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Two readers share their experiences of a job interview gone awry and what they learnt from the experience.
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JOB interviews are high-pressure situations and itโ€™s common to suffer a bout of nerves, say the wrong thing or go off track when answering questions. But did you realise that over-confidence can also stand between you and your dream job? This happened to 29-year-old Michele Baker* when she interviewed for a senior position at a global marketing company.

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โ€˜I was too casualโ€™

โ€œMy first two workplaces were very casual and social so I had not yet been exposed to a truly corporate environment, despite being in the industry for a while,โ€ Michele says.

Michele found herself in a formal three-panel interview for which she was unprepared. She immediately recognised one of the interviewers from a recent industry networking event and began recounting the nightโ€™s antics.

โ€œMy past interviews were also informal so I had always relied on my personality in those situations to keep the conversation flowing,โ€ Michele says.

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โ€œAt the time I thought I was โ€˜breaking the iceโ€™, but I look back now and cringe about it!โ€

A week later, Michele was not surprised to receive an email saying she did not get the role.

โ€œI completely misread the tone of the interview. After that I made sure to keep my banter to a minimum โ€“ this helped me land a marketing role a month down the track.โ€

Expert tip โ€“ research the role

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Elizabeth Kingston, Executive Director at Kingston Human Capital, says job seekers who may have sailed effortlessly through past interviews often rely on their people and rapport-building skills to nail an interview.

โ€œThis confidence can result in the job seeker not undertaking enough research about the role, the organisation and the people they will be interviewing with,โ€ Kingston says.

Interviewees should always do their research โ€“ making sure they have a clear understanding of the role and its context plus the organisationโ€™s direction, challenges and competitors,โ€ Kingston says.

โ€˜I was too nervous to get words outโ€™

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Administrator Kathryn Young*, 36, says her nerves have always held her back when going for new roles. This was the case when she recently interviewed for a student support and administration position at a university.

โ€œThe question was one of those: โ€˜Tell me about a time when ..โ€™ types and I just froze. I had a few ideas in my head but I got overwhelmed and had to โ€˜passโ€™ and move on to the next question,โ€ Kathryn says.

Despite not getting the role, Kathryn welcomed the feedback, which helped for future interviews.

โ€œThe HR representative told me the panel was really impressed with my CV and industry experience, but they wanted me to give more examples of that in the interview,โ€ Kathryn says.

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โ€œI made sure in my next interview for a EA/ administration officer position I was fully prepared โ€“ I had examples ready to bring out which took away a lot of my nerves. I am happy to say I was offered the job!โ€

Expert tip โ€“ acknowledge your nerves

Kingston says nerves create โ€œinternal chatterโ€ which causes people to not properly listen to questions.

โ€œOne of the best ways to handle nerves and how they impact your interview performance is to acknowledge it,โ€ Kingston says.

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โ€œWhen your interviewer asks you โ€˜How are you today?โ€™, you can say, โ€˜Iโ€™m well thank you โ€“ a little nervous if anythingโ€™.

โ€œThat way they are not likely to judge you too harshly if you stumble on your words or take a few moments to get into the full swing of things.โ€

Above all, Kingston says thorough research into the company and preparing answers to common questions helps quell interview jitters.

For more tips on the perfect interview technique, see SEEKโ€™s interview skills.

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**names have been changed.*

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