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In the mag – May 19, 2008

On sale Monday May 12, 2008

Katie and Nicole’s secret deal

Nicole and Katie unite as Tom’s controlling behaviour pushes both of them to the limit.

Brad and Ange’s shock home birth

The couple get into nesting mode as they prepare for the arrival of twin girls…

Kate and Chelsy: The royal WAGs

Wills’ and Harry’s leading ladies, Kate Middleton and Chelsy Davy, never stray far from their princes’ sides.

In pictures: From models to model royalty — and, of course, sports wives — we take a look at some of the famous Wives And Girlfriends from across the globe.

Ramsay on food, fame and family

Woman’s Day chews the fat with a charming, mild-mannered and very funny Gordon Ramsay.

Parents tell: Corey’s not a sunglasses-wearing moron

Corey’s mum and stepfather, Jo and Steve Delaney, set the record straight and answer to accusations of being the world’s worst parents.

True life: Aussie grandma: ‘I lost 102kg’

After years of being overweight, it was one very little man who helped Frances slim right down.

  • True Life: Amici Forever star tells “My daughter’s autism battle”

Singer Geoff Sewell reveals why he gave it all away to help his sick daughter.

  • Money special

20 ways to save $$$ at the supermarket!

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Brad and Ange’s shock home birth

The couple get into nesting mode as they prepare for the arrival of twin girls.

Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie have relocated to France as they await their latest family additions. The pair, who are reported to be expecting twin girls in July, are staying in a luxury retreat on the Riviera, along with their four children, Maddox, 6, Pax, 4, Zahara, 3, and Shiloh, 2.

The couple have already found a few friends to hang out with in the sunny celebrity hot spot. Brad and Ange were recently spotted enjoying a stroll near U2 frontman Bono’s home in the south of France, with his bandmate David Evans, aka The Edge.

While heavily pregnant Ange rested on the rocks, Brad played with Pax and Zahara by the water’s edge. Onlookers also noticed that the once-buff 44-year-old actor appeared fuller in the face and heftier around the middle — perhaps a sign of contentment with his family life.

A team of medics has been flown to the French hideaway in preparation for the twins’ arrival.

“Ange loves the idea of a home birth,” an insider told UK newspaper Sunday Mirror

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Parents tell: Corey’s not a sunglasses-wearing moron

By Glen Williams

Pictures: Gina Milicia

They’re the parents of notorious “bad boy” Corey Worthington, the so-called tearaway teen who found worldwide celebrity as an attitude-laden, yellow-sunglasses-wearing party-thrower and street-wrecker. Now back into the spotlight in the Big Brother house, Corey’s infamy looks set to continue. In a revealing interview with Woman’s Day, Corey’s mum and stepfather, Jo and Steve Delaney, set the record straight and answer to accusations of being the world’s worst parents.

**There are mixed feelings regarding Corey. Some say he’s a hero, others say he’s a total loser? What do you say?

Steve** There’s always a generation gap. Adults would see him as having a bad image, and yet the young can associate with him. The girls in particular are fascinated by him and think he’s cute. The parents say he needs a kick in the bum, the kids say he’s portraying independence. Love him or hate him, everyone has an opinion about him. It’s all very surreal. We’re trying to get on with our everyday lives, and in the background there’s this bizarre situation.

**Do you get stirred for being Corey’s dad?

Steve** I’m a sales executive and move around a lot. I hear all sorts of comments. But we’ve had an overwhelming amount of support. Fact is, we have to have a bit of fun with it and laugh otherwise we’d be in a psyche ward. Then I often feel like a priest in a confessional. I have people coming up to me and saying, “Do you know what I did when I was a kid? What Corey did was nothing?” See today you do something and it can be around the world in 10 seconds.

**Has all this caused you to reassess your lives?

Steve** It’s made us realise there is worse things that could happen — there’s illnesses and death. Yes, it’s been rough, but we’re lucky compared to a lot of stuff that other families have to go through.

**What are your hopes for Corey?

Steve** That he’s happy, and that he just gets on with his life — and is given the opportunity to do so.

**Were you shocked by those who took the moral high ground and pre-judged your whole family?

Steve** We were shocked and upset by the whole thing and the attention it had drawn. The moral side was very upsetting. There were all these messages coming across that Corey was a bad kid, we were bad parents. But it wasn’t about morals. The fact is, the kid went behind our back, threw a party and it went pear-shaped. When the police came, Corey asked for their help, saying it was out of control.

Jo It must have been frightening for the neighbourhood. Our neighbours have told us that Corey went and saw them and told them he was having a party, and that it should be over by midnight. They just told him to have a great time. He tried to be responsible. He was going behind our backs, but he was trying to be responsible with the neighbours. The public thinks he’s this irresponsible kid who went on MySpace and advertised his party hoping he’d get hundreds of people — that was never his intention.

**Your family has been on the receiving end of abusive phone calls and your house has been graffitied …

Steve** Yes. Unfortunately, the world knows our address, so we’re left wide open. People come by and yell out. We’re very exposed and it’s very upsetting but why should we move from our home?

Is Corey grateful for all the opportunities that are coming his way?

Steve: I think he is, but it has to be a head spin for him at the same time.

It looks like he may now be set up for life?

Steve Let’s hope it gives him a good foundation once all this has died down. We have to be realistic, he can’t go back to school and get a normal job, not at this moment. At the moment, he’s the kid on TV, the party boy with a lot of negative associations. This is life changing for him. Now that Corey is in the Big Brother House, hopefully people will see he’s not the ratbag, irresponsible type of kid he’s been portrayed as. And they might realise his parents don’t have 10 heads.

Have Corey and his sister patched things up?

Steve They’re working on it.

Critics have said that you’re both profiting from Corey.

Steve Some idiots have no correct facts about us whatsoever. We’re not pimping Corey out. We’re not profiting from him.

Are you shocked he’s now a fashion icon, and there are Corey clones everywhere?

Jo Really, are they Corey clones? Or were kids always dressing like that and Corey’s just become the focus of that look because of how he was dressed on the news?

Steve It’s amazing. He is a role model for a lot of kids.

Kids seem to love him …

Jo Yes, and he’s not a bad role model, but then you get a lot of the parents saying, “My God, I don’t want my kid to be like that little a***hole.”

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Kate and Chelsy: The Royal WAGs

Wills’ and Harry’s leading ladies never stray far from their princes’ sides.

As their relationships with the royal heirs heat up, Kate Middleton and Chelsy Davy are going everywhere with their Princes — earning them the title of “the royal WAGs”.

The term WAGs (Wives And Girlfriends), is usually reserved for the glamorous partners of high-profile sports stars, but was bestowed on the girlfriends of Wills and Harry by the British press after they sat adoringly on the sidelines while the Princes played polo last weekend.

Palace insiders say the two women have recently become close friends, bonding over the pressure of their high-profile relationships — much to the delight of William and Harry.

“Kate and Chelsy have always got on, but it’s only recently they have become close,” a royal source told the UK’s Sun newspaper.

“They’re not as different as you might imagine,” another insider told the UK’s Daily Mail. “Physically they’re chalk and cheese — maybe because Kate’s willowy and wears more discreet jewellery, she looks classier. But if you scratch the surface, they’ve lots in common.”

Close allies

Sipping wine in the shade of a private marquee, Kate and Chelsy chatted animatedly during the match — with their growing rapport drawing comparisons to the friendship of Princess Diana and Sarah Ferguson, during the early days of their respective royal marriages.

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WAGs

A trend-setter, a pop-star, and the wife of one of the world’s most famous footballers, David Beckham, Posh Spice is the ultimate WAG.

From our very own shores, the much-loved Bec travels around the world with her tennis champ hubby Lleyton — even keeping up appearances while pregnant during the 2005 US Open.

Golden girl Lara, featured in those infamous Aussie tourism ads, is engaged to cricketer Michael Clarke.

The former wife of Shane Warne, Simone is an on-again, off-again Aussie WAG.

The revealing dress that the girlfriend of AFL footballer Chris Judd wore to the 2004 Brownlow Medal presentation drew attention across Australia.

A wardrobe malfunction waiting to happen, the dress plunged deeply at the front… and the back.

Wife of Socceroo Harry Kewell, actress Sheree Murphy.

Fashion designer Terry Biviano and her rugby player boyfriend Anthony Minnichiello.

Golf champion Tiger Woods and wife, Swedish ex-model Elin.

The term WAGs was invented to describe UK footballers’ wives. And now there’s even a reality TV show, WAGs Boutique, including (clockwise from top L) glamour model Cassie Sumner, singer Madeleine Bowden, the audience’s voted “favourite WAG” Krystell Sidwell, models’ agent Jadene Bircham and model Nicola T.

Prince William’s girlfriend Kate, who royal-watchers have long predicted will become his wife, has been dubbed a ‘Royal WAG’.

Prince Harry’s ex-girlfriend Chelsy didn’t escape the title of ‘Royal WAG’ either.

Fergie was an earlier version of the ‘Royal WAG’, with comparisons being drawn between the youngsters Chelsy and Kate and their generational counterparts, Fergie and Di.

The ‘Queen of people’s hearts’, Diana set the bar high for future ‘Royal WAGs’.

Celebrity divorces

All is not fair in love and war — view our photo gallery of some of the biggest celebrity divorce settlements. Ouch! On RALPH: ‘Hottest pommie WAGs’ slideshow.

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Gordon tells: Food, fame and family

By Jenny Brown

Pictures: Andrew Jacob

Always in hot water, super-chef Gordon Ramsay is a stirrer, whose talent and drive, together with his brazen use of the “F” word, have made him an international star.

On top-rating TV shows like Hell’s Kitchen and Ramsay’s Kitchen Nightmares, his temper boils over with terrifying regularity. He’s even been chased down the street by a knife-wielding cook who couldn’t take his roasting any more.

But there is a softer side to the 41-year-old chef. Loved and loathed in equal measure — a British magazine poll once placed him in its Top 100 Sexiest Men — he adores his wife Tana and four small children, Megan, twins Holly and Jack, and Matilda, and inspires fanatical loyalty in long-time staff.

While chewing the fat with Woman’s Day, a charming, mild-mannered and very funny Gordon reveals what he thinks about wealth, how he gets his son to eat carrots and how he dealt with his wife producing a cookbook.

According to rumours, you’re going to open an Australian restaurant?

There are a couple of options in Sydney and Melbourne and I’d be mad not to look at it. I wouldn’t do it unless we can invest in it and control it. It can go t**ts up without control. But I love it here. The food is phenomenal, but because it’s so remote, Australian chefs don’t get the credit they deserve in Europe.

Do you ever get invited to dinner parties?

I swear to God I would rather become a vegetarian than go to a dinner party. You know why? Because you’re gawped at like you’re on Big Brother — every mouthful, every sound, and no-one’s relaxed. It’s that level of diplomacy I’m not very good at. [With disgust] Dinner parties! I mean, if I’m going ’round to theirs, they are going to come to mine and what the f*** do I want to do that for?

So how do you entertain your friends?

We had a celebration on New Year’s Eve, but I didn’t cook. I brought in a chef so I could sit and enjoy myself. Otherwise it’s too bloody hard. Another secret is the art of delegation — make one bring the starter, one the main course and you do the pudding. It works out great. Be responsible for one dish and one dish only.

Do you ever say “I told you so” to your brother?

I don’t want to go into it too much, out of respect. I wear a jacket of guilt because if I wasn’t as successful as I am, I don’t think there would be such need for him to fight against it. I blame myself slightly, but it’s time to let him go. I have my other family to look after. Heroin isn’t a disease, it’s a choice. I stand strong on that.

Have you talked to your children about it?

We tell the kids that all drugs are dangerous. It’s my decision to put the fear of God into them — like smoking causes cancer and it’s why Nanny has a bad heart. I expose them to the harsh reality.

Are celebrity chefs a good or bad thing?

I get frustrated when people come into the industry wanting to cook on TV. That’s thousands of miles away from the coalface and what it takes to perfect food. I’ve been very lucky to be able to diversify, but I would cringe at employing a chef who wants to be famous. I’m not a TV chef, I want that on my tombstone.

And what do you think of most TV chefs’ cuisine?

Celebrity cat food! But as long as they continue making knob meals, it makes my life f**king easier. I’m definitely not complaining.

What would you order for your last meal?

I had some amazing grilled scallops once at Icebergs in Bondi. They were mind-blowing, so that’s my starter, and then I would go for something like sea bass or barramundi resting on a bed of roast potatoes with purple basil and confit tomatoes. For dessert, I’d have the most amazing hot chocolate fondant with ice cream — go out the way you came in … with milk. And the rest is f**king history.

For more of this interview, see this week’s Woman’s Day (on sale May 12).

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Nicole and Katie’s secret deal

The two women unite as Tom’s controlling behaviour pushes both of them to the limit.

Katie Holmes has reached out to Nicole Kidman in a series of secret phone calls, as both struggle to cope with Tom Cruise’s controlling grip on their lives. Following the third anniversary of her first date with the superstar actor, and with Tom pressuring her for a second child, troubled Katie, 29, is taking stock of how her life has changed — and she isn’t happy.

Katie first turned to Tom’s ex-wife Nicole, 40, for advice on how to handle the 45-year-old actor, but as their bond has grown, she has agreed to help Nicole gain more access to the former couple’s children Isabella, 15, and Connor, 13.

Pregnant Nicole — who was initially devastated by Katie’s tactless public revelation that Connor and Isabella “call me Mom” — was thrilled when Katie offered to help her spend more time with her children.

“Katie and Nicole have always had a civil relationship, but they have never had much of a chance to talk privately,” reveals one of Katie’s closest friends.

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Tips for healthy weight gain

Judy Davie

“My 13-year-old son is very active and I assume he has a high metabolism, but he is skin and bones and does not seem to put on any weight. What sorts of foods does he need to eat to put on weight?”

— Rosemary

Being underweight is as much of a problem for some as being overweight. However, as long as he eats a varied healthy diet and he’s a happy, energetic lad, you really don’t need to worry. He most probably has an extremely high metabolism and burns food very quickly.

Some underweight people do forget to eat, however, as food simply isn’t a priority to them. If this is the case for your son, encourage him to eat five to six times a day and make sure he doesn’t fill up on nutritionally-valueless sugary snacks before meals.

Unlike people who carry a little extra weight, who can easily eat even when they’re not hungry, underweight individuals often can’t eat when they don’t feel like it. Again, if this describes your son, it’s important that everything he eats is worth eating. Energy-dense foods deliver the maximum amount of kilojoules per serve, but if he only eats when he’s hungry, you must choose energy dense foods that are rich in nutrients.

Full fat dairy is energy dense and has the added advantage of being high in calcium, a mineral necessary for strong bones. Instead of any soft drinks, try to get your son to drink milk. Cheese is an excellent snack food.

Assuming he has no allergy, nuts — such as almonds, walnuts, cashews and Brazil nuts — are both energy-dense and contain fibre, protein, numerous minerals and healthy essential fats. Nut spreads are available from the health aisle of the supermarket and are excellent to use on toast and crackers as snacks.

Smoothies are a good way to sneak extra kilojoules into the diet. Use fresh fruit, such as berries and/or bananas for vitamins and antioxidants, full cream milk, a scoop of natural yoghurt and honey to sweeten.

Remember, your son needs protein for growth. Protein is found in lean meat, eggs, fish, dairy and nuts. While vegetables won’t add weight, they are necessary to protect him from infectious conditions. To increase the calorific value of vegetables, drizzle them in olive oil or sprinkle them with grated cheese.

Like any other child, I’m sure he’ll want the occasional treat. Plain chips are always better than flavoured ones. Chocolate and muesli bars are a better choice than lollies and sweet biscuits made with processed white flour.

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Why are women still earning less than men?

Ways we can beat the gender pay gap.
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WOMEN are earning 15 per cent less than men in Australia and according to one academic, this pay gap won’t close until women are prepared to work the same number of hours as men.

The comments came from Professor Mark Wooden, social researcher for the University of Melbourne, and drew gasps from the mostly female audience at the National Press Club panel discussion this week.

“All high achievers in all walks of life … put in long hours into their activity”, Professor Wooden said. “It’s (the pay equity gap) got a lot to do with the fact that women are not prepared to work longer hours.”

While he was the only male representative on the discussion panel, Wooden’s views have fuelled much debate and anger throughout the Australian female workforce. Wooden’s comments follow a recent report by the Equal Opportunity for Women in the Workplace Agency which found that female CEOs earn two-thirds of the median wage of their male counterparts and that female graduates entering the workforce earn around $3000 less than male graduates.

So what are the reasons behind this backwards finding in the twenty-first century? Wooden says a shift in traditional family structures and parental obligations are what is required to close the pay gap, “the only way we can achieve this is if we have lots of role reversals, lots of men behaving like women and lots of women behaving like men.” Wooden added however that he didn’t think Australian women, or women anywhere in the world would want this shift.

This view tends to overlook the more pressing issues of old-fashioned workplace attitudes seen to undervalue women’s skills, and enforce gender stereotyping in the workplace. Minister for the Status of Women Tanya Plibersek, sees the answer to this problem as lying in role-sharing and not role-reversal.

A change in workplace culture is what Federal Sex Discrimination Commissioner Liz Broderick sees as a means of stamping out inequality, so that all jobs, even executive roles, “come in all shapes and sizes”. Ms Broderick added, “once we start to do that I think we will start to see a critical mass of women and men with caring responsibilities at the most senior levels of each area of activity in the country”.

Broderick acknowledged that closing this pay gap was a challenge, but added that we need to “step up and actively manage” this to do things differently in the future.

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Walk this way

Turn a lunchtime stroll into a moving meditation with these 6 easy and effective ideas from Pamela Allardice.

Few things are as capable of restoring perspective and turbo-charging your energy levels as taking a brisk walk. Walking raises your heart rate, improves circulation and boosts your mood. And, if you’re having a stressful day, walking is the perfect antidote, leaving you calm, focused and ready to face the afternoon’s challenges.

Stress concentrates energy in your head, making you feel overwhelmed. Meditation, on the other hand, involves focusing your mind on one thought and – whenever your mind wanders, or chatters, which yogis call “monkey mind” – bringing it back to that thought. To turn an ordinary lunch-time walk into a moving meditation, all you have to do is focus your mind on something else. Try these ideas:

  1. Count steps Count the first five steps in your head: “one, two, three, four, five …” At the sixth, begin at one again and count to six. With the seventh, begin at one again, and count to seven. Continue until you reach 10. If you lose count (and don’t worry if you do, it’s not a race), just start again. 2. Climb something Find a water tower, a hill, or the highest look-out point in your area. Take in the view from the top, look towards the horizon and forget your worries. 3. Find the four elements Feel more in harmony with your natural surroundings by finding a place on your walk where you can experience all four elements: earth, air, water and fire. For example, you could walk on the grass (earth) in a park near a fountain (air and water) while enjoying the sensation of the sun (fire) on your face. 4. Repeat an affirmation Such as “I am moving forward, one step at a time,” or “I am breathing in, I am breathing out.” 5. Find something new Life is a journey, not a destination, as the saying goes. Rather than focus on where you’re going, be mindful of what you see along the way. Try straying from your usual route. Set yourself the challenge of finding something interesting and unexpected: it could be a bright red front door, an unusual shrub or a beautiful church. This exercise makes you focus on the moment and really notice your surroundings, rather than let your mind race ahead to future concerns. 6. Walk with gratitude As you walk, think of all the things you’re grateful for in your life: healthy children, a warm bed, friends, a bird overhead. Repeat the thought in your head or out loud, e.g. “Thank you for the beautiful bird,” or “I’m so glad the kids have got a sunny afternoon for tennis practice.” Sounds simple, but forcing your brain to focus on positive and meaningful things in your life is one of the quickest ways to calm down — it’s impossible to feel stressed at the same time as acknowledging all the things you’re grateful for.

1. Count steps

Count the first five steps in your head: “one, two, three, four, five …” At the sixth, begin at one again and count to six. With the seventh, begin at one again, and count to seven. Continue until you reach 10. If you lose count (and don’t worry if you do, it’s not a race), just start again.

2. Climb something

Find a water tower, a hill, or the highest look-out point in your area. Take in the view from the top, look towards the horizon and forget your worries.

3. Find the four elements

Feel more in harmony with your natural surroundings by finding a place on your walk where you can experience all four elements: earth, air, water and fire. For example, you could walk on the grass (earth) in a park near a fountain (air and water) while enjoying the sensation of the sun (fire) on your face.

4. Repeat an affirmation

5. Find something new

Life is a journey, not a destination, as the saying goes. Rather than focus on where you’re going, be mindful of what you see along the way. Try straying from your usual route. Set yourself the challenge of finding something interesting and unexpected: it could be a bright red front door, an unusual shrub or a beautiful church. This exercise makes you focus on the moment and really notice your surroundings, rather than let your mind race ahead to future concerns.

6. Walk with gratitude

As you walk, think of all the things you’re grateful for in your life: healthy children, a warm bed, friends, a bird overhead. Repeat the thought in your head or out loud, e.g. “Thank you for the beautiful bird,” or “I’m so glad the kids have got a sunny afternoon for tennis practice.” Sounds simple, but forcing your brain to focus on positive and meaningful things in your life is one of the quickest ways to calm down — it’s impossible to feel stressed at the same time as acknowledging all the things you’re grateful for.

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