day (on-sale January 7, 2008)

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Australia’s tiniest baby survives

By Megan Norris

As Australia’s tiniest baby, Elora De Bondi, made her entrance into the world four months premature and weighing less than a tub of butter, doctors warned her mother she had no chance of surviving.

But at 319g, and barely as long as the pen the special-care nurse used to record her miracle birth, the little battler had other plans.

‘Tough little nut’

Single mum Adele De Bondi, 29, maintained a vigil beside Elora’s humidicrib in the intensive care nursery of the Royal Women’s Hospital in Melbourne. And the tiny tot defied incredible odds when she survived and went home seven months later.

Today Adele is counting her blessings, eternally grateful to the army of medical experts who saved the “tough little nut” — who obviously inherited the same stubborn streak which gave her a first chance at survival.

“From the moment I saw her, I knew she was going to make it,” Adele, a nurse, tells Woman’s Day, gently kissing her baby. Doctors believed Elora was too weak to survive labour, and too tiny for the ventilators that save the lives of hundreds of premature Australian babies every year.

Early problems

Little Elora’s battle began last January, even before she was born. A routine 22-week scan revealed Adele’s pregnancy wasn’t as normal as it seemed.

Elora’s kicks signalled a healthy foetus, but the scan revealed an abnormally small baby inside a tiny uterus, where the usual amniotic fluid was in short supply.

Restricted blood flow to the baby meant Adele’s placenta was at risk of shutting down, and doctors predicted a spontaneous early labour, which such a young baby couldn’t survive.

“With almost no amniotic fluid acting as a buffer, the strong kicks I felt were a sign of something badly wrong,” says Adele, who was told her baby would be born within days, suffering immature lungs and possible disabilities.

A second scan on January 29 showed her baby wasn’t growing and was likely to be stillborn. Elora wasn’t due until May 18, and doctors held out little hope, even when Adele asked if a caesarean might improve her baby’s chances.

“They said it wouldn’t make any difference because the baby had no chance of surviving.”

With her instinct telling her that her baby would be born alive, Adele, from Melbourne’s Balwyn North, demanded the surgery. “It’s the only time in my entire life I’ve been thankful for my stubbornness.”

So at 24 weeks and three days pregnant, Adele was rushed to theatre, where a faint squeak at 10.42pm told her that her baby was alive.

“She was 319 grams, 60 grams lighter than required for intubation, and smaller than the hospital’s smallest baby, born at 374 grams eight years earlier.”

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Wacko Jacko’s scary new look

Tragically disfigured pop legend Michael Jackson looked more like a mummy than a daddy as he and his three children browsed a Las Vegas bookstore, with much of his face bizarrely covered with sticking plasters.

Concerns are heightening for the welfare of his children Prince Michael, 10, Paris, 9, and Blanket, 5, as the increasingly eccentric star refuses to confront the growing financial crisis that has left him effectively homeless.

Onlookers were horrified by the fallen star’s appearance, despite his attempts to hide his identity by wearing a hat, sunglasses and black headscarf.

“It was one of the most unnerving things I’ve ever seen,” said a fellow shopper. “He had plasters all over his nose, chin and mouth — he looked like he’d been in a horrible accident.”

More surgery?

It was late-night shopping for the family, who arrived at the store at 10.30pm and left three hours later with several boxes of books and magazines. They were later seen on the roller-coaster at the nearby New York-New York Hotel.

Reps for the plastic surgery-addicted musician have denied he’s resorted to further cosmetic work as he tries to relaunch his career to pay off his debts.

And as Michael struggles to keep a roof over their heads, his family has been staying with friends such as billionaire Ron Burkle.

Losing neverland

“The whole family has been hiding out. They were holed up in Burkle’s place behind the Beverly Hills Hotel,” a source revealed last month. “They even refused to come out of their rooms and hid when Burkle had guests over.”

Insiders say Michael is desperate to escape the reality of his crushing debt. The 49-year-old looks set to lose his famous Neverland ranch next month after he failed to meet the payments on his $26.8million loan. Until recently, Michael owed a staggering $349million.

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In the mag – January 7, 2008

On sale Monday December 31, 2007

Bikini bodies at every age

Steal the stars’ secrets on how to look great when you hit the beach. Join Ricki-Lee Coulter, Fiona Falkiner, Patti Newton and more stars for swimsuit season!

Wacko Jacko’s scary new look

As his cash crisis spirals out of control, Michael Jackson shows off his frightening new face.

Patrick Dempsey’s fairytale life

From the scrubs of Grey’s Anatomy to the gloss of Disney’s latest offering, Enchanted, Patrick Dempsey talks about his dream run.

Renee Geyer: I’ve conquered my demons

Soul legend Renee Geyer opens up to Woman’s Day about her past struggles, her family, and why it’s still all about the music.

True life: Australia’s tiniest baby survives

Born four months premature, doctors believed Elora only had a slim chance of survival, but her mum never doubted she’d make it

12-page puzzles special — enjoy the holidays with a swag of brain-teasers

  • Baby joy for Nicole Kidman?

  • Insiders say our favourite Aussie actress’s dreams are finally coming true

  • Princess Mary’s happy holiday

  • Gorgeous family photos from the Danish royal Christmas

  • Katherine Heigl’s winter wedding

  • The Grey’s Anatomy beauty marries boyfriend Josh Kelley in a winter wonderland

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Renee Geyer: I’ve conquered my demons

By Glen Williams

With her new album Dedicated winning rave reviews, soul legend Renee Geyer is very happy. It’s the 22nd album of her standout career and she knows the work is some of her best. That may be because after years of fighting her demons, including drug abuse, depression and weight gain, Renee is now in the best form of her life. So it’s a mellow and good-humoured Renee who meets Woman’s Day in a St Kilda cafe.

Growing up, you stayed a lot in your room keeping to yourself and immersing yourself in the music of Dusty Springfield and Aretha Franklin?

For a lot of kids their room is their refuge. I’m a loner, I always have been, always will be. It’s just the way I am. Even with my family I’m sort of a loner. that’s the way I live.

In your autobiography, Confessions of a Difficult Woman, you said “My father and I never got on. I don’t think he liked me.”

Yes, but we’ve resolved it now. We get on pretty good. It’s all part of growing up and I was quite an unusual, and stubborn, obstinate little child.

Your father sounds a character. Is it true he once said, “Of all the st music out there, my daughter’s s–t music is the best.”?**

It’s a classic line. It’s a huge compliment from a man who is a Mahler lover! It’s very funny. He is a character, but it’s the fact he doesn’t realise he’s a character is what makes him who he is.

Is it true you once had a bizarre run-in with Robert DeNiro in the reception of the Chateau Marmont?

Yes, he’s a moody man. It was funny I was looking at him and he was looking at me and then we started poking our tongues out at each other. And the man behind the desk looked at us as if to say, “When you two have finished poking your tongues out at each other what would you like?” Then we both laughed at the ridiculousness of it.

You love Aretha?

(Rolls up her sleeve to reveal a tattoo, “Aretha”) Yes, that’s how much Aretha means to me. It was a gift from my Maori audience. They are my biggest audience. The elder women in that society are called aunties, and I’m officially an aunty now. I stay away from Aretha. I don’t stay away from songs that she’s covered. But there’s no way you’re ever going to see me do Natural Woman. You cannot recreate a gem. When I do a classic it’s got to be completely re-arranged and done in such a way that it proves the song rules.

Are you living a contented life?

I don’t know about content. It’s up and down. I’m never content. I know I’m good at what I do. I’m modest in the way I speak, so a lot of people think I don’t know how good I am. I do, I really do, (laughs). But I’m always wanting to be better and so that’s why I’m never content.

Is there a little pang you didn’t find a soulmate?

But my life ain’t over! I just think I’ve had so much fun in my life and I’ve got so many dear friends of both sexes and I’ve had incredible times romantically. I live on my own because it’s the way I like to live at the moment. I think if I found my ultimate soulmate I would still have my own abode. And I think that would keep romance going longer. I think once you shack up, that’s when the trouble starts. At the moment I’m single but I’m never closed for business. Never, never. But it would take someone formidable to sweep me off my feet…

You liken your new album, Dedicated, to being let loose in a lolly shop.

Yes, I’m there among the cobbers and freckles. Thanks to EMI I’ve been let into a lolly shop. To promote the album like a pop record, I’m thrilled. It jumped eleven spots in the last couple of weeks. So we’re hoping slowly it builds in the charts. Then ultimately word of mouth is what’s important. Great reviews far.

Do you enjoy songwriting?

I wish my writing came up to the level of my singing. But my singing, and the ego concerned with it, is much greater than that of a writer. The song choices come from me as a singer wanting to sing the best songs. If one of my songs that I’ve co-written happened to cut the mustard then great. A lot of artists put a lot of their stuff on their albums for publishing’s sake. I think an album is already hard to get out there in these times. So when you do make an album it should be all killer and no filler. It’s very important because a lot of people think if they put four or five really strong tracks down, the rest can be whatever they think or feel regardless. I record a lot of things but I pick 11 of the strongest. That way you have a fighting chance.

Your mum survived Auschwitz. Do you think that’s also why you’ve managed to survive in such a tough business?

I don’t know, I can’t say because I’m too busy doing it. Whenever I’m asked how things are going with my career my answer is always I don’t know, I’m a soldier in army on the battlefield. I’m not a general overlooking and strategically planning things. I’m out there doing it. I don’t stop and ponder a lot. It’s only in retrospect, when you look back and see the trail that you leave, that you see what’s going on. But I don’t ponder it as I go. I think anyone who does, doesn’t last very long.

Is it true you had a lot of arguments through the Countdown years with Molly Meldrum?

Not really. Molly loves the thought of drama and he wears it well. There haven’t been that many, but people look back and make a big thing out of something that might not have been as big but sounds great. People say I slapped his face, but if you watch the footage, it was all in good fun. Molly and I have great respect for each other. I love the fact that he’s still enthusiastic at this point in his career, if not more than he ever was. He’s a rare breed. He and people like Michael Gudinski are very rare that at their age it’s no longer money that drives them, that their artistic decisions are still based on absolute excitement of great music. I respect him greatly on that level. We don’t hang out together but we all do respect each other very much and we would stand up for each other if need be.

You’re great live but do you enjoy recording as well?

I’m only just getting good in the studio. I’ve always been very, very strong about what it is I sing and what I don’t sing. I’ve never been made to sing a song that I don’t want to sing. Any records that have not been so great, the blame is on me. Oh yes. I’ve always decided my own material. Always. I’ve never been made to sing something that I didn’t want to sing. In the older days I used to leave the producing and mixing to other people. Only since the last four or five records I’m a lot more hands on with that and it seems to be paying off for me. My records are getting better because of it. My style is R&B — it is such a spontaneous genre.

Your live gigs are often sold out.

I’m getting better and better at it. I think it’s very dangerous in this ageist society we live in, especially in the arts, especially in music, where aesthetics are so important. Thank God that’s not why my audiences come. They come for the music. I sometimes get comments on my website saying, “How dare you wear that terrible thing and those ugly boots.” I always say, “Thankyou, you obviously care enough to write — but now that ‘terrible thing and ugly boots’ will be worn even more.” It’s like a red rag to a bull.

Do you enjoy black R&B artists like Laverne Baker and Laura Lee?

Yes of course. Laura Lee is one of my all-time favourites. But she’s not that well known. People say she sounds like Rod Stewart. No, no Rod Stewart sounds like her. Women’s Love Rights has always been a contender for me to cover. I only end up doing a song if I’ve really turned it around into something where the song has got a new slant to it.

You do a version of I Wish It Would Rain on the album. Does it have a special meaning?

Yes. I’m calling it the farmer’s anthem for those doing it tough. I would love this song to be a rain dance for the farmers. I hope they play it until the rain comes.

Do you have a favourite song on your new album?

Oh it changes. I can’t say. The original songs are always personal favourites because they are new babies. And I want them to see the sunlight. Leave Your Light On by Paul Kelly is an absolute classic. It’s on his new record too.

Read more of this interview in Woman’s Day (on-sale December 31, 2007)

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Patrick’s fairytale life

TV’s Dr McDreamy takes an enchanting turn on the big screen

It’s been a fairytale few years for Patrick Dempsey. Having been catapulted from bit-part actor to steamy leading man courtesy of the massive success of Grey’s Anatomy, he could be forgiven for thinking he’s living in a dream world. In addition to his good looks and fame, the 41-year-old also has a happy marriage with hair and make-up artist Jill Fink. Together they have a five-year-old daughter Tallulah and twin sons, Sullivan and Darby, 10 months. It’s no wonder he feels like he’s on top of the world!

Here Patrick talks about his new film Enchanted where, in a case of art imitating life, his character is remarkably like a modern-day Prince Charming…

Was it fun playing a dad in Enchanted?

I’d never played a father before. I could bring my daughter to the set for the big ballroom numbers — she wore a gown and all the girls took care of her. She loved the princess. She got a sense of what her dad can do and it’s a memory she’ll always have. It meant a lot to her.

Do you like fairytales?

I like this fairytale. It’s clever and funny. Disney makes fun of itself in a good way. It’s surprised me that I actually like it as a guy. You’re not supposed to, but it works and it has a lot of heart too.

What’s the best thing about working on Grey’s?

Job security.

So what does money mean to you?

Wow! Having had none and then having some, life is much better with money. I want to provide for my kids and give them as much as possible: a good education and the means to live in the country on a farm. That allows the twins to be boys and my daughter to go horse riding and not worry about who’s outside or if she’s going to be abducted. It would be nice for them to have some sort of innocence. With work right now, I’m missing a bit of time with them, but I know what I want to give them.

Have you been asked for medical advice?

Sometimes people do now. They’re like, “What do you think I should do for this?” Once my daughter fell and split her chin open and I said to the doctor, “Don’t give her stitches, just use the glue.” I didn’t trust him and wasn’t sure he’d be any good at doing stitches.

Do you ever get squeamish?

No, not a bit. When we started Grey’s I had to watch a brain surgery, and I wasn’t freaked out at all. It was very clinical and professional. People were talking about what they had for dinner! They’d get serious every now and then, and then they’d have some more conversation. It was as if they were mechanics — it was interesting.

People who have been awake during surgery say it’s weird when they realise the doctors have the radio on and are humming and chatting.

Yeah, singing and talking about music! But what you find is that you stop thinking of the patients as people.

How do you keep it real, with all this fame?

I race cars in my spare time, and the other racers give me a hard time. They definitely like picking on me. Now that I have the Enchanted Robert doll, I’m getting strange text messages with pictures of things they’re doing to the doll — it’s very funny. I like the camaraderie. Drivers I’ve known prior to the success of Grey’s like me for who I am and make fun of me all the time. They keep it in perspective for me and I appreciate that. I see [celebrity] for what it is.

Read more of this interview in Woman’s Day (on-sale December 31)

Enchanted is screening now at theatres nationally

Words: © Croc Media

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Elton John – the Rocket Man returns

By Jenny Brown

In Sydney to launch his hit musical Billy Elliot, the superstar opens up to Woman’s Day.

How does the musical differ from the movie?

I thought the music in the film was great, but the scope for doing a musical was amazing, because there were so many people you could write songs for. We kind of pushed the political situation much more to the fore in a way; it’s about Billy obviously but also about the miners’ struggle. I found it very easy to write the songs, because there are so many great characters.

Is Billy the same in Sydney and London?

In Australia we’ve got four Billys instead of three, so everything has to be rehearsed four times over. They all dance and sing differently. I wouldn’t like to be a director, I can tell you that! The logistics are so hard, but it all came together for the opening night in London. We know what it’s all about now.

Australia is one of your favourite places, isn’t it?

I got married here (to German sound engineer Renate Blauel), and thank God I had a throat operation in Sydney back in the ’80s. The surgeon saved me; he did the most amazing job. So Sydney is full of memories for me. The old Sebel Town House, everybody used to stay there — sportsmen and actors and musicians — it was a meeting place for entertainers from all over the world. When I’m touring here I base myself in Sydney and fly off to all my concerts. I’ve had a love affair with Australia from the word go. That’s what’s so exciting about Billy opening here. We’ve never taken it out of Britain before and it’s a big step but I’m confident it will do really, really well. Australians have the same sense of humour; they like a good laugh.

Growing up, were you the odd one out like Billy?

No, because all my friends loved music as well. Every week we’d buy or borrow all the new rock and roll records. It was an incredible era. The Beatles had just started. I remember my friend Michael Johnson showing me his copy of their first single Love Me Do and telling me they were going to be the new huge group. I was a bit sceptical, but I listened to the record and he was absolutely right. It was a great time for music, an explosion of new music. We went to see it, bought it, played it, and I went to the Royal Academy of Music as well. It was just rampant! In the 50s and 60s there was an explosion of music that will never be paralleled.

What are your earliest musical memories?

I lived in a house with my Gran and Aunt Win and Mum and Dad and the radio was always on, and there was the piano. I can remember playing when I was two or three, sitting on my grandma’s knee. And Dad bought Frank Sinatra and George Shearing records when I was seven or eight. I’m grateful that he gave me a background that included all those great musicians. I grew up with them. Music was the centerpiece of my life and has remained so.

And your much-loved mum is still alive?

Mum and my stepfather were very supportive, and we have gone on this journey together. Mum is 82 now, very much alive and kicking, and my stepfather is 86. Mum doesn’t like getting old much but she still has as much energy as she ever did, and drives herself around. I get my energy from her. She’s always had such spirit. They’re a remarkably resilient couple for their age — but they don’t feel their age, not in their minds.

Read more of this interview in Woman’s Day (on-sale December 24, 2007)

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In the mag – December 31, 2007

On sale Monday December 24, 2007

Andy and Megan’s New Year wedding

Their romance shocked even their closest friends, but Megan Gale and Andy Lee have another surprise in store.

Greg Norman: I’ve never been so happy

Newly engaged Greg Norman, 52, has left his ex-wife Laura Andrassy, 57, devastated after dismissing their 25-year marriage during a gushing interview with his fiancée, tennis legend Chris Evert.

Elton John — the Rocket Man returns

In Sydney to launch his hit musical Billy Elliot, the superstar opens up to Woman’s Day.

Carnie’s joy: I feel alive again

She was the ‘big girl’ in singing group Wilson Phillips, but after years of struggle, Brian Wilson’s daughter is slim, sober and thrilled with her life.

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