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How to keep your brain young!

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Keeping yourself feeling young on the outside, will help you to feel young on the inside. Michael Merzenich, a neuroscientist at the University of California San Francisco, says our brains start slowing down at 30-years-old, but studies show you can train the brain to be young again by doing activities that challenge and excite you.

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Practice what you know as you get older and teach others in the process. This will help to stimulate your brain and pass on your years of knowledge.

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Mind stimulations through puzzles and word games will keep your mind active and busy. Neurologist David Bennett of Rush University Medical Center in Chicago says the brains of those who practice brain stimulation decline at a slower rate.

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Eating foods rich with antioxidants such as fruit and vegetables will help boost your brain and keep it healthy.

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Learning something new will excite your brain and get it thinking differently. If you do the same thing day in, day out your brain will not be stimulated as much as it should be.

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Daniel Amen, the medical director of the Amen Clinics in Newport Beach in California says learning a new language really pushes the linguistic and memory centres of the brain. It also gives you something new and exciting to think about and a good excuse to go on holiday!

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Studies have found that exercise is not only important for you physical health but for your mental health as well. Mark McDaniel, of psychology at Washington University in St. Louis, says exercise may forestall some kinds of mental decline.

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Say no to stressful situations and learn how to laugh. Taking things too seriously can have a bad effect on the brain. Choose to laugh instead and let the chemical dopamine, which is released when you laugh, help you feel good!

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How to lose weight without trying!

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Trying to lose weight? The little things you are doing in your day may be contributing more to your weight loss than you realise. Here are the top 13 ways to lose weight through everyday activities without even realising it!

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Vacuuming the floor can help you lose up to 500 kilojoules. Who would have though cleaning would have been so beneficial!

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Using a push lawnmower (not a ride on!) can help you to lose 800 kilojoules. And the harder you push the more you will benefit!

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Ditch the car and walk your kids to school. This not only helps you lose up to 600 kilojoules but will teach your kids a good lesson!

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Depending on how hard you are working, having sex can help you lose between 400 and 600 kilojoules.

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Mopping can help you lose up to 500 kilojoules and it’s also a great way to help you tone your shoulders and arms.

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Sometimes you don’t need to do anything at all! Simply sleeping can help you lose 120 to 150 kilojoules per hour.

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Get working in the garden and you could lose 400 kilojoules if you’re raking leaves and moving around.

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Putting the washing out to dry can help you lose 300 kilojoules. This can increase depending on the number of loads you do.

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Kissing your partner passionately will help you lose around 20 kilojoules per kiss. And we aren’t talking about just a peck on the cheek!

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Do you find cleaning windows a pain? It’s because you are working the muscles in your arms to get the job done and losing around 750 kilojoules at the same time. The harder you rub the windows the harder the work-out.

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Use the stairs in your home as much as you can. Plan your cleaning around running up and down the stairs.

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Take your work-out to the kitchen and ditch the electric mixer! Beating and whipping up ingredients get the arm muscles working. The same thing goes for kneading dough

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When you’re doing your housework work-out have your favourite music going. It will make each task a little more fun!

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Ten unlikely but proven diet tips

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Struggling to shed those few extra kilograms? Leading UK health and fitness magazine, Men’s Health, has compiled a list of 100 weight-loss tips proven to get results. Here are our favourite diet tricks from the lengthy list that will help you shrink your waistline and reach your weight goals.

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Did you know training with a friend can help you get better weight-loss results? Hit the gym with a friend or train in a group and you’ll see fat fall from your waistline faster.

It can be difficult to stay motivated when exercising alone, but when you have a buddy pushing you to get fit it’s easier to stay on track and vice versa for your training partner.

People who train with friends lose a third more weight than if you go on your own, Men’s Health reported.

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Not willing to forgo alcohol on your diet? A daily glass of red wine can stop you putting on fat, especially around your belly. Resveratrol from the grapes inhibits the development of fat cells around your waist.

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Sex burns 630 kilojoules every 20 minutes and releases a hormone that increases your metabolism. So it’s time to undress and ruffle the sheets.

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No matter how stressful your day is or how booked up your diary may be, you need to take your lunch break away from your desk. You’ll consume 1050 fewer kilojoules in a day than those who eat as they work. Plus, it’s good practice to also go for a short walk during your lunch break. Not only will it help you reach your weight goals, it will also help you stay focused and see better more productive results in the afternoon at work.

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Soy proteins interact with receptors in our brains that tell us we’re full. Just don’t drizzle too much as soy sauce is high in salt. And if you’re wheat intolerant it’s a good idea to avoid as most contain wheat.

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They also suggest taking a calcium supplement. You’ll lose 2.6 percent more fat than those who don’t.

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Eating chillies is great way to fast-track your weight-loss goal. They assist in speeding up your metabolism to help you lose weight. They’re also high in vitamin C, potassium, magnesium and iron.

Men’s Health said the reason the magazine listed con carne in their top 100 is because an enzyme in kidney beans tells the body to break down stored fat instead of carbs for energy, while mince boosts your metabolism.

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Dust off the dinner table, people, and stop eating meals on the couch in front of the TV. The distraction of what’s on the box postpones the point at which you stop eating. Eating at the dinner table can cut 3.5kg of weight gain each year.

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Aside from making your sandwiches a little soggy, tomatoes have been found to make you feel fuller for longer and also keep hunger pains a bay. The fruit suppresses the hormone ghrelin, which is responsible for hunger pangs.

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Cinnamon spice is a powerful metabolism-raiser. Half a teaspoon a day is enough to burn an extra kilo a month.

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A good strong laugh for 10 to 15 minutes a day increases weekly energy consumption by up to 1200 kilojoules. Got any jokes anyone? For more tips and tricks, visit the UK’s Men’s Health website.

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Sophie Monk appears painfully thin at film premiere

It looks like Sophie Monk’s been on a break-up diet following the split from her cosmetic surgeon boyfriend, who she devastatingly caught in bed with another woman.

The 30-year-old Australian singer, who’s now pursuing an acting career in Hollywood, appeared painfully thin at the premiere of The Sorcerer’s Apprentice in LA on Monday night.

Her freshly dyed brown hair couldn’t distract eyes from her jutting shoulders and very fragile-looking arms.

In an interview with 2DayFM last week Sophie confided that upon discovering her ex cheating on her, she began shaking and stormed out of his home before returning to confront the pair.

“I walked back in and went, ‘What’s going on?’ and actually had a conversation,” Monk said.

“I spoke to the girl. She was in shock. I didn’t know her. She was innocent. [Then] I spilt coffee on his car very strategically.”

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Sophie looking healthier before the split

Sophie also dated Benji Madden from US band Good Charlotte between 2006 – 2008

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Late motherhood

The risk of miscarriages and fertility problems increases with age in both men and women, says geneticist Dr Judy Ford, author of a new e-book Starting your family after 30. But that doesn’t mean parenthood isn’t possible for older couples.

To increase your chances of a successful conception and healthy pregnancy — particularly after age 35 — it’s important to optimise your nutrition and lifestyle.

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My kids are driving me mad

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I hate to say this, but I’m sick of the atmosphere at home which is mainly caused by the kids not getting on. You name it, they’ll bicker over it.

It isn’t helped by my wife and I disagreeing over the best way to discipline them – she shouts and I prefer to ground them or send them to their rooms.

I love my kids but I’m sick of them. They argue over anything and are always pushing and shoving each other, fighting over toys and whining about everything, from washing their hands before meals to helping to tidy up.

Last week I had to go away for work and spent four nights in a lonely boring hotel room and it was absolute bliss – I’d forgotten how nice it is just not to have that constant racket. I know I sound very uncaring but I’d give anything to have the sort of peaceful family life everyone else seems to have.

One of the problems is that while the way you work means you share the child care, it also leaves you very little time as a couple, made worse by the constant breaking up of spats.

Organise a babysitter and go out together, giving yourselves thirty minutes to discuss sorting out this situation and the rest to relaxing and enjoying yourselves.

Kids by nature love to divide and rule, so agree on how you’re going to deal with this and then stick with it, because they will try to wear you down. You’re in a vicious circle at present where they have got into bad habits and they way you deal with it is disjointed and therefore ineffective.

Agree between yourselves that shouting isn’t the way to deal with this in the long term.

Start with a family conference and explain that you want some changes. Tell the children what you expect of them, make it clear that you’re asking them politely but emphasise that if they will not behave as you wish, then they will be punished.

You need to calmly withdraw treats so decide what is most effective – turning off the TV and computer, taking away games consoles and mobile phones, not allowing them to take part in favourite activities such as Brownies or sport, or not letting them see friends.

Not allowing them to spend time with friends if they cannot treat each other kindly can be very effective, especially if you express justifiable concern that you cannot trust them to behave in other people’s homes when they cannot behave at home.

Positive encouragement should be used at the same time; ask them to do things for you and thank them politely for their efforts.

Give them a basic dinner to prepare for the family on a Saturday evening such as homemade pizza, which has them working together and learning to enjoy being a team. Give them specific tasks, so they can work alongside each other.

Always be consistent. Treat the bad behaviour as unacceptable and having unwelcome consequences and reward the good, always giving more attention to the good.

Every family has the occasional moment of war breaking out but with a bit of concentrated effort you can make a huge difference to family harmony and actually find you like your kids as well as love them.

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Heart disease in women is more common than you think

Uncle Tobys spokeswoman, Olympian Cate Campbell hopes to educate women on the dangers of heart disease.

Do you know which disease kills four times as many women as breast cancer? If you don’t, you’re not alone – heart disease in women is often dangerously overlooked.

This is something young Aussie Olympian Cate Campbell hopes will soon change.

“Normally when I hear the words heart disease I think of a middle-aged man but that’s not the case at all,” Cate said.

“Heart disease is common in women. Everyone knows about breast cancer and it’s so important to get the message out there about heart disease as well.”

In 2008, 47 percent of people who died from heart disease in Australia were women, making it the leading cause of death for Australian women.

At just 18 years of age, Cate is passionate about informing women of all ages on the importance of knowing the dangers of heart disease in women and having regular check-ups for the disease.

Apart from being an Uncle Tobys spokeswoman, the company which runs the Go Red for Women event, Cate has her personal reasons for being so passionate about the cause.

“I had a small heart murmur when I was a baby,” Cate said.

“After I found that out I thought I would check my heart and keep an eye on it,” she said.

“When you think about it, what’s 20 minutes out of your day?”

Cate says heart disease in women is something that all women, no matter what their age, should be mindful of.

“The earlier the detection, the better. Now that I have the knowledge I know what I need to do and I know the warning signs,” she said.

“You can’t start too early.”

Medical research suggests that women tend to develop heart disease at a later age than men. It is not clear why this is the case, but it may be because oestrogen may provide some protection during the reproductive years.

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Review: *Mother and Child*

With a title as homely as this, you might expect a midday movie about the indefinable bond between a mother and her child. But what you get is something much more amazing.

Mother and Child begins with a montage of a young mother who gives up her child for adoption, before cutting to Karen (Annette Bening), now an uptight and difficult nurse, looking after her dying mother, and the object of Paco’s (Jimmy Smits) affections.

Elizabeth (Naomi Watts), Karen’s daughter, is a high-plains drifter of the legal variety who is taking up her fourth job in different states in 10 years to work for Paul (Samuel L Jackson). She is also measured and controlling in her actions and words. Lucy (Kerry Washington) and her husband Joseph (David Ramsey) want to adopt a child, and Lucy’s anxiety to be a mother is dominating her. And as their fates unfold, their stories slowly come together.

While the movie is about that unbreakable bond, it is examined through the prism of adoption. It looks at the impacts and issues of abandonment on both parties, how it translates to birthing mothers and the people around them.

It is also about the importance of time people need to spend together and how much time we waste looking for ourselves instead of each other. “Time you spend together is stronger than blood,” Paco’s daughter tells us.

The performances of Bening and Watts are sublime. The dialogue is stilted and sparse, yet they say so much with just a turn of their head or the look in their eyes. Some of their best acting involves no dialogue.

Bening and Watts are playing awkward people, scarred by their past, who grow as their lives unfold and they inhabit their characters so deeply, they make this magically moving material. Kerry Washington is unerringly good as the perfectionist mother-to-be. This is acting of the highest order and some of the best you will ever see.

It is heartening to see the male characters (played by Samuel L Jackson and Jimmy Smits) play their roles with complexity and sensitivity. The love scene between Samuel L Jackson and Watts is as awkward, passionless and tender as you will ever see.

There are no stereotypes here. Every support is played with strength and conviction and writer-director Rodrigo Garcia has drawn out some amazing performances from all of them. Shareeka Epps as Ray, the birthing mother, is so strong as a young mother, she will soon star on her own.

This is a film that should deliver higher rewards and awards for all concerned. While the ending may be sentimental, by then you will be lost in the characters’ embrace and happy to see their lives resolved, despite some of the bitter twists on offer.

It’s not often a movie can produce an experience as moving as this, but it is what you get when combining an under-written script, strong direction and beautiful acting and to achieve that is an art. This film is as close to it as you will get.

Mother and Child is in cinemas now.

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Living dolls

Living dolls

They are big business in America – now they’ve hit our shores. JONICA BRAY goes behind the scenes to see what really goes on at child beauty pageants.

They are real-life Barbie dolls… primped and preened with their eyes on the prized tiaras.But behind the scenes it’s not such a pretty scene, as I found with my daughter Caja at the Little Miss Bayside Pageant, in Patterson Lakes, Melbourne.

Inspired by hit US reality TV show Toddlers & Tiaras, Little Miss Bayside went to great lengths to Australianise itself, but the point was the same – children compete against each other to be the prettiest and most talented in the eyes of the judges.

Threats from protesters put organisers on the back foot, and public outcry caused the “swimsuit” category to be changed to the less provocative “active wear”.

The pageant was supposed to be a fun event, where little girls got to be princesses for a day. As my two-year-old Caja and I arrived I promised that as long as our objective was “fun”, all would be well. But when face-to-face with a baby in a pink tutu it was hard not to gently encourage Caja to brighten her smile a little.

Three hours later, I’d seen kids parade across the stage smiling sweetly and waving at their parents – most encouraging, some scary. The grandmother who loudly criticised contestants on stage was awful. Little girls weren’t allowed to play with their new friends in case their hair got mussed up.

“You had better do this right for mummy,” snapped one mum to a tot. “Make sure you look at the judges this time and baby steps, baby steps, baby steps when you’re walking out there.”

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Marion moves on

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The MasterChef favourite missed out on the title, but has won a much greater prize, writes LUCY CHESTERTON.

Marion Grasby might not have won MasterChef, but as she looks adoringly at her boyfriend Tim Althaus across a windswept South Australian beach it’s obvious she has won something even sweeter – his heart.

As Marion leaps onto Tim’s back in a playful, unguarded moment, then rolls up her jeans for a paddle in the chilly shallows, she couldn’t be happier to finally be back beside Tim, feeling the sand between her toes and with more than a thousand kilometres between her and the three beady-eyed MasterChef judges in Sydney.

“He was extremely happy to have me home,” Marion smiles. “The first thing he did was give me a giant cuddle. I missed his laugh and his sense of humour so much.”

While her time on the hit show is a life-changing achievement, being eliminated in ninth place wasn’t exactly the glorious ending Australia had predicted for Marion, who was dubbed the show’s frontrunner when she tempted the judges in her audition with an innovative twice-baked goat’s cheese soufflé matched with garlic snails.

But when her misguided satay sauce saw her slip up in the kitchen, Marion was more than happy to pack up her plates and rush into the welcoming arms of 29-year-old Tim, who remained at home in Adelaide.

“You can’t be perfect every day,” Marion muses. “Every time I walked into the kitchen I knew someone could be going home and it could be me.

“It was just a bad day in the kitchen for me, and it was unfortunate that it happened on a day when I was up for elimination.”

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