Researchers from the University of California quizzed 384 families and found that 74 per cent of mothers and 70 per cent of fathers had a definite favourite among their children.
The parents were not asked to name their favourite child, but follow-up questioning of their children revealed eldest children were preferred almost across the board.
This bias towards first-borns affected the confidence of younger siblings, damaging their self-esteem.
The results stunned study leader Katherine Conger, who said the research had been aiming to prove the opposite – that younger children were often the favourites.
“I was a little surprised,” she said. “Our hypothesis was that older, earlier-born children would be more affected by perceptions of differential treatment due to their status as the older child in the family.”