Now that the controversial Davina has left Married At First Sight for good, the hit reality show’s relationship experts have come under fire for not acting earlier.
Viewers are wondering why John Aiken, Mel Schilling and neuropsychotherapist Dr Trisha Stratford didn’t do anything to stop bikini model Davina pursuing an affair with one of the other MAFS “husbands”, Dean.
John says it’s not their job to do so.
“They [the couples] have round-the-clock psychologists to look after them,” he tells TV WEEK. “If they have needs in that respect, they have full access.”
He explains they keep a close eye on the couples, hoping they’ll flourish. But as we’ve seen, that doesn’t always happen.
“It’s really hard to watch at times,” John says.
MAFS experts Mel (left), Trisha and John fought the urge to intervene.
Fans have also been quick to question why Dean, 39, and Davina, 26, weren’t matched from the start. After all, it would have saved a lot of heartache.
But John says the trio didn’t view Dean and Davina as having “any potential whatsoever”.
“Dean is strong-minded, outspoken and likes to take the lead in relationships,” John explains. “We really wanted someone who could fit in with that.
“Tracey was that person. Davina is a firecracker – very volatile. Her communication style is blunt. She isn’t interested in having someone take the lead.”
But John says there was one thing he noticed about Dean and Davina as he watched their affair unfold.
“They had a very sexual side to them,” he says. “I think that initially dragged them in.”
John adds Davina was matched with Ryan because he’s the physical type she wanted. They’re also both sociable, into fitness, and Ryan says what he thinks.
“But their fight style became very toxic very early,” he says. “It derailed them.”
After Dean rejected Davina, viewers watched in disbelief as she tried to win back Ryan, but failed.
John says it’s great that Ryan held his own.
“He’s got boundaries and principles,” he says. “When you watch the reunion, you’ll see a very honest, no-holds-barred Ryan come out.”
Should the experts have jumped in to keep peace within the group?
But John admits even the experts were shocked by what went on between Dean and Davina.
“We’d never seen anything like this on MAFS before,” he says. “Previously, if people weren’t happy with their matches, they left. It’s highly unpredictable.”
He says the trio really want to see the couples succeed.
“We put in time and effort, and we believe in the matches,” he says. “So when they’re doing these things, we have that urge to want to say, ‘Stop, commit, change, adjust here.'”
