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Isla and Sacha married at last!

Isla and Sacha married at last!

The actress ties the knot with Borat’s creator, writes Katherine Chatfield.

Isla Fisher has married her long-term fiancé, comedian Sacha Baron Cohen, in a romantic sunset ceremony in Paris, Woman’s Day can reveal.

The notoriously private couple invited just a few close relatives to witness them become husband and wife in a traditional Jewish ceremony last Monday.

“We did it – we’re married!” bubbled an ecstatic Isla, 34, in an email to friends around the world the following day. “It was the absolute best day of my life and in so many beautiful moments I missed you all so much.

I thought of you as everything was happening, but Sacha and I wanted no fuss – just us!”

The Australian actress and Sacha, 38, became engaged in 2004, but despite having a daughter, Olive, now two years old, they postponed their wedding several times. This led to speculation they were reluctant to make their relationship official.

However, friends of the couple say they were simply waiting for the right time to get hitched.

“They were never bothered by the constant public pressure to marry and all along were just considering the venue – Australia or the US,” a friend says. “Paris was the late starter but was the best option at short notice for their families, and it won them over with romance.”

In spite of Sacha’s outrageous alter ego Borat, the UK comedian is said to be very shy in real life. It’s why the pair opted for an intimate celebration instead of a lavish affair in Hollywood with celebrity pals such as Jennifer Aniston and Naomi Watts.

Friends claim the newlyweds’ differences are what makes them a successful couple.

For the full story see this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale March 22, 2010.

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Tori’s super party

Tori's super party

It wasn’t just little Liam McDermott who thought his third birthday party was super. His mum and dad got in on the action too!

Most toddlers reckon their parents are superheroes, but in the case of Liam McDermott, he now has photographic proof!

The three-year-old got to show off his Wonder Woman mum Tori Spelling and Caped Crusader dad Dean McDermott to friends at his superhero-themed third birthday party in Hollywood.

Little sister Stella Doreen, 21 months, joined in the fun. She donned her own cape and mask for the colourful celebration, which featured an array of cartoon-themed cakes with enough food colouring to send sugar levels into outer space.

It’s hardly a surprise Tori, 36, would make it an elaborate affair.

Her mum Candy and late father, TV mogul Aaron Spelling, once rented a snow machine for her to enjoy a white Christmas in LA.

For the full story see this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale March 22, 2010.

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Bob Irwin reveals: I hear Steve from the grave

Bob Irwin reveals: I hear Steve from the grave

Bob Irwin explains to Warren Gibbs how Woman’s Day’s acclaimed psychic Deb Webber connected him with his beloved son.

For the first time since Steve Irwin’s tragic death, his father, Bob, has finally managed to find peace and contentment – after an extraordinary beyond-the-grave encounter with his son.

Although Bob says he has long sensed Steve’s presence around him, he reveals it wasn’t until he received Steve’s message of love and support from the other side that he was convinced his son’s spirit truly lives on – and wants him to be happy.

“He has told me everything is OK, not to be sad and to keep up the fight, to continue looking after the animals,” Bob, 69, tells Woman’s Day.

A former psychic cynic, Bob describes his first true spiritual experience with Steve – who was killed three years ago by a stingray barb while diving in north Queensland – as both “powerful and moving”.

“Steve told me things only he and I knew about,” he reveals. “I still get goose bumps just thinking about it.”

Deb Webber put Bob in touch with Steve during a reading at his remote bush property, Camp Chilli, near Bundaberg in Queensland. Bob had requested the reading with Deb after she was recommended by a friend.

“I told Deb how I had felt Steve around me, how I would often wander into the bush, sit on a rock and open my heart to Steve,” Bob says. “I just desperately wanted to talk to him, and Deb thankfully made that possible. “Steve was so much more than a son to me, he was my best mate.”

For the full story see this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale March 22, 2010.

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Inside Ann Ann’s psychic world

Inside Ann Ann's psychic world

Inside Ann Ann's psychic world

Woman’s Day’s clairvoyant shares the secrets of her incredible gifts with Glen Williams.

Caressing a tombstone with the back of her hand, Ann Ann says she feels at peace. Sitting in the quiet shade of a gothic cemetery not far from her Brisbane home, the Woman’s Day psychic chats away to the dead with an energy most wouldn’t waste on the living.

“Whenever I feel anxious or uptight, I come here,” she says. “I come here to gather my thoughts and I always walk away feeling loved and with my problems solved.”

The day we visit Ann, she hears a mother repeating the words, “Nobody cried for me.”

With a bit of research, Ann discovers the mother was the last to die in her family and had no relatives to grieve her passing. Ann whispers soothing words to put the mother at peace.

The scene seems perfectly normal to Ann, who then spies a young nurse walking among the graves. She sees a man following the nurse, wanting to be near her. He turns to face Ann.

“Oh, that’s Garry Lynch,” she says casually. “The father of Anita Cobby.” When Woman’s Day informs Ann that Anita, who was murdered in Sydney in 1986 aged 26, was a nurse, she gets a shiver.

“That must have been Anita, then. She was beautiful and wearing a nurse’s uniform.”

There is no explanation as to why the ghosts of Anita and her father would be in a Brisbane graveyard – but then, who really can explain the paranormal and the spiritual world?

Ann believes her psychic gift has been with her from birth. “I’ve never tried to restrict it,” she says. “Growing up I’ve used it in most areas of my life. I see it as like having an extra arm.”

This “extra arm” means it isn’t unusual for her to hear voices of the dead or have her sleep interrupted by messages from the other side. “That’s why I keep a notebook by my bed,” she explains. “I jot down what comes to me. Often these messages can be clues to a crime.

“I seem to pick up on children a lot as I was in an orphanage until the age of four-and-a-half.”

Ann’s childhood was tough. When she was finally adopted, her adoptive mother, an alcoholic, would hit her with frying pans.

“That just made me determined to never do that with my children,” says Ann, a loving mum of five and doting grandmother of five. But does she get spooked by the array of spirits that drop by unannounced?

For the full story see this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale March 22, 2010.

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Young women are three times as sexually active as their grandmothers

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It should be no surprise that young people are more sexually active now than people were 60 years ago, but a new survey shows just how much things have changed.

By the age of 24, young women have on average three times as many sexual partners as their grandmothers did at the same age.

The survey, conducted for Lloyds Pharmacy in the UK, asked 3000 British women of different ages to recall their sexual experiences and showed that by 24, today’s generation of young women had slept with an average of 5.65 men.

In contrast, their mothers’ generation, who were at the same age in the early 1980s, had taken 3.72 lovers, and their grandmothers had slept with just 1.67 partners at the same age.

The pharmacy told the UK’s Daily Telegraph that increasing promiscuity among women could be one of the reasons that incidences of cervical cancer have not fallen among under-25s in recent years, despite falls among older age groups.

Most of the 3000 cases of the disease recorded in the UK each year are caused by the human papillomavirus (HPV), a sexually transmitted infection.

The debate is England is now centred on whether the government should pay to vaccinate girls against the virus.

In Australia, where vaccination is more prevalent, experts are calling for a reduction in invasive and expensive Pap smears for the under-25s, claiming that an increase in HPV vaccination would have a greater effect on cervical cancer rates.

Westmead Hospital director of gynaecological oncology, Dr Gerry Wain, told the ABC last year:

“Screening has no benefit in this age group and there should be a major review of the way we conduct screening in Australia, especially given the impact of the cervical cancer vaccine on HPV prevalence rates.”

He added that Australia’s high HPV vaccination rate would dramatically reduce the incidence and prevalence of the virus in younger groups.

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Six reasons to plant a tree and how to do it

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1. The world is happier with trees:

Seriously, areas with trees have a lower crime rate and illness rates. This isn’t just because wealthy areas have brighter gardens and street trees: when trees and greenery are planted in disaffected areas the graffiti and other more serious crimes decrease as the trees grow bigger. It seems we humans are just happier with trees about us.

2. Save money:

Grow fruit and nut trees to add nuts to your muesli, apples to snack on, oranges for your morning juice, mandarins for the kid’s lunch boxes, avocadoes for dinner and plums for jam and chutney. About 60 percent of our family’s food comes from the trees in our garden; some days it’s much more than that, especially if you count the eggs from garden-fed backyard chooks.

3. Warmth and shade:

A deciduous tree will cool you in summer, then let in sunlight in winter. In humid areas go for tall trees such as palms that will shade the roof but let breezes flow through the garden.

4. Memories:

I measure my life in our garden’s growth: the lime trees I planted the year my son was born, the daphne I planted when my grandmother died, the cuttings from

friends. Kids love to see who grows fastest, them or the tree. The tree always wins in the end, but by then it doesn’t matter.

5. Friendship:

No two trees are the same. You never quite know what your tree will look like in 20 years’ time. And, yes, a tree can be your friend, silent and solid in your garden.

6. Beauty:

Trees are big — that means a lot of loveliness, whether it’s from many-hued autumn leaves or massed flowers of jacarandas or the bright fruit of oranges or red apples or the yellow glow of lemons. I love the dappled bark of smoke bushes and crepe myrtle and spotted gums, one of my favourite trees of all. And this is the perfect time to fall in love with a good tree: the soil is still warm, the days not too hot. This is a time to wander into the garden, and start planting.

How to plant a tree:

1. Dig a hole twice as wide and deep as the pot the tree is in, or the tree’s roots if you are planting a “bare rooted” tree later in winter.

2. Take out any rocks from the soil.

3. Make a slight hill of dirt inside the hole to rest the centre of the tree’s roots on.

4. Stand your tree in the hole, so the soil level is the same as it was in its pot. Add more soil to the mound if it’s not high enough, or push some away if it’s too high.

5. Push the rest of the soil back into the hole around the roots.

6. Stamp hard on the soil to make sure it’s firm around the roots. Roots don’t get fed or watered if there are air pockets.

7. Let the hose dribble in the slight depression around the tree for about an hour. This will mean that the water really trickles down to below root level, and will compact any tiny air holes too.

8. Mulch, making sure the mulch is at least 20cm away from the tree trunk. Mulch too close to the trunk can cause wood rot in young trees.

9. Scatter on some slow-release plant food (follow directions on the packet).

10. Water once a week for a year, and once a month for the next two years.

11. In windy areas, or if your young tree is 2m high or more when you plant it, place three stakes about a metre away from the trunk, then use plant ties to loosely attach the trunk to the stakes. Don’t use one stake in the middle — the tree trunk will grow tall and thin and dependent on the stake and may snap when it’s removed. The three stakes will allow for a bit of “wind rock”, so the roots are firmer and your tree will be hardier and better able to withstand more wind and storms when it’s older.

12. If a branch is in the way, cut it out. It’s best to do this when the branch is only a young shoot so there’s a smaller wound to the tree. If you have to cut large branches, cover with anti-fungal paint. Any garden nursery will have a selection for you to choose from. Just follow instructions.

13. If your tree wilts on hot summer days, don’t worry — it’ll recover. But if it is still wilted at night, it needs water. A tree is an investment in time and money and happiness. And trees are loved, not just by you and your family, but by passers-by as well. Like all old friends, your trees deserve a bit of tending.

Your say: Have you planted trees before? What tree care tips can you share with us? [email protected]

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Walnut, a wonderful a nut

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Did you know a regular intake of walnuts has been associated with many positive health benefits including a reduction in LDL or “bad” cholesterol, reduced risk of coronary heart disease, protection against cancer and even help in the control of high blood pressure. In addition, walnuts may even have anti-inflammatory properties which could help to reduce the effects of arthritis.

When compared to other nuts, walnuts contain significantly higher amounts of a heart healthy fat, omega-3. Omega-3 is an essential fatty acid which can be sourced only from certain foods. This is important as your body cannot make omega-3 and therefore it is essential that these food sources are included in your diet.

Omega-3 fatty acids are polyunsaturated fatty acids, which have been proven to reduce both cholesterol and blood triglyceride levels. In addition to omega-3 fatty acids, walnuts also contain many other beneficial nutrients including magnesium, dietary fibre and vitamin E.

Interestingly, in medieval times it was believed that walnuts had properties that could be used to cure head ailments, increase intellectual ability and have calming effects. This was due to the walnut’s close resemblance to the human brain.

It has been shown that this was not such a strange notion as today the walnut is considered a great brain food. Why not try having a handful before an exam or important meeting?

Eating a small handful of walnuts a day can be enough to reap their health benefits. Walnuts are great to eat as a snack but can also be added to almost any dish. They add texture and flavour to salads, pastas and even desserts such as muffins, fruit crumbles and cakes and are delicious crushed and sprinkled onto ice cream.

For an interesting twist try toasting them and using them to dress up your family’s favourite dish!

Your say: How do you include walnuts into your diet? Have you experienced any of the positive health benefits from consuming walnuts regularly?

This information is provided by the Sanitarium Nutrition Service.

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Victims of the Oscars Curse!

What do Sandra Bullock, Reese Witherspoon and Kate Winslet all have in common? They have all fallen victim to the Oscars love curse.

Although winning an Oscar is usually the highlight of any actresses’ career, these days it seems taking home the little golden statue might not be the best thing for long-lasting pairings.

Actresses recently bitten by the curse include Sandra Bullock, who only three weeks ago won Best Actress for The Blind Side and Kate Winslet, won best actress for The Reader at last year’s Oscars.

And actresses such as Reese Witherspoon – who won Best Actress for Walk the Line, Hilary Swank – who won Oscars for Million Dollar Baby and for Boy’s Don’t Cry, and Charlize Theron – who won for Monster, eventually all ended the relationships they were in at the time of winning the Oscar.

Sandra Bullock and Jesse James at the 2010 Oscars

Kate Winslet and Sam Mendes at the Oscars in 2009

Reese Witherspoon and Ryan Phillippe at the Oscars in 2006

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How to stop fighting over money

If spending habits are hurting your relationship, it’s time to act. Money is one of the top four causes of conflict in a relationship, according to Relationships Australia. No matter what we argue about — he spends too much, she hides the bills, there isn’t enough to go round — we do argue. And the dollars and cents may not even be the real issue.

“Most people fight about money because our families or origin impact how we regard money,” says Melbourne psychologist Meredith Fuller. “It can be an emotional issue, and no amount of financial advice can solve the problem.”

If yours was a family that did it tough, you’ll look at the world differently to a partner whose parents weren’t short of cash or believed things would always turn out for the best. Money isn’t just a stack of notes — it represents power, freedom, independence and security.

“Part of the problem is that we don’t talk about it enough,” says Melbourne financial counsellor Sheila Freeman. “It only comes up in a crisis. Ideally, you’d work through the bills together so you both know what it costs to live.”

Let’s face it, in the current climate we’re even more likely to have “heated debates” about money. Here’s how to stop those arguments turning into warfare.

Make it just about money

It’s hard, but avoid bringing up other relationship issues that have been bugging you. “Very often couples will scream and yell about money,” says psychologist Jane Haufbaum, “but they’re really arguing about sex, who’s doing the housework, or who isn’t putting the kids to bed. Money is an easy cause to latch onto.”

Sit down and discuss only the issues at hand. If you feel your partner has overspent, tell them that, but don’t use phrases like, “That’s so like you” or “I’ve told you before”. It will only escalate.

Remember you’re in this together

Screaming at each other won’t pay the mortgage. You have to work together, and the best way to do this is to write a mission statement for your finances. This might sound odd, but it works.

“Just write down your financial goals. It may be as immediate as, ‘We need to pay the mortgage next month’, or it might be, ‘We have to limit our outgoings by 30 percent’,” says Jane. “If you have a shared goal, you’ll both focus better.”

Play to your strengths

Think about your partner. Are they a planner? Do they love spreadsheets? Think about your own strengths and weaknesses, and when you draw up a budget, use the person with the relevant skills to organise key areas.

Talking about money problems

Pick a place that’s neutral territory and put a time limit on the talk. Don’t make it a blame session. Concentrate on ideas for managing better instead.

If one of you has trouble saving, try writing down every cent you spend to see exactly where the money is going. That way you can more easily work out where you can trim costs.

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Sandra’s Husband’s shock cheating claims

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Jesse James and Sandra Bullock at the 2010 Oscars

Oscar-winning actress Sandra Bullock has pulled out of the London premiere of her new movie, The Blind Side, following claims her husband of five years Jesse James, had an affair, People magazine reported.

“Due to unforeseen personal reasons a trip abroad to support The Blind Side has been deemed impossible at this time,” the 45-year-old actress said in a media release.

“I apologise for any inconvenience this may have caused and thank you for your continued support of the film.”

The actress’ husband, who supported his wife throughout the awards season, allegedly had an 11-month affair with tattoo magazine cover girl Michelle “Bombshell” McGee.

The heavily tattooed model told US magazine In Touch that she was not aware Jesse and Sandra were still together at the time of their hook-up, while Sandra was shooting The Blind Side in Atlanta last year.

“I asked him, ‘What’s going on with you and Sandra?’ He said, ‘She doesn’t live here. She has a house in Austin. She is filming, and I can’t talk about it,” Michelle told the magazine.

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