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OPINION: How do you talk to your kids about God?

Mother and writer, Zoe Arnold asks isn't it time schools teach world religion?
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As a blonde-bobbed five year old, I was taken to midnight mass on the auspicious occasion of Christmas Eve on a particularly muggy summerโ€™s night in inner-Sydney.

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A friend of my motherโ€™s was singing in the choir, and โ€“ ever keen for an educational experience โ€“ my mum let me stay up late for this hallowed occasion.

The church was brimming with C and E Christians (Christmas and Easter types โ€“ you might be one of them โ€“ turn up twice a year for a quick pray, and bingo! โ€“ all your sins/trespasses/bad thoughts are absolved). Half way through the service, I leant over to Mum and whispered, โ€œPop would like it here. They say โ€˜Jesus Christโ€™ a lot.โ€

I guess you could say my family uses the Lordโ€™s name in vain more than in prayer, making me more of an atheist than anything else. Around a third of the Australian population feels roughly the same: we are the irreligious of this great brown land, the second largest group behind those who identify as Christians.

Fast-forward a few decades and I find myself (perhaps unpredictably) a little miffed that my five-year old, attending her local state school, is supposed to sit through an hour of scripture every week.

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Good old scripture. It was compulsory in my day, and after a few weeks of going to the Catholics, I declared that I was going to try out for the Protestants โ€“ much to my motherโ€™s amusement as she gently explained religion was not akin to a sport.

But I digress. Our public education system is supposed to be secular. Non-denominational. Perfect for us of little faith. Just as I get to take my kids to sport and drama after school, the religious should fit in their worship out of hours.

So I asked the head Kindy teacher about the available versions of scripture for our eager little student, and was happy to hear she could attend โ€˜multi-faithโ€™ or Catholic lessons.

Given my poor time with the Romans, I asked more about the multi-faith option โ€“ keen for my daughter to understand all faiths, rather than holding just a narrow view of one.

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Alas, multi-faith was actually code for โ€˜every-other-form-of-Christianity-lumped-togetherโ€™, and my hopes for a broad religious induction was dashed.

Isnโ€™t it finally time to teach world religion as a matter of course? With 60 percent of Australians identifying as Christians โ€“ they should be using their collective prayer power to preach tolerance and peace with some kind of urgency, as the divide between โ€˜usโ€™ and โ€˜themโ€™ grows ever wider.

Letโ€™s have our kids learn more than nuances of the Lordโ€™s Prayer, introduce them to the Buddhist scriptures, the Tanach, Aboriginal Dreamtime.

Better still, teach Primary Ethics alongside religion โ€“ imagine a generation of kids who understood philosophical reasoning before they got to high school.

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For now though, as my daughterโ€™s classmates get whisked away to learn about how God created the world, she sits in non-scripture, her soft pink fingers expertly colouring stencils, as she adores to do in her downtime.

Fine, except that sheโ€™s supposed to be getting an education.

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