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Exclusive extract: *Lunch in Paris*

The wonder of a love affair with a happy Frenchman — and the city of Paris — unfolds charmingly in Elizabeth Bard’s intoxicating new novel.

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When Elizabeth Bard celebrated Thanksgiving recently in her adopted home, Paris, she listed her many blessings. “I have a healthy and happy baby. I am in love with my husband more every day. And my book was published!”

The 35-year-old author of Lunch in Paris, a love story with recipes, says she still pinches herself in case it’s all a dream. “Never, never,” could she have believed that a lunch in Paris with a man she barely knew could have resulted in a love affair that would transform her and her life so completely.

Formerly a “constantly striving New Yorker and type-A control freak” American, a decade in Paris has taught the journalist and art historian how to pause and take pleasure in the moment.

Read more about Elizabeth and her novel Lunch in Paris in the February issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly out now with Lisa Wilkinson on the cover.

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The art of being Poh

Photography by Randy Larcombe

Photography by Randy Larcombe

After her success on hit show MasterChef, artist and cook Poh Ling Yeow tells Larry Writer it’s not fame and fortune but fulfilment that drives her.

When something wonderful happens in Poh Ling Yeow’s life, she will take her Scottish terrier, Zed, and whisk him in a jig of joy around her flat in Adelaide’s Norwood. “Zed,” she will sing, “look what’s happened to us!”

There’s been a lot of dancing lately. Vivacious and beautiful Poh, who won hearts as MasterChef’s runner-up, has an exhibition of her acrylic on canvas paintings at Adelaide’s prestigious Hill Smith Gallery, she’s writing two cookbooks and, starting this month, she is to star in her own weekly show, Poh’s Kitchen, on ABC TV. The 36-year-old is proving herself to be way more than a flash in the MasterChef pan.

Yet for all the exquisitely fused tastes and whimsically rendered images that define her cooking and art, the most intriguing ingredient is Poh herself. A self-confessed “Aussie in an Asian shell”, she has come to terms with the cultural tug of war that perplexed her when young and, now, at last proud to be the sum of her rich experience, she has reconciled her past with her present.

Poh’s apartment is an art and artefact-crammed warren, a tiny chaotic temple to the creativity of its owner. Along with such iconography as goldfish, lotus flowers, ponds and Australian flora and fauna, many of her paintings feature an Asian girl. “The girl is not me, she’s my autobiographical twin,” explains the fifth-generation Chinese-Malaysian. “I invented her to represent the things I grew up hating about myself, the broad face, the almond eyes. I use her to tell my stories. I put her in an Australian setting and she looks a little out of place, and she looks lost in an Asian landscape, too.”

Each episode of Poh’s Kitchen teams Poh with a prominent chef – such as Neil Perry, Emmanuel Mollois and Thai food master David Thompson – to explore different styles of cooking. They’ll source ingredients from around Australia and then prepare a dish. “I hope people have fun watching and give the recipes a go,” says Poh. “I want to share my joy in cooking and eating wonderful food, especially the Malaysian dishes.”

Her mother, Christina, will be backstage during filming. “I’m her shopper and chopper,” explains Christina. “I’ll search out some ingredients and pre-prepare, so when Poh needs chopped vegetables or chicken, it’ll be ready.”

Poh plonks down cross-legged on her loungeroom floor, Zed having commandeered the sofa. “You wouldn’t think so today, but I live a quiet and simple life,” she says, sighing. “People ask why I don’t move into a bigger apartment, but what for? I cook, I paint, they’re what I’d rather do than anything else, and there’s all the room I need to do them here.”

A perfect day for Poh is losing herself in painting for hours, then cooking to the music of “Ella Fitzgerald or French cafe ballads with accordions”.

“It’s funny,” she says, “when I get stuck on a painting and can’t make it work, I bake a cake. Baking is simple and I can switch off, calm down and decide how to solve my problem.” And there’s no better situation to invent new combinations of cooking flavours “than when I’m at my easel”.

Both her passions, says Poh, who lived in Kuala Lumpur until the age of nine, when her family migrated to Adelaide, “reflect my life and cultural memories, some of which are hidden deep inside”. Though steeped in Chinese-Malaysian cooking, Poh insists, “I’m a cook, not a chef. I don’t tell viewers what to do, I show them what I do … Give me home cooking before an expensive restaurant meal any day.

“My pleasure is to experiment – I don’t care if it doesn’t always come off – and share my food with friends. A chef is always under pressure to get a dish exactly right and at a cost-efficient price. I just want to have fun and be inventive.

“On MasterChef, the judges were exasperated by my intuitive methods and the chaos in which I cooked. They said, ‘Don’t you want to be a chef?’ I said, ‘No, I want to be a cook. I want to write recipes and continue to paint.’ ”

“She never does things by the book,” explains Christina. “She says, ‘Mum, if I follow the rules exactly, then it’s not my talent on display, it’s someone else’s.’ She’s a loose cannon.”

Read more about Poh’s story in the February issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly on sale now with Lisa Wilkinson on the cover.

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Abbott’s women

Photography by Tim Bauer. Styling by Maia Liakos

Photography by Tim Bauer. Styling by Maia Liakos

Liberal leader Tony Abbott is a self-confessed attention seeker, who polarises women’s opinions. It’s a trait that has got him into hot water, yet he is surrounded by women who are fiercely loyal and admire him. Helen McCabe reports.

Tony Abbott slides into the back of a government car at Townsville airport. “Sorry,” he says, “I just to have to call my princess.” The political hard-head spends 15 minutes talking to his wife, Margaret, and the eldest of his three stunning daughters, 21-year-old Louise. “Okay, my darling angel,” he says. “I love you.”

It was a surprising start to the trip, a romantic Tony Abbott? It was not what I was expecting. A few hours earlier, in Brisbane, Tony was meeting with the Women’s Network Australia. “They say you don’t like women,” says founder and managing director Lynette Plamen, who suspects he could handle the direct approach. “I completely disagree,’’ Tony says, taking off his jacket. “I was going to say you looked a bit overdressed,” Lynette says. “You can keep your shirt on – and your pants.”

The room of businesswomen breaks into laughter. It has been only a couple of weeks since Tony was photographed in his Speedos and no one will let him forget it. He keeps his clothes on over lunch and wins over the audience. “He was charming and down-to-earth,” says Lynette, later. Not all women, however, warm to Tony Abbott.

“I am still trying to wrap my head around the fact that the Liberal Party has just elected a leader who is anti-abortion, anti-IVF, anti-stem cell research and who wants to ban no-fault divorce,’’ influential blogger Mia Freedman wrote.

“If he’s elected as our PM in the future I would be very scared for women everywhere. I am not anti-Lib – just always been anti-Abbott,” added Mia. “Tony Abbott scares the bejesus out of me,’’ wrote another blogger. Other women’s websites were also swamped by people bewildered by the party’s failure to elect the much more likable Joe Hockey. By comparison, the women who know Tony Abbott are baffled by this reaction to him.

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On paid maternity leave

One of the few women’s issues he has won plaudits for was a plan for six months paid maternity leave, detailed in Battlelines. However, as leader of the Liberal Party, his support for this radical policy initiative is not quite as clear.

“My thinking has moved on a bit since then and I think … it’s very important that any national scheme doesn’t disadvantage small business.”

Do you think that it is doable? “Uh-huh”. You can do it, six months paid maternity leave? “Well, I think that is certainly desirable.”

On the problem of businesses paying women on average 16 per cent less than they pay men in the same jobs, Tony is unaware there is still a problem.

How do you get more women into politics? “A good question. The trouble is, unless you are super ambitious, super idealistic, super competitive or a combination of all three, politics is not a very attractive life,” he says, before admitting he does not have a solution.

On modern dilemmas such as Botox, plastic surgery, alcohol abuse, drugs and body piercings, Tony is more comfortable. He laughs at the idea of Margie having Botox, reveals that one of his daughters has multiple piercings and that he once drank a bit too much and smoked marijuana – but he didn’t inhale.

On the issues

Tony Abbott’s religious faith is why his supporters hold him in such regard and why his critics call him “Captain Catholic”. Here are his views on a number of issues that relate to women and families.

Abortion

“I have never suggested that it should be re-criminalised. All I have ever said was that I would like to see fewer abortions.”

Sex before marriage

“I would say to my daughters, if they were to ask me this question, I would say … it is the greatest gift that you can give someone, the ultimate gift of giving and don’t give it to someone lightly, that is what I would say.”

Gay marriage

“There is nothing wrong in the slightest, nothing at all wrong with same-sex couples wanting, I guess, to celebrate their commitment to each other. That is a good thing, not a bad thing. But I do think there is a difference [in a relationship] between a man and a woman, and being open to kids.”

Drugs “To be sociable, I puffed on a marijuana cigarette, but I didn’t inhale – I don’t even inhale normal cigarettes. I just hate the idea of drawing smoke into my lungs, so … when it comes to getting stoned in that way, I was a complete failure.”

Read more about Tony Abbott and his opinions in the February issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly out now.

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The secret Jackie

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Eight years on from JFK’s assassination, the widowed First Lady had forged a new life as Jackie Onassis. Nowhere was she better able to leave the past behind than on her husband Aristotle Onassis’ private island of Skorpios. Settimio Garritano, an Italian paparazzo, captured her new freedom – yoga at the beach, shopping trips, even nude sunbathing. Here, with Garritano’s images, Douglas Thompson pieces together the missing chapter in the Jackie O story.

In pictures: Jackie O’s life

In the summer of 1971, on the private Greek island of Skorpios, Settimio Garritano took a set of photographs that changed perceptions of the most debated woman in the world. The images also provoked controversy. They were the catalyst for myth-making subterfuge – titillating, amusing stuff, but nonsense; it was legend still being parroted authoritatively 38 years on from when these pictures were taken.

Nestling his tiny boat, with its flaking yellow paint, in some vegetation on the edge of the shoreline, the accomplished Garritano set up his two Pentax cameras to photograph Jackie Onassis relaxing. The discreet vantage point had been carefully calculated over many months and he’d photographed her here many times before.

Yet, this time, as she strolled across his viewfinder, she was naked. At 43, she looked in excellent shape: her posture was good – shoulders back, stride straight, the refined deportment demanded at Miss Porter’s School in Farmington, Connecticut, topped up by her early adopter’s passion for yoga.

His camera captured everything – her toned backside, limbs, breasts. Garritano was hot and bothered, but not in a schoolboy way. Had he really photographed the wife of one of the richest, most powerful men in the world and the widow of America’s assassinated 35th president in the buff? Mrs Onassis totally naked?

He had. The evidence stared up at him from the trays of developed film in the Athens photo lab he had driven too fast to get to. He studied the dozen images as if he were seeing the end of a long rainbow. Yet was it a pot of fool’s gold?

The ever vigilant Settimio Garritano had pursued the former First Lady since her marriage to Aristotle Onassis on October 20, 1968, on the very island on which he took this landmark set of pictures. The wedding transformed the widow of the assassinated President John F. Kennedy into Jackie O, the paparazzi’s holy grail.

Onasis brought incredible wealth, but also infamy – his ruthless business style and torrid recent affair with opera star Maria Callas – to the ceremony. His bride brought a dowry of history. Many people believed that JFK’s widow, for some years one of the most applauded and admired women in the world for her dignity and style, had renounced her halo. She had become a conundrum; the world didn’t know whether to love her or loathe her. And such emotion had raised her celebrity currency to astonishing levels.

The charismatic Onassis, a tycoon with varying shades of social and commercial complexities, bought Skorpios as his private kingdom in 1963. It is a brief, sometimes turbulent, 10-minute boat trip from Nidri, which sits on the east of Lefkas – another island, but linked to the Greek mainland by road.

A heliport and the main villa are high on a hill, retreated into the landscape; on the far side of Skorpios were moorings for the Onassis yacht, Christina, and his seaplane.

Yet the only decent beach on the island is close to where Garritano had purposely landed. Onassis had built a simple house on it to store beach furniture, cushions, towels, goggles, fins and other gear, and there was a shower room and a kitchenette for snacks to accompany the aperitifs that took the edge off the day.

It was where Jackie relaxed. She would read and snooze, do yoga and swim, eat and smoke – her heavy cigarette habit something she had taken elaborate precautions to hide during her 1000 days as America’s First Lady. She even asked author William Manchester to remove from his book, The Death Of A President, that she had cigarettes in her handbag on November 22, 1963.

Yet that was Mrs Kennedy. As Jackie O, who arrived in the ’70s from the ’60s in a first-class cabin, she smoked openly on trips to the island of Capri. On the romantic Italian island – “Apart from Skorpios, this is the island of seduction,” insisted Onassis – she radiated a freedom rarely witnessed in America.

On her marriage to Onassis, she had given up her Secret Service protection and it was only when her children, Caroline and John Jnr, were with her that large men in suits appeared. She would inhabit the outdoor cafes and trattorias on the streets of Capri, indulging her sweet tooth with ice-cream and lemon granita. She would shop – 30 pairs of Capri pants bought in one shop in half an hour – and promoted the flat sandals (the spider’s web of fine leather straps called ragni, similar to the popular gladiator-style) made on the island.

See Settimio Garritano’s pictures of Jackie O plus read the incredible story of how he took the infamous nude shots in the February issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly on sale now with Lisa Wilkinson on the cover.

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Being Lisa

Photography by Carlotta Moye. Styling by Nicole Bonython

Photography by Carlotta Moye. Styling by Nicole Bonython

Once a bullied under-achiever living on the wrong side of the tracks, Lisa Wilkinson is now at the top of her game as a TV host, adoring wife and hard-working mother – and her own harshest critic.

It’s 4am on a Friday and Lisa is sitting in a make-up chair backstage at the Today show dressed to the nines (no pun intended) in an acid yellow jacket, wide-legged black pants and black patent leather shoes with killer 10cm heels. You could cut a little bit of slack in the fashion stakes for a mother of three who gets up at 3am every weekday – thongs under the desk perhaps, which is what Hollywood gossip columnist Richard Reid turns up in on the show that day.

Yet Lisa Wilkinson is a self-confessed perfectionist whose 30-year career in the media has culminated in what she calls “the best job in television” and she’s not going to let a little thing like the wrong shoes or a bad lip gloss colour incite a flurry of critical reader emails or, more importantly, undercut her hard fought for confidence in front of the cameras.

With her indefatigable smile and the ease with which she moves from a combative interview with a union boss to fluffy chit-chat about actress Susan Sarandon, confidence and belief in herself is something Lisa has in spades. While she will argue that this comes from decades of experience as a magazine editor and “media personality” on radio, TV talk shows and as a public speaker, there’s no doubt that Lisa’s success in the chair at Today has burnished that smile and given her the glow of being the golden girl of the moment.

When Lisa took over the role of co-host with Karl Stefanovic, who had been with the program since 2005, Today was in trouble, being kicked around each morning by the competition, the Seven Network’s Sunrise with David Koch and Melissa Doyle, after a series of failed attempts to find the right woman to pair with the 35-year-old Karl. Now, the high-heeled shoe is on the other foot, with Today’s viewer numbers having risen by 24 per cent since 2006, while Sunrise’s have fallen by 17.5 per cent. In Melbourne, Today has clawed its way ahead of Sunrise in viewer numbers for the second successive year.

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What is unprecedented about Lisa’s success is that she was offered the job in her late 40s, a time when many women in television, except for the most tenacious, are either winding down their careers or have been forcibly “retired”. A few weeks ago, she passed a significant milestone, her 50th birthday. Age has never been the issue it was with Tracy Grimshaw, 49, who some journalists unkindly referred to as Karl’s “mother” when she sat beside him in 2005. On screen, Lisa and Karl are playful, affectionate.

“We’re like brother and sister. We just get each other,” Lisa says. “It’s incredible how we can feel the way our bodies move, the way we draw breath, just a little sigh that the viewer can’t hear.”

Lisa is, in some way, the beneficiary of a growing acceptance by audiences of older women in key roles in TV news and current affairs, even though it’s “a slow-burning thing”, she says. She points to Liz Hayes, Tracy Grimshaw, Chris Bath, Kay McGrath and Heather Ford.

“There are lots of women in their 40s and 50s, and you know people trust them. They’ve earned their stripes and they deserve to be there.”

… On being bullied

As Lisa tells it, a new girl arrived at school at the beginning of Year 9. “My dad always taught me that if somebody new arrives, you always go and look after them, and make sure they’re okay. I did with this girl, but suddenly, after about a month, she just turned on me. Her boyfriend decided he liked me, although I had no idea who he was. Bullies rarely have a very good reason for doing what they do. They pick on others to feel better about themselves.”

By Year 10, several of her girlfriends had left school, so without a good support base, she was left further exposed to the bullying. The dynamics of the schoolyard changed. “There were a couple of occasions where I was the girl in the centre, with every other kid in the playground calling out, ‘Fight, fight, fight!’ ”

On one occasion, she went to a Sherbet concert and a girl punched her “fair and square with a right hook”. She came home from the concert with a “massive” black eye. “I didn’t know how to stand up for myself,” Lisa says, regretfully. “I just wanted to disappear.”

Lisa, who had always been a good student, lost focus. “You don’t want to be the first one to put your hand up when you know the answer to the question in class, you don’t want to stand out, you don’t want to shine because that can be threatening to the class bully, so I just pulled back in every area,” she says.

As a consequence, she managed to complete her Higher School Certificate, but it was an “okay pass that wasn’t anything to write home about”, she admits.

In many ways, it was the “okay pass”, rather than the bullying, that has driven Lisa’s adult life. “I was whipping myself that I hadn’t tried harder. And I think there was a part of me that said, right, I’ve got to make up for it.”

Lisa had decided she wanted to get into the media and that television was her first love, inspired by Brian Henderson reading the six o’clock news and Mike Willesee’s A Current Affair.

On becoming a journalist, Lisa says, she decided she had to make up for the fact that she didn’t have a great HSC. “I wanted to get into the media, but I lived way out in Campbelltown, I didn’t go to private school, so I didn’t have any old school tie to fall back on and I had no contacts anywhere. So I thought I’m going to have to make up for that in sheer hard work. I put my head down and my bum up, and worked hard.”

After a stint on a secretarial course, she won a coveted job as Girl Friday on Dolly magazine. Two years later, she was appointed the editor at age 21. You could say she made up for it in record time.

Read more about Lisa Wilkinson in the February issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly out now.

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The Leanne Edelsten story

Photography by Peter Brew-Bevan. Styling by Maia Liakos

Photography by Peter Brew-Bevan. Styling by Maia Liakos

Was Leanne Edelsten just a pretty trophy bride who soaked up “millionaire medico” Dr Geoffrey Edelsten’s money and fame, but left him when the going got tough? Michael Sheather reveals a very different story.

There are two Leanne Edelstens. One is a beautiful 21-year-old woman draped across the bonnet of a bright pink European sports car, her face framed by a cascade of blonde hair, a designer skirt ending precipitously where her thighs begin.

Yet that Leanne Edelsten – once the wife of Sydney’s so-called “millionaire medico”, the controversial medical entrepreneur Dr Geoffrey Edelsten – today exists only in newspaper photographs and distant memory, though it remains an unrelenting image that has haunted Leanne through most of her adult life.

The other Leanne Edelsten is much older and wiser, someone who no longer courts the dubious affirmation of rampant publicity. She is a woman of experience and maturity who, at 46, has transformed her life, going to university and carving out a rewarding career as an intensive care nurse in one of Sydney’s busiest and most respected hospitals, and is today the dedicated mother of two beautiful teenage girls.

This Leanne Edelsten is a woman tempered in fire, strong and determined, who has learned the painful lesson that her destiny should be shaped only by her own hand. She is a woman whose life reads like the script of some incredible movie and includes a terrifying stalker, who left her traumatised and fearing for her life, a prominent politician who offered to make her then husband’s many legal problems disappear in return for an ongoing sexual relationship, and a husband who, she alleges, forged her signature on loan documents and left her with crippling debt before she stepped in to take over his crumbling medical empire and repay the money, ultimately walking away with nothing.

This Leanne Edelsten is no longer willing to allow the many misconceptions about her to perpetuate. This Leanne Edelsten wants to be heard.

“I want people to know what really did happen all those years ago,” she says. “I have sat back for the past 25 years and been told repeatedly by people that I ran away with Geoffrey’s money or that I ran out on him when the money ran out.

“This is one piece of history that I want to correct – for myself, for my children, my family, for my friends who all know the truth. There was a reason I left him. He betrayed me and left me with debts of hundreds of thousands of dollars. I have lived with misconceptions about me for decades and, now, I want people to know the truth.”

Leanne has never spoken about the end of her marriage to Dr Geoffrey Edelsten, the man who once famously bought her a helicopter, a mink-lined Italian-made De Tomaso Pantera sports car and a footy team, the Sydney Swans. It is perhaps the biggest secret of her colourful and high-flying past.

She and Geoffrey have spoken only a few times since their divorce became final in 1988. Struck off the NSW medical register in the same year, he served 12 months in Goulburn jail after being convicted, in July 1990, of soliciting a hit man to assault a man he believed was stalking Leanne and for perverting the course of justice.

He began a new life in Melbourne, where on November 29 last year (coincidentally Leanne’s birthday) he married again, to another much younger woman, American Brynne Gordon, who, at 26, is 40 years his junior.

Leanne also has a new life. After her divorce, she remarried and had two daughters. That marriage ended in 2004 and Leanne is now bringing up her daughters on her own, working as a nurse in the intensive care ward of Sydney’s St Vincent’s Hospital.

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The doctor’s wife

In 1980s Sydney, a city in which flamboyance could be a finely tuned art form, Geoffrey stood out as the playboy king of conspicuous consumption.

“Pamela [Leanne’s modelling agent] called me in and told me that there was this guy producing a coffee table book about Sydney identities and their car collections,” says Leanne. “Geoffrey was one of them. Pam said go out there on Sunday and do some shots with the cars. It’s all paid for, but watch this guy, he’s a real playboy. Call your father when you get there and call him when you leave.”

It was scheduled for July 29, 1983. Leanne was 19 and had been modelling for about a year. The job involved several facets. Geoffrey wanted to interview her to see if she was suitable. He wanted her to drive his Ferrari as part of a planned promotional video and be photographed with him and the cars for the book. The only thing was that Leanne couldn’t drive a manual car.

“The only experience I had was at school, when I took a friend’s Mini for a drive in the Todd River at Alice Springs when it was dry,” recalls Leanne. “I had no idea how to drive a sports car. But I figured, how hard can it be? A friend gave me a lesson the day before and off I went.”

It proved a disaster. Geoffrey asked Leanne to drive his Ferrari while he sat in the passenger’s seat. “I need to see if you can handle the car,” he explained. “Can you drive a manual?” “Oh, yeah,” said Leanne.

“I literally turned the ignition and kangaroo-hopped the car up the drive,” she says. “I managed to get out the gate, but it stalled on a hill in the next block and he just killed himself laughing. He looked at me and said, ‘You don’t drive, do you?’, as I sat there trying to hill-start a Ferrari. I said, ‘No’, and he said, ‘Well, I’m impressed that you came anyway. It shows interest and commitment to the job’. That’s how we met.”

It quickly became apparent to Leanne that Geoffrey was attracted to her. “It was intense, right from the word go,” she says. “We finished the interview and it seemed to go well. As I started to get ready to leave, he asked if I would like to go to dinner with him that evening. I didn’t quite know what to say. I said I have to ring my father and Dad spoke to him, and he promised to drive me home.”

That evening, Geoffrey took Leanne to dinner at the Regent Hotel in central Sydney. It was a business dinner with a man named Bob Pritchard, at the time Geoffrey’s business manager. Leanne was privy to a discussion about buying the Sydney Swans AFL team.

“They were talking about whether it was possible and whether it would all work, what they would have to do to make it fly,” recalls Leanne. “It was the first time they’d talked about the Swans.

“After that, Geoffrey drove me home. He was very polite and a complete gentleman, very respectful. He walked me to the door and said, ‘Good evening, it was lovely to meet you’. And he left and I didn’t really think any more about it.”

Yet, next morning, a delivery man knocked on the door of Leanne’s family home. He was embarrassed because he was carrying a 183cm pink teddy bear with a stethoscope around its neck. “He was red-faced and kept muttering, ‘I am a fully grown man and I had to drive all the way here with a pink bear in the passenger’s seat because it’s too big to fit in the back. Look, can you just sign’,” says Leanne. “It was hilarious.”

The next week, he asked her out on their first date and took her to the San Francisco Grill in Sydney’s Kings Cross. “He asked me to marry him that night,” she says. “And I wasn’t in love with him. I think I liked him. I said, ‘You make me laugh, you’re a really nice man, but I don’t want to marry you.’ He just looked back and said, ‘I’m a very patient man and I always get what I want. I’ll wait.’ He was very self-assured.”

During the next few months, Geoffrey tried to win her affections. “He wooed me and spent every waking minute he could with me,” she says. “For my 20th birthday, he booked a surprise party at the Hilton Hotel and he organised the [Royal] Australian Navy Band to play Happy Birthday for me when I walked through the foyer,” says Leanne. “He told me that he’d seen Paul Newman do that for Joanne Woodward, while he was living in Los Angeles.”

Not long after, Geoffrey again asked her to marry him. “He sat me down and he was clearly upset. He said that he was really in love with me. He told me that he knew that I had said I wouldn’t marry him, but asked me to reconsider. He started to cry and told me that he was Jewish and if that was a problem, then I should tell him because he wanted to marry me. I realised that I had fallen in love with him and that I did adore him, and later, even when I divorced him, I was still in love with him.”

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Sam’s the man

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Hunky Avatar star Sam Worthington is Hollywood’s hottest new property, yet as the former bricklayer tells Elaine Lipworth, he’s determined to hang on to his roguish ways.

Just after his 30th birthday, Sam Worthington woke up early one morning in his rented Sydney house and had a revelation. “I looked around and thought, ‘I need to get rid of everything I own, the toaster, knives and forks, TV, the lot’. So I had an auction at my house. It was like, ‘20 bucks for the TV, do I hear 25?’

“We had a really good night of it and I made a grand total of $2000. I thought, ‘I’m 30 years old, how come I’ve only got two grand?’ ”

There was no way Sam could know that, in six months’ time, he would be starring in Avatar, the biggest blockbuster of the decade, yet it was as if, subconsciously, he was clearing the decks. Was it a premonition?

“Maybe,” he says, grinning. “I don’t know why I did it. I woke up that day and was just at the end of a tether – my career wasn’t stalling, but it wasn’t going anywhere.

“I thought, ‘I need to reboot my life. I don’t like the position I’m in.’ I think a man is defined by what he owns and I don’t like what I own.”

Two weeks later, Sam went on a taped audition in Sydney, without knowing who or what film it was for. “The attitude I had was, ‘Blow this!’ I was frustrated because, as an actor, no one tells you anything – you feel like a puppet, so I put a bit of sass on it. I was a bit rebellious.”

Within days, out of the blue, he got a call from Titanic director James Cameron’s “people”, instructing him to fly to Los Angeles for urgent talks about starring in the director’s 3-D, sci-fi action adventure. Using groundbreaking digital technology, Avatar has redefined cinema as we know it, by pulling the audience into the world they see on screen.

“I was at the top of a mountain, in the middle of winter, snowboarding,” Sam recalls. “They phoned my friend’s mobile because I don’t have one and said, ‘James Cameron wants to meet you’. I said, ‘What the hell for?’ I was like, ‘Let me get down to the bottom of the mountain because I could die and I will be there when I can’.”

James, it turns out, wanted Sam to play Jake Sully, the hero of his futuristic fantasy about a paraplegic ex-marine who is recruited by the military to take part in a mission on Pandora, a distant moon in the Alpha Centauri star system. Using genetic engineering, humans on Pandora can project their mind and emotions (or consciousness) inside “avatars”, the giant blue bodies of alien hybrids, which closely resemble the native humanoid population, the Na’vi.

It’s James Cameron’s first film since Titanic, which came out in 1997, made $1.94billion and is still the most successful film of all time, holding the global box office record, although Avatar already looks set to make new box office records.

A jobbing actor and former bricklayer from Perth, Sam had made a name for himself locally in a number of small films, including 2004’s critically acclaimed Somersault, but was unknown outside Australia.

This was his big, once-in-a-lifetime break, but later that day, when he actually had a conversation with James Cameron, he had the audacity to delay the meeting. “Jim said, ‘How quickly can you get here?’ ” says Sam, “and I said, ‘Well, first I need to help my mate move a fridge and fix my car’, because I was going to give it to another mate. I got off the phone and said, ‘I think I’ve just told Jim Cameron to wait’.”

It’s indicative of his innate confidence that Sam refuses to be at anyone’s beck and call. “Jim didn’t mind,” says the actor with a grin. “He said, ‘You’re loyal and you’ve got your priorities right. Get here when you can.’ ”

The car fixed, Sam arrived in California and, still jet-lagged, met the director. “He hadn’t seen any of my work in Australia, but he said that two-minute audition was enough. He thought I was for real. The first line of my audition was, ‘Are you Jake Sully?’ and I say, ‘Yes, sir’, and then I went, ‘Uh-huh’, and Jim said, ‘You had me at uh-huh’.”

Avatar will put the actor on a fast track to stardom and colossal wealth. Yet Sam wouldn’t sign on for the project before checking out his potential boss, essentially auditioning him. Other directors would be insulted; James was impressed.

“I took Jim to dinner,” Sam explains. “He chose the place, a Greek restaurant round the corner from his house in Malibu. I asked him who his heroes were. They’re not actors, mostly astronauts and scientists. I knew other actors wouldn’t ask that because they think it is all about them. I think it’s about your relationship with the director. I went to his house, we spent time together, to find out if we were on the right track

Read more about Sam in the February issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly on sale now with Lisa Wilkinson on the cover.

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Elin wants to stay with Tiger for kids’ sake

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It seems that although the troublesome Tiger Woods has been linked to more than 13 mistresses, wife Elin Nordegren is keen to make their marriage work for the sake of the couple’s children.

A source from Florida told People magazine that Elin wanted to stay with cheating Tiger because of the couple’s two young children, two-year-old Sam and 11-month-old Charlie.

“Elin wants a solid family life,” the unnamed source told the magazine.

“She was a child of divorce and felt her dad slighted her. She absolutely does not want that to happen to Sam and Charlie. So she wants to keep her family together even if she and Tiger live together as friends instead of lovers.”

Elin demonstrated just how much she wants their marriage to work after she reportedly visited Tiger during his therapy at the Pine Grove addiction clinic in Hattiesburg, Mississippi, taking part in their “Gentle Path” program.

Elin is not the only one concerned about her two children. Tiger is also keen to work towards repairing the couple’s marriage for the sake of the children, the source told the magazine.

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Denise opens up to Oprah about Charlie

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Actress and former model, Denise Richards, has opened up to talk show host Oprah Winfrey about her troubled relationship with ex-husband and father of her two young children, Charlie Sheen.

The mother of two talked about how she dealt with Charlie calling her from jail on Christmas Day, after he allegedly threatened his current wife Brooke Mueller. Denise also told Oprah how she broke the news to their daughters, five-year-old Sam and four-year-old Lola.

After making it clear on her reality TV show, Denise Richards: It’s Complicated that she doesn’t often enjoy media interviews and is usually reluctant to speak about her divorce, the 38-year-old opened up saying she felt “sad” for Charlie and Brooke’s situation.

“Perhaps people can understand what I went through,” she said.

People magazine reported that the interview includes details of Denise and Charlie’s troubled relationship in which she said he never physically threatened her, but verbally abused her.

“I was in a very dark place,” she reportedly said in the interview. “Especially when I filed the restraining order. I was humiliated. I was scared. I was embarrassed.”

However, after a long process and work with a mediator, Denise now says the pair are in a “in a great place”.

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