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Manners in the new digital era

Manners in the new digital era

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Twittering and texting are taking over our social lives. So what are the rules – and pitfalls – of this new digital era?

June Dally-Watkins has been the high priestess of Australian etiquette and deportment for 50 years and, quite frankly, she’s appalled by the state of things.

Sick of being knocked in the street by people too involved with their iPhones and Blackberries to watch where they’re going.

Appalled by men wearing sunglasses to evening functions.

Mortified by MasterChef judges holding their forks incorrectly and “shovel in” their food. Even, God help us, on Junior MasterChef, where they should be setting an “example”.

“Me, me, me, me, me! Nobody exists but me!” June despairs. “They are involved with themselves. They don’t really communicate with other people. They’re constantly texting or on Twitter and that’s not face to face, that’s not eye to eye.”

Not that she’s stuck in another era, mind you. June just thinks all people, particularly Generation Y, need to be more considerate. And she believes there is definitely a way to navigate the digital age and keep oneself nice.

Digital etiquette rules:

DO

Answer emails and telephone calls within 24 hours.

Provide a brief introduction if you want to “friend” someone on Facebook and your identity isn’t apparent to them.

Sit the whole family down to dinner a couple of times a week and teach children proper table manners.

Open doors for people, particularly your superiors.

Let other cars in when you’re in traffic.

Send a text message to the parents of a newborn rather than phoning.

DON’T

Speak/text/Tweet/email on your mobile phone in company.

Be seen to “call-screen”; it’s obnoxious. If it’s inappropriate to answer your phone, call back as soon as you can.

Wear sunglasses indoors or at a meal.

Use capital letters in emails or texts – it’s the equivalent of shouting.

Use “emoticons” in business correspondence.

Post mundane status updates on Facebook or Twitter. Nobody cares if you have just had a cup of tea.

Take more than 12 items through the supermarket express lane.

Your say: Do you think new technology is making people ruder? Tell us more at [email protected]

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Glenn McGrath’s new wife on bonding with Jane’s kids

Glenn McGrath's new wife on bonding with Jane's kids

Glenn McGrath and Sara Leonardi © AAP.

Glenn McGrath’s new wife Sara Leonardi has discussed the challenges of parenting step-kids in her new food blog.

Sara — who married former cricketer Glenn last year — started ‘The McGrath’s Kitchen’ blog yesterday.

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In her first post, she talked about the difficulties of parenting and how cooking is helping her bond with Glenn’s children with his first wife Jane, James, 11, and Holly, nine.

“I have the best step-kids I could have ever wished for and I pass on to them my traditions and recipes,” Sara wrote.

“They are like I once was to my mum, my little helpers. Being a parent is the hardest job on earth and with its many rewards it has its responsibilities, such as teaching good table manners (very frustrating at times) and teaching kids to eat right and be healthy (the list is endless).”

Sara says she started the blog to try to make cooking more of a hobby than a chore. She hopes her words will inspire other women to share tips and recipes online.

“I’m very excited about this new journey and I can’t wait to learn from other mothers and homemakers any new tips to make my life easier, more fun and taste better,” Sara wrote.

“We can share info about cool recipes and products you have tried that work for you and your families love. This is a loving blog where we share the same love as we do when cooking for our loved ones, so please join in.

“So folks let’s get ready to cook, laugh, share and why not have a glass while doing it.”

Related: Glenn McGrath condemns ‘fake’ wedding cover

Glenn’s first wife Jane died of breast cancer in 2008. He met Sara in 2009 and they married at his Cronulla home last November.

Glenn and Sara then married again in a religious ceremony in Sicily in in July.

Click here to read The McGrath’s Kitchen blog.

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Princess Mary’s son’s first day of school

Starting school can be scary, but Princess Mary’s son Christian couldn’t stop smiling when he commenced his first term on Friday.

The five-year-old prince started his education at Copenhagen’s Tranegaardsskolen last week. On the morning of his first day, Christian made a brief public appearance outside the palace with his parents Mary and Crown Prince Frederik.

Wearing his school clothes and a tiny backpack, Christian told journalists he was looking forward to his first day. Christian will be the first member of the Danish royal family to attend a state school instead of a private institution.

Christian could barely contain his excitement as he headed to school.

Mary was all smiles as she led Christian to school.

Christian pulled lots of faces for the media.

The family pose for photographers.

Christian talks about his excitement at starting school.

Mary gives Christian a cuddle as he prepares to leave her.

Christian quickly tired of posing for the press and was anxious to get inside.

Prince William on his first day at nursery school in 1985.

William was less thrilled than Christian!

Prince Harry on his first day of school in 1987.

Like his older brother, Harry had trouble smiling for the cameras.

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Princess Charlene: secrets, lies and royal scandal

Princess Charlene: secret, lies and royal scandal

The principality is buzzing about what’s really going on between Prince Albert and his new wife.

They are calling her “The Silent Princess” – a pale, sad-eyed beauty who hasn’t said a word in public since murmuring “yes” to her husband on July 2. A month after the lavish wedding of Prince Albert of Monaco and ex-swimming champion Charlene Wittstock, doubts and suspicions still swirl around the couple. In fact, the Mediterranean realm was last week buzzing with talk that the royal pair will secretly live apart – and that their marriage is a sham intended only to produce an heir.

Feeding the rumour frenzy is the puzzling behaviour of 33-year-old Charlene. On her rare public appearances she seems – in the words of royal watcher Joelle Deviras – “distant and distracted”. When Albert, 53, summoned a group of journalists to issue an impassioned denial that the pair was unhappy, Charlene did little to help the cause, sitting expressionless at his side.

Asked by her husband if she wanted to add anything, the South African-born blonde shook her head, and quickly left the room. The fear now is that her silence may speak volumes about what is happening behind palace walls. Meanwhile, on the streets of Monaco, it seems everyone else is having their say.

The latest rumour is that the couple will, effectively, live in separate houses. According to French magazine VSD, Albert will remain at the palace, and Charlene at Roc Agel, a luxury villa owned by the royals in the village of La Turbie, just across the French border. With stunning views over the Mediterranean, it was a favourite retreat of Albert’s mother Grace Kelly. Villagers say Charlene has been a constant visitor since arriving in Monaco nearly five years ago. “She loves it here, she likes to walk in the hills,” says one local. “She’ll go off for the day with a backpack and friends, but you never see her with Albert.”

Read more about the silent princess and the scandal that threatens to ruin her marriage in this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale August 15, 2011.

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Jennifer Aniston’s baby news

Jennifer Anniston's baby news

She’s found the perfect father, now a newly curvy Jennifer Aniston is preparing for her dream baby.

It was just two short months into their relationship, in early June, that Jennifer Aniston sat her new boyfriend Justin Theroux down and tentatively broached the sensitive subject of babies. It was a risky move – and one that’s spelled doom for several of her previous romances – but for once, this premature talk of children paid off. To Jennifer’s surprise, Justin replied instantly, “Yes, let’s do it!”

“He’s just as excited as Jen to start a family together,” a long-time friend of the star says. It certainly seems as if, after six years of failed relationships, the former Friends actress has found the perfect partner – and ideal father for the baby she’s long dreamed of.

Already Jen refers to Justin as her “soul mate”. They’ve been living together since May and, adds another close source, “There is no doubt in her mind that he is ‘the one’.”

Since their initial chat about children, the pair – who met on the set of upcoming comedy Wanderlust – have talked at length about getting married and becoming parents. “She is anxious for the next phase of her life and feels like this is the time,” says another insider. Indeed, at 42, Jen had already decided to take next year off to focus on motherhood, and Justin, 40, came along at the right time.

Find out more about the couple’s holiday, her suspicious baby bump and nursery plans, plus more about the baby daddy in this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale August 15, 2011.

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Scott Cam: Meet my gorgeous wife

Scott Cam: Meet my gorgeous wife

The loveable larrikin fell in love with Ann the first time he set eyes on her. They share their 22-year love story with Katherine Chatfield.

As Scott Cam opens the door to his home, his dog Rosie stands in the doorway and gives the Woman’s Day team friendly licks all round. Satisfied that Scott has given everyone the seal of approval, she pads softly into the kitchen, and dozes amid a scene of domestic bliss. Scott’s wife, Ann, is making everyone tea, while their children, Charlie, 14, and twins Bill and Sarah, 11, help themselves to seconds from the dinner table before loping off to do their homework. They’re in a hurry to get it done because at 7pm they down pens and watch Dad on The Block. “They like to watch it,” Scott smiles. “They try to get me to tell them what will happen, but I never do!”

The relaxed nature of the Cam family home is testament to Scott and Ann’s loving marriage. Ann normally keeps out of the public eye, preferring to concentrate on the hectic task of looking after her family. But as the couple approach 20 years of marriage, for the first time Ann has decided to open up about what makes her and Scott’s marriage work.

The couple has been together 22 years, and as they both curl up on the lounge, it’s clear they still love being in each other’s company. “We haven’t had much romance recently as Scott’s been away [working on The Block],” says Ann. “We might have an extra kiss tonight!”

Despite Scott being such a big personality, it’s clear Ann is the backbone of the tight family unit. Happy to let Scott shine, the petite blonde is certainly no pushover. Her striking looks and calm manner are what entranced Scott when they first met in 1989. Scott, now 49, had just returned to Sydney from travelling Australia working as a carpenter.“My father had passed away and I came home to stay with my mum for six weeks,” he says. “Some mates were playing footy in the Blue Mountains and I went to watch.” He spotted school teacher Ann chatting with friends and was immediately smitten.

Read more about Scott and Ann’s love story and find out their ultimate renovating tips in this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale August 15, 2011.

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The secret to growing perfect lemons

Fed up with flavourless mass market lemons? The Weekly's gardening expert Jackie French tells you how to grow your own luscious lemons.
The secret to growing perfect lemons

Spring is in the air and I am picking lemons, great luscious basketfuls of them. Suddenly we’re craving lemon cordial, lemon and olive oil salad dressing, a squeeze of lemon on the broccoli, or lemon juice and coriander added to poached chicken to give it a Thai tang. And for all of these you need a lemon tree.

Supermarket lemons are never really, well, lemony. They are sour but there’s only a faint memory of what freshly picked lemons can be like.

A lemon is almost as fragrant as a rose, and just as desirable. We’ve just forgotten how good they can be.

My favourite lemons are Eurekas. They fruit through summer, which is when you really want your lemons, as well as winter.

They’ll hang on the tree long after they are ripe, too (though if you’re in a fruit fly prone area you should tie an old stocking over them, or a ‘fruit fly bag’, to keep the fruit flies out).

How to grow the perfect lemons

1. LOCATION:

First choose a good sunny spot. Lemons will tolerate a bit of dappled shade, especially in hotter climates, but they grow best in full sun. In cold climates grow them against a sunny north-facing wall.

2. DIG:

Dig a hole that is roughly twice as wide and deep as the bag the lemon tree is in, then wriggle it gently out of the bag and place it into the hole, being careful to hold it upright.

3. WATER:

Gently fill in the soil around the tree, still holding it upright. Once the hole is filled tamp it down firmly. Now let the hose trickle on it for a couple of hours, so the ground is soaked and any small holes fill up with silt.

4. MULCH:

The next step is mulch. Add around 30cm high of pea straw, lucerne hay or sugar cane mulch — whatever is easiest for you to find and use. Don’t put the mulch right next to the trunk though, as this can encourage the bark to rot. Keep it at least 30cm from the trunk, and extend the mulch at least 60 cm beyond the tree, too. You want to encourage those roots to grow out as well as down.

5. FERTILISER:

Now feed it. Nearly every backyard lemon tree is underfed and some are slowly starving to death. Lemon tree leaves should be large, dark green, with no discoloured edges, and well shaped, too. Use a special ‘citrus food’ or good home-made compost. Lemons should be fed at least once a year, and spring is the best time to do it because the tree is undergoing a growth spurt. I always put the plant food on top of the mulch, in case it burns the roots below. Citrus can be shallow rooted, so never fertilise them when the soil is dry, unless it’s well mulched, or you may kill some of the roots, or even the whole tree.

Once you’ve planted, mulched and fed your tree, that’s it. Lemons don’t need pruning to fruit well, though you can cut out straggly branches to make picking easier or to make the tree more attractive.

A well-shaped lemon tree can be lovely, dark green glossy leaves and golden fruit — you’d grow it for the beauty even if you didn’t get the lemons.

It’s only neglected starving trees that look ugly, yellowing leaves and dying from the top down. But even they can be resurrected with good plant tucker and pruning out the dead wood — it will take between one and two years but there is something particularly gratifying about taking a scraggly, struggling tree with a few yellow leaves that sheds fruit and transforming it into a glossy, prosperous tree solid with dark green leaves and weighed down with shiny, yellow globes of lemons.

With luck you may get a lemon or two the first year after you plant your new tree, and after that the crop will get bigger and bigger for another decade or so until the tree is mature.

By the time it’s 10 years old you’ll be giving baskets of fruit to family and friends — and they may be asking for your lemon cordial recipe too.

World’s Best Lemon Cordial

I was first given this recipe by an elderly neighbour. I drank three glasses and would have drunk more if I hadn’t already looked greedy. It’s fruity, not too sweet, and the most refreshing drink I know on a hot summer’s day.

INGREDIENTS:

2 cups lemon juice

3 cups sugar

6 cups water

6 teaspoons citric acid

6 teaspoons tartaric acid

METHOD:

Combine ingredients in a large pot. Boil for five minutes.

Bottle while still hot; seal and keep in a cool place for up to three weeks. Throw out if it ferments or turns cloudy.

To use: Splash a few tablespoons into a glass; add ice and cold water. Or make a large jug, or two or three. It’ll all be drunk.

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Linda Evangelista needs $43,000 a month to stay beautiful

Linda Evangelista needs $43,000 a month to maintain her looks

Linda Evangelista © Getty.

Linda Evangelista has told a New York court she needs $43,000 every month to maintain her looks while being a single mother.

The 46-year-old supermodel appeared at Manhattan’s Family Court this week to claim child support from French businessman Francois-Henri Pinault, the father of her four-year-old son Augustin.

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Evangelista has asked the court to grant her $43,000 per month to allow her to raise Augustin while continuing to work as a model.

She told the judge she required the money to pay for a team of armed drivers and a 24-hour nanny to care for her son while she was working, visiting the gym and attending her many beauty appointments.

“When I work it can be a 16-hour day,” she told the court. “On days when I do not work, I am working on my image. I have to hit the gym. I have beauty appointments. I have to work toward my next job and maintaining my image.”

If Evangelista’s request is granted, it will be one of the largest support orders ever granted in the family court.

Pinault is married to actress Salma Hayek. His family is worth $1.5 billion and he was only revealed to be the father of Evangelista’s son last month.

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Pinault and Hayek have a three-year-old daughter, Valentina, and Evangelista claims the child is living in luxury while her son has been completely ignored.

The judge is expected to give his ruling on the case next month.

Your say: Do you think Linda Evangelista really needs $43,000 to be a working single mum?

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The secret to getting your kids to eat vegetables

The secret to getting your kids to eat vegetables

A child that prefers broccoli to ice cream might seem like a biological impossibility but scientists think it could be as simple as getting pregnant women to eat more vegetables themselves.

A new study published in Pediatrics found that babies can develop a taste for healthy foods in the womb.

Researchers from Philadelphia’s Monell Chemical Senses Center found that flavours were passed from mother to baby in amniotic fluid, and later in breast milk.

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“Things like vanilla, carrot, garlic, anise, mint — these are some of the flavours that have been shown to be transmitted to amniotic fluid or mother’s milk,” study leader Julie Mennella told NPR News.

Scientists gave pregnant women capsules filled with garlic or sugar before taking samples of their amniotic fluid. The samples were then given to a panel of testers, who were asked to smell the fluid. In all cases the testers could easily identify the women who had eaten garlic.

This means that the unborn babies would have been able to taste the garlic too.

In the second phase of the research scientists looked at the foetus’ ability to remember tastes it had been exposed to in the womb.

One group of pregnant women were asked to drink carrot juice every day, another group to drink it while breastfeeding and a third asked to avoid carrots entirely.

When their babies were old enough to start eating solid food, they were given cereal mixed with water or carrot juice.

The babies who had been exposed to carrot juice in the womb and via breast milk ate more of the carrot cereal than the plain cereal, proving they had developed a taste for what their mother’s had consumed.

Related: Tips for getting your family to eat more vegetables

Researchers think the findings could result in healthier children who are born with a taste for fruit and vegetables.

Your say: Are you surprised that what you eat while pregnant could affect your children so much?

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Skipping a Beat

Skipping a Beat by Sarah Pekkanen

Life can change in a heartbeat

Four minutes and eight seconds. That’s how long my husband, Michael Dunhill, was dead.

Four minutes and eight seconds. That’s how long it took for my husband to become a complete stranger to me.

To read the first chapter of Skipping a Beat click here.

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