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Surprising things that cause headaches

Headaches are nasty little things that can interrupt your day at any given time. But did you know that it’s not just your gender and genetics that can cause them? There are some things that we do that give us the head hurt. Avoid these and you might find yourself a little less prone to use the old “I’ve got a headache” line.

An increase in the temperature might make you smile but it can also be the cause of your headache. Changes in barometric pressure can also cause a headache as can a change in altitude.

Have you ever walked through the fragrance section of a department store and made it out the other side only to be left with a throbbing reminder of the overpowering smell? You’re not alone. Overpowering smells, even nice ones, can overstimulate your nervous system and the result is a headache.

Your hair might be making a fabulous fashion statement but the pulling and the strain your headband, braid or hat is putting on your head can cause a headache.

Like other organs in the body, the brain gets dehydrated and one of the main side effects of a water-free day can be a headache. Keep a water bottle on your desk and drink at least two litres a day.

Caffeine on its own is not necessarily a bad thing. But too much of this stimulating substance can cause you a headache. On the other hand for those of us that can’t get past nine o’clock without a hit from the barista, skipping your daily caffeine fix to start a detox could cause you a withdrawal headache.

It’s not just those who work vigorously outdoors that get headaches from work. Sitting down in front of a computer all day can strain your neck and head muscles. And this can be magnified if you slouch. Try and check your posture at least every half hour and get up and have a bit of a stretch every hour.

An ingredient in red wine, tyramine, is the culprit of those nasty red wine headaches. Alcohol increases blood flow to the brain and can make the headache more intense.

A dip in blood sugar levels can be the cause of a headache. This can happen when you have skipped a mean and you could get a headache even before you realise you are hungry.

Cigarette smoke can cause you a nasty headache, even if you’re not a smoker. Second-hand smoke contains nicotine, which causes the blood vessels of the brain to shrink and presenting you with pain often on one side of the brain.

Like any exercise, sex can lead to an exertion headache. The headache is caused as the blood vessels in the brain expand, building up pressure.

Yes, your boss really can give you a headache! Anything that increases the stress levels of the body can lead to tension headaches. Tension headaches are one of the most common forms of headache with recent international studies suggesting 42 percent of women suffering.

Many people find that there are certain foods that will trigger a headache. Chocolate and peanuts are common sources of pain. Processed meats can also be a trigger for a headache as they contain nitrates. Related: the top five diet mistakes

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Carla Bruni: first lady fatale

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Why Carla Bruni rejects feminism

Once a nude model and free-spirited rebel, Carla Bruni-Sarkozy has put away the Playboy vamp to become an elegant, charming and popular French First Lady, writes Chrissy Iley.

She used to smile and say “sex” instead of “fromage” during her supermodel photo shoots. By her own admission, “Okay, I flirt. I flirt with everything. Even inanimate objects.”

She used to say, “I am monogamous from time to time, but I prefer polygamy.” Outrageous, witty, voracious, Carla Bruni was all about appetite, never self-censure. She was bohemian. She was a muse for rock legend Eric Clapton and dated Rolling Stones frontman Mick Jagger for seven years, partly in secret while he was still married to Jerry Hall.

Now she is married to the President of France, Nicolas Sarkozy, she is still about sexy. Yet she has disguised it. Just as she used to put on a disguise to hide from the paparazzi when she was dating Mick, it’s been said she still sometimes wears a wig and a disguise, not so much to hide, but because she likes the idea of swapping roles.

When she and Nicolas first started dating, her look was jeans with a G-string appearing above them. A flat stomach, skimpy bikini, long and tousled hair, she was pictured on motorbikes. Although she admits she was never shy or prudish, her clothes now stress the idea, “I am not immoral or vulgar”. The French expect their First Lady to be elegant.

Now she dresses in Dior. She caused a stir in a matronly Galliano for Dior coat. It could have been Margaret Thatcher, yet she still made it strangely sexy. She favours elegant. She cut centimetres off her hair and heels – she wears ballet pumps so as not to dwarf her husband. She looks more serious, reined in. She put away Playboy vamp, but somehow that didn’t diminish her and it certainly hasn’t hurt Nicolas’ popularity.

They first met at a dinner party in November 2007 hosted by Jacques Séguéla, an advertising mogul and former socialist who was a convert to the Sarkozy campaign. The frisson between Carla and Nicolas was obvious to all present. “It was love at first sight,” she has said.

Their romance was whirlwind. They had been seeing each other for only a month when he proposed. “He’s not a slow man,” says Carla. “He said, ‘I’m completely in love with you and I’d love to marry you’.”

To read more about Carla, see the August issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly, out now.

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Dealing with difficult family members

When Aussie cricket star Mitchell Johnson’s mother recently made ‘unkind’ comments about his fiancee, thousands of other young men probably groaned in embarrassed compassion for the guy!

Having a mum who speaks out of turn; a permanently needy sister or maybe in-laws who won’t butt-out, is all part of being in a family. And an expert reassures us it’s all quite normal.

“It’s important to understand that in all relationships – especially families – we spend more time disagreeing than agreeing,” says Anne Hollonds, a psychologist and CEO of Relationships Australia (NSW).

“So you need to be able to expect and accept disagreements; and learn to manage them as best as possible.”

Here Anne answers some very typical questions about how to manage difficult family members.

Q: I love my mother to bits, but she is constantly meddling in my marriage… and I know my wife’s at her wits end. How can I keep them both happy.

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“Tell your mum you love her, that she’s important to you and she’ll always be your mum, no matter what. But some things need to change in your relationship now that you’re married. It’s best if men sort out their relationship with their own mother, and allow time for their new partner to develop a positive relationship with her as well. Consider suggesting new ways of staying connected with your mum that accommodate the needs of your new relationship.”

Q: My parents live locally and my father phones me nearly every day with something that ‘needs’ to be done for him. I have my own family and am very busy at work too. I’d love him to leave me alone a little, but I don’t want to offend him either. What can I do?

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“Once again, start by being positive and saying something like: ‘I love you dad and want to support you. But I have responsibilities to my own family now …..’. Then let him know what you can offer – maybe every second weekend you could pop around to help. So make a positive offer, but you do need to draw some boundary lines.”

Q: I have two beautiful girls, now aged four and six. We always thought they were close, only recently they’ve been fighting – physically and verbally. We are shocked by their behaviour and have tried everything we can think of to help (separating them; negotiating), but nothing is working. Help!

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“To some extent try to let them sort out their own squabbles. It’s normal for siblings to disagree, and you jumping in too soon won’t help them to learn how to resolve their own disagreements constructively.

“But reinforce to the kids the ground rules for their behaviour – that they must not kick or hit or bite, and that the way to resolve disagreements is to discuss them. “They’re at an age where they will understand, though you’ll need to intervene if it really gets out of hand. They will eventually learn – and of course make lots of positive comments and reward them when they do sort things out well themselves.”

Q: My sister has always been jealous of me – though we’ve had pretty similar upbringings, so I have no idea why. But now I’m in love with a wonderful man; and her jealousy has become more ‘angry’ than ever. She is completely rude to him and has almost frozen me out completely. Do I just ignore her and hope it will settle down in time?

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“The same ‘rule’ applies, about saying something positive first, like: ‘You are my sister and I love you, but I find it very difficult when you treat my partner this way. I’d ask you to stop’. You can do this verbally, or even via a letter. If you can, try to ignore her negative behaviour, and focus on positives. If necessary, spend less time around her until things improve.”

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Gluten free eating

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Coeliac disease is the permanent intolerance to a protein called gluten, and currently affects approximately 1 in every 100 Australians.

The disease involves an autoimmune reaction to the intake of gluten, causing the lining of the small intestine to become damaged and nutrients to be poorly absorbed. Upon diagnosis of coeliac disease, a diet completely free of gluten should be followed to prevent future health problems. The thought of preparing gluten free meals for friends or family members with Coeliac disease may at first be overwhelming, but we’ve got some simple ideas and tips to get you well on your way.

Tips to get you started

It’s important to be aware of a few key foods to avoid when preparing gluten free meals. Gluten-containing grains include wheat, barley, rye, triticale and oats, also varieties of wheat such as spelt, kumat and durum wheat, as well as foods made from wheat including cous cous, semolina and burghul should be avoided in a gluten free diet. The good news is a large variety of nutritious whole foods are naturally free of gluten, including fresh fruit, vegetables, legumes, milk, egg, rice, corn, nuts, seeds, oil, seafood, poultry and unprocessed meat.

Full lists of gluten-containing and gluten free foods are quite lengthy and can be hard to remember when you’re out grocery shopping, so here are some simple tips for deciphering food labels:

  1. While it can take some time in the beginning, reading all your food labels is worth the effort in the long run. While foods like bread and pasta are obvious sources of gluten, many foods you might not suspect like sauces, soups and ice cream can all contain gluten as well.

  2. A “gluten free” label means that a product has been shown to contain no detectable gluten.

  3. Avoid products that use “contain” statements in regards to gluten containing grains – e.g. “contains wheat products”. These statements can be found below the ingredient list.

  4. Avoid products with the statements “may contain” regarding gluten or gluten containing grains – e.g. “may contain traces of wheat”. These products are at genuine risk of containing gluten.

  5. If in doubt contact the manufacturer – if after reading the label you are unsure if the product is gluten free or not, contact the manufacturer who can confirm whether or not the product is suitable.

Other handy household hints to ensure foods remain gluten free include washing utensils thoroughly to remove all traces of gluten; avoiding getting gluten free bread sliced at the bakery as the slicer may have traces of gluten present; use separate water in a clean pot for cooking gluten free pasta and check shared spreads and dips for any crumbs which may be a source of gluten or keep separate containers of each for gluten free use only.

Planning and preparing gluten free meals may seem tricky at first, however there are lots of delicious and easy recipes available. You could try making gluten free based tomato sauce served with gluten free pasta and a side salad; gluten free wraps with fresh salad fillings; baked potatoes with kidney beans and reduced fat cheese; or a tofu and cashew nut stir-fry served with rice.

Brought to you by The Sanitarium Nutrition Service, www.sanitarium.com.au

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Ditch the Doc!

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Want to zap zits, tame your tummy, or heal heel pain?Here are 10 trustworthy home remedies to beat your everyday health hassles.

  1. Zap those zitsApply a drop of tea-tree essential oil to blemishes three times a day to discourage infection and speed up healing. Research has found that 5 per cent tea-tree oil is as effective against acne as a 5 per cent benzoyl peroxide solution.

  2. Tame your tummyChew and swallow half a teaspoon of fennel or caraway seeds when you have indigestion or wind. These seeds contain carminative oils that relax spasms in the gut, counter nausea and help to reduce flatulence.

  3. Shhh the snoringSew a pouch onto the back of the snorer’s pajama top and slip a tennis ball inside. If they roll on their back – which causes their tongue to flop back and block their airway – the ball will prompt them to go on their side.

  4. Banish bad breathCloves are rich in eugenol, a potent antibacterial. Just pop one into your mouth and bruise it with your teeth until the aroma fills your mouth; then spit it out.

  5. Heal heel painThis is often due to plantar fasciitis, the inflammation of the Achilles tendon (the band of tissue that connects your heel and toes). Stretch it by standing a metre from a wall and moving your right leg forwards, knee bent, until you feel an even stretch in your heel and foot arch. Switch sides and repeat.

  6. Ease urinary tract infectionsStudies show that cranberry juice helps women get rid of UTIs faster; it also helps stop them from starting in the first place. Antiseptic herbal teas like echinacea and goldenseal kill the bacteria and flush the system.

  7. Nix nits’Shampoo’ hair with mayonnaise, cover with a shower cap, and leave overnight. Next morning, remove eggs with a nit comb, and then shampoo. A final rinse of 50:50 white vinegar and water will remove oily residue.

  8. Quit hiccupsDrink a glass of water backwards. You’ll have to suck harder, and this overrides spasms of the diaphragm.

  9. Baby those boobsTender ta-tas can be caused by methylxanthines, stimulants that include caffeine and theobromine, found in coffee and chocolate respectively.

  10. Fight athlete’s footAdd a spoonful of mustard powder to a foot bath; soak feet for 30 minutes daily.

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Harry Potter stars’ magic millions

They’re worth more than $100 million between them, but the lowdown is that you’re more likely to find these three young Harry Potter stars at home on a Saturday night rather than splashing around their enormous wealth.

Daniel Radcliffe, who has been playing Harry since the age of 11, is about to nearly double his fortune after signing to star in two more of the films for a reported $55 million.

But he’s rarely seen at parties, his mobile phone is held together with masking tape, and when he does go out he prefers to hang out in “old man pubs”. “Money is not what drives me,” he says.

Not surprisingly, since he loves being home “watching bad TV in my underpants”, Daniel’s one vice is real estate — he owns a $14.5 million portfolio, including homes in New York and London.

Co-star Emma Watson says she only learnt of the extent of her wealth last year. Previously she was given a $2500 monthly allowance by her parents. “The truth is I’d just like to pretend that the money doesn’t exist,” she insists.

Although the Burberry model admits she loves clothes, she rarely buys any and her biggest expenditure is on make-up. “Sometimes my bank manager calls to say, ‘You haven’t used your card in a while and now you’re using it — no-one’s stolen it have they?'” she says.

Red-headed Rupert Grint likes wheels, but instead of buying a Ferrari, he spends his spare time doing up a derelict Mr Whippy van and an old fortune-telling machine with spare parts bought from eBay.

“I don’t really handle the money,” he says. “I never see any of it on a physical form. It’s only in the past couple of years that I’ve had my own credit cards.”

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Janet Jackson: Finally a mum

The superstar singer has given up hope of having her own family — now she’s determined to raise Michael’s children. Erin Craven reports.

As the circus that surrounds the fight over Michael Jackson’s children continues, a dark horse in the custody war has emerged — his sister Janet.

Jackson matriarch Katherine, 79, has been granted temporary custody of Prince Michael, 12, Paris, 11, and Blanket, 7, after a battle with the eldest two kids’ birth mother Debbie Rowe, 50.

However a family friend says Janet, 43, is expected to petition for custody after spending several days staying at her mother’s home and spoiling the kids with their favourite Chinese takeaways and lolly-filled piñatas.

She has also bought Prince and Paris private diaries in which to pour out their grief over the loss of their late dad.

“Janet is taking care of them between commitments on her new movie, which is filming in France,” the friend reveals.

“Janet is giving the children a sense of normality — and considering their situation, that is no small task.”

The special bond between Janet and Michael’s children was evident at the superstar’s memorial service on July 7, when an overwhelmed Paris collapsed into her aunt’s arms after her heartfelt speech.

“Paris doesn’t just love Janet. She worships her. She sees her as the mum she never had but always wanted,” the friend says.

Prince and Blanket are also said to share an attachment to Janet, who has been married twice but has no children.

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Ange finds Brad’s secret ‘Sex diary’

Angelina Jolie is furious after finding an old diary belonging to her partner Brad Pitt in which he allegedly confesses to having two affairs while married to Jennifer Aniston, says Woman’s Day’s LA correspondent.

“Brad was at pains to point out that this chick was like a groupie who had come on to him after his relationship with Jen had broken down. He told Angie that at that point, his relationship with her had not even begun,” says a source close to the pair.

But Patti Strasberg, a long-time friend of Angelina’s, says the mum-of-six was livid when she discovered the diary while unpacking after moving from New Orleans to their home in Long Island.

“Angelina is named as the first [affair] but the second woman is a total shock and a bolt from the blue,” says Patti.

“Angelina knew nothing about her. She’s devastated and angry that Brad never told her. She believed that she was the only ‘other woman’.”

The “other woman” is reportedly a make-up artist from the movie Snatch, with Brad even referring to her as “Miss Snatch” in the diary. A source says Brad first met her on the set of the Guy Ritchie film in 2000, however, it was on a break from the film Mr. & Mrs. Smith in late 2004 that he is said to have noted: “Nice time with Miss Snatch again.”

It was during this time that Brad and Angelina were first pictured together, on Italy’s Amalfi Coast, while Brad was still married to Jen.

Hours after finding what she’s dubbed Brad’s “sex diary”, Angelina reportedly gave Brad a vicious serve.

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*MasterChef’s* Julie: I don’t want to be famous

As TV’s hottest show goes out with a bang, Julie is struggling to cope with the recognition it’s brought her, writes Katherine Chatfield.

MasterChef favourite Julie Goodwin has prompted concerns that she’s finding it difficult to cope with the pressure of fame, after admitting she suffered an apparent mild panic attack during one of the show’s challenges.

The usually bubbly Julie was separated from her fellow contestants during a challenge at Sydney’s Bondi Junction, and tells us she was “scared of being alone in public” after she started sweating and having heart palpitations.

“I haven’t had a single episode like that since then — I just started to feel a bit weird about being by myself,” she says, also admitting that “she never wanted to be famous”.

But fame comes hand-in-hand with being part of one of the most talked about television shows of the year. And with the fame comes intense pressure and scrutiny — as Julie has discovered.

“The tension [in the final two] was palpable,” she says. “The nearer you get to the end, the more pressure there is. The nervous tension is indescribable. I can’t believe my heart hasn’t given out.”

Julie’s husband Michael admits he had no idea how much pressure Julie was under until he saw the finals week on TV.

Used to being surrounded by love from her husband of 20 years and her three sons, Joe, 13, Tom, 12, and Paddy, 10, Julie has also had to bear the brunt of negative comments from some of her fellow contestants.

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Brand Bindi out of control

The nation’s most famous child turns 11 with a bizarre birthday, adding to concerns about what her future holds, writes Angela Mollard.

If Bindi Irwin were a child in a storybook, she would be the luckiest girl in the world. Her home is a zoo, she doesn’t have to go to school, she’s about to star in her first movie, and this week 8000 kids are expected to turn up for her 11th birthday party.

Yet Bindi is not a fictional Pippi Longstocking. She’s a real girl, and despite her precocious self-confidence, insiders fear her life is becoming so far removed from reality that she already faces a public backlash.

On Friday, thousands of kids will converge on Australia Zoo for free entry, a giveaway DVD, a circus act, performances by Jessica Mauboy and a chance to see Bindi at a masquerade birthday party. There will be a huge birthday cake — probably iced, as in previous years, with a picture of her late dad Steve.

But as Bindi moves towards adolescence, child experts and others believe Brand Bindi could get out of control.

Nutritionist Rosemary Stanton feels it’s “sad” Bindi is making TV ads directed at other children in her new campaign for bakery goods.

“It’s wrong to target kids in trying to sell stuff to other kids,” she says. “I think it’s very sad.”

Other experts are concerned Bindi’s extraordinary global stardom could backfire. She is already an actor, dancer, singer, conservationist, writer and trademarked business — but last year, at the launch of her clothing line, Bindi had further ambitions.

“Hopefully maybe I can be president or prime minister,”she said without a hint of irony.

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