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Fiona O’Loughlin’s drinking shame: ‘I thought I needed a double vodka to be funny’

In a brave and candid interview, the Woman’s Day’s columnist tells Patrice Fidgeon of her alcohol hell and how she’s fighting back.

As falls from grace go, they don’t come much more spectacular than comedian Fiona O’Loughlin‘s drunken collapse during a live comedy show in Brisbane just days before she was set to make her debut as a celebrity contestant on Dancing With The Stars.

Rushed to hospital after she fell off a couch, crawled across the floor and slurred her words on stage, the mother of five and 2009 Northern Territory Australian of the Year winner last week said the words she’s been avoiding for at least five years: “I am an alcoholic”.

Now, as she battles towards rehabilitation, Fiona, 45, reveals to Woman’s Day the hell she has been through.

“It was a monster lying dormant for years. There has been a lot of denial – for a long time,” says Fiona.

“I tried to kid myself I was managing it, but I was a train crash about to happen.”

Fiona says she can’t even remember how much she drank that fateful night.

“I have virtually no recall of the show in Brisbane,” she says. “All I know is I woke up in hospital with patches all over my chest as doctors monitored my heart. After that, I knew I had no choice but to come out and admit I was an alcoholic.”

And while she’s desperately embarrassed and feels greatly ashamed, Fiona is determined to turn her life around.

“I feel very, very lucky that I had this hugely public wake-up call. Otherwise, I hate to think how I could’ve ended up.”

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The punch-up over Sonia Kruger

The DWTS host’s marriage split gets ugly, with disputes over their $4 million properties, rows over who gets to keep the dog, and a fist-fight between her ex-husband and her new love. Angela Mollard investigates.

On television she is the perfect polished host, but behind the scenes Sonia Kruger is embroiled in a bitter divorce battle which has escalated into a vicious punch-up between her husband and her new boyfriend.

In a shocking twist of fortune for the highly regarded presenter, Woman’s Day can reveal that Sonia watched in horror as her husband James Davies became involved in a brawl with her new boyfriend, Craig McPherson.

The fight, which left James with a broken nose, occurred in broad daylight in the leafy Sydney suburb of St Ives and is the result of simmering tensions between Sonia and her banker husband.

Although she is showing no signs of stress in her high-profile role on Dancing With The Stars, Woman’s Day has discovered that away from the cameras, Sonia is fighting an ugly battle over finances, property and a pet dog.

After weeks of investigation, we can reveal the full details of the nasty punch-up, the couple’s bizarre living arrangements, the tension over having children and the real problems which led to her marriage break-up.

Although Sonia recently returned from a romantic Italian holiday with her new love Craig and has openly discussed having a child with her radio co-host Todd McKenney, we can reveal that she is still living with her husband James. Six months after they split they continue to share their five-bedroom mansion on Sydney’s Upper North Shore, with neither prepared to move out as they fight over their property and assets.

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Cricket WAG Jessica hits back

Mitchell Johnson’s fiancée talks to Angela Mollard about her future mother-in-law’s savage attack.

Jessica Bratich, fiancée of star fast bowler Mitchell Johnson, has hit back at her future mother-in-law’s claims that she’s a gold-digger who has stolen her son from her.

Jessica said she did not want to be drawn into a catfight but was “disappointed” by Mitchell’s mother’s cruel attack on her on the eve of the Ashes series.

“I think it’s very sad and very disappointing, but I’m not interested in discussing it in the public arena,” said Jessica, at the First Test in Cardiff.

Mitchell’s mum Vikki Harber said Jessica was riding on her son’s coat tails and was more interested in self-promotion than Mitchell. “I believe she self promotes herself,” Vikki told A Current Affair.

Saying that Jessica had sent her an email telling her she was a bad mother, Vikki continued: “I thought it was a bit rude and I would never speak to someone’s mother that way, and fair enough, I’d spoken to Mitchell and said I thought she was a bit of a gold-digger, but I still don’t think I deserved that.”

As Woman’s Day went to print, Jessica was too dignified to respond to the personal attack. The gorgeous karate champion said simply, “I want to support Mitch and his cricket.”

Although Vikki also slammed her son, saying she had barely heard from him since he started going out with Jessica, the outburst did not appear to rattle Mitchell as he took two quick wickets in the opening session of the First Test.

Asked if her fiancé had been upset by his mother’s comments, Jessica said smoothly, “From the look of today’s game he’s focused on what he’s here to do.”

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Oh, Mother!

Goldie Hawn and Kate Hudson might appear close on the red carpet, but Kate probably wishes her mum would stop directing her love life – Goldie recently told her daughter to dump her boyfriend Alex Rodriguez.

Demi Moore‘s eldest daughter Rumer Willis was allegedly devastated when her mother married the much younger actor Ashton Kutcher. He was Rumer’s schoolgirl crush at the time!

If you thought your mother-in-law was tough, spare a thought for Princess Mary. Prince Frederik’s mother is not only head of the household but head of Denmark!

Some reports claim Queen Margrethe was initially so unhappy with the idea of her son marrying a commoner she tried to woo him away by inviting European princesses to Copenhagen.

Gorgeous Reese Witherspoon has said her children Ava and Deacon are often embarrassed by their ‘daggy’ mum, especially when she breaks into song. Says Reese: “I love to sing around the house and in the car, but my daughter hates it.”

Cooking is Nigella Lawson‘s biggest talent, but her kids don’t seem to think so. The celebrity chef claims her children won’t touch any food she serves them!

Madonna and her daughter Lourdes are said to have a rocky relationship, because the 50-year-old singer is jealous of her child’s blossoming beauty! While poor Lourdes had to deal with her mum’s skimpy stage outfits on her recent Sticky and Sweet tour, Madonna was giving her make-up team strict instructions to stay away from Lourdes’ bushy eyebrows.

Jessica Simpson‘s mother Tina caused red faces recently when she allegedly told the pop star her singing was “embarrassing”. Not nearly as embarrassing as being told off by your mum at the age of 28!

Victoria Beckham aka Posh Spice says her sons Brooklyn, Cruz and Romeo like music but hate her singing. She told teachers at Brooklyn’s school she could never get her boys to listen to the Spice Girls.

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A passion for passionfruit

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For many years, the first thing I did when I came home was eat a passionfruit. When I was small, a passionfruit vine grew over our outdoor toilet, in the days before the last of the Brisbane suburbs were connected to the sewerage system. By the time I was in high school, our passionfruit vine grew over the fence instead. And while I was at uni, we had an enormous vine growing up an avocado tree.

These days I’m living in a colder climate, and a passionfruit vine grows against the stone wall above my study window. I can enjoy the white and purple flowers in spring and summer, the plop of purple fruit, and the red-browed finches which build their nest in the vine every spring.

But mostly, I still love eating the fruit! There is nothing like a sun-hot, freshly picked passionfruit. Eat the flesh straight from the vine with a spoon. Scoop it over ice-cream, or stir into orange and other juices, on pavlovas and on iced cakes or in cream sponges. Add pulp instead of liquid in plain cake or biscuit recipes to make them passionfruit-flavoured instead.

Passionfruit are one of the most generous fruits you can grow. They take up almost no room, as they need to clamber onto something. Cover up a bare or ugly fence with a passionfruit vine, or grow them over a trellis or pergola. They grow fast, too. In hot climates you’ll have fruit in a few months; in cooler ones you may have to wait a year.

Passionfruit would be worth growing even if they didn’t fruit, with their white and purple flowers, and glossy leaves. The banana passionfruit, which is even more tolerant of the cold and more vigorous than ordinary passionfruit, has enormous, vivid pink flowers instead.

Passionfruit have a reputation for being short-lived — and it’s true that they may have to be replanted every five years. But the vines grow so fast and so easily that this is no hardship. Try planting a passionfruit at one end of your fence now and in three years’ time, plant another at the other end. By the time your first passionfruit has lost its vigour the other will be thriving.

Where to grow:

Ordinary passionfruit do best in temperate to subtropical climates. In cooler areas try banana passionfruit in protected spots against a sunny wall or, in tropical areas, plant big, juicy granadilla. In all cases buy grafted vines — they are much hardier and faster growing than seedlings. All passionfruit vines need full sun and shelter from winds. Passionfruit also grow very well in large pots on a balcony.

Keeping them alive:

A poorly growing passionfruit vine usually gets sick; the leaves turn yellow or the fruit becomes thick-skinned with no pulp inside. This is usually due to a virus — but only poorly growing passionfruit get it. A strongly growing vine outgrows almost all problems, including root rots and pests. Feed plants each month with a scatter of hen manure; give at least one dose of seaweed fertiliser a year and mulch!

Most passionfruit are grafted and the graft suckers. Pull the suckers up at once or they can wander all over the place. They’re easy to spot; the leaves will be narrow and the vine will be narrower, too.

Harvest:

In warm areas the vines fruit most of the year; in colder areas in late summer. Pick the fruit when they change colour or shrivel just slightly, or when they drop off the vine.

Store:

Pick passionfruit for storage when they have a good rich colour and feel heavy. If you are buying them, choose heavy ones, too; light ones have less pulp. They will keep for several months in the fridge or a cool cupboard, but will gradually lose their sweetness. Passionfruit pulp can be frozen in iceblocks for later use.

Passionfruit cordial:

Does anyone out there remember what Passiona soft drink used to taste like when they were five years old. Well, homemade passionfruit cordial tastes like that but a hundred times better. It is one of those lovely luxuries that every home should have. Here’s how to make your own.

2 cups white sugar

1 cup passionfruit pulp

3 cups water

juice of two large lemons

2 level teaspoons tartaric acid

Place the white sugar and water in a saucepan. Boil for five minutes. Add the passionfruit pulp, tartaric acid and lemon juice. Boil for five minutes. Strain. Throw the pulp to the chooks. Bottle the liquid.

To use: Place a couple of tablespoons in a glass; add cold water.

To store: Keep in a cool place, either a dark cupboard or the fridge, for up to a month. Throw it out if it bubbles, looks or tastes peculiar or grows mould.

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Kilojule cutting could be key to longer life

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Research on rhesus monkeys shows a reduced kilojule diet could slow the ageing process

A 20-year study of monkeys in the US has found that reducing the kilojoule intake slowed the ageing process and increased their lifespan.

The Wisconsin National Primate Research Center monitored 76 rhesus monkeys — 30 since 1989, and 46 since 1994 — to study what cutting their diet by 30 percent would do to them.

Since 1989, almost 40 percent of the monkeys in the regular diet group have died of age-related diseases in comparison to only 13 percent of the kilojoule-cut monkeys.

Other differences between the groups were in the incidence of cancerous tumours and heart disease. The kilojoule-reduced group had less than half that of the monkeys who remained on their regular diet.

Another finding, the researchers announced, was that the kilojoule-reduced group retained more muscle — another element that tends to shrink with age.

Dr David Finkelstein of the National Institute on Aging in America told MSNBC that undertaking a kilojoule cut on your own could do more harm than good if the wrong nutrients are cut out.

The first reports of the effect a kilojoule-cut diet can have was in 1935, when researchers first noticed that a nutritious but kilojoule-reduced diet seemed to be a Fountain of Youth for rodents.

Your say: Do you think this research has implications for humans? Would you be prepared to cut your diet by 30 percent?

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Ready, steady, grow!

By the time your children reach Year 12, they will have spent nearly 14,500 hours at school (12 years of 40 weeks a year, five days a week, six hours a day), so it’s best to make sure their schoolyard is a stimulating environment, with flowers, grass, leaves and trees.

Not only is gardening fun for children, it’s great exercise and an excellent way to learn where fruit and vegetables come from. Schoolyards can be places where children learn the basics of botany, zoology, physics and cooking, from how to grow their own vegies to how to make olive oil.

Schoolyards are also places where kids can be active. Children find it hard to concentrate when they haven’t been “de-bounced” – put simply, they need physical play or they fidget.

Your say: What are your ideas for school gardening projects? Have you seen any brilliant school gardening projects? Tell us more at [email protected]

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10 reasons to be happy about the GFC

We're betting that most, if not all, are beneficial to you.
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1. Australia is doing better than most of the rest of the world. According to a recent international business confidence survey, Australia is perceived as the best country in the world to cope with the global financial crisis (GFC). 

2. Unemployment can be a time to reconsider your career goals and retrain to do something you always wanted to do. 

3. Property is one of the biggest ways ordinary Australians make money and it has never been so ripe for investment. Prices and interest rates are low and rental returns are decent. 

4. Our natural resources make us well placed for another nice run on the stock market when there is eventually an upturn. 

5. Oil prices are low for now. Filling up on petrol and travelling around Australia is now nearly cheaper than flying. Flights have become cheaper too! 

6. Our dollar is okay for travelling overseas, recovering recently to US$0.80.

7. You have a perfect excuse not to go to any event you don’t want to go to. For example, if you’d like to avoid going to your annoying relative’s hen’s night just say you can’t afford it!

8. Sales are really sales and often you’ll be the only one there! (Spend the money from the hen’s night you escaped.)

9. The 50 per cent investment allowance means it is possible, for those who qualify, to get up to a 140 per cent tax deduction on a new car! Now that’s just crazy. The more expensive the car, the greater the value of the tax deduction you’ll get.

10. The cash grab. A bit like father Christmas, the federal government is handing out cash and asking people to spend it — on anything. The small problem is we’ll all have to pay for it one day, but it is fun having cash and being told we must spend it!

Virginia Graham is a mortgage broker for Model Mortgages.

Your say: What are your reasons to be happy about the GFC? Email us on [email protected]

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Breast cancer mum: I want boobs for my wedding day

Donna Marett has lost one breast to cancer. Now her other breast must be removed. She tells Jo Knowsley she wants a reconstruction so she can feel like a womanly bride.

When Sunshine Coast mum Donna Marett fell in love with Jason Penny, she was thrilled to have finally met the man of her dreams.

But as their relationship grew, and they had a little boy together — Kai, now 3 — she never imagined she would have to battle life-threatening breast cancer before they could walk down the aisle.

Donna, 36, had her right breast removed in July last year, after two lumpectomies failed to halt her spreading cancer. Now, almost exactly a year later, she will have her left breast removed after learning that it is full of fibro glandular tissue, which makes it harder to detect breast cancer, should the disease return.

“It wasn’t a hard decision,” she says.

“The first time was very traumatic. But I’m determined to beat this.

“I have stood in front of the mirror and said to the cancer, ‘I’ve beaten you; you haven’t beaten me.’

“And I have a lot to live for. I have a wonderful fiancé and two beautiful boys [Aidan, 14, is from an earlier relationship]. Then there is Jason’s little boy Tyson [10], who lives with us part time. And Jason and I are getting married in November.

I want our wedding to be a huge party — an enormous celebration of life, of the fact that I’m still here.

“But losing a breast — and soon both of them — is devastating. It’s had a big impact on my confidence and on my more intimate relationship with Jason. I just don’t like him to look at me.

“Breasts are a symbol of femininity and womanliness in our society. And I want to feel like a whole woman at our wedding.”

For the full story see this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale July 6, 2009

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Jacko – just like Heath

Jacko’s death has reopened old wounds for Heath Ledger’s family. His dad Kim talks to Natalee Fuhrmann in Perth.

Kim Ledger’s grief for his son is with him every day, but the similarities between Heath’s overdose from prescription drugs and Michael Jackson’s death have left the family reeling.

“On the day Michael died I spoke to my daughters and former wife Sally and we all had such a down day,” Kim says.

It has been almost 18 months since Heath, 28, was found in his rented New York bachelor pad, unconscious after taking a toxic combination of drugs. Kim says the period is too painful to remember clearly, but he has some understanding of what the Jacksons are going through.

“In the first couple of weeks it’s crazy and you’re just trying to come to grips with the enormity of it,” recalls the quietly spoken father.

“There was a funeral to arrange and we didn’t want just anyone doing it. It’s a very private thing and with Heath being so private we wanted it to reflect that.

“Heath [and Michael] were both very private and as the closest people to them, you want to protect that. We found ourselves asking each other, ‘Would Heath have done it this way?’ If not, then we weren’t going to either.

“It’s not for me to advise the Jackson family how to get through this, but what I will say is the saddest times are now, one-and-a-half years later. The media interest has died down, so I’m no longer surrounded by Heath and all I want to do is pick up the phone, but I can’t.”

Kim is blunt about the role drugs played in both the deaths.

“At the end of the day we’re all responsible for what goes into us and I blame Heath for not being responsible,” admits Kim, whose famous actor son combined drugs prescribed by a trio of doctors across three countries, while battling insomnia and the flu.

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