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Why you should give booze a break

Why you should give booze a break

The silly season is well and truly over, but many of us are struggling to reduce our holiday alcohol consumption.

Enter Febfast, which is challenging Australians to give up booze for the month of February to raise money for young people struggling with substance abuse problems.

Related: Support Helen’s Febfast campaign

The Weekly’s editor-in-chief Helen McCabe has risen to the considerable challenge and is avoiding alcohol for the next four weeks.

Here, nutritionist Lola Berry tells you why you should quit booze too, and how to do it.

Why should I give up alcohol for a month?

We all indulge a little bit more than we should over Christmas and New Year, which can be really hard on your liver. Avoiding alcohol for a month will take the pressure off and if you stick with it you’ll find you have clearer skin, more energy, improved moods, and you’ll sleep better. You may even find you lose a bit of weight too, because alcohol is so high in kilojoules.

How long until I start feeling good?

It normally takes about four days to start feeling good. You will feel rubbish for the first three days. While your body is getting rid of toxins you can get headaches, feel nauseous and feel bloated but that should all ease by the fourth day.

How can I possibly last the whole month?

  • Try and do it with a few mates so you’ve got people to inspire you

  • Have a bit of fun with it — make mocktails or have a dinner party at home instead of going out.

  • Find a replacement drink so that you don’t feel like you’re missing out when you’re out on the town. Cranberry, apple juice and a little bit of soda water is a nice little mixed drink that still lets you feel like you’re enjoying a bit of a beverage.

If alcohol is so bad, what difference will just one month off make?

Australians generally consume a lot of alcohol, so it’s always a good idea to take a close look at your intake and maybe cut down a little bit. You don’t need to stop drinking forever though. As long as you look after your liver and give it a little detox every six months it should okay.

Okay I’ll do it! How do I make the most of it?

You can really use this month to have a full detox. Start the day with a bit of lemon in warm water because that will help stimulate bile secretion of the liver. On top of that, think about getting more veggies in. Switch any white carbs to brown carbs — switch white bread for wholemeal pasta. Go for less-processed options and more whole foods. Your body will definitely thank you for it.

Related: Why every woman should stop drinking now

Click here for more information on Febfast or to support Helen’s campaign.

Your say: Would you consider reducing your alcohol consumption?

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Thirteen unusual and amazing uses for lemons

Thirteen unusual uses for lemons

Who would have thought that this humble fruit bowl staple was actually a versatile medicine in disguise?

The potential uses for lemons reach far beyond home remedies, too — there’s even scientific evidence that they reduce the risk of cancer and heart attacks.

Related: What to eat to avoid cancer

Here are more reasons to enjoy the zesty tang of lemons:

Spot buster: Dab lemon juice on pimples — its acids slough off the outermost layer of dead skin cells, keeping pores clear and unblocked.

Beat morning sickness: Many pregnant women find relief by sipping lemon water, sucking a lemon wedge, or adding lemon zest to weak black tea. The sharp taste and aroma counter nausea and settle the stomach.

Smell sweet: Lemon juice is an effective underarm deodorant, fighting the bacteria that cause the odour by making the pH level of your skin more acidic.

Heart helper: Along with other antioxidant-rich fruit and veg, such as berries and onions, lemons are a good source of vitamin C, which counters the effects of free radicals (unstable cell-damaging molecules) in the body. Low levels of antioxidants in general, and vitamin C in particular, are associated with an increased risk of stroke and heart attack because unchecked free radicals oxidise cholesterol and encourage it to be deposited as plaque, which blocks the arteries.

Oil change: Lank, limp hair can be caused by over-active sebaceous (oil-producing) glands in the scalp, which may be due to poor diet or illness. Lemon juice helps control oiliness: mix the juice of 1 lemon into 1 cup of water and pour through wet hair as a final leave-in rinse.

Kidney care: The citric acid found in lemons helps to prevent the formation of painful kidney stones — drink a glass of hot water each morning with the juice of a lemon added. Bonus: this also stimulates peristalsis (the wave-like contractions that move food along the digestive tract), and so helps to counter constipation.

Quit the hiccups: Suck on a slice of lemon to get a bout of hiccups under control — the sourness acts as a circuit breaker to the spasms, by temporarily interrupting swallowing and breathing patterns.

Breast cancer hope: Cancer researchers have found that a chemical compound in lemon peel called limonene will inhibit the development of cancerous cells, at least in a test-tube situation; other evidence suggests that limonene stimulates the liver to break down toxins, including potential carcinogens, more effectively.

Breathe easy: If you’re plagued with sinusitis, lemony remedies can help. Try hot lemon tea with a dash of cayenne pepper to thin mucus, or mix the juice of 1/2 a lemon and a good pinch of salt with 1 cup of lukewarm water, and fill a neti pot with it. To use, tilt your head to one side and pour the liquid into one nostril until it comes out the other side. Blow your nose softly and then repeat on the other side.

Wave goodbye to warts: Crush three vitamin C tablets and mix with enough lemon juice to form a gritty paste. Paint directly onto the wart, avoiding surrounding skin (smearing petroleum jelly around it will help), and cover with a bandaid. The acidic effects of the vitamin and the juice will fight the wart virus and also dissolve the wart.

Lighten up: Fade age spots by applying lemon juice to them twice a day. Lemon juice is a mild bleach and its citric acid gently exfoliates and fades pigmented skin.

Cancer fighter: One study found that people who regularly drank black tea with a slice of lemon in it were less likely to get skin cancer; it’s thought the lemon activates the enzyme glutathione, which counters carcinogens in the body.

Dry mouth cure: Lack of saliva is an annoying side effect of certain medications; it’s also linked to ageing. To stimulate saliva flow, add a dash of lemon juice to water.

Related: The secret to growing perfect lemons

Viral vigilante: Never underestimate the healing power of a hot lemon drink when it comes to reducing the miseries of coughs, colds and flu, as it will help to soothe irritated tissues, reduce histamine — the chemical that causes inflammation, stuffy noses and runny eyes — and deliver an immune system-boosting dose of vitamin C, all in one go.

Your say: Do you have any interesting uses for lemons?

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Julianne Moore on love, marriage and working with Steve Carell

Julianne Moore on love, marriage and working with Steve Carell

She has been nominated for an impressive four Oscars, six Golden Globes, three BAFTAs and nine Screen Actors Guild Awards, but Julianne Moore is surprisingly grounded.

The mother of two, who is gearing up to play Sarah Palin in Game Change chats to Emily Weaver about her role in her hit romantic comedy Stupid Crazy Love alongside Steve Carell.

What do you think sets this film apart from other romantic comedies with big casts?

I think it starts with the script, I really do. I think that when you don’t pay attention to that, when you don’t have a basis for a movie and you just think I’m just going to put a bunch of, you know, movie stars in a movie and they’re going to look beautiful and they’re going to fall in love, it’s not going to work.

And when you think about all the great romantic comedies, you think about something like Annie Hall or When Harry Met Sally or Tootsie or any of the ones that we consider classics, you think about how strong the scripts were. And this one, I think, has that. It has that kind of structure.

Working with Emma Stone on this film, did you even give her any advice or just let her be?

I always say, ‘Don’t say anything unless you’re asked,’ although I love to give advice. I mean, she’s so wonderful. She’s so talented and a lovely girl and I enjoy her so much, so, I mean, I don’t think she needs any help. She lives here in New York and we’ll continue being friends.

Emma had said that she was surprised at how grounded you and Steve and everybody were. She said that she thought it was because you put your families first.

It was nice that Emma said that. I think, yeah, I mean, I love my life. I love my career and my job and stuff. But I love my family and, like I said, that’s what our lives are about.

Freud always said you need love and work and you have to have that balance. And if you have a family that you care and you love about, and it kind of sustains you, and you have work that you enjoy, then you do feel balanced and you do feel really good.

I remember another young actress was telling me that her mom, who is also an actress, said to her, ‘Work is work. Compartmentalise that. Know that when you come home work is not your life.’

The chemistry between you and Steve Carell was just uncanny. Can you talk about working with him in this?

Thank you. It was so easy with him. He’s somebody whose work I admire so much. I think he’s got a real soulfulness and an ability to connect with an audience as well as with other actors.

So, obviously, the audience is feeling it; I’m feeling it; and then, on top of that, he’s got this impeccable comedic ability. It’s like something I’ve never seen before.

And he’s so humble about it. That’s what’s funny. So, he was just a pleasure. We had a lot in common. We talked a lot about our families and just about other stuff and it was nice. It was always nice to go to work and just be with him. He’s a really, really good guy.

The interesting challenge with this role and your role in the film The Kids are Alright is that you seem to take these characters who are having an affair and humanise them.

And do it twice, too, right? I know. You do think, ‘Is this a trend?’ Like, ‘What is this?’ It is challenging. It totally is, but then you realise that, I think, as you get older and you know people who have been married for a really long time, with the stuff you hear after a while, you’re like, ‘Okay, marriages can survive a lot. They really can.’ There was just, on the front page of the New York Times Magazine, that article about marriage and infidelity.

One of the things that I loved in that article, actually, was that they said that children deserve parents who are going to behave, have responsibility towards them and towards that family, basically that you have to allow marriage to withstand a lot if you’re in a family unit and I thought that was a great thing to put out there.

So, in both cases in these movies, you see someone who has acted out because of some reason in the relationship, but doesn’t want out of the relationship necessarily, just wants something different in their lives.

It’s also interesting to see it unfold through a woman’s point of view. You really never see that.

No, you don’t. It was kind of nice to see someone saying, ‘Hey, I don’t want to be living my life this way. I’m not satisfied with it. I want things to be different.’

Is there any humane way to break up with someone?

Oh, God, no, I don’t think so. I don’t think so. I think somebody’s always going to be hurt. Even if they see it coming. I mean, I don’t know that I’ve ever been on either end of it and felt like it went well.

Crazy Stupid Love is out on DVD and Blu-Ray now.

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Brad Pitt: My kids have coke for breakfast

Brad Pitt: My kids have coke for breakfast

Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie admit that looking after six children isn’t easy — but Brad has revealed just how tough it can be, especially when travelling.

“Listen, I admit there’s times like, ‘We gotta get up. Get up! Here’s your shoes. Here’s your shoes. Drink this Coke. Drink this Coca-Cola. Drink it all. Right now! Drink it! Drink it! Drink it! Just so we could get ’em up and going,” Pitt said.

In an interview with CBS, Pitt talked about travelling with their six children — Knox, Vivienne, Shiloh, Maddox, Zahara and Pax — who travel with their parents around the world.

“I couldn’t imagine life without any one of them,” Pitt said. “There’s something automatic that just, something happens.”

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George Clooney’s lovely ladies

He is arguably Hollywood’s sexiest bachelor and has dated a number of beauties from cocktail waitresses to models. But 50-year-old George Clooney is yet to be locked down.

This year is set to be a big one for George. With his latest squeeze Stacey Kiebler by his side, he is set to take out the top gong at this year’s Oscar Award for Best Actor after being nominated for his role in The Descendants.

Until now only one woman has married George, but it only lasted three years and he has been fancy free since 1993. Let’s hope Stacey has more luck!

Take a look at the ladies who have dated George Clooney over the years.

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George and his current girlfriend Stacy Keibler.

George dated Italian model Elisabetta Canalis for two years from 2009.

Former cocktail waitress Sarah Larson dated George between 2007 and 2008.

George met Norwegian-born journalist Mariella Frostrup at the Cannes Film festival in 2002.

George and Renee Zellweger dated in 2001 after she broke up with Jim Carrey.

Two Guys and a Girl actress Taylor Howard dated George briefly in 2000.

George dated English model Lisa Snowdon for five years between 2000 and 2005.

While filming in Paris George met law student Celine Balitran. They dated three years.

Talia Balsam is the only one to marry George. They were married from 1989 to 1993.

Kelly Preston dated George for two years from 1987.

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Megan and Miranda’s style tips

They have had plenty of practice as ambassadors for David Jones, so who better to get red carpet ready tips from than Megan Gale and Miranda Kerr.

The pair hit the red carpet of the AACTA awards on Tuesday night, among an array of Aussie actors, and explained exactly what they think makes a red carpet outfit.

Watch the video of the pair sharing their tips and then take a look at the Aussie celebrities who graced the red carpet in style.

Megan Gale and Miranda Keer share their style tips.

Model Miranda Kerr.

Model Megan Gale in Alex Perry.

Alex Dimitriades and Anji Lake.

Actress Sarah Snook.

Red Dog star Rachel Taylor.

Actress Cate Blanchett.

Actress Jackie Weaver.

Offspring star Asher Keddie.

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It’s official: Women are better parkers than men

It's official: Women are better parkers than men

Asked to list the things men do better than women, most Australians males would put parking right up next to map-reading and not getting over-emotional in an argument — but they’d be wrong.

A new study has found that women outperform men in nearly all aspects of car parking, making them better overall.

Researchers studied parking manoeuvres carried out by 2,500 drivers over the course of one month at an NCP car park in the UK.

Drivers were judged on various aspects of parking, including technique, speed and accuracy.

These factors were combined to calculate a ‘parking coefficient’ which is an overall judgement of how well people parked.

Out of a maximum score of 20, women had an average parking coefficient of 13.4, while the average male scored just 12.3.

Appropriate space finding speed: Men 64 percent; Women 92 percent

Good or very good ‘pre-parking pose’: Men 53 percent; Women 77 percent

Reverse into space: Men 28 percent; Women 39 percent

Forward into space: Men 72 percent; Women 61 percent

Speed of manoeuvre: Men 16 seconds; Women 21 seconds

Reposition shuffle: Men 29 percent; Women 56 percent

Central finish: Men 25 percent; Women 53 percent

Total co-efficient (max 20): Men 12.3; Women 13.4

The first area men let themselves down was in finding a spot. Researchers found men were far more impatient, often missing spaces because they drove through car parks too fast.

Men fell further behind when it came to the angle of approach, with nearly half of male participants choosing a poor ‘pre-parking pose’.

When it came to speed however, men far outperformed women, completing their manoeuvre five seconds quicker than men.

Men were also on top when it came to repositioning their vehicles, being far more likely to be happy with their first attempt, while more than 50 percent of women chose to straighten up.

This reposition paid dividends for the ladies, with their final park position being twice as good as the blokes.

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Matthew Newton fails to attend court hearing

Troubled actor Matthew Newton failed to appear in court today on charges of assaulting a taxi driver, with his lawyer saying his mental health issues would be aggravated by the media attention.
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Matthew Newton attends a court hearing in Sydney in 2010.

Troubled actor Matthew Newton failed to appear in court today on charges of assaulting a taxi driver, with his lawyer saying his mental health issues would be aggravated by the media attention.

The 35-year-old son of Bert and Patti Newton is charged with punching a 66-year-old cabbie in an incident in Crows Nest in Sydney’s North last December.

But Newton’s lawyer Chris Murphy told North Sydney Local Court he thought it best his client, who he said suffers from bipolar disorder and is obsessive compulsive, avoid the court appearance and media attention.

Evidence given by two eye witnesses and 867 frame-by-frame photographs taken by a nearby CCTV camera “absolutely absolve” Newton of the charges, Mr Murphy told the court.

But the police prosecutor, Daniel McMahon, said: “We don’t agree that the photographic evidence exculpates the defendant.”

Newton’s lawyer cited his client’s mental illness and “weak” police evidence, including an “uninjured” taxi driver, as two reasons for making this “a very complicated case.”

“I, by my nature, would love to run the defence case but I must put my client’s interest first and I don’t think a five- to six-day court case would be very fair to him,” he said.

“He could easily qualify to be dealt with under section 32 [of the Mental Health (Criminal Procedure) Act 1990].” Under section 32, charges can be dismissed, either entirely or with conditions, such as that the person must undergo treatment.

“In my forty years… I think this is the weakest assault case I’ve ever appeared in,” Mr Murphy said.

Mr Newton is charged with two counts of common assault. The case was adjourned until March 27.

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Are double dates the secret to a happy marriage?

Double dates the secret to a happy marriage

Beyonce Knowles and Gwyneth Paltrow are known to double date frequently.

Want to know the secret to Beyoncé and Gwyneth’s happy marriages? Apparently the answer is as simple as double dating.

Beyonce and her husband Jay-Z regularly spend time with Gwyneth and her husband Chris Martin — and a new study suggests their marriages are happier as a result.

Psychologists from the University of Maryland surveyed 123 married people and 58 divorcees.

They found that those who regularly ‘double dated’ with another couple were much happier, more physically attracted to their spouse and far less likely to break up.

“Couples with couple friends seem to have happier relationships,” study leader Professor Geoffrey Greif said.

“With a great couple friendship, you get to see your partner at their best, having a good time and that makes them more attractive. They are having fun, interacting in a loving and supportive way with another couple as well as with the partner.

“Having close couple friends is often a reflection of a longer and happier marriage.”

The study also found that double dating led to greater understanding between partners as observing how other couples behave makes people reflect on how they treat their own partner.

“We watch other couples,” he said. “How do they deal with their children? Does he open the car door for her? Is she supportive of him? Do they hold hands?

“Those behaviours are teachable moments for a couple. If you admire your friends, you can learn from their relationship.”

The research is published as part of the bookTwo Plus Two: Couples and Their Couple Friendships.

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Finding balance in the bedroom

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You and your partner love each other and want to have sex. But what if you’re on different pages when it comes to when and how often?

Libido. It’s a fickle thing. If we believe everything we read, men do nothing but think about sex while women use headaches and hair-washing to get out of it. In reality, many factors can affect when both men and women want sex, but if your body’s telling you yes while his says no, or vice versa, what can you do?

Hidden problems

If your sex life is suffering from a lack of synchronicity, the first thing you need to do is address any underlying relationship issues, says Phoebe Hutchison, author of marriage survival guide Honeymooners Forever.

“If one partner is feeling resentful about something, sex is likely to suffer,” Hutchison says. “Women especially tend to refuse sex if they’re mad at their partner, because they often connect sex with emotions. It’s different for men. Feelings are still important, but sex is more of a physical thing.” Which is great if he’s the one not in the mood. Just push the right buttons and you’re likely to get lucky.

Busy, busy

A hectic schedule can also affect sex drive. “During my research I heard the same story again and again — women are often too exhausted for sex,” Hutchison says. “If your mind’s busy with so many other things — kids, work, friends, family — you just can’t think about sex.”

The secret is to save half an hour a day for yourself. “This allows you to get in the mood. Something as simple as a shopping trip without the kids can help you feel more relaxed and open to sex,” Hutchison says. And remember men get stressed too. “If a man is worried about work or finances, he can lose his sexual appetite completely,” she says.

Confidence crisis

We often think only women worry about how they measure up, but men do too. “They like to feel masculine,” Hutchison says. “They like to be king of the castle and satisfy their woman. So praise him.” If he’s doing something right, tell him. If he’s doing something wrong, gently suggest changes or guide him with your hands.

If you do nothing but complain or lie there like a corpse, his confidence will suffer and likely affect his libido. “And give your partner plenty of attention,” Hutchison says. “I asked a sex worker why she thought many of her clients were married men. She said they’re all looking for attention they don’t get at home.”

Give and take

If the problem is simply hormones — perhaps yours are raging when his aren’t — it’s time to compromise. “My research showed men tend to prefer morning sex,” Hutchison says. “So if you like it at night you might clash. You need to acknowledge your differences and accommodate each other, otherwise the rejection will turn into anger.”

Try alternating mornings and evenings. The same goes if he wants sex every day while you’re more of a once-a-week kind of girl. “Communication is vital,” Hutchison says. “The one who wants it less needs to explain it’s nothing personal, while the one who wants it more might be able to get satisfaction from masturbation.”

Roller-coaster ride

Communication is the key as silence only results in misunderstandings. “And realise that, like everything in life, your sex life will have its ups and downs. We will all experience dry spells,” Hutchison says.

Don’t write sex off it’s not happening for you right now. Talk things through and try things out. Moving from the bed to the sofa might spice things up, or a few games or toys could add a whole new dimension to lovemaking.

“Most importantly, be nice to your partner,” Hutchison says. “And treat them like a lover, not a spouse, even if you’re married or living together.” Seeing them as a sexual being and not just someone who you split the bills with can only lead to good things in the sack.

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