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Police investigate pub assault: Cougar Charmyne bashed by a woman

When Charmyne Palavi spoke out against Australia’s sexist football culture she knew there’d be a blacklash — but she never expected to be brutally attacked by another woman. Jo Knowsley reports.

Charmyne Palavi was standing quietly at the bar with her fiancé Michael Browne when she felt the first chunk of ice smack against her bare neck.

It was followed by another, and yet another, before she identified the young woman who was hurling the missiles. She was 20-something, in a tight dress, and surrounded by NRL Bronco football fans. And she was horribly drunk.

The young woman called Charmyne abusive names, screaming, “Haven’t you slept with enough footballers?”

Charmyne, 38, who has dated a number of high-profile footballers — but stuck her head firmly above the parapet when she exposed Australia’s sexist football culture on television’s Four Corners in May this year — tensed.

“You don’t know me,” she replied, easing quietly back towards the friends she had met earlier, at about 6.30pm, on what she had thought would be a quiet Sunday night at Brisbane’s Normanby Hotel for dinner and a drink. “And I don’t know you. Leave me alone.”

But around 9pm, when Charmyne’s group returned to the bar area, the abuse began again. And this time it became even more violent, culminating in a savage attack by the woman, who kung-fu kicked Charmyne twice in the stomach, causing her to fall to the ground and badly dislocate her left wrist.

“I couldn’t believe it was happening to me,” says Charmyne, who spent the following hours at Royal Brisbane And Women’s Hospital, where doctors worked to realign her wrist. She will now be disabled, her wrist in a cast, for the next seven weeks.

“I had done nothing to provoke this,” she says. “This woman kicked me like a dog. I was determined to walk out of that bar with my head high, but I felt so humiliated.

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Farmer Jenny finds a husband

Eight months after failing to find love on The Farmer Wants A Wife, Jenny Blake introduces her new fiancé to Katherine Chatfield.

Jenny Blake flushes with excitement as she proudly shows off her engagement ring.

Despite being together for only six months, Mark, 31, and Jenny, 34, are certain their future is together. But while their engagement is meant to be, Mark’s proposal didn’t go as smoothly as planned.

“I wanted to take Jenny out for a nice meal,” he says. “I took her to a pub, but when we got there, the footy was on. So I took her to another place, which is usually romantic, and there was an 18th birthday on. They recognised Jenny and kept coming over to get her autograph. It wasn’t exactly the best place to propose.”

Undaunted and determined to pop the question, Mark packed a picnic, and at 5.30 the next morning took Jenny to a romantic spot near his farm in Narrandera, southern NSW, where the couple live together.

“The sun was just about to come up,” says Jenny. “Mark spun around and asked me to be his wife. I was blown away.”

It was only in January that Jenny, the first female farmer on hit show The Farmer Wants A Wife, faced the heartbreak of her failed romance with Owen. But ironically, when Jenny signed up for the show, she already knew Mark.

“We’d been friends for 10 years,” she explains. “I’d always liked Mark, but he was a bit younger than me, so I never looked at him in that way.”

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The farmer is a dad

He found his perfect partner on a hay bale, now Farmer Chris and wife Kim invite Glen Williams to meet their beautiful baby girl, Charlotte Ann.

They were the original couple who turned The Farmer Wants A Wife into a television sensation. We couldn’t get enough of the unfolding romance between gentle giant Chris Newsome and the Geelong girl with the raucous laugh, Kim Tierney.

Not only had they been brave enough to lay their souls bare on a reality TV show, they found genuine love.

From the moment they met, sitting on a hay bale on the outskirts of Bowral, in the NSW Southern Highlands, they felt an immediate attraction. Somehow, despite the lights and TV cameras, the sudden limelight and the unreality of the situation, Kim and Chris fell in love.

Woman’s Day was lucky enough to follow this happy couple’s rural romance, announcing their engagement, and covering their wonderful wedding, which saw the people of Tamworth turn out in droves. And now their lives have been made complete with the arrival of Charlotte Ann Newsome.

“How can you describe perfection?” a proud Chris says, nuzzling his tiny girl as she wakes. “She’s just gorgeous with those beautiful blue eyes and wisps of blonde hair. Every time we look at her, we get a big kick of joy — it’s like adrenalin.

“Marriage brought us even closer together, but this little bub unites us even more.”

It only seemed fitting that Kim would go into labour while watching the latest series of Farmer. Four hours later, and with little fuss, baby Charlotte was born.

“I think I was born to have babies,” Kim laughs.

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Cuppa for a cure

Lisa Wilkinson, Jane Flemming and Gretel Killeen all take time out from their busy schedules to sit down with Woman’s Day for a Pink Ribbon Breakfast, and tell Angela Mollard why it’s so important to them.

Jane Flemming, Gretel Killeen and Lisa Wilkinson all lead busy, dynamic lives but getting them together for a pink ribbon breakfast was easier than it sounds. Quite simply, it’s something they care enough about to prioritise.

For author and TV host Gretel Killeen, discovering a lump in her breast at age 29 was one of the most terrifying experiences of her life. “I’d lost a workmate through breast cancer and then a couple of years later I found a lump in my breast,” she recalls. “It put the fear of God into me, but I got it checked and had a biopsy and it was fine.”

As the mother of an 18-year-old daughter, Gretel feels encouraged that today’s young women openly discuss their bodies and their health.

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As for her own health, Gretel eats well and exercises regularly, but refuses to stick to a hard and fast regime. “I do walk at least 40 minutes most days, but I don’t run, because it makes your breasts sag!”

Lisa Wilkinson laughs and reveals she’s also a walker — something of an achievement when you consider how much she yearns for more sleep.

It was the death of Lisa’s father in 1990 which led to her becoming an ambassador for the NBCF. “I lost my dad to cancer, and when you’ve seen a loved one suffer through the cruelty of the disease, you will do anything possible to help find a cure,” says Lisa.

For athlete and sports commentator Jane Flemming, the focus has long been on what her body can do rather than what it looks like. The Commonwealth Games gold medallist runs when she can, but these days exercise comes more from pushing her twins, James and Samuel, in their stroller.

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Sarah’s meltdown: Stress & the city

With growing work pressures, twin babies crying for her attention and the memory of her husband’s alleged affair, Sarah Jessica Parker has too much on her plate. Jackie Brygel reports.

The pressure of being a mother to three young children, including twin baby girls, as well as a wife, movie star and film producer, is taking its toll on Sarah Jessica Parker.

As the 44-year-old style icon attempts to juggle an exhausting work and home life, there are fears that she has finally hit breaking point. Currently working impossibly long hours playing Carrie Bradshaw on the New York set of the Sex And The City movie sequel, the star’s stressed-out demeanour has landed her a cruel new nickname on set.

“Crew members have taken to calling her ‘Carrie Sadshaw’,” a production source reveals. “When she doesn’t have to be ‘on’ in her scenes, she looks pathetic. It’s like watching a balloon being deflated. She’ll have little cries by herself.”

In the past, Sarah Jessica has spoken out about her intense desire to achieve a good balance between her career and her personal life, but it seems that the problem has only become worse.

“There are times when it’s totally terrific, and there are times when I’m like, ‘Oh God, I’d better run in the other direction’,” she has said of her high-pressure lifestyle, which has even seen fans staking out her neighbourhood.

While Sarah wants nothing more than to be a loving mother to James, 6, and twin daughters Marion and Tabitha — who were born on June 22 via a surrogate mother — the kids are seeing far more of their nannies than their mum.

“Sarah tries to keep it professional, but you can really tell she’s struggling to cope with motherhood,” observes a set insider. “She works long hours and, let’s be honest, she’s no spring chicken.”

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Reggie: my blindness won’t stop me being a good mum

Reggie Sorensen tells Monique Butterworth that, despite her health dramas, motherhood is nothing but a joy with baby Lucas.

Cradling six-week-old baby Lucas close, Regina “Reggie” Sorensen, is taking in every precious moment.

After an ectopic pregnancy that brought her close to death 18 months ago, the 2003 Big Brother winner and her husband of two years, Dale, are delighted with the boy they were both convinced was going to be another girl.

“He was a total surprise,” admits Reggie, 35. “I thought I was having a girl.”

“We were absolutely over the moon when we saw the big appendage come out!” adds 37-year-old firefighter Dale.

The couple — who met in January 2006, married in October 2007, and have a two-year-old daughter, Mia — both shed a tear when Lucas Dale was born.

“Dale’s face was so lit-up,” recalls Reggie.

“I was so happy he was a boy,” says Dale.

Reggie’s health woes haven’t been confined to her ectopic pregnancy. Ten months before that, she was diagnosed with Retinitis Pigmentosa (RP) — a degenerative condition that affects the retina, the light-sensitive part of the eye.

Affecting around 1 in 3000 Australians, RP’s progression varies from person to person. For Reggie, it’s an unknown matter of time before she completely loses her sight.

It’s this condition that will make dealing with a newborn and a tearaway toddler all the more difficult.

Reggie is classified as legally blind (meaning you cannot see at six metres what a person with normal vision can see at 60 metres, or your field of vision is less than 20 degrees in diameter, rather than 180).

Ever optimistic, Reggie, whose sight has diminished more since she was diagnosed, is getting on with life.

“Lucas arrived by caesarean like clockwork,” says Reggie. “They got the epidural needle in first time. With Mia it took three goes.”

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Grant & Candice show off their twins

Relieved their pigeon pair have arrived safely, the swim star and his wife are over the moon to introduce them to Jackie Brygel.

His triumphs in the water won him the heart of a nation and saw him hailed our king of distance swimming. But as Grant Hackett now knows, nothing could possibly outshine the moment he first laid eyes on his twins, Jagger Emilio and Charlize Alley.

For when the longed-for son and daughter of Grant and his singer/songwriter wife Candice Alley finally made their arrival into the world by caesarean section after a worrying pregnancy, emotions ran high for the legend of the pool.

“You wouldn’t be human if you didn’t get a tear in your eye at that point. I was certainly like that when I first saw them and got to cut their cords,” Grant, 29, confesses.

“It was so overwhelming. I just wanted everything to be all right, both for the babies and for Candice. Candice was still right in the middle of surgery, so that was a big concern as well.”

“When you see your babies for the first time, it is surreal,” Candice, 27, reflects softly. “You think, ‘They’ve been in my tummy for nine months’, and then to see these little humans that we made ourselves, well, it’s just the most incredible thing to go through. You fall in love with them immediately.”

Born two minutes apart, with Charlize making her entrance ahead of her brother, the pigeon pair are now three weeks old.

And while little Jagger was administered oxygen for the first few days of his life, he and Charlize are now in perfect health.

“Seeing Jagger in the little oxygen tank because he had some fluid on his lungs was hard to digest in the beginning, but he’s fine now,” Grant says. “He’s caught up to his sister really quickly.”

“Even though he was a little smaller when they were born, Jagger has the longest arms — he definitely has Grant’s body,” Candice says.

For the full story see this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale October 5, 2009.

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A summer of herbs

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“Grow herbs,” said the girl at the nursery helpfully to the customer standing next to me. “Herbs don’t need watering. They just look after themselves.”

Like heck, they do! Okay, most of the herbs we use in cooking survive nicely on Mediterranean hillsides with no water other than what falls from the sky. But they are growing in crevices which catch water — and the sunny Mediterranean still gets a lot more rainfall than most of our gardens. Plus, if you grow any plant in a pot — which is where most of our herb plants end up being planted — you have to water regularly, as pots dry out fast in both heat and cold.

Once you accept that herbs aren’t all that hardy, though, you may suddenly find you become a green-fingered herb grower. While herbs do need care, they don’t need very much. You just need to know where and when and which types.

What to plant:

A basic herb bed needs thyme, savoury, rosemary and sage, and maybe French tarragon, too, though it can be more temperamental than the others. Each can be grown in its own pot, or herb plants can be planted in a special herb bed of their own. All of them will grow for many years if you give them a little care.

If there’s room and you have time, add a few basil and parsley plants, too. Basil will die in winter in anywhere but subtropical or tropical climates. However, even in the warmer spots it will be short-lived unless you prune it drastically every month or so.

Parsley plants will “go to seed” in spring, too, so you’ll need to pull them out and plant more. But once you have those basic herbs, you’ll have a whole new world of cooking at your fingertips. It’s no accident that peasant cooking — the best of French and Italian recipes in particular — depends on herbs for much of its deliciousness. Sprinkle fresh basil or thyme on a bit of bread dough, baked with tomato, and you have a pizza. Add sage and savoury stuffing to a roast chicken and you have a delicious meat to serve.

Which pot?

All pots need to be as big as you can afford and have room for. Big pots don’t just give plants more room to grow, they help insulate the roots, and store plant food and moisture.

Plastic self-watering pots may not look pretty (okay, they’re ugly) but they do make caring for your pot plants a breeze. You can disguise them by surrounding them with more attractive pots, or growing “prostrate” rosemary, which will sprawl over the sides and cover the plastic. Or try using creeping varieties of thyme which will spill over the sides. too.

When to water:

Water every plant every day for a fortnight after you’ve planted it — or at least every second day. After that, most herbs will need a weekly water, except in very hot, dry or windy conditions, when they may literally cook. I keep a length of shade cloth on hand to cover my pots on hot and horrid summer days. It keeps both the pots — and me — from frying.

When to feed:

Herbs grow best if they are well-fed — but not too well-fed. Basically you’ll need to replace what you pick. I give our herbs a yearly scatter of any good organic fertiliser each spring, and that does them for the year.

Mulch!

And yes, herbs need mulch, too. Mulch keeps weeds down, as well as helping to protect the moisture in the soil. It also helps stop the soil from setting like concrete, so plant roots can grow more easily.

Other care:

Pick your herbs often. This small frequent pruning is really the best care you can give them. If you don’t get around to cooking regularly with your herbs (which would be a tragedy), snip them back by about a third every summer. It’s also good idea to “top dress” thyme (scatter new soil around the base of the plant, so that the bottom branches can take root, and rejuvenate the whole plant).

And there it is: a flourishing herb garden to feed and delight you. Not quite “no care”, but close enough for anyone to have all the herbs they need, just outside their door.

**Your say: do you have a herb garden? What are your tips for keeping herbs healthy? Which varieties do you have? Tell us at [email protected]

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Q&A: *MasterChef*’s Gary Mehigan

MasterChef judges George Calombaris and Gary Mehigan

If you loved MasterChef, then get ready for the new, exciting Celebrity MasterChef. Gary Mehigan spoke to us about what to expect from the new series plus who his early favourites are.

Do you remember the first time you cooked something and thought, “This is what I want to do”?

My grandad was a chef; he used to spoil me rotten as all good grandparents do. He had a beautiful English garden full of fruit and vegetables; he’d bake bread and make gorgeous things that as a kid I thought were magical. I remember bottling home made plum wine at the end of one summer taking a little sip here and there as I siphoned it into the bottles. We laughed a lot that day, I remember mum telling Grandad off about it. I giggled all the way home. I could have only become a chef.

What is your favourite recipe to eat and favourite to make?

I love to cook food that takes time – to make and to eat! A good braise or stew or a great sauce, something that develops in the pot, it’s the alchemy and control followed by great reward. “Braised oxtail, Osso Bucco or a bolito misto”

With Celebrity MasterChef about to launch, what can you tell us about it?

We all love that little window through which we can peer and see what our celebs are really like. We have found some great cooks and why not they travel, they eat out in some of the best restaurants – they are competitive and love to win – what a fantastic combination.

Do you have an early favourite?

Rachel Finch and Eamon Sullivan believe it or not our two youngest competitors have a natural affinity with food and have the skills to match

What should we expect?

As with the first series some great cooking and challenges sent to test the steeliest of souls.

Did you expect the first season of MasterChef to take off like it did?

No one could have guessed that master chef was going to be the hit that it was. It is something about food that has bought this show to life. No mean judges – ordinary people doing something creative and against the odds. Makes us feel great. The nicest thing of all is that we have bought food to life for many including children who have loved the show.

What was your favourite moment of the first season of MasterChef?

The Croqembouche challenge was amazing – watching these four amateur cooks battle it out against themselves was inspirational. I remember Adriano Zumba standing on the side lines with his mouth open willing Julie to get that thing out of the mould he was bursting out of his skin! That’s saying something!

What is your favourite type of wine? What do you recommend coming into summer?

My favourite wine is a once in a life time treat Chateau Yquem 1967 from Bordeaux France – the year of my birth. OMG! An explosion in you mouth sweet, sticky bursting with apricot, marmalade and orange. Summer I like a lightly chilled Grenache such as a Deisen from the Barossa Valley – rich fruit, chocolate and leather – hmmm!

Can you share the cooking tip you’ve been given?

Buy the best ingredients you can afford and learn what is in season. Everything has its season not just fruit and vegetables but seafood, milk, meat – sounds weird but true. When there is plenty of something about the rule of thumb is it will be good value. That means don’t buy cherries from California in the middle of winter!

Worst tasting meal you’ve made/disaster in the kitchen?

I can’t think of one particular thing – probably because I try so hard to forget the big mistakes! But I can tell you I have learnt to use a timer – never do I say – I’ll remember those 150 portions of lamb in the oven if they only need a couple of extra minutes!

What’s your food weakness?

Everything – I can’t say no if it’s good – no matter how full I am.

What are you most proud of?

Other than the birth of my beautiful baby girl with which nothing compares – opening and running my two businesses and of course branching out into a little TV!

What makes you nervous?

Complacency

Who do you think is a master chef?

Ground breakers and lateral thinkers in the industry that take food to another level – Careme – August Escoffier – Paul Bocuse, Alain Sanderens, The brothers Troisgros, Ferran Adria, Andoni Aduriz, Stephanie Alexander – the list goes on.

Head to the Brisbane Good Food & Wine show, Nov 6-8 at the Brisbane Convention & Exhibition Centre to see Gary, George and a host of other celebrity chefs including Ben O’Donoghue, Tobie Puttock, Alastair McLeod and Matt Moran.

Brisbane Good Food and Wine show

Tickets

Adult: $20.00

Child (6 – 16yrs): $16.00

Concession/Groups (10+): $18.00

  • Tickets to LG Celebrity Theatre sessions incur an additional $2.50.

Tickets are available now through Ticketek or www.goodfoodshow.com.au

Catch Gary, George, Matt and a host of your favourite celebrities on Celebrity MasterChef, Wednesday, 7.30pm Network Ten.

Your say: Who is your favourite MasterChef judge? Which celebrity do you think has what it takes to win the title? Share with us below…

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