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Azita Abdollahian has started an incredible initiative of providing haircuts to homeless people. Take 5 met the inspiring woman, and spoke to some of her clients. They share their stories.

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Azita Abdollahian, 45, Castle Hill, NSW

Nearly two years ago I saw a video of a homeless man being harassed.

It was heartbreaking to see someone so vulnerable treated so poorly.

That video triggered something in me.

I knew I had to act.

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I started visiting the homeless people in Sydneyโ€™s Martin Place every week and donating my hairdressing services.

Everyone deserves to look and feel good and Iโ€™m happy to give that to people.

Now I run a Facebook group, Shining Light Foundation.

We have more than 700 members who band together to help the homeless in Sydney.

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Iโ€™m honoured to help these wonderful people who are so often abused and ignored.

Matthew talking to Take 5โ€˜s Brittany.

Matthew, 22.

I had a rough childhood and Iโ€™ve been homeless on and off ever since I was 15.

Living on the streets is scary.

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Iโ€™ve seen people die from heroin overdoses and Iโ€™ve been assaulted a few times.

One random guy slapped me across the head so hard he ruptured my eardrum.

After he attacked me, he cut off a guyโ€™s fingers.

Heโ€™s in jail now but there are others like him out there.

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Now Iโ€™ve got a swag and I live in a park in Alexandria.

Iโ€™ve even started working as a garbo.

I was determined to get back on my feet without help from the government so I wrote up a resume and sent it off.

Iโ€™ve saved a little so far but Iโ€™m really buckling down now.

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I just want a normal life.

My dream is to own a nice brick house and with my new job, Iโ€™m hoping to at least be back in an apartment by Christmas.

Christmas is a time when your friends and family matter more than anything.

Iโ€™ve never really had a traditional festive season.

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But I want to do the right thing by the people who have treated me right.

Iโ€™m working hard to turn my life around and Iโ€™m determined to see that through.

Lafu is grateful for the roof over his head

Lafu, 45.

I was homeless for three years, sleeping rough around Bondi Junction.

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It started after I lost my job.

A few mates let me sleep on their couches but I felt like a burden.

I thought Iโ€™d overstayed my welcome so I packed up and slept on the streets.

I was too shy to beg for money so I went without.

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I love smoking, even though I know itโ€™s bad for me.

When I was on the streets, I couldnโ€™t bring myself to ask anyone for a spare cigarette.

Instead, I carried a lighter and picked up the butts people left on the ground.

Smoking a strangerโ€™s discarded ciggie was gross but I had no other option.

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Christmas was a very lonely time for me.

I didnโ€™t know about any of the services or charities that I couldโ€™ve gone to so I stayed by myself.

It was hard to go without a proper Christmas feast.

Now Iโ€™m living in assisted housing and life is much better.

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I still see my homeless mates and let a few of them stay with me when they need a place to sleep.

Iโ€™m not rich but I wonโ€™t ever forget where Iโ€™ve come from.

Azita feels honoured to do the work she does.

David, 31.

I married the love of my life, Natasha, when we were just 18 years old.

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We had a beautiful daughter and were completely happy.

Then, at 22, Natasha was driving home when a drunk driver flew through a stop sign and ploughed right in to her.

She didnโ€™t survive.

After that I was a mess.

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I turned to alcohol to deal with everything and I lost my job as a mechanic.

I couldnโ€™t stand living in that same house anymore so I sold it and gave all the money to my dad.

He looked after my daughter while I spiralled.

My daughterโ€™s 11 now and I see her every now and again.

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She looks more like her mother every day but she loves mechanics, just like me.

She doesnโ€™t know Iโ€™m homeless.

Dad told her I go away for work and thatโ€™s how I want to keep it.

I donโ€™t want her to think Iโ€™m a failure.

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I havenโ€™t celebrated Christmas since I lost Natasha.

That time of year only upsets me and Iโ€™d rather spend it alone.

Iโ€™m just living day by day, trying to get by.

Brittany and Azita.

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Chance, 50.

I was recently injured at work and lost my job.

I have a young son and, unemployed, I didnโ€™t have enough money to keep both of us going.

I couldnโ€™t bear the thought of my son going without so he moved in with my ex.

I send money to him every week.

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That means Iโ€™m living on the streets but thatโ€™s okay.

As long as my son is cared for I can deal with that.

Itโ€™s what any good mum would do.

Azita has made a huge difference to us homeless people.

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She doesnโ€™t just donate clothes and hairdressing services.

Sheโ€™s always got so much energy and positivity.

She values our opinions and conversation.

She gives us dignity and thatโ€™s something you canโ€™t buy or donate.

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