Question:
Dear Julie,
Four months ago I adopted a cat from the RSPCA. They estimated her age at 4.5 years old. I am having issues with her responding to affection. She dislikes being patted, held or encouraged to play. Instead she is reclusive, avoiding human contact where possible. Could you suggest some trust-building techniques?
Eve.
Answer:
Firstly, good on you for saving an adult puss who desperately needed a loving home. What you are describing is a common problem with rescued animals and perfectly natural behaviour considering the possible history she has had. All animals need to be socialised at a young age in order to be confident and friendly towards humans. This critical socialisation period ends at around seven weeks in kittens so early contact is essential. They need non-threatening and enjoyable social contact to learn that humans are safe and nice to be around. Their natural wild instincts would be to keep clear of strangers and if they missed out on social development early in life this isn’t easy or quick to change. Genetics also plays a part so if mum or dad were timid, there’s a good chance the kittens will be.
You need not to force things. Avoid frightening her by picking her up or making loud noises. Boisterous kids or other animals may also provoke fear so be aware of the surroundings. Give her a place up high and private (a box or bed) where she can hide and feel safe. Crouch down and talk gently to her. Try and stroke her on the side when you feed her, this way she will associate you with positive things. Let her come to you, and gently reward this with affection and some tasty treats. You could also try using catnip in her bedding, as this can have a calming effect on some cats. You may need to discuss with your vet using some anti-anxiety medication for a while to help her overcome this fear and learn to enjoy life! In time she will come to trust you and this will give you satisfaction that you have helped an emotionally scarred little moggie.
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