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Flawed genius

The late Yves Saint Laurent was one of the most famous and influential couturiers of the late 20th century. Yet beyond the celebrated style, writes William Langley, lay a man whose genius was often inseparable from his psychological torment.

Along the perfumed, lantern-lit corridors of a vast white villa, beneath soaring, mosaic ceilings and through the shadows of filigree stonework, a slender, shaven-headed man in a silk caftan is being dragged by his friends towards a waiting limousine. His face is gaunt and ghostly, his eyes luminous with terror, and as he descends a sweeping marble staircase, he cries, “Assassins! Assassins!” into the moist Moroccan night.

A few hours later, after a private jet flight to Paris, Yves Saint Laurent, the most celebrated fashion designer of the age, is in a psychiatric clinic. Watched over by nurses and a handful of aides who have followed him from his fabled “pleasure palace” in Marrakech, he now sleeps the deep sleep into which the night’’ opium has delivered him. Yet, as all who have watched his slow slide into madness know, the horrors will soon begin again.

Yves’catastrophic breakdown — anticipated by his circle and painful for those around him to witness — can, in retrospect, be seen as a turning point in a remarkable life. The psychological frailty which had beset him since childhood had finally reached a watershed. While Yves’ recovery was slow and incomplete, it can at least be said that, by the time of his death on June 1 at the age of 71, he had found a kind of peace.

A sense of fulfilment, too. For Yves had genuinely changed the world, the way it looked and felt about itself. In a business filled with colliding egos and shallow vanities, he had incontestably established himself as the homme sérieux he had always aspired to be. It may be trite to say that he freed women from their corsets, but only because it is now almost impossible to imagine a world in which women were unable to wear trousers to the office or to a certain kind of restaurant.

“He understood women’s need for clothes that worked as hard as we did,” says Suzy Menkes, the Paris-based doyenne of fashion writing, “but at the same time, he could create these incredibly glamorous things that looked as though they had dropped straight onto your body from heaven.”

At Yves’ nationally televised funeral in the church of Saint-Roch in Paris on June 5, many prominent female mourners — including Carla Bruni, the ex-model wife of French President Nicolas Sarkozy — wore black trouser suits by way of homage. On the pavement outside, actress Catherine Deneuve, dressed in a signature YSL black trench coat and as glacially beautiful as ever at 64, paid tribute to the designer as “a pioneer feminist”. Yves, she said, “had read his [feminist author] Simone de Beauvoir. He was at our side through those battles of the 1970s.”

Yet it was Yves’ misfortune that his creativity was largely inseparable from, perhaps dependent upon, his torment. His best work was done at the worst times of his life and the best of all during the long descent into debauchery and drug addiction that consumed him for much of the 1970s and 1980s. During these years, while the world saw a beaming, bespectacled, dark-suited couturier shyly collecting bouquets and air-kisses at the end of each successful collection, the other Yves was a despairing and manic presence, raging against his demons in his grand Paris apartment, filled with fabulous works of art.

To read the full story on YSL, pick up a copy of the July issue of The Weekly.

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60 seconds with Sarah Murdoch

Beloved Australian personality and our stunning July cover girl Sarah Murdoch is relishing her role as ambassador of the Murdoch Childrens’ Research Institute. Sarah gives us a 60 second snap shot into her life, marriage and family.

You are the Ambassador of the Murdoch Children’s Research Institute, what does the institute do?

The Murdoch Childrens is the largest child health research institute in Australia with over 1000 researchers investigating many childhood conditions including diabetes, obesity, depression and premature birth.

What does being the Ambassador involve for you?

Because MCRI is located in Victoria many Australians aren’t aware of the institute and its breadth of work. I have made it my goal to increase awareness of the institute, of the importance of research, of how much research impacts our everyday lives, and to raise funds for the institute.

What struck you about this particular cause?

Obviously there is a strong family connection. It was Lachlan’s grandmother, Dame Elisabeth Murdoch, who was instrumental in establishing the institute. After visiting MCRI for the first time I could see directly the benefits of research and, myself being guilty of taking these things for granted, I felt compelled to help wherever I could.

What is your favourite travel destination and why?

The Whitsunday Islands. I am always amazed at how well Australia preserves our natural environment. To me, it is heaven there.

Three things that make you tick?

My children, personal achievements, love.

You never leave home without…

My blackberry!

What’s your motto (s) in life?

“The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing.” Edmund Burke

Book that changed your life?

As a child I read and reread Enid Blyton’s “The Faraway Tree”. I was mesmerised by the idea that anything is possible.

What do you wish you had more time to do?

Read.

Food you allow yourself to indulge in?

Chocolate Mint Slices. Every day!

Favourite thing to do on a lazy Sunday?

No such thing as a lazy Sunday any more! The kids are full of energy first thing. But we love it.

Most memorable career point to date?

Having the honour of speaking on behalf of the National Breast Cancer Foundation at The National Press Club.

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60 seconds with Amanda Keller

Treacle tart

Television and radio star, Amanda Keller, is loving her role as morning presenter on WSFM as one half of The Morning Show with Brendan “Jonesy” Jones. Amanda gives us a 60 second snap shot into her life, career and family.

You’re one half of the Jonesy and Amanda show on WSFM – can you tell me a bit about the show?

Jonesy and I are best friends, who happen to spend 3 and a half hours every morning chatting about “stuff”. From current affairs to something as inane as why the Incredible Hulk’s pants don’t rip, we debate it all.

How are the early mornings?

I don’t mind them. Once your head’s under shower, you’re awake. I’m home at lunch time..I wonder how anyone who works all day gets time for a hair cut or a trip to the gym.

Is it very different doing radio compared to telly?

I love the immediacy of radio…you get an idea and can action it straight away. There’s no filter between you and your audience. Of course there are many days where I wish there was a filter…a grown-up to do my thinking for me.

What is your Favourite travel Destination and why?

One of my favourite holidays was a week Harley and I spent in Santa Fe, New Mexico. We spent the days skiing, eating , and browsing shops and galleries for folk art. My dream holiday.

A place you love in Australia?

Lord Howe Island. ..it’s like idyllic island meets country town. Ducks wander along the beautiful beaches..you ride bikes from one snorkelling spot to the next, and pull up at beautiful restaurants along the way.

Three things that make you tick?

My family, a good book, and a cup of tea.

You never leave home without…?

Lipstick..I’ve become like my mum.

What’s your motto (s) in life?

My motto changes every few days..today’s is always live with a clean linen cupboard.

Book that changed your life?

The Time Traveller’s Wife…it didn’t change my life but I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it all year.

What do you wish you had more time to do?

Read.

Food you allow yourself to indulge in?

I never say no to a chip.

Favourite thing to do on a lazy Sunday?

Our local club has a daggy band that plays all afternoon. The kids dance , parents have a beer.

**Most memorable career point to date?

Finally meeting and interviewing Barry Manilow. My inner teenager is still giggling.**

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I pretended to be a paraplegic

I met John at a party. I was sitting down because I’d pulled my Achilles tendon in a skiing accident, so while everyone else was standing around, drinking, dancing and socialising, I was lonely. John came right over and started chatting. He was lovely. He told me that he worked as an occupational therapist, helping those with physical disabilities readjust.

I was instantly smitten with this kind and caring, handsome brown eyed man.

Although he must have assumed that I just had a broken leg or something, I couldn’t help myself — I told John that I had been paralysed in a car accident three months ago. John marvelled that I was already up and about at parties, but otherwise didn’t question my story.

We spent the whole party talking about what I could do to make my home an easier environment. He gave me his phone number and left, telling me to call him so he could come around and do an evaluation. I didn’t want to keep it up, but I didn’t think he was interested in me otherwise, and I was totally love-struck. I was going to have to keep pretending I was a paraplegic.

The next day, the first thing I did was to borrow a wheelchair. It wasn’t one of the new motorised ones, so I didn’t know how convincing it would be for someone who supposedly had a permanent disability. In the back of my mind, I knew that eventually John would probably mention my situation to one of our mutual friends, I just had to hope that I could bring him around — and have a miracle recovery — before that happened.

The first time he came around, I asked him not to mention that he was helping me. I told him that I’d been so devastated after the accident, I’d refused all help from my friends and family, and I didn’t want them to feel I was accepting help from an almost total stranger. John understood, and said that happened a lot. He gave me the numbers of some counsellors, and I promised to call.

The next few weeks followed a similar pattern. Always professional, John would come around and we would discuss how I was coping. He installed special ramps, seats and railings around the house. I was obsessed with getting close to him by then, because I didn’t even care that he was probably destroying my rental property. When he wasn’t there, I cursed the massive special seat that now took up half the shower!

But as time passed, John didn’t seem to want more — not even friendship. Whenever I tried to redirect the conversation away from my despicable lie to talk about him, he would only indulge me briefly, and then we had to talk about my illness again. I began to get desperate and realised I was going to have to up the ante.

One day, when John came around, he found me sprawled on the carpet, in a flood of made up tears. I told him I’d tried to reach for something, and had fallen out of my chair. I cried bitterly about how sick I was of being in a wheelchair. John picked me up and carried me to my bedroom. I doubt very much that he would have done anything — he was far too professional — but obviously I wasn’t half as honourable.

As John placed me on the bed, I reached up and kissed him. No further encouragement was needed. We spent the next two hours fused in passion. I finally got what I wanted.

As I lay awake later, I tried to figure out my next move. Obviously, I couldn’t pretend to be in a wheelchair for the rest of my life. But as it turned out, it didn’t even matter. When John rose to get dressed he seemed flustered and embarrassed. He told me he shouldn’t have slept with a client, and that he wouldn’t be able to see me anymore. I begged him to reconsider, but it was no use. John gave me the numbers for a few other occupational therapists and left.

I tried calling him over the next few days — I even considered telling him the truth — but it was all to no avail. I never heard from John again. I gave back the wheelchair and pulled out all the home “improvements”.

A few months later, I almost ran into John down the street. Panicked, I ducked behind a post box and considered, for the first time, how stupid my actions had been. From the word go, I’d completely blown my chances with John. Now all I could do was hold on to my dignity, and hope he never found out I’d faked a disability to be with him.

Picture: Getty Images. Posed by models.

Your say: Have you ever faked an illness or dire situation to get closer to someone? Have your say about this true confession below…

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Cat crazy!

Chloe, the poser, loves laying on her back and having her tummy rubbed.

— Linda

Bella loves to just hang out in the sink, especially when the water is running!

— Niki

Sox’B after a little tipple of port.

— Tess

This is our beautiful kitten Molly. She has brought us so much love and hapiness ever since we brought her home from the RSPCA. As you can see she has attitude!

— Michael

…he’s called ‘Skitsophrenic’ for a reason!

— Lizzie

This is Mango… being camera shy.

— Amanda

My little boy Audi, who loves to play with anything that I hold!

— Nikki

My new kitten Jack enjoying his side of the bed.

— Claire

This is my adorable cat Niño.

— Marcia

This is my cat, Sebastian, who was very annoyed to be rudely interrupted for a photo!

— Elisabeth

This is Russia… in a bad mood!

— Tayla

Misty Blue is one of the centerfold cats all grown up and so beautiful!

— Jan

This is my beautiful 9-week-old burmese kitten Shakespeare. He loves being involved with everything, even the housework!

— Marissa

Oscar’s warming up!

— Melissa

Pets have a way of forming an unbreakable bond — and not just with you. They are best mates with each other and, sometimes, with their toys! Don’t miss our Best Friends Forever slideshow.

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Chocolate: women’s favourite mood elevator?

A new independent survey has revealed that 44 percent of Australian women eat chocolate as a way of making themselves happier when they feel down or depressed.

The study, which was conducted on behalf of Jenny Craig, shows that chocolate and biscuits are the most popular snacks among Australian women, with 49 percent munching on biscuits throughout the day, 39 percent choosing potato chips and 33 percent opting for lollies.

The Weekly’s diet and fitness guru, Karen Inge says there is “anecdotal evidence which shows that women with low self-esteem are prone to eating more biscuits and women who are premenstrual or have a disappointing love life crave chocolate because it contains high levels of magnesium”.

“Women eat chocolate when they are depressed or stressed”, she continues, which could well explain why one-third of women in Australia also name chocolate as their biggest weakness.

Chocolate has been linked to serotonin levels in the brain for some time, and these chemicals are believed to play an important role in regulating emotions such as anger, aggression, sexuality, appetite and mood. In fact, a study reported by the BBC indicated that melting chocolate in one’s mouth produced an increase in brain activity and heart rate that was more intense than the rate associated with passionate kissing, and also lasted four times as long after the activity had ended.

Inge points out, however, that “it’s important to work out whether our cravings for salty, oily, or sweet junk food are physical or in the mind. You may physically be craving junk food because you are low in blood sugar or you may be feeling stressed, anxious, lonely or frustrated.”

“Moderation is key. Avoiding stress-based eating is learning to distinguish emotions from hunger. Be mindful of what you are feeling, and what situations make you crave unhealthy foods,” Inge says.

With obesity rates reaching record highs in Australia, our attitudes and relationships to food cravings — particularly foods high in saturated fats — require addressing now. Inge believes people must be taught to change the unhealthy relationship they have with food to one of balance and positive behaviour. “It’s about helping people understand what they eat, why they eat and how to eat better to be healthier,” she says.

YOUR SAY: Do you eat chocolate to feel better? Perhaps you have an alternative mood elevator? Tell us below!

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Pregnant man exclusive: ‘I can’t wait to hold my baby girl’

By Alison Crombie

Pictures: Regine Mahaux/Kristian Dowling/Getty Images

Pregnant Thomas Beatie shares his excitement at giving birth to a little girl, and being a father…

Sex-change patient Thomas Beatie hit the headlines when he revealed his pregnancy to the world.

Thomas, 34, from the north-west US state of Oregon, was born a woman and formerly known as Tracy Lagondino. Following gender reassignment surgery, he’s now legally male but chose to keep his female reproductive organs intact. His wife Nancy, whom he married in 2003, had a hysterectomy, so she couldn’t carry a child.

But Thomas’s first pregnancy — like this one, achieved through artificial insemination at home — ended in drama. He had an ectopic pregnancy with triplets, and the surgery to save his life removed all the embryos and his right fallopian tube. Happily, this pregnancy has been trouble-free.

And just like all parents, the couple are full of enthusiasm for the arrival of their baby girl.

Congratulations on your daughter’s imminent arrival. How has the pregnancy been?

It has been excellent. I’m 36 weeks pregnant, so almost due, but I feel fantastic. I’ve been so lucky — I didn’t have ailments or discomforts. I feel on top of the world. We’re so excited for her arrival. I just can’t wait to hold her in my arms and be a father.

Was it difficult to adjust to being pregnant? What did you find hard?

I have actually been very fortunate. When I became pregnant, I went online and read how a lot of women suffer from a lot of pain in their back, but I haven’t had any of that. It has been remarkably easy.

Did you find the scans an emotional experience?

Oh incredibly. It made our bond even stronger. To be able to see her face, her lips, her body … she went from being a figment of hope to a real person, our baby. The experience has been very special.

For the full interview, see this week’s Woman’s Day (on sale June 23, 2008).

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Pregnant man exclusive

“Love makes a family and that’s all that matters” — Thomas.

Thomas and Nancy have decked the baby’s nursery in yellow.

Thomas says the baby will be “Daddy’s little princess”.

The couple says their family has been very supportive of them.

“This is a normal pregnancy,” Thomas’ obstetrician, Dr Kimberly James said on The Oprah Winfrey Show.

Thomas has had some size difficulties with some of his usual clothes…

…including putting on his shoes!

Thomas has kept busy throughout his pregnancy…

Soon, the birds won’t be the only little creatures to love in this household.

The scar on Thomas’ belly are from a previous ectopic pregnancy.

“I feel fantastic,” Thomas has said. “I cannot wait to see my baby’s face.”

View our photo gallery of Jennifer Hawkins and Jake Wall. Australia’s hottest couple? You be the judge!

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Kate Middleton’s showdown with the palace

Royal correspondent Judy Wade reveals exclusively to Woman’s Day why Kate Middleton is in trouble with the Palace…

She hasn’t got a ring on her finger yet but already Kate Middleton has fallen out with the Queen.

Last month it was reported that Prince William’s grandmother was disappointed by Kate’s failure to hold down a regular job. But even before that story was published, there were whispers that Palace officials did not approve of Wills’ girlfriend.

Despite the great happiness she has brought William, a “Keep Knocking Kate” campaign, orchestrated by people close to the throne, has been ongoing for almost a year — with the apparent aim of splitting up the couple.

After reports of spiteful comments by courtiers about Kate’s middle-class upbringing, the Palace criticism now mostly centres on the alleged laziness of William’s 26-year-old girlfriend.

“What does she do all day?” asked one royal bodyguard. “All she seems to do is go on luxury holidays or fall out of nightclubs.”

For the full story, see this week’s Woman’s Day (on sale June 23).

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