Are you a NETTEL? This acronym, coined by market researchers to describe people struggling with crazy-busy lives, stands for: not enough time to enjoy life.
These 10 tried-and-true tips can help you to find a little bit more time for yourself on even the most hectic day.
1. Break it down: When faced with a huge task, as the saying goes, โTake one bite of the elephant at a timeโ โ do one thing at a time, do it well, and move onto the next. Donโt waste time by panicking over what you have to do, or havenโt done yet.
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2. Plug time leaks: Fill in those little leftover moments of time with something constructive. When youโre stuck in traffic or kept waiting for an appointment, listen to your iPod or a talking book, read a magazine, plan a menu.
3. Clean up as you go: If you spend 10 minutes every day looking for your keys, work files, bills or lost earrings, you waste more than 60 hours a year. Remember what your mother told you, โA place for everything, and everything in its place.โ
4. Work out what youโre worth: Calculate your hourly wage. Then, perhaps you can pay someone less than your rate to do the time-consuming chores you hate most. That way, youโll have more time to either do the work that pays you more, or just chill.
5. Donโt say โyesโ straight away: When youโre asked to do something you donโt have to time to do, train yourself to say, โI need 24 hours to think it over โ Iโll get back to you.โ When you call back to say no, suggest someone who may be able to do the job instead. That two-letter word โNoโ is the single most important time-management tool you have.
6. Shorten your โto-doโ list: According to Forbes magazine, the most effective managers identify only three top priorities every day. Try it. Your self-esteem gets a big boost when you repeatedly cross off all three tasks, day after day. Anything more than three is a bonus.
7. Write a โdonโt doโ list as well: This should include any tasks you can delegate, anything that you do just to please others, and any job that really doesnโt matter much. Ask yourself: โWhatโs the worst that can happen if I donโt do this?โ If the answer is โNot muchโ โ donโt do it.
8. Pick your peaks: Are you a day person or a night person? Everyone has a biological clock and certain times of day when we are most alert, and other times when weโre not. Schedule routine chores and low-priority jobs for your โdown timeโ.
9. Jump in: The most insidious thing about procrastination is that the job gets bigger and harder and scarier the longer you keep putting it off. Once started, most people are surprised to find it doesnโt take that long after all.
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10. โStop when youโre hot,โ Ernest Hemingway said: In other words, stop a task at a point when youโve achieved something, rather than in the middle of a problem. Itโs much easier to return to it.
Your say: Do you have any time for yourself? How do you make sure you have time for you?
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