Jen Hawke was cast as one of the many villains in Matty J’s series of the Bachelor Australia 2017, but now she’s back in the spotlight and her vulnerability is a stark contrast to her persona on the show.
Used to having her relationships discussed, the 27-year-old confessed she had kept a traumatic relationship from her past secret, still plagued by the pain of domestic violence.
“Today I want to touch on something that although I don’t talk about often, recent events have highlighted how important it is that people do talk about it.
“When I was just 20 years of age I was a victim of domestic violence – For me it was one incredibly violent incident and I somehow found the strength to leave and walk away from my relationship.
“Fortunately for me, circumstances ensured I stayed away from my abuser and never fell back into that relationship.”
The marketing manager added that not all violence against women is physical and other types of domestic violence are just as damaging.
“Violence against women is defined as any act of gender based violence that results in physical, sexual or psychological harm to women – It even includes threats, intimidation, coercion and financial abuse.
“I have come across far too many women who have experienced one or more of the above while in a relationship. I understand it is hard to talk about, or ask for help and it feels utterly impossible to stand against.
“However I implore all of you to check on your daughters, sisters, mothers and friends. Read between the lines and pay attention to the small details of their situations.”
The Bachelorette alum said the post was to support other victims and offer some support.
“I’m not a professional and I don’t pretend to be,” she wrote. “I’m merely a domestic violence survivor – however I want any other victim to know I’m a person they can turn to, that will listen and help in any way I can.”
Hawke finished by tagging White Ribbon Australia, a non-profit designed to eradicate violence against women.
If you feel like you need someone to talk to more about domestic abuse, visit White Ribbon Australia’s website for more information, or call 1800RESPECT now.
