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Think smarter, not harder

Are you sometimes stumped by the simplest question? It has nothing to do with being stupid, and everything to do with learning how to think more efficiently. Here’s how:

  • Hit ‘pause’ Avoid wasting time by asking people to repeat themselves (or misunderstanding what you were asked to do) by taking a ‘verbal photograph’ of the question; say something like, “Let me just recap what I think it is that you’re asking.”

  • Ask for more information Whether you’re deciding if a teenager can go to a dance, or if you should buy shares in a company, the process should be the same: you must have as many facts as possible so you can make an informed decision.

  • Consider different options Solving a problem doesn’t mean doing what you’ve always done before; nor does it mean coming up with a completely new idea. The best decisions are often a combination of an old idea and something fresh. Look for synergies: Are there two projects you’re working on that can be rolled together? Two trips in the same direction, but at different times, that you can reschedule? Give new ways of doing things a chance – many good ideas are killed by snap judgments.

  • Sleep on it Putting a decision aside for a while is often the only thing to do. Other people may not like the delay, but it’s better than making the wrong decision and then having to back-track. Even if you don’t wake up with the answer, at least you can attack the problem feeling refreshed.

  • Move your mind Do a crossword puzzle. Read a book. Go to an art gallery. According to a report in Science News, the very act of learning creates ‘neural efficiencies’ in your brain that make it easier to think clearly the rest of the time.

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An intimate interview with Michelle Obama

Michelle Obama is used to multi-tasking. For years, she has juggled the roles of wife, mother, public servant and mentor.

This month, she takes on another — that of First Lady — following her husband Barack Obama’s inauguration as the 44th president of the United States of America and the couple’s move into the White House with daughters Malia, 10, and Sasha, seven.

In this exclusive interview, conducted during the election campaign with US Good Housekeeping magazine’s editor-in-chief Rosemary Ellis, Michelle Obama discusses the matters closest to her heart.

See the style of past First Ladies, including Jackie Kennedy, Hillary Clinton and more here!

See pictures from President Barack Obama’s inauguration here

So, when your husband told you that he wanted to run for president, how did you feel about that? What was your first reaction?

Michelle Obama:

My first reaction was, “Don’t — please don’t”. Quite frankly, with every political run that Barack made, my instinct was to talk him out of it. I didn’t see the value in politics. I was probably cynical — like a lot of Americans — that you really can’t make change through the political process. So I spent a huge chunk of our marriage trying to convince him to do something more sensible to change the world, like be a school principal or write books.

But each and every time I confronted that doubt in my own mind, I started thinking beyond myself because the initial reaction is always how I would feel.

It’s always the selfish “This is going to be hard on me, it’s going to be hard on my girls”. But then I start thinking beyond me. I always joke that I took off my “me” hat and put on my “us” hat. Then I started thinking about the type of person I want to see in politics. And that always turned out to be a guy like Barack. I thought, how can I stand in the way of something that could help so many people? I have had advantages. I’ve been blessed. I’ve been lucky to come from a middle-class background and be able to go to some of the best schools in the country. So let’s give it a go. And if we can do something good, then the sacrifice is nothing in comparison.”

See the style of past First Ladies, including Jackie Kennedy, Hillary Clinton and more here!

To read the full interview with Michelle Obama, pick up your copy of the February issue of The Weekly — out now!

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Golden girl’s growing pains

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Glamour girl. Golden girl. Party girl. Olympic hero Stephanie Rice has had to wear all the media’s tags. Yet, as The Weekly discovers, none of the labels fits this essentially normal Aussie girl.

With the Australian flag billowing brilliantly behind her, Stephanie Rice lifts the hem of her Grecian goddess gown and expertly slips into sky-high stilettos. Cue a wind machine and the 20-year-old’s hair lifts from her shoulders buoyantly as the photographer instructs her to look this way and then the other.

It’s as if the impressive young woman posing is a veteran model, confident enough to stare down a camera like a pro, rather than someone who spends every day chasing a black line up and down a pool. Yet when the wind machine sends an errant strand of hair up Stephanie’s nose, resulting in her sneezing with enough gusto to send the belt of her gown pinging open and flying to the floor below, Stephanie reminds us, as she doubles over in hysterics, that she is, in fact, a young girl full of fun.

It’s good to see the swimming star enjoying herself. For someone whose life is a disciplined regimen of training, dieting and more training, in between keeping up with her sponsor and media commitments, belly laughs are a welcome respite. Yet Stephanie isn’t complaining. She knows that this is her time and is not about to waste a minute of it.

It’s hard to imagine now that, only a year ago, Stephanie Rice was hardly known. Sure, swim fans had noticed the teen from Brisbane clocking up some impressive times in the pool, or were aware of her first love relationship with fellow swimmer Eamon Sullivan, or that she was exceptionally attractive, “glamour girl”. Yet the glamour girl tag was replaced with “golden girl” in Beijing last year when Stephanie took home three gold medals: in the 200m and 400m medley, and as a member of the winning 4 x 200m relay team.

Following her victories, Stephanie was allowed her first break from training since she was 14 and decided to let her hair down and celebrate her success. The result, thanks to the publication in the press of candid photos of her enjoying herself, was another, far less flattering, monicker for the swimmer — that of party girl — which appears to have eclipsed even her sporting fame.

“I have always hoped to, one day, be someone who people respected, so getting all that great media I had in Beijing was awesome, as that was the person I wanted to be,” Stephanie explains of her bittersweet Olympics aftermath during a break in the photo shoot. “That time-frame [after Olympic success] was the only time I got to go out and have a good time.”

To read the full interview with Stephanie Rice, pick up your copy of the February issue of The Weekly — out now!

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Love my way…

Model-turned-TV presenter Kristy Hinze wore a stunning Oscar de la Renta gown as she wed US billionaire Jim Clark on the Caribbean island of Virgin Gorda.

The couple exchanged vows on Monday on a private beach at the Little Dix Bay Resort.

Check out the wedding pics and Kristy throughout her career here.

In pictures: Famous couples proving age doesn’t matter!

For someone known for her bubbly personality, Kristy Hinze is low on fizz this otherwise glorious Sydney morning. With her long legs curled in a hotel lounge chair and her blonde hair pulled back in a tight ponytail, revealing the honey planes of her cheekbones and those feline-green, almond-shaped eyes, she seems more timid than normal, a little shell-shocked and wary even.

The answer to her reserve possibly lies at her feet: a newspaper that appears more tossed than folded by its last peruser. “It seems I am buying a $15million waterfront mansion today, according to that,” she says, looking down dismissively at the tabloid in question. “I find it amazing that they can write garbage and get away with it. It’s almost laughable…”

It is sad to see the normally ebullient and quick-witted model so “disappointed more than angry”. It should be the happiest time of her life. She is home in Australia for the holidays, surrounded by friends and family, and is not only madly in love, but about to be married. Yet it appears others do not share Kristy’s joy — mainly those who don’t know her, mind you — perceiving the union to have more sinister motives than two like-minded souls deciding they want to share the rest of their lives together.

See beautiful Kristy throughout her career here.

Since Kristy met and fell for Jim Clark three years ago, theirs has been a union plagued by speculation and controversy. Not only is Jim 35 years older than the 29-year-old Kristy, he is also a three-times married billionaire, his wealth the result of inventing the web browser Netscape. As a result, Kristy has endured being branded “the new Anna Nicole Smith”, a “gold digger” and even a prettier version of Paul McCartney’s notorious ex-wife, Heather Mills. Add to this the headlines on stories about the couple, such as “the old and the beautiful”, and it would be hard for anyone to remain perky under such savage scrutiny.

“I understand people are interested in my life, but I try not to be affected by it because when you let it get to you, that’s when you start getting bitter and that’s just not me,” Kristy says.

Check out the wedding pics and Kristy throughout her career here!

To read the full interview with Kristy Hinze, pick up your copy of the February issue of The Weekly — out now!

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Cops and robbers — the new *Underbelly* stars

Underbelly: A Tale of Two Cities, the prequel to the Nine Network’s hit TV series, can boast a stellar cast of Australia’s finest male actors — all relishing the chance to play the good guys and bad.

Click here to see our shoot with the hot Aussie cast of Underbelly

“Just call me Polyester George,” says Peter. “Everything I wear in the series is 110 per cent flammable.” Which is a worry because Peter, who is married to actress Miranda Otto and has a daughter Darcey, three, is currently red hot.

Preparing to portray a notorious 1970s drugs syndicate boss isn’t always easy. “Terry was a shadowy character who travelled with 40 different passports, so I had to really search for information on him, which is a compliment to how ruthless he was, I guess,” says Matthew.

His doe eyes would put Bambi to shame, yet Dustin still manages to avoid being typecast as Mr Nice Guy. Fresh from playing a prostitute on Foxtel’s raunchy series Satisfaction, Dustin has moved on to portray the underworld’s infamous “Mr Rentokil”, a ruthless killer believed responsible for up to 14 murders and who disappeared, presumed dead, in 1985.

The respected character actor is relishing his new role as one of Australia’s most colourful criminal identities, who made a living dealing drugs and organising for people to be killed.

He may be playing a TV cop up against some of Australia’s toughest criminals, but Matt reckons his other acting job is the real killer. “I’ve been doing Play School all week and, let me tell you, it’s like doing Pilates nine hours a day.”

Dieter was only 15 when he became a teenage pin-up in Home and Away. Today, an older, wiser Dieter reflects on fame as “all a bit mental”.

Click here to see out shoot with the hot Aussie cast of Underbelly

To read more from the new cast of Underbelly, pick up your copy of the February issue of The Weekly — out now!

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Digital gifts for tech-savvy mums

Any mum with scamper-prone littlies will love this. Clip the Giggle Bug to a child’s clothing and if they wander away or hide, you press the button on the handset and the Bug gives out a distinctive beep until the toddler is found and the unit is reset. The locater has a range of 20-30 metres indoors and 30 metres plus outdoors. Great for de-stressing those shopping centre and playground dramas!

Stockists: Click here.

Mum can trim her carbon footprint one PC at a time with this little gizmo. It plugs into a computer’s USB port and she simply gives it a tap every time she leaves the desk. The button ensures the computer and monitor draw as little power as possible while they’re not being used. And when Mum reactivates her PC, she gets to see how many carbon units she saved (Note: This is not Mac compatible).

Stockists: Click here or call (02) 6242 0422.

This is the only vacuum cleaner a techy mum will want to see on Mother’s Day. This little sucker plugs into a computer’s USB port to help her keep the keyboard dust-free. Make up a gift certificate to say you’ll be doing the household vacuuming for a month and your mum will love you even more.

Stockists: Click here.

If your mum complains about her tea getting cold while she surfs the net, she’ll love this gadget. This cup warmer plugs into the computer’s USB port to keep a cup of tea or coffee nicely toasty for longer. The device includes a four-port USB hub, clock, alarm and temperature readings for both the warmer plate and the indoor temperature. Just don’t spill the drink on the keyboard! (Mug not included)

Stockists: Click here or call (02) 6242 0422.

If Mum is studying, or takes lots of notes for her work, she’ll love this. The IntelliPen with Flash Drive means you can write on regular paper while the device captures and stores all your writing and drawings. You then upload the stored data to a PC via a standard USB port. Handwritten notes can be transferred into text using the handwriting recognition software. That certainly saves a lot of time typing! (version with cable is $69)

Stockists: Visit www.officeworks.com.au or call 1300 633 423.

The Chumby has been described as the internet disguised as “a teddy bear for the 21st century”. Needing just a power outlet and a wifi connection, this cuddly gadget streams your favourite parts of the internet to its 3.5-inch colour touchscreen. Software programs, called widgets, can stream anything from weather forecasts and sports scores to eBay bids and online radio stations. Mum could pop it on the kitchen bench or the bedside table, but be warned — she may find it strangely addictive.

Stockists: Visit chumby.on.net or call 13 66 33.

A very stylish way for Mum to store her essential files and data! This compact memory gadget measures just 40.6mm long by 18.4mm wide and is only 7.2mm thick, but it has huge capacity, a high-speed USB 2.0 transfer, and a PC lock so you can protect your computer while you’re away. Download the JetFlashR data management software tools and you can check your email from any compatible computer, too.

Stockists: Visit www.officeworks.com.au or call 1300 633 423.

Busy mums won’t have to worry about losing their memory [sticks] with this simple, clever case in heavy-duty neoprene (the wetsuit material). The Peanut has a sturdy stainless-steel ring you can attach to almost anything.

Stockists: Click here or call (02) 8594 1100.

She’s a happy piece of Swarovski crystal bling that can be worn as a pendant or charm, but Robot Dreamy Tina is also a 2GB USB key with a high-speed 2.0 interface that can store up to 500 songs or 2000 photos. Her LED ears light up during data transfer. Extravagant? Yes. But delightful, too.

Stockists: Visit www.swarovski.com.au or call 1300 791 599.

Created by a Melbourne company, this is one funky laptop bag. It protects a 17-inch with a removable padded divider, and there’s a separate pouch for the power supply and mouse. And yes, the shoulder strap is a genuine aeroplane seatbelt, so it’s not going to snap. The rushfaster website has loads of laptop bags and is well worth a look.

Stockists: Click here or call (02) 8594 1100.

Digital camera technology just keeps delivering more bang for your buck. The Canon PowerShot A480, with face detection, motion detection and red-eye reduction, is great for family snaps. It also has a movie recording mode with sound. And the techy stuff? It takes photos of 10 megapixel size, has a 3.3X optical zoom and is SD/SDHC memory card compatible.

Stockists: Visit www.harveynorman.com.au or call 1300 464 278.

Mum can ditch the zip and keep a slimline camera or MP3 player safe and snug in a Hoodie. Made of neoprene (the wetsuit material), this stretchy, cushiony case has a harder back to protect any screen and an interior pocket to store memory cards and extra batteries. The stretchable fold-over hood keeps everything secure.

Stockists: Click here or call (02) 8594 1100.

Mum can load this keyring with more than 100 digital photos of her favourite people and have it with her wherever she goes. It features a 1.5-inch LCD panel and includes software.

Stockists: Visit www.officeworks.com.au or call 1300 633 423.

Mum can display a slide show of family photos with a digital photo frame. This one from Kodak has easy to operate touch controls, a 480 x 234 pixel resolution, accepts CF, SD, MS and XD memory cards and USB storage drives. It also has a remote control.

Stockists: Visit www.harveynorman.com.au or call 1300 464 278.

Help Mum to never get lost on her way to those cross-town kids’ soccer matches. This pocket-sized device also has features such as ETA, Distance to Go, Speed and Detour Journeys, and it can locate the nearest petrol stations, parking or emergency services. Handy!

Stockists: Visit www.officeworks.com.au or call 1300 633 423.

This speakerphone is designed for use with mobile phones while driving. It attaches to the car’s sun visor with a magnetic clip and lets Mum answer mobile calls while she’s behind the wheel. Text-to-speech technology features a voice who announces the name of an incoming caller. And you can answer the phone, dial and redial numbers and reject calls with a voice command, so there’s no need to press any buttons.

Stockists: Visit www.officeworks.com.au or call 1300 633 423.

Carrying on a phone conversation can be a problem when a mum needs her hands free to push a stroller or deal with a youngster, but this little wireless headset could solve that dilemma. It has a light, ergonomic design that fits snugly on the ear and ambient noise reduction so calls come through loud and clear. It works with mobile phones, PDAs and other Bluetooth-equipped devices.

Stockists: Visit www.officeworks.com.au or call 1300 633 423.

If Mum packs an iPhone, here’s an eye-candy accessory that’s as cool as the technology. The CapsuleRebel case delivers above average protection, with a clear film for the iPhone’s front, a semi-soft polymer shell for its back and a hard plastic spine for reinforcement. And the colours are to sigh for.

Stockists: Click here or call (02) 8594 1100.

Music on the go for an easy price! Any mum would love this new-century Walkman. As well as playing MP3s, it includes an FM radio and has a voice recording function for those out-the-door moments of inpiration. It has a bass enhancement button for better music listening and, best of all, a three-minute charge gives you 90 minutes of playback time.

Stockists: Visit www.officeworks.com.au or call 1300 633 423.

Apple bills this as the smallest music player in the world and as it’s around the size of a house key they’re probably right. The tiny gadget has a sturdy clip and its controls are on the earbud cord. As well as holding up to 1000 songs, this iPod also has VoiceOver technology that with the press of a button tells you what song is playing and the artist. A less pricey option is the 1GB iPod shuffle, which costs around $65, comes in a cute range of colours and holds around 240 songs.

Stockists: Visit www.harveynorman.com.au or call 1300 464 278 (also available at Officeworks and other Apple iPod outlets).

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David Jones Autumn / Winter 2010 fashion show

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Miranda Kerr was the star attraction of the David Jones Autumn/Winter 2010 Fashion Launch at the Hordern Pavilion on February 10, 2010 in Sydney. Here she showcases a design by Bianca Spender.

Here is a selection of the different styles and designers on show as well as some star spotting on the front row…

Richard Wilkins and Richard Reid from channel 9’s TODAY show arrive on the red carpet.

Race horse trainer Gai Waterhouse arrives on the red carpet.

Models showcase designs by George Gross and Harry Who on the catwalk.

Layne Beachley and Maggie Tabberer enjoying the fashion show from the front row.

Miranda Kerr showcases designs by Willow.

A model showcases designs by Akira.

A model showcases designs by Easton Pearson.

A model showcases designs by Anna Thomas.

A model showcases designs by Easton Pearson.

Model Megan Gale watches front row the David Jones Autumn/Winter 2010 Fashion Launch.

Models showcase designs on the catwalk during the David Jones Autumn/Winter 2010 Fashion Launch.

Model Miranda Kerr showcases designs by Collette Dinnigan.

Miranda Kerr showcases designs by Thurley.

A model showcases designs by Lisa Ho.

A model showcases designs by Simona.

Nicole Trunfio, Miranda Kerr and Alexandra Agoston-O’Connor showcase designs by Sass & Bide at the finale.

The finale of the David Jones Autumn/Winter 2010 Fashion Launch.

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‘I have somebody else’s hands’

**Words and pictures: Cynthia Vice Acosta LLC.

Making medical history also made Alba Lucia Cardona the happiest woman in the world**

Every time Alba Lucia Cardona, 49, picks up a knife and fork or puts on some lipstick, she sends out a small prayer of thanks to a woman she’s never met. Alba, who works as a nurse, is the first woman in the world to receive a double hand transplant.

After losing her hands when she was 19 in a classroom chemistry accident, Alba lived a life of misery until she received the transplants at the age of 47.

She had immigrated to Spain from her native Colombia “for a better life” and there saw a television program about a Dr Cavadas’ successful surgery to reattach a severed arm on a Spanish fisherman. She wrote to him begging for help.

Two-and-a-half years later, the day came that would change her life for ever.

“Dr Cavadas called me to say a suitable donor had been found. I had just over an hour to get to hospital.”

At 10pm that night, after an 11-hour operation, Alba made medical history.

“When I woke up and first saw my new hands, I couldn’t believe how beautiful they were,” remembers Alba. “They looked like the hands of a pianist and I just kept thanking the nurses over and over as they changed my bandages.”

For the full story, see this week’s Woman’s Day (on sale January 19).

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Brad and Ange steal the show

Four years and six kids later, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie still only had eyes for each other at the Golden Globe Awards…

Never mind the winners, it was Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie who stole the limelight at the Golden Globe Awards as the hottest couple in Hollywood.

With Brad looking dapper in a black tuxedo and Angelina sparkling in a silver floor-length Versace gown, it was a much welcomed date-night for the parents of six, who couldn’t keep their hands off each other throughout the ceremony.

Brad and Angelina missed out on winning their nominated categories for best actor and actress, but that didn’t spoil the couple’s mood as they gazed at each other adoringly and whispered in each other’s ears.

After the presentation, they indulged in some adult fun at a Paramount studio party where, a witness says, they were “all over each other and grabbing each other’s a–es”. Ange also indulged in a wine or two, ending rumours she’s expecting her seventh child.

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Patrick Swayze: A lifetime of love

His one great love, the soul mate he met when they were teens, Lisa Niemi has been by his side every step of his battle…

As one of Hollywood’s leading heartthrobs, Patrick Swayze literally had his pick of the world’s most beautiful women › but even at the height of his fame, he only had eyes for his one true love.

So strong is their bond, that Patrick says he wouldn’t have been able to fight his battle with pancreatic cancer without Lisa Niemi, 52, by his side.

In an emotional interview with US talk show host Barbara Walters, the actor told how Lisa’s faith in him made him believe he could fight the terrible disease ravaging his body.

“I don’t think I can handle what I’m going through if it weren’t for her,” Patrick, 56, told Barbara this month. “I have no greater respect for any other human being on this earth like I have for her. This journey … she’s helped me get through it … you can feel a real power, a real chemistry between us, like we’re soul mates.”

Shortly after the interview Patrick took a turn for the worse. Struck down with pneumonia, he was hospitalised within days of appearing on TV and, at the time of going to press, was fighting a renewed battle.

Patrick’s mother Patsy told a US magazine that her son sounded “really upbeat and positive”, and was “doing fine”.

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