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All babies are different and some need more sleep than others. Youโ€™ll know your baby is getting enough sleep is she seems content and sleeps well at night.

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However, it is useful to know how much sleep your baby should be getting according to her age.

When sheโ€™s tiny, your baby might enjoy eight naps a day, but by the time sheโ€™s two sheโ€™ll be down to one chunky daytime sleep so there are lots of naps to be dropped!

In the first six months, they drop away quite naturally. The hardest transitions are when your baby goes from three naps a day to two at around nine months, and from two naps a day to one, usually around 15-18 months.

Nicole Johnson author of Baby S.T.E.P.S to Better Sleep says it can take some time for a baby to drop a nap.

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โ€œDuring these transitions there will be a two- or three-week period in which, for example, three naps are too many, but two arenโ€™t enough.โ€

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The following clues may be signs your baby is ready to change her sleep routine.

โ€ข She might consistently refuse one.

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โ€ข She may nap for a shorter period than before.

โ€ข Her napping schedule might completely go out the window

Nicole says once your spot the signs, observe and try to work out whatโ€™s going on.

โ€œWatch and try to figure out the patterns youโ€™re seeing. Is this really a nap transition, or something else, such as teething?โ€

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If youโ€™re sure sheโ€™s ready to drop a nap, ensure that the change isnโ€™t going to affect bedtime.

โ€œIf your child is refusing her normal naps, but then getting tired later in the day, donโ€™t be tempted to let her have a later nap. Instead put her to bed earlier,โ€ says Nicole.

This may mean that she wakes up a little earlier in the morning, but that then pulls her first daytime nap forward, too. Sheโ€™ll then sleep for longer in this first nap of the day, so she can cope without a later nap.

Nicole says the timings will re-adjust and her new sleep pattern will emerge.

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โ€œAnd if she needs it, offer the opportunity for an extra nap once or twice a week to curb any overtiredness.โ€

When your child is consistently refusing to nap, it might be a sign itโ€™s time to change their sleep routine.

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How your little oneโ€™s naps evolve

0-11 WEEKS

โ€œAs a newborn, your baby needs to wake up regularly to feed,โ€ says Nicole, โ€œand the hormones that help regulate sleep patterns arenโ€™t established in her body yet. Expect lots of deep sleep in short bursts.โ€

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3-4 MONTHS

โ€œWhen your baby is around four months, her sleeping patterns change,โ€ says Nicole. โ€œShe starts developing cycles of light and deep sleep. This can mean she canโ€™t nap for longer than 45 minutes in one go, until she learns how to move from one cycle into another, and make it through the periods of light sleep without waking.โ€

5-6 MONTHS

By six months of age your baby is old enough to sleep in a predictable way โ€“ now weโ€™re not saying she will, just that sheโ€™s mature enough to do so! But her daytime sleep should now start to follow a more regular pattern.

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7-8 MONTHS

Enjoy this golden age of napping! Sheโ€™ll hopefully be having two or three reliably lengthy naps right now.

By two-and-a-half, your toddler might start to skip her daytime nap two or three times in a month.

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9-12 MONTHS

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โ€œThereโ€™s a lot going on in your youngsterโ€™s life that can disrupt nap time at this age, including learning to pull herself up, teething and separation anxiety,โ€ says Nicole. โ€œAnd her brain is so busy, itโ€™s harder for her to settle.โ€

13-17 MONTHS

โ€œNow your toddler is more active, keep her nap routine consistent, so she continues with two naps a day for as long as she needs,โ€ says Nicole. โ€œMost babies donโ€™t make the transition to one nap until theyโ€™re 15-18 months old.โ€

18 MONTHS โ€“ 2 YEARS

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โ€œFrom about 18 months old, most toddlers are down to one nap a day,โ€ says Nicole. โ€œThis shift in sleeping patterns can take a while, though, so donโ€™t be surprised if there are some days when sheโ€™s fine with one nap and on other days itโ€™s clear that she needs two.โ€

2-3 YEARS

By two-and-a-half, your toddler might start to skip her daytime nap two or three times in a month. Sheโ€™s starting the transition towards not having a daytime sleep at all, which completely kicks in between the ages of three and four.

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