Question:
I have two indoor cats (aged four and 10) which hate dogs, but I really want to get a dog that can also come inside. Is there any way I can get my cats to be friends with a dog?
Julie, via e-mail.
Answer:
If your cats have never been exposed to dogs before, it’s not going to be easy to get them used to the idea now, but here are a few suggestions.
Your choice of the breed and temperament of the dog may help. A more placid dog would be a good start. Cavalier King Charles spaniels and other small, gentle breeds are less likely to chase and harass cats than more active breeds like terriers. If you rescue an older dog, look for one who has lived with cats before so they won’t be so much of a novelty for the dog.
If you want the dog inside, at first you will have to designate cat territory or no-dog zones where the cats can hide and get away. Introduce them slowly through slightly ajar doors or with the dog on a lead, so they can smell each other without incident. Gradually they can have more exposure to each other until they are relaxed enough to be together all the time.
Cats will often be frightened and take a swipe at dogs. Hopefully, the dog will learn to give the cat space and back off, but many a curious puppy will get its nose scratched — then they learn the cat is boss! Make sure the cats have hidey-holes up high where they can feel safe.
I have two cats, one who was terrified of our dog when we got him, but who is now fine (it took about four weeks, though) and the other who the dog is petrified of, despite being almost 10 times his weight. So it all depends on personality! Good luck.