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Reba Meagher quit politics for God

Reba Meagher quit politics for God

Many politicians argue that they have God on their side, but these days former NSW minister Reba Meagher actually does, writes Jordan Baker.

Politicians can struggle to reinvent themselves after a career in the public eye — their reputations have taken a battering and their main qualifications are arguing across a dispatch box and giving their opinion. Yet, every now and then, someone manages.

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Former NSW Health Minister Reba Meagher quit the scandal-plagued state Labor government in 2008. She has re-emerged as the chief executive of the Sisters of Charity Foundation, which invests in programs to help the needy.

“It’s a chance to make a contribution, but from a supportive environment rather than a combative one,” Reba, 43, tells The Weekly. “Being able to get amongst it without the vitriol of politics is refreshing.”

Instead of being surrounded by adversaries, she shares an office with Sisters Laureen, Chris and Enid, who exude altruism and serenity.

“There isn’t the same amount of swearing, put it that way,” Reba says.

Rather than fight for every reform and argue for every dollar, Reba has the sisters’ support in using the experience she gained in health and community services to identify and develop worthy projects.

“It’s not really the radical change in direction for me that it may appear,” she says. “Being a member of parliament is predominantly about community service. It’s about wanting to help people.

“That’s the motivating force for most of the people I know in politics and that’s fundamental to the foundation’s work as well.”

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When she is not working with the Sisters of Charity, Reba is looking after her 16-month-old son, Louie, who brings a joy to her life she couldn’t imagine during her more than 20 years in politics.

“Now I have a great work-life balance,” she says. “I have the opportunity to make a contribution to the community and still savour all the joys of family life. I love waking up in the morning to the sound of my gorgeous little boy in the next room singing to himself.”

Read more of this story in the May issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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Ita Buttrose talks to herself at 16

Ita Buttrose talks to herself at 16

Magazine queen Ita Buttrose writes a letter to her 16-year-old self and offers her a road map for life.

Dear Ita,

Well, look at you! Just 16 and already a cadet journalist! That’s one in the eye for all those doomsday merchants who kept telling you that journalism cadetships were never given to anyone under 17 and you were wasting your time trying to impress the boss with your enthusiasm.

Throughout your career, there always will be people prepared to tell you that you can’t or shouldn’t do something you’ve set your heart on. By all means listen to what they have to say, but if the drum you hear is beating loudly, follow it.

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Trust your gut feelings and never lose your belief in yourself. Remember, no one else will ever dream your dreams or understand what drives you.

Your life will be full of detours, but it will never be boring. You will climb some awesome mountains. It won’t always be smooth sailing, though. Sometimes, projects and love won’t turn out the way you hope and, occasionally, you’ll find the going tough, but your inner strength and self-confidence will always get you through.

Remember, tough times don’t last, tough people do. Right now, you have no idea that it’s a man’s world, but when you decide to branch out of the women’s pages of Sydney’s Daily and Sunday Telegraphs, where you did your journalism training, some of your male colleagues will not welcome you.

Their hostility will come as a bit of a shock at first. Some men will resent your ability and even be jealous of it. That’s a sobering lesson to learn, but it is men’s insecurity, not yours, that’s the problem.

You’ll even be accused of “frightening” men. It’s hard to believe, isn’t it, but it seems some men are terrified by talented, intelligent women. What kind of mothers did they have, I wonder? Make sure you don’t raise your son to have that kind of blinkered attitude. I know you won’t!

Cherish your friendships. Loyal friends who you can trust are worth their weight in gold. Some friends you thought were close friends will let you down. It will hurt, but it’s not the end of the world. You will come to understand that duplicity is part of life’s rich tapestry.

Never carry a chip on your shoulder about some of the low blows you receive. People who do only become bitter and are distracted from pursuing their goals.

Never lose your curiosity, never lose your optimism and never lose your sense of humour. Laughter keeps us sane. Keep learning. Constantly challenge your brain.

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We’re only here once, so make the most of every moment and always live life to the fullest. Never have regrets. They’re a waste of time.

You can never turn back the clock or change any of the steps you have taken and everything you do and experience will shape you into the woman you will eventually become. I hope you’ll like her. I do.

Much love, Ita.

Read more of this story in the May issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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The Biggest Loser’s Leigh and Lara call it quits

Leigh and Lara call it quits

They lost a total of almost 100kg on TV and their love was growing by the day… or so we all thought.

With a truly incredible transformation and their whole lives ahead of them, Leigh Westren and Lara Whalan were dubbed the “hot couple” on this year’s The Biggest Loser. Openly talking about their plans to marry, the pair won the hearts of viewers everywhere.

The happy couple were expected to make their engagement official in last week’s finale – Lara referred to Leigh’s parents as the “in-laws” throughout the series and confided in friends that she wanted to start a family with the man of her dreams – but the announcement never came. In a shocking twist, speculation is now rife that Lara, 25, called it quits on her relationship with Leigh, 23, within days of The Biggest Loser: Families finale.

What happened? She has told friends she believed Leigh may have “spent the night with another woman” since leaving the show, revelling in being “hot” for the first time in his life. Lara has also apparently kicked her DJ boyfriend out of the home they shared with her parents in the northern Sydney suburb of Turramurra.

When contacted by Woman’s Day, Leigh denied cheating or splitting with Lara, and maintains he hasn’t moved out of her house. But his mother, Sharlene Westren, confirmed the couple are now living separately. Leigh and Lara, who are believed to have sold their engagement story for a substantial fee, had previously spruiked their relationship on the back of The Biggest Loser.

“[Leigh] has to save for an engagement ring. We have to save for a wedding,” Lara recently told reporters. “If we get any help from the magazines, we will consider all offers.”

Lara is said to be devastated by the break-up but thought she had no option but to end their three-year romance.“Lara is absolutely heartbroken,” says a close friend. “All she has ever wanted is to marry Leigh and start a family and now she just doesn’t know what to do.”

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The story behind an Aussie Icon: The Drover’s Wife

The story behind an Aussie Icon: The Drover's Wife

It’s a photo that captures the outback spirit. More than 50 years after The drover’s wife was taken, Glen Williams heads to the Northern Territory to find out what became of the young couple.

For the last 53 years, her hauntingly beautiful eyes have stared out from a distant, sepia world. There is something in those eyes that compels you to stare back. With a battered Akubra on her head, she sits resting against her husband in his tattered shirt, nursing their three-week-old son. A sense of serenity permeates the scene.

This photo, one of the most acclaimed images of life in rural Australia, was taken by the late photographer and author Jeff Carter in June 1958. Woman’s Day became mesmerised by The drover’s wife when we stumbled across the photo at a recent exhibition at the State Library of New South Wales.

The couple were Ron and Mavis Kerr, and their little bub was named Johnny. Jeff Carter had found them at Urisino Bore in western NSW, while they were droving a mob of 3700 merino ewes between Tibooburra and Coonamble. There they sat in the shade of their old Bedford truck, “just having a spell”.

What happened to the Kerr family? Did this young mum stay the drover’s wife? Or did she seek an easier life and move to the big smoke? Hardly. Mavis, now 69, and Ron, 75, live in remote Borroloola in the Northern Territory – a small town of around 700 about 950km south-east of Darwin.

“I’m still the drover’s wife,” Mavis laughs. Today, as Mavis and Ron arrive in Darwin to relive their experiences, they are instantly recognisable. They look at their old truck, which resides in the hangar at Darwin airport, and are transported back to the dusty stock routes that were their way of life.

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George Calombaris: A bun in the oven!

George Calombaris: A bun in the oven!

The no-fuss food judge has all the ingredients to be a successful parent.

From the outside, George Calombaris’s house is just like any other in the stylish Melbourne street he calls home – but once you step through the front gate it’s immediately obvious this is the home of the popular MasterChef judge.

Even before George throws open the door and meets us with his trademark gusto, we’ve been greeted by the enticing smell of the breakfast he’s rustling up for us. Inside, a second smiling face welcomes us into the sunny home – George’s partner of four years, Natalie Tricarico, proudly sporting a blossoming baby bump.

“Doesn’t she look beautiful?” beams George, 32, before ducking into the kitchen and returning with coffee and a round of buttery raisin toast. “She looks fantastic… absolutely beautiful. “She’s healthy and happy and everything is chugging along wonderfully.”

Marketing manager Natalie, 33, is clearly not the only one who’s glowing. “There’s this amazing sort of connection that happens knowing we created something together, and that’s a really lovely thing,” George enthuses.

The only downside to Natalie’s pregnancy is that she no longer craves George’s celebrated cuisine.

“The only thing I’ve craved has been lemonade icy poles, and that was only in the first trimester,” Natalie laughs. “I lost my taste for coffee and alcohol straight away, even though I have always loved red wine. The icy poles were great – they were so soothing and I loved that. I haven’t craved anything else, so George is off the hook.”

Natalie has enjoyed a straightforward pregnancy right from the day she took a test at home, and discovered she and George would soon have a Junior MasterChef of their own.

“I hadn’t noticed any of the normal changes in my body that I would normally get around that time of the month,” she remembers. “I thought it was weird because I have always been on time – although, I had been through something similar once before and found out I wasn’t pregnant. But I did the test that afternoon and it was positive.

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William is future king but Kate is in charge

William is future king but Kate is in charge

Royal biographer Christopher Wilson gives us an intimate peek inside their marriage.

On her way to her post-wedding party, after four hours alone with her new husband Prince William inside Clarence House, the newly named Duchess of Cambridge flexed her royal muscle for the very first time. Approaching a photographer who was snapping away at her, Kate asked to see the pictures, leaving her frustrated new father-in-law, Prince Charles, waiting with an open door and an uneasy look on his face.

It is only now that the beautiful brunette can publicly show she’s firmly in charge, but that’s the way it’s always been when it comes to her relationship with William. Although he may have kept her waiting for nine years, and it was his job that delayed their honeymoon, Kate sent out a big message when she chose to omit the word “obey” from her wedding vows. She was telling her new husband, “I’m the boss!” – and as a close friend of the couple tells Woman’s Day, “That’s the way William likes it.”

As far back as 2002, Kate told the prince where they were headed. While they were students at the University of St Andrews in Scotland, William was floundering in his art history course and ready to quit. Despite the fact their romance had only just begun, Kate sat him down and gave him a stiff lecture. “Flunking out is not a thing future kings do,” she told him. “Change to a different course and stick with it – I’m here to help you.”

At that moment, William realised he’d found the woman of his dreams, someone strong who was determined to see him succeed.“He’s lucky to have got me,” said Kate in one of her rare interviews. And it’s not only friends who believe it – her new husband does too.

William, 28, brings more than 1000 years of royal history to the marriage, but Kate, 29, brings backbone. Her mother, Carole, 56, is the dominant partner in her 31-year marriage to Kate’s father, Michael, 61. The Middleton family’s multimillion-dollar business, online party paraphernalia company Party Pieces, was built up largely due to Carole’s ruthless streak and business acumen.

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Pippa Middleton is ready to wed!

Pippa Middleton is ready to wed!

She stole the show at the royal wedding, but soon she may be heading down the aisle as a bride herself.

From the moment she stepped from the car outside Westminster Abbey in that revealing bridesmaid’s frock, all eyes were on Pippa Middleton. But it seems she may have kept one secret tucked up her lace-trimmed sleeve.

In a blow to hopeful males worldwide, Kate’s little sister is well and truly spoken for… and is only waiting for royal wedding fever to die down to announce her own engagement, to broker boyfriend Alexander Loudon. The in-love couple have been dating for more than 12 months and are believed to be getting married before the end of the year.

But Pippa kept the news quiet so that the focus would remain on her beloved sister as she prepared for her wedding to Prince William. Pippa became a global celebrity as she sashayed down the aisle in that Sarah Burton at Alexander McQueen sheath number – her deeply tanned, long athletic limbs and glossy locks reminiscent of a gorgeous Bond girl.

Her pert, shapely backside set tongues wagging the world over and sent social networking sites into overdrive, instantly earning several fan pages on Facebook. The “Pippa Middleton Ass Appreciation Society” now counts well over 190,000 admirers, and she’s tipped to be a shoo-in for the UK’s infamous “Rear of the Year” award, garnering an astonishing 1000 votes within 48 hours of the royal wedding.

But while she may still be “Perfect Pippa” and “her royal hotness”, as she was dubbed by the UK press, the 27-year-old beauty is no longer “the nation’s most eligible sweetheart”.

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Nicole Kidman: I was such a dork!

Nicole Kidman: I was such a dork!

She’s super-stylish now but the actress felt anything but glamorous when she was young.

With her flowing flame locks and a statuesque physique perfect for showcasing the lastest designer fashions on the red carpet, Nicole Kidman has long been one of Hollywood’s leading style icons.

So it may come as quite a surprise to hear her confess that, as a shy and insecure teenager, she secretly hated being so tall and thin, with “weird” unmanageable hair.

At just 13 years of age, the Oscar-winning star was already a towering 178cm. “I hated it,” Nicole recalls. “It made me feel very self-conscious. I used to confide in my mum, Janelle, who was tall too. She used to tell me that men liked tall women.”

That was no consolation to the gawky schoolgirl and aspiring actress, who would moan to her mother, “I’m not interested in men – I’m interested in boys!” Nicole, 43, reveals to UK newspaper The Sun that her lack of self-esteem made her feel “a bit odd”.

It also meant her teen years were “fairly boring” and “damn clean” when it came to members of the opposite sex.

“I had no regular boyfriend and no serious relationship until much later,” she confesses. “They nicknamed me Storky because of my height. You know what boys can be like… revolting.”

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The changing face of cosmetic surgery

Woman having a collagen injection

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Once upon a time cosmetic surgery was taboo; reserved for the rich or the vain. If you’d had it, you didn’t admit it and you certainly never questioned your flat-chested colleague who came back from “visiting the relatives” with ample double Ds.

Things have definitely progressed over the past 10 years. Okay, so maybe it’s hardly frowned upon (because our facial muscles won’t allow it) and a quick nip-tuck is nearly as normal as getting your roots done at the hairdresser. But why?

A revealing survey by Rouge beauty website found that more than half of Australian women would contemplate having cosmetic surgery. The number-one reason for going under the knife? Low self-esteem. Followed closely by a fear of ageing.

Vote for which cosmetic surgery procedure you would have by clicking on the Vote button to the right.

A similar survey commissioned by the Lifestyle Channel showed a massive eight out of 10 Australians would have cosmetic surgery if money was no problem. Are we really that vain? Or are there other issues at play here?

Let’s take a look:

Often though, we’re never satisfied by just one procedure because issues are so deep rooted. Just look at reality star Heidi Montag and her sad obsession with perfection. It took 10 procedures in one day to transform her into the Barbie doll of her dreams but it left her desperately unhappy, not to mention in agonising pain.

In the UK, a BBC presenter was recently awarded damages after being unfairly sacked due to her age. With the sexist double standard that sees an abundance of men over-50 in high-profile jobs, is it any wonder women feel under pressure to resort to drastic measures?

Birth defects in children, burns victims and women who’ve suffered mastectomies can all benefit from the emotional and physical healing cosmetic surgery can provide too.

It seems that whatever the circumstance, be it medical or aesthetic, the underlying reason for cosmetic surgery is often self-confidence.

While we can understand why, just where has this modern acceptance of cosmetic surgery sprung from?

In fact it’s unusual to find a star that hasn’t had a cosmetic procedure these days, with many willing to talk about it. While Sharon Osbourne famously gushed about her love for cosmetic surgery, sitcom star Patricia Heaton was honest about her reasons for surgery after becoming a mother: “Vanity. I mean it, vanity… and I feel fine about saying I did it.”

Even the younger Hollywood generation have succumbed to the craze, believing cheek implants and Botox are a necessary part of their day job.

If stunning actresses like Megan Fox aren’t happy with their gorgeous faces, should we be so content with ours?

The positive slant that Extreme Makeover and How to Look Younger in 10 Days adopted took acceptance to a whole new level, perhaps contributing to the rise in cosmetic procedures in the US from 14.8 million in 2004 to 16.2 million in 2006.

A quick Restylane shot in your lunchbreak is not such big deal. Some bigger procedures can mean you’re in and out over a weekend which is revolutionary.

With more “have they or haven’t they” stories dominating weekly magazines and TV coverage, cosmetic surgery is on everyone’s plumped up lips. And while it’s a great testament to how far the industry has come, it’s also a worrying testament to our state of mind.

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Sir Paul’s small wedding

Sir Paul McCartney, 68, will marry US businesswoman Nancy Shevell, 51, in a small ceremony at a registry office sooner rather than later, the former Beatle’s fiancée has said.

Nancy told US reporter Cindy Adams about their wedding plans, saying they are planning a “small” ceremony with only family invited, which will be held “soon”, the UK’s Daily Mail reported.

“And don’t ask what I’ll wear, because how dressy do you get to stand before a justice of the peace in his chambers? Which is exactly what we’re going to do,” Nancy reportedly said.

She also spoke about her engagement ring, which she has been spotted wearing since the couple announced their engagement on Friday, May 6, describing it as a five carat “vintage 1925 Cartier engagement solitaire diamond”.

Sir Paul McCartney and Nancy Shevell

Nancy will be Sir Paul’s third wife.

The pair have been dating for four years.

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