It’s one of the most coveted jobs in Queensland but it doesn’t pay a cent.
The role? Cuddling precious newborns – and these volunteer baby whisperers wouldn’t give it up for quids.
“It’s a very rewarding and satisfying way to give back to our community – it’s the best gig I’ve ever had,” retired teacher Di Haydon, 69, says while snuggling up to a newborn in the special care nursery at Brisbane’s Mater Mothers’ Hospital.
“We have two grown-up sons – I was tired of nagging for grandkids! It’s a privilege to be here with them from day one.
“We have up to 10,000 bubs come through each year, and many stay for more than 100 days – so when Mum can’t be here, we are.”
Co-hugger Chris Abbott, 55, says the secret to being a good “cuddle mum” is remaining calm.
“Babies know! Their instincts sense tension, so if Mum is distressed they feel it. That’s why we’re called the baby whisperers! They recognise us – it’s an amazing feeling when they finally relax,” says the mother-of-two.
Only a handful of volunteers are employed each year, and they undergo extensive training.
“Some babies don’t get the cuddles they need, so we fit into the roles wherever we can and help by feeding and bathing or changing them, along with hundreds of cuddles,” says Chris.
“It’s challenging in some situations… it’s not always a happy family situation. You can’t afford to ever be upset in here.”
First-time mum Jacqueline Ogden, 30, had her boy Sonny six weeks early.
“I’m comfortable leaving him when I go home in the evening, knowing he’s being cared for until I return the next morning. He’s a very lucky little boy.
“Being a new mum I’m also hoping the cuddle mums can give me a few pointers before we finally get to take our little boy home.”
