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Women lag behind financially

While women are assumed to be the bigger spenders of the household and less fond of budgeting their finances than men, there was little evidence to support this preconception — until now.
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A new survey of about 800 Australians by Bankwest has found that more women are struggling financially than men. The Financial Fitness Index found 39 per cent of the women surveyed were financially unfit, which is almost the half that of men at 23 per cent.

And the numbers get worse. Commonwealth Bank-owned Bankwest recorded a rise in the number of women who are financially unfit by eight percentage points, while the number of men who are struggling financially has dropped by twp percentage points compared to 12 months ago.

Vittoria Shortt, head of retail at Bankwest, admitted that the contrast in results for each gender could be caused by the fact that women earn less on average than men. Shortt also notes that many households have experienced higher living costs in the past year.

Looking at Australian Bureau of Statistics data, the average male adult’s income is $1361.50 per week while adult women fall short of that by more than $230 per week. That’s almost $12,000 a year less than men.

While there’s no doubt that there’s more than a little inequality with average salaries between men and women, the rising living costs affect households equally. Although some could argue that running several hair straighteners, blow dryers and various other grooming equipment in a household full of females could bump up the electricity bill somewhat further than a house full of men.

For those women who have entered 2011 with a little too much debt on their credit cards or came back from summer holidays with not a penny to their name, it’s not too late to pull your financial health back in shape.

Start by putting your credit cards on a diet. If you have more than one, it might be worth considering consolidating your cards to the one account.

Balance transfer credit cards are a good solution for those determined to get back on top of their finances. They work by moving your debt from your other cards to the new card with a low introductory rate, for instance 0 percent for six months.

The trick to balance transfer cards is to pay off your debt during the honeymoon period before the interest rate reverts to a much higher rate. The purchase interest rate can also be much higher so it’s best not to use the card for purchases either.

If you’re serious about saving in 2011, start by comparing your financial products online at RateCity.com.au and get out of debt for good.

Michelle Hutchison is a consumer advocate at RateCity. RateCity is a privately owned company in partnership with ninemsn, publisher of the Australian Women’s Weekly website. The above information is general only and does not take into account your objectives, financial situation or needs.

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Banish multitasking and concentrate on the job at hand

Banish multitasking and concentrate on the job at hand

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Feeling overwhelmed? Easily distracted? Too busy to stop? Performance expert Dr Adam Fraser shows us how to get back into the flow and focus on the task at hand.

“Multitasking is impossible,” Dr Adam Fraser says. “What we’re actually doing is switch-tasking. We can only give our conscious attention to one task at a time. In our society of instant gratification, iPhones and Facebook and a thousand distractions, people are losing the capacity to control their attention.”

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Dr Fraser uses the term “flow” to describe a performance state where we have a clear goal, a calm mind, positive emotions and optimistic thoughts. You can find flow in any of life’s daily challenges — via work, socially, doing sport or hobbies, even domestic duties. Here are Dr Fraser’s tips on reaching this Zen-like state.

Have a clear goal

The brain needs clear goals so it can pool all its resources and focus. “Take a deep breath and relax,” Dr Fraser says. “Make a strategic, big-picture list of where you are trying to get to at the moment, and the most important things you need to accomplish. Then look at all the activity you have to do in your day, and if it’s not related to what you are trying to achieve, dump it. Make a list of the small steps that you need to do, prioritise them and knock them off one by one.”

Be present

The mind is calm when it is not looking to the past or future. “Practise being present with tasks,” Dr Fraser says. “Close your email, turn your phone off and get that one thing done. When you’re on the phone, don’t clean out your inbox. In conversation, focus on the other person, completely. Research shows that presence builds trust and rapport.”

Positive emotions

“One of the biggest tickets into the flow state is to manage your emotions,” Dr Fraser says. “Most people are not aware of the emotions they feel. They wake up with a certain emotion and very quickly that emotion turns into a mood and over time that mood becomes a temperament.”

We don’t need to fake a good mood to get into one: “Emotional intelligence is not about insincerity. It’s about becoming self-aware. It’s about asking yourself: ‘What is my emotional state and how can I get into a better one?’,” Dr Fraser says.

“If you’re feeling angry — why? Ask yourself, ‘Will anger help me get what I want from the situation? No. It will alienate the people around me so they won’t help me. If I stay calm and remind myself of the bigger picture and put myself in the other person’s shoes then I can have empathy, tolerance and compassion around the situation.’ If you’re feeling apathy and boredom, how can you find enthusiasm and passion for the situation?”

An optimistic mindset

“If you approach a challenge thinking, ‘I suck at this, it’s not going to go well, I’m not having a good week,’ you’re not going to get into the flow with it,” Dr Fraser says. “Whereas if you think, ‘Yeah I do this really well, I’m a really good worker, I’m smart and I’m capable’ — you’re chance of flow is far greater.”

According to psychologist Dr Mark Seligman, optimism can be learned. All we need do is change our explanation style.

When an event occurs to us or around us we explain it to ourselves on three levels:

  1. Permanence: Is this something that happens all the time or is it rare?

  2. Pervasiveness: Does it affect everything (global) or does it affect very little (specific)?

  3. Personalisation: Is this event due to me, or is it due to others?

“I could watch the news and say, ‘The world has gone insane, this always happens. We’re all doomed,'” Dr Fraser says. “I’ve made it permanent, global and internal. Optimists make bad events temporary (‘It’s a rare event’); specific (‘It affects a small part of the world’); and external (‘It’s nobody’s fault, luckily it’s nothing to do with me’). Studies show that our explanation style dramatically affects our happiness.”

Related: Top 10 tips to beat mortgage stress

Ready to practise the Art of Flow?

“You know you are in the flow when you feel stimulated, you are actively engaged in the task at hand, and hours pass like minutes,” Dr Fraser explains. “It’s the opposite to overwhelmed.”

For more information, visit www.dradamfraser.com.au.

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Banish multitasking and concentrate on the job at hand

Feeling overwhelmed? Easily distracted? Too busy to stop? Performance expert Dr Adam Fraser shows us how to get back into 'the flow' and focus on the task at hand.
Banish multitasking and concentrate on the job at hand

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Feeling overwhelmed? Easily distracted? Too busy to stop? Performance expert Dr Adam Fraser shows us how to get back into the flow and focus on the task at hand.

“Multitasking is impossible,” Dr Adam Fraser says. “What we’re actually doing is switch-tasking. We can only give our conscious attention to one task at a time. In our society of instant gratification, iPhones and Facebook and a thousand distractions, people are losing the capacity to control their attention.”

In pictures: Gym habits that are holding you back

Dr Fraser uses the term “flow” to describe a performance state where we have a clear goal, a calm mind, positive emotions and optimistic thoughts. You can find flow in any of life’s daily challenges — via work, socially, doing sport or hobbies, even domestic duties. Here are Dr Fraser’s tips on reaching this Zen-like state.

Have a clear goal

The brain needs clear goals so it can pool all its resources and focus. “Take a deep breath and relax,” Dr Fraser says. “Make a strategic, big-picture list of where you are trying to get to at the moment, and the most important things you need to accomplish. Then look at all the activity you have to do in your day, and if it’s not related to what you are trying to achieve, dump it. Make a list of the small steps that you need to do, prioritise them and knock them off one by one.”

Be present

The mind is calm when it is not looking to the past or future. “Practise being present with tasks,” Dr Fraser says. “Close your email, turn your phone off and get that one thing done. When you’re on the phone, don’t clean out your inbox. In conversation, focus on the other person, completely. Research shows that presence builds trust and rapport.”

Positive emotions

“One of the biggest tickets into the flow state is to manage your emotions,” Dr Fraser says. “Most people are not aware of the emotions they feel. They wake up with a certain emotion and very quickly that emotion turns into a mood and over time that mood becomes a temperament.”

We don’t need to fake a good mood to get into one: “Emotional intelligence is not about insincerity. It’s about becoming self-aware. It’s about asking yourself: ‘What is my emotional state and how can I get into a better one?’,” Dr Fraser says.

“If you’re feeling angry — why? Ask yourself, ‘Will anger help me get what I want from the situation? No. It will alienate the people around me so they won’t help me. If I stay calm and remind myself of the bigger picture and put myself in the other person’s shoes then I can have empathy, tolerance and compassion around the situation.’ If you’re feeling apathy and boredom, how can you find enthusiasm and passion for the situation?”

An optimistic mindset

“If you approach a challenge thinking, ‘I suck at this, it’s not going to go well, I’m not having a good week,’ you’re not going to get into the flow with it,” Dr Fraser says. “Whereas if you think, ‘Yeah I do this really well, I’m a really good worker, I’m smart and I’m capable’ — you’re chance of flow is far greater.”

According to psychologist Dr Mark Seligman, optimism can be learned. All we need do is change our explanation style.

When an event occurs to us or around us we explain it to ourselves on three levels:

  1. Permanence: Is this something that happens all the time or is it rare?

  2. Pervasiveness: Does it affect everything (global) or does it affect very little (specific)?

  3. Personalisation: Is this event due to me, or is it due to others?

“I could watch the news and say, ‘The world has gone insane, this always happens. We’re all doomed,'” Dr Fraser says. “I’ve made it permanent, global and internal. Optimists make bad events temporary (‘It’s a rare event’); specific (‘It affects a small part of the world’); and external (‘It’s nobody’s fault, luckily it’s nothing to do with me’). Studies show that our explanation style dramatically affects our happiness.”

Related: Top 10 tips to beat mortgage stress

Ready to practise the Art of Flow?

“You know you are in the flow when you feel stimulated, you are actively engaged in the task at hand, and hours pass like minutes,” Dr Fraser explains. “It’s the opposite to overwhelmed.”

For more information, visit www.dradamfraser.com.au.

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The downfall of Ricky Nixon

The downfall of Ricky Nixon

Ricky Nixon was an AFL star who spun his success into a multi-million dollar sports management business. Yet the high-flyer spiralled out of control. Sue Smethurst reports that his business is in tatters, a sex and drugs scandal has forced him into hiding and police are investigating.

When Ricky Nixon called a press conference in March 2002 to announce that football hero Wayne Carey was quitting the game because he’d been caught having an affair with his teammate’s wife, few would have predicted that the highly respected sports agent who sat beside Wayne, crimson with rage that his number one star had been brought down by a femme fatale, would one day fall on the same sword.

The football world was in shock last month when news broke that “Australia’s Jerry Maguire”, Ricky Nixon, a man arguably as famous as some of the stars he managed, had allegedly been having an affair with the teenage girl at the centre of the “St Kilda nude photo scandal”.

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It was a bombshell claim that the 47-year-old married father of two, who was effectively charged with ending the media frenzy after nude pictures of one of his clients were uploaded on Facebook, was in fact having an affair with the 17-year-old girl who created it.

Ricky, who has managed the biggest names in the game, denied the claims of a sexual relationship in a Clinton-esque style statement that admitted to “inappropriate dealings”.

Yet the tech-savvy teen had an ace up her sleeve. After making explosive further allegations that they had shared cocaine and alcohol, she released videos that she had taken on her phone, allegedly showing Ricky cavorting on her hotel room bed in his underwear, and “sext” messages so explicit they would make Shane Warne blush. It was game over.

Once considered a powerbroker of the AFL, Ricky, who had forged a career spinning and saving the reputations of his often-troubled clients, was now in need of crisis PR himself.

He checked into rehab to deal with “a substance abuse problem that has impacted on my life and my decision making” and had his licence to manage formally suspended after a report by prominent Melbourne QC David Galbally, acting for the AFL Players Association, described him as dishonest and unprofessional.

It is a staggering fall from grace at the hands of the girl dubbed “a teenage Mata Hari with a mobile”.

So what of Ricky Nixon now? Those in the business say his career is over, absolutely unsalvageable. “What parent is going to allow their child to be managed by Ricky Nixon?” says a rival agent.

“He will never manage a player again and it’s a real shame because it could’ve ended so differently for him, but it’s all over now.”

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Yet those who know Ricky Nixon say the hardest blow will be to his ego, that this sex and drugs scandal will forever overshadow an otherwise extraordinary career.

Perhaps Ricky summed it up best in his book when he wrote, “It’s just the law of the jungle; a good manager will strike the right balance between what’s fair market value while not losing sight of pushing for the best possible deal for his client. One side burning the other is to no one’s advantage because there will always be another day when you don’t hold all the aces.”

Read more of this story in the April issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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William, Prince of hearts

William, Prince of hearts

Prince William in Queensland yesterday

His wedding is only a month away, but Prince William didn’t hesitate when his grandmother the queen asked him to visit disaster stricken areas in New Zealand and Australia on her behalf.

Leaving fiancée Kate Middleton at home to fine-tune the final plans for what will be the most-watched wedding of the decade, William was honoured to step up to the plate and represent the House of Windsor.

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In an emotional royal visit, he consoled relatives of the victims of the Christchurch earthquake and the Pike River mine explosion, and those affected by the Queensland and Victorian floods. It was just over a year before that he had taken time out to comfort the families of victims of the Victorian bushfires.

The surprise trip this month came hot on the heels of William’s equally frenetic tour of the UK, this time with wife-to-be Kate Middleton on his arm.

The “changing of the guard at Buckingham Palace” is clear to see — Prince William has arrived and with him the royal family is young again. And for all of us watching the 28-year-old royal with his innate ease and grace with ordinary people, it’s just like watching his mother before him.

A mere flash of his blue eyes and catch of his shy smile evoke memories of Diana and the deja vu does not stop there. William was well-taught by his mother, not just on how to cope with his bizarre life in the spotlight, but on how to use it to reshape the monarchy, affect change, make a difference and somehow stay true to himself.

Diana, the aristocratic preschool teacher whose blue-blooded lineage can be traced back to King Charles I, was just 20 when she gave birth to William on June 21, 1982, and even though there was never any question about what William would do when he grew up, she was determined to stamp her mark on the future King of England.

Battling the stifling protocol of the English “royal firm”, Diana strove to give Prince William Arthur Philip Louis Windsor not just a normal, loving childhood, but one that might equip him with a fresh attitude and mindset on the life of duty which lay ahead of him.

“He’s a deep thinker,” she said proudly of her son, who was 13 at the time of the interview and whose first tour of duty was to Australia with his parents when he was nine months old.

Away from the cameras, she introduced her sons to radically different corners of their kingdom. They visited homeless shelters and met people with HIV.

“I want William to experience what most people already know. That he and Harry are growing up in a multiracial society in which not everyone is rich, has four holidays a year, speaks standard English and has a Range Rover,” said Diana.

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“What Princess Diana did was to bring up a couple of normal human beings [in her sons]. They come across as real people,” says Michael O’Mara, publisher of leading books on the royal family, including Andrew Morton’s biography of Diana.

“If Charles had married another person who was more like the Windsors, the children would have been more inward looking, less relaxed and removed from the real world.

“Diana was dragging her sons around to doss houses — they understand real people. The common touch is the main thing. The way William sounds is completely different to his father. He may sound posh, but he comes across as relatively normal, not from another planet or from an episode of Doctor Who.”

Read more of this story in the April issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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Michelle Bridges in the Book Club hot seat

Michelle Bridges is well known for transforming Aussies on the hit show The Biggest Loser. Now she shows you how to go one step further in ditching those last few kilos in her new book, Losing the Last 5 Kilos. We asked her about her reading habits.

What was the last book you read?

The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell. I love the distinction between the different kinds of people you meet in life who come together forming the perfect storm, creating a tipping point in business, government and society. The author has an extraordinary understanding of historical references to draw from to explain his arguments. I found this book to be very creative for my business.

If you could be any character in a book who would it be?

Cinderella! I have always been a hard-working woman who champions the underdog. I love the fact she stuck it to those ghastly sisters and ran off with a good sort! Now that’s my kinda chick.

What books can you remember from your childhood?

Enid Blyton, Marco Polo, Nancy Drew, The Magic Pudding, Rupert Bear, Winnie-the-Pooh, The Famous Five, Snugglepot and Cuddle Pie. I was an avid reader when I was a child.

Do you think that books have the power to change people’s lives more than films?

Of course! With a book you are inside the skin of the characters. You can smell, feel, taste everything. You can become completely lost in a book. I seldom feel the same level of engrossment in a film.

If you could take two characters from different books and put them in one book, who would they be?

I’d like to see Jean-Baptiste Grenouille (from Patrick Suskind’s Perfume) get together with Holly Golightly (from Truman Capote’s Breakfast at Tiffany’s) to create the world’s most desirable scent; intoxicatingly beautiful, but with a hint of darkness. Plus it would have the flavour of two of my favourite places on the planet: Paris and New York.

If you could get your hands on the completely truthful autobiography of any historical figure, who would it be and why?

Probably John F Kennedy. Apart from being a ripping read, full of all the excesses of American politics of the era, global crises and sordid affairs, it would probably give a good indication as to who commissioned his assassination.

What is next on your reading list?

Life, Keith Richards’ autobiography. That guy must have so many stories to tell. Reading biographies about larger-than-life characters is almost like reading a good fiction story, except that I get the added enjoyment of constantly saying to myself “Wow. Did they really do that?” I recently finished Christopher Ciccone’s book Life with My Sister Madonna and I found it fascinating.

If everyone in the world could stop what they were doing for a week and read one book, what should it be?

I was really moved by To Kill a Mockingbird and I still think about the storyline and the characters today even though I first read the book when I was a teenager. Harper Lee writes so beautifully, and I think that the book has messages about integrity and morality that we talk about a lot in the modern era, but they aren’t messages that we live into.

If you could send any author to prison for crimes against literature, who would it be and why?

John Gray for his now infamous tome Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus’. I know, it was a bestseller, but trust me, there hasn’t been a garage sale that hasn’t featured at least two copies (one of them a present from a partner) since 1992.

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Behind-the-scenes at Magda Szubanski’s cover shoot

Magda Szubanski: Fabulous at 50

It’s another beach-perfect Sydney afternoon and Magda is under studio lights in full make-up, freshly whooshed hair and a slinky red dress she feels so good in she’s decided to take it home.

She’s busting her best dance moves to Michael Jackson and the general consensus all round is the girl’s on fire as The Weekly’s photographer snaps away, delighted with Magda’s ease in front of the camera.

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In a break from shooting, the TV star discusses the unfortunate down side of her amazing weight loss — increased media attention. While it can be annoying at times, Magda has embraced it, and is proud of the way she is presented.

“The increased glare of publicity has been confronting, sure, but you kind of get more used to it,” she rationalises. “I’m not Nicole Kidman. I guess it’s at a manageable level for me and hopefully it will slow down. For me, it’s a matter of ‘Go for it dudes!’. I’m just going to get on with living and enjoying my life.

“The reality is that I am very grateful for the way I have been portrayed by the media. It’s been very real and true to who and what I am. It’s like a camel through the eye of a needle, but I think we are getting a message out there that has never been out there before. And I am damn proud to be part of it.”

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Magda’s message

  1. You can turn back the clock. Getting fit and healthy will make you feel years younger.

  2. Drink water.

  3. Eat your vegies.

  4. Listen to your body. It’s way smarter than you are.

  5. Keep a food journal. We all get “calorie amnesia” and think we eat way less than we actually do.

  6. Chocolate is not your friend. Your friends are your friends. Chocolate is just fat and sugar.

  7. Your body loves to move. Let it.

  8. No matter what your size, get out there and enjoy life.

  9. Make activity fun. That way, you are more likely to do it.

  10. Success is not about never failing. It’s about continuing to get up and try again when you have failed.

Read more of this story in the April issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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Don’t wear white: Royal wedding rules released

Don't wear white: Royal wedding rule book released

Don’t wear white, don’t touch the queen, don’t be late and don’t forget to switch your mobile phone off, royal wedding guests have been warned.

Clarence House has confirmed a 22-page rulebook has been sent to each of the 1900 people invited to the April 29 nuptials of Prince William and Kate Middleton.

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The booklet covers all the pertinent do’s and don’ts for the occasion, including sections on table manners, punctuality, dress code, technology and royal protocol, the UK’s Daily Mail reported.

There are reportedly instructions on the correct way to eat food from a plate, a detailed description of the ideal tea-stirring technique (the spoon should move from north-east to south-west, not in a complete circle and without clinking against the china) and the proper way to address and behave around the Queen (never touch her, don’t speak unless spoken to and call her “ma’am”, as in “jam”).

Phones must be switched off during the ceremony and revellers must refrain from uploading any details about the wedding onto social networking sites.

Guests have also been instructed to be punctual and to steer clear of cream or white outfits to avoid stealing the spotlight from the bride. Men should remove their hats before entering Westminster Abbey, while women should avoid flashing too much flesh and make sure they wear a hat and gloves. Both sexes are warned to avoid chewing gum.

The official guest list for the royal wedding was leaked on the weekend. Celebrities including David and Victoria Beckham, singer Sir Elton John, comedian Rowan Atkinson and film director Guy Ritchie made the cut, alongside four of William’s ex-girlfriends and two of Kate’s rumoured former flames.

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More than 15 members of Kate’s family are invited, as well as the couple’s friends from school, university and their favourite holiday destination Mustique, and several of their personal staff, including William’s former nannies Tiggy Pettifer and Barbara Barnes.

Prince Harry’s on-off girlfriend Chelsy Davy is also on the guest list, but it is not known whether she will attend as Harry’s date, or alone.

Your say: What would you include if you were writing a wedding rulebook?

The Weekly will be tweeting live from London on April 29. Follow @AWW_London and @WomensWeeklyMag for the latest news and gossip.

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Trishna and Krishna’s joy: We’re so proud of our brother

Trishna and Krishna's joy: We're so proud of our brother

The amazing twins share the spotlight with their brother Ahmed.

Watching the two little girls jump up and down in the stand, cheering on their big brother, you’d never guess that less than 16 months ago their lives hung in the balance.

When conjoined twins Trishna and Krishna were separated in a long, delicate operation in November 2009, many medics doubted they could both survive. But the little fighters have proved everyone wrong. Last week, the four-year-olds looked happy and healthy as they cheered on their adopted brother Ahmed Kelly in the 2011 Australian Swimming Championships at the Sydney Olympic Park Aquatic Centre.

Their support clearly worked. Ahmed, 19, broke the 100 metres paralympic world breaststroke record, smiling proudly at his sisters in the stand as he claimed victory. “They’re big girls now, running around,” smiles adoptive mum Moira Kelly, 47, as the pair toddle up and down the stands, giggling and squealing. “[Krishna] has a little way to go but little Trishy, she loves running and playing, like other little toddlers.”

Since they’ve been separated, the girls have developed distinct personalities. Trishna likes to wear her hair in bunches and is the more outgoing, while curly-haired Krishna prefers to stay close to Moira for cuddles. But it’s clear they both thrive in the family’s home near Melbourne with Ahmed and his younger brother Emmanuelle, 16.

Ahmed and Emmanuelle were born in Baghdad and left on an orphanage doorstep by their parents. They couldn’t cope with caring for the little boys, who both had underdeveloped limbs. Moira brought them to Australia in 2000, and since Trishna and Krishna arrived in 2009 from Bangladesh, they’ve become doting older brothers to the girls.

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Elizabeth Taylor: The fight for her fortune

Elizabeth Taylor: The fight for her fortune

The world is still in mourning for her, but already an ugly war has broken out over Liz’s millions.

She’s been fondly farewelled around the world as the last true movie star of Hollywood’s Golden Age – an ever-glamorous film icon who campaigned tirelessly throughout her life for causes that touched her heart.

But now the incomparable Dame Elizabeth Taylor has gone forever, her legacy looks set to be sullied by a bitter battle for her $600 million-plus estate. An ugly war is believed to have erupted between the actress’s four children – Michael Wilding Jr, Christopher Wilding, Liza Todd and Maria Burton– and her manager and best friend Jason Winters.

Jason, 51, had considerable influence over Liz’s actions in her last, illness-fraught days, and was reportedly handpicked by the film star to be the administrator of her vast fortune.

“Jason was there for Elizabeth,” a family insider tells the National Enquirer. “She was mesmerised by him. But now there’s more than $600 million at stake… friends see Jason as an interloper who breezed into Liz’s life in her final years and will now be making decisions on who gets what.”

Her children will be taken care of with a reported $100 million each, while Elizabeth is said to have earmarked a large part of her empire to her beloved AIDS charities. But Jason will “get a chunk for himself and a fee for his role as administrator”.

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