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Kirstie Alley’s weight loss triumph: “I lost six dress sizes!”

Kirstie Alley's weight loss triumph: "I lost six dress sizes!"

She’s almost 30kg lighter and dancing her way to good health. Kirstie Alley reveals why this time she’s going to make her weight-loss stick.

“I’ve lost 60 pounds [27kg] and I have 30 or 40 [13-18kg] more to go,” she reveals. “And with this strenuous, rigorous dance schedule, I think it’s going to work. It’s exciting.” And so far it does seem to be working. Kirstie recently tweeted, “Here’s a tip for any weight-loss plan: Dance for four or five hours a day. Sorta starts melting off!”

The 60-year-old – who’s become as famous in recent years for her body battle as she was for her award-winning role on 80s sitcom Cheers – has long struggled with her weight, tipping the scales at over 104 kilos in 2010.

But now, thanks to a renewed focus on her health, Kirstie’s back on track and determined to go from her current size 16 to a svelte size 12 – and her goal weight of 63kg – by the time the demanding dance contest finishes filming. After her first two hours of rehearsing for Dancing With The Stars, Kirstie was on the verge of passing out. “I turned white!” she told US TV show Entertainment Tonight.

“She was on the floor, in a full sweat, barely breathing,” says her dance partner Maksim Chmerkovskiy, adding that he’s impressed with how far Kirstie’s come since first putting foot inside the rehearsal rooms. Just two years ago, doctors were so worried about the Fat Actress star’s constant crash dieting and subsequent binge-eating, they reportedly gave her just four years to live.

Do you have a diet success story to share or are you having trouble beating the bulge? Share your stories and experiences with other Woman’s Day readers in our Diet Dilemmas forum.

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Suri still has a dummy!

She may have a $4 million wardrobe, a top-of-the-line Dolce & Gabbana handbag and a collection of heels to rival any Sex And The City star, but Suri Cruise’s favourite accessory has caused a stir for being a few seasons too old!

The daughter of Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, who turns five next month, still sucks on a dummy, and experts claim it could affect the development of her teeth and/or speech.

Opinions vary, but it’s generally thought kids should not use a dummy regularly beyond the age of six months. But Suri isn’t the only one, see more celebrity kids who can’t give up their dummy here.

Read more in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale March 14, 2011.

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Gwen Stefani’s son four-year-old Kingston.

Salma Hayek’s three-year-old daughter Valentina.

Katie Prices and Peter Andre’s daughter three-year-old Princess Tiaamii.

Matthew McConaughey’s three-year-old son Levi.

Britney Spears’ four-year-old Jayden.

Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck’s five-year-old daughter Violet.

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Bindi Irwin’s secret Hollywood dad

Bindi Irwin's secret Hollywood dad

The effervescent young actress and eco warrior has found an unlikely ‘second dad’ – movie star Beau Bridges.

The unlikely friends met through film, but it was their shared love of wildlife that really cemented the bond. And like Bindi’s dad Steve Irwin, Beau’s father, actor Lloyd Bridges, was also a keen conservationist.

The link between 69-year-old Beau and 12-year-old Bindi is so strong, the young Aussie sees the Bridges clan as a second family. “Beau is just wonderful and has become such a great mentor to Bindi and such a great friend,” mum Terri reveals on this week’s episode of This Is Your Life.

Beau and his family have made the long haul from Hollywood to celebrate the friendship between their families. Beau met Bindi on the set of Free Willy: Escape From Pirate’s Cove in South Africa. He provided support and friendship to the youngster and her mum, who’s raised Bindi and Robert, 7, alone since Steve’s death in 2006.

“My first impression of Terri was as a mom – the mom of the leading actress of our movie. Bindi had a big responsibility,” recalls Beau. “Terri was right there every step of the way making sure that the workplace was a safe one and a happy one so that Bin could do the best job possible.”

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Simone Callahan’s new man says “Shane’s no threat”

Simone Callahan's new man says "Shane's no threat"

Warnie’s ex goes on a steamy getaway with her new love.

Not only have they gone from strength to strength, with the smitten couple jetting from their hometown of Melbourne to the harbour city for a romantic child-free extended weekend, but Toby has revealed he’s feeling anything but threatened by Simone’s ex, Shane Warne.

And why would he? Toby – a tall, dark and handsome model-turned-business manager with a body to swoon over – has little to feel insecure about. On the contrary, Toby has been open about being a fan of spin king Warnie. “I love him, to be honest,” Toby told reporters recently.

“I certainly have nothing against Shane. I guess it is the same for him,” adds Toby, who has known Shane for a “good part of 30 years” through his father, Neil Roberts, and his Nine Network reporter brother Michael.

But Toby did admit to Melbourne’s Herald Sun newspaper, “I haven’t spoken to him since I have known Simone, so I’m not sure.”However, as Toby lapped up some Sydney rays with Simone by his side, it was clear who was on his mind. Wrapping his arms around the 41-year-old mother of three as he whispered in her ear and showered her with attention, 37-year-old Toby seemed more than appreciative of Simone’s fabulous beach body.

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Patti Newton at breaking point

Patti Newton at breaking point

The much-loved showbiz trouper faces her toughest test – keeping her family together against the odds.

And in many ways she is. The charmed life and family she has fought for all these years has been destroyed forever. Once the matriarch of Australia’s perfect showbiz family, the heartbroken 65-year-old has been left reeling as her close-knit clan slowly unravels and her dream life disintegrates.

Patti is facing the prospect of her only son, Matthew, 34, being locked behind bars after allegedly breaching an AVO taken out by his former fiancée, actress Rachael Taylor. Not only that, she is being forced to struggle on alone, with her husband, Aussie icon Bert, 72, on the road as part of his commitment to the stage show Wicked.

To make matters worse, she has been devastated by the dramatic effect Matthew’s court case is taking on her own professional life. According to long-time friends of the family, Patti is shattered after being dumped as the brand ambassador of Millers Fashion Club – a lucrative endorsement deal she loved. Her contract was abruptly terminated in December, with a year to run, as a result of the family’s turmoil.

“There’s no doubt in her mind that being Matthew’s mother cost her the job,” a close friend of the Newtons tells Woman’s Day. “Patti is crushed, because she adored her work with the company. It got her face back on TV and kept her busy, brightening her life and allowing her little getaways to Sydney to shoot the commercials.

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Glenn McGrath moves out of the family home

Glenn McGrath moves out of the family home

Glenn McGrath leaves a home filled with memories to start afresh with his new wife.

The retired fast bowler, 41, has been scouring some of the nation’s most expensive real estate hot spots since returning from a honeymoon with new wife Sara Leonardi last month.

Now it seems the couple are contemplating outlaying as much as $20 million on the perfect place to raise Glenn’s children, James, 11, and Holly, 9. They have narrowed down their search to two opulent mansions – both within a stone’s throw of 29-year-old Sara’s favoured shopping haunt of Double Bay.

“They started looking around in early February, but didn’t view anything then – they were just driving around looking at houses,” reveals a source close to the pair. “Since then they’ve widened their search a bit. Now they’re keen on a couple of places – there’s a beachfront house in Vaucluse and a regal-looking mansion in Woollahra. They love the thought of starting a new home together and have spent serious amounts of time inspecting each house.”

While both mansions have their merits – and views of Sydney Harbour – the Vaucluse house includes a slice of private beach, six bedrooms and a boathouse. Not surprisingly it comes with the heftier price tag. The new five-bedroom, Parisian-style manor in Woollahra is equally well proportioned, without the luxury of the foreshore at its doorstep. It is available for the comparatively thrifty price of $12 million.

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Prince William’s Aussie bucks bash!

Prince William's Aussie bucks bash!

Our flood-affected farmers are still doing it tough but news of Wills’ surprise visit has raised their spirits – and one small town is preparing to throw him a right royal bachelor party.

The long-suffering residents are hoping William, 28, will pay a visit when he arrives in the country. If he does turn up, he’ll be welcomed with an old-fashioned Aussie bush bachelor party that’s fit for a future king.

Yep, the stubbies are on ice, they’ve polished the ute and the barbecue is ready to roll! “We’d roll out the red carpet for him but we can’t find it…it got washed away!” laughs local publican Rick Walklate.

“We’d love him to have his bucks night here. There’ll be a cold beer and a hot pie waiting for him. We can even do a fancy Devonshire tea if it makes him feel at home – and I reckon there’ll be quite a few local lads and ladies who’d be delighted to welcome him to town and show him a good time.We’ll throw a party he’ll never forget.”

With six weeks to go until he marries Kate Middleton, the royal groom is shaking off any pre-wedding jitters with a whirlwind trip Down Under on behalf of the Queen, to see the devastation of the Queensland and Victorian floods first hand.

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Kate Middleton shows off her toned body in white bikini

Kate Middleton in sexy white bikini

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Images of Kate Middleton showing off her toned physique in a sexy white bikini while holidaying on a boat in Ibiza have been unearthed.

Since 29-year-old Kate began her relationship with Prince William, who will soon touchdown in Australia, she has slowly transformed herself into a royal.

And with the royal wedding just seven weeks away, Kate is said to be keeping her slim figure and her image in top form.

But how does she keep herself looking so good? She relies on regular work-outs and blow-dries, says Katie Nicholl, royal watcher and author of William and Harry: Behind the palace walls.

“Kate is always perfectly manicured, and she will have blow-dries before she goes out,” she told Us magazine.

“Now, she has a full entourage in tow, the enormity of what she’s in is finally sinking in.”

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Are you prepared for retirement?

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Retirement. Snooze. Investments. Yawn.

It’s ironic; while financial security is what most of us strive for, it’s an area where we’re likely to bury our heads in the sand.

In 2007, The Financial Literacy Foundation reported around 31 percent of adults think dealing with money is boring, while another 48 percent found money matters completely overwhelming.

If you add this attitude to the many unique challenges women face today, like increasing longevity and meagre superannuation payouts, you have an alarming amount of Australian women who face an unstable financial future.

In fact, it’s not only estimated by 2019 women will have half the amount of super that men do but we’ll also be twice as likely to live in poverty in our old age. With worrying predications like that, it’s time to wake up from this monetary slumber, asap.

But is it easier said than done? Well, they say knowledge is power, so the first step is being aware of the two types of challenges that could cause financial hardship later on. The first being, practical challenges.

Longevity

The life expectancy of Australian women has risen to 82 years in comparison to 77 years for men. This not only requires funds to last longer than ever before but medical costs need to be factored in for this prolonged stage of life.

Lower pay

Even today, on average, women still earn $300 less than men a week. This isn’t just down to general inequality but the fact more women are concentrated in lower-paid work areas such as retail and hospitality, meaning it’s tougher to save and harder to secure a good amount of work super contributions too.

Career breaks

While men tend to remain on a path of full-time work throughout their life, it’s more probable that women will veer on and off it at various stages, especially when starting a family. Again super contributions suffer, earning less interest for later years.

Women are more likely to take on multiple part-time jobs too, which can be financially detrimental to their retirement years, as earning less than $450 per week, per job, means super is not legally payable.

Experts warn that these practical barriers are only part of the problem facing women today. For us ladies, money is linked more deeply with relationships and emotions, so we need to be financially alert when facing the second area of potential risks.

Cinderella singletons

Theoretically, after finishing full-time education, women are financially in a great place to get a head start on saving, with no mortgages or kids in sight. In reality though, young twentysomething’s make up most of the 31 percent that financially live for the day.

Many have come out of uni with debts so huge they believe they’ll never get ahead and max out the credit cards further on short term fixes. Often they hope for a prince to relieve them of financial duties and burdens.

But according to a Citibank survey, one in four Australians may never marry so delaying responsibility is highly risky.

Selfless savers

Becoming a mum gives birth to more than just new life but also to the selfless gene, where mums always come last. It’s no surprise then that many women feel putting money aside for their future over their kids needs is an indulgent luxury.

Ironically, if proactive steps aren’t taken for financial security, chances are it’s the kids who’ll be landed with the burden of supporting their parents later on.

Sandwiched generation

A US study reported that while a golden handshake is the most common reason for men’s early retirement, for women, its care giving.

Around 25 percent of Australian women in their fifties look after their elderly family members on a full- or part-time basis.

Because many still have dependant kids, they are squeezed between two generations needs, sacrificing their own savings.

Trusting traditionalists

Divorce rates among the older generations are among the highest in the country with a staggering 81 percent increase in the divorce rate for people aged between 60 and 64 over the 20 years to 2005.

Female baby boomers often left financial management up to their husbands during marriage but with many facing unexpected divorce later down the track, they’re also facing a frightening future with no accumulated savings or super and little chance to build up any wealth.

Luckily amendments to laws in 2002 helped address some of the immediate problems, namely making super a claimable marriage asset.

Of course all of the above challenges can affect anyone in any stage of life. It’s not just the over-50 age group that are prone to leave money matters to partners, just as it’s not only young twentysomething’s who wait in vain for their princes to save them. We are all vulnerable to these potholes.

In an uncertain economy with ever-changing governmental policies, taking responsibility for our own financial affairs is a necessity; excuses like being too young, too busy or too overwhelmed just doesn’t cut it.

With the growing amount of avenues that aim to empower and advise women, we no longer have to drift in and out of consciousness trying to understand bank manager language. Instead we can turn to websites designed for women and even self-help investment groups (like book clubs without the books) formed for women.

So get proactive, take one step and become accountable for your own financial security. Can you really afford not to?

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I lied to get time away from my kids

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Please let me start by saying that I love my husband and kids. But the truth is I never had a yearning to be a parent. If I had not married Michael, who desperately wanted children, I doubt I would have become a mother.

To complicate things, both my pregnancies were difficult, so I did not get to have the “glowing” period so many other mothers seem to go through. Then I had problems with breastfeeding, and my first child seemed incapable of sleeping. I felt like I was always grumpy and snapping at everyone.

I felt guilty putting the children in day care when I went back to work, but we needed my full-time wage, and I needed the headspace. Suddenly I wasn’t just “mum” anymore; I could have real conversations with adults that didn’t involved childhood milestones and parenting tips. I could go out for coffee and not have to worry about what the kids were up to, or be constantly interrupted. It was bliss.

Michael felt the guilt of “abandoning” the children more than I did, and he tried desperately to get a job that paid more so I could go part-time. I told him I didn’t mind working and he looked horrified.

He said I was just saying it to make him feel better, “because a mother should want to be with her children” and he tried even harder to get new work. Whenever I could I offered to post his applications but I put them in the bin.

Then my boss offered me a major promotion. The salary increase was significant, and my boss made it clear that it would not mean long hours in the office. She was a mother too and “knew what it was like to be away from the family”.

I’d like to say what happened next took a while to occur to me, but the moment I walked out of the office I called Michael and told him the good news, and suggested that he apply to go part-time.

I also added that it would mean longer hours in the office, but it was a sacrifice I was willing to make for the children. But I intended to take more time for myself.

My first night out was to the movies. A group of us from the office went to see the latest blockbuster. It felt so indulgent and wonderful. After that it became an almost weekly event. I would go out for drinks with friends, or to a cosy cafe to read a book. I even went on a girls’ weekend away, which I told my husband was a conference.

I know it is deceitful, and my shame is compounded by the sympathy I get from my husband every time I come in at 10 o’clock from “the office”. But since I have been doing this he has been happier than I have ever seen him, the kids are grounded and getting lots of quality dad time, and I am fulfilled and relaxed too.

Surely such a secret cannot be a bad thing?

Your say: Do you avoid spending time with your children? Share your thoughts below.

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