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Georgie Parker on why her husband was worth the wait and how she overcame her scoliosis

The Aussie TV star opens up about her marriage and her life-changing health diagnosis.
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As Lucy Gardiner on A Country Practice, Terri Sullivan on All Saints, and โ€“ most recently โ€“ Roo Stewart on Home and Away, actress Georgie Parker has been a fixture on our screens since the โ€™80s.

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Iconic, long-running roles aside, sheโ€™s also managed to pick up seven Logies, forge a dazzling theatre career, marry her dream guy, and become a mum along the way. Her secret? The simple fact that sheโ€™s full of beans.

โ€œI have a lot of natural physical energy,โ€ a smiling Georgie tells Good Health & Wellbeing. โ€œIโ€™m quite excitable! And expending some of this excess energy through exercise definitely helps relax me.โ€

The go-getterโ€™s passion for fitness has its roots in her childhood, during which she was a confirmed โ€œsporty kidโ€.

โ€œIโ€™ve always liked health,โ€ she says. โ€œItโ€™s just the way I was raised. I played a lot of softball, swam and was a ballet dancer. For us, it was never about how you looked, it was always about how exercise made you feel.โ€

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However, at the age of 13, after nine years of ballet training, Georgieโ€™s promising future as a dancer came to an end when she was diagnosed with scoliosis, a spinal condition.

โ€œIโ€™m quite excitable! And expending some of this excess energy through exercise definitely helps relax me.โ€

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โ€œEveryone in the room was very quiet and looking at me when they told me,โ€ she recalls of the fateful day. โ€œSo I realised that it was very important. I was good at ballet and it gave me a lot of physical freedom, so to be told that not only could I not do it but that Iโ€™d need to be put in a brace for years, was a shock.โ€

Though the blow signalled an end to dancing, Georgie was determined to make the best of the situation. Already knowing that acting was where her real ambitions lay, she made peace with the fibreglass brace that covered her torso.

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Adjusting to โ€˜Borisโ€™

โ€œOn paper it was quite diabolical,โ€ she reflects. โ€œLuckily, Iโ€™ve always been up to a challenge. I ended up naming the brace โ€˜Borisโ€™ โ€“ I thought he deserved a nickname as he was with me all the time โ€“ and viewed him as a sort of ally in trying to figure out this obstacle that was scoliosis. I embraced the challenge of dealing with scoliosis in my lifeโ€ฆ that was the way I saw it. Looking back, in some ways, I think I was fortunate to have an experience like that early on.โ€

Adjusting her exercise regime, Georgie is more active than ever. But these days itโ€™s also out of necessity.

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โ€œIf you have any back issue, movement is key in terms of staying on top of it,โ€ she says. โ€œSwimming is really great for any back issue because itโ€™s non-weight bearing, thereโ€™s no impact, and youโ€™re working the body fairly evenly. Then I do yoga, Pilates and light weights at the gym. It seems a lot, but I mix it all up. Itโ€™s never more than an hour each day.โ€

โ€œIโ€™ve always liked health. Itโ€™s just the way I was raised.โ€

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Just as the Logie-winner took lessons from her teenage heath diagnosis, sheโ€™s done the same thing with her attitude towards food, after witnessing firsthand the devastating impact that an obsession with dieting can have.

โ€œBeing a ballet dancer I saw people who were having issues with food and it not playing out well,โ€ says Georgie.

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โ€œIโ€™d see people dieting at the age of 14 or 15 โ€“ it was really concerning. Being exposed to people who developed eating disorders and problems with food, well, it just put me off the word โ€˜dietโ€™. I understand why people go on them, but Iโ€™ve never been one for them. I like good food too much!

Balance and quality

โ€œI look at food as being the fuel that you need. I love chocolate and dessert โ€“ Iโ€™m looking at the dessert menu before the main course when Iโ€™m at a restaurant! I think itโ€™s weird to deny yourself something, it just leads to you wanting something more. I think taking a balanced approach to food is key.โ€

Case in point: the superfood salad sheโ€™s munching on during our chat.

โ€œIโ€™m eating a salad of Brussels sprouts, salmon, potato, pumpkin, and roasted beetroot โ€“ I love roasted beetroot!โ€

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โ€œI love chocolate and dessert โ€“ Iโ€™m looking at the dessert menu before the main course when Iโ€™m at a restaurant!โ€

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The nature of working on soaps is that filming is ongoing and often erratic, schedule-wise. Good Health witnesses this during our interview with the actress, which takes place in-between shooting for Home and Away. So how does the busy screen star manage to eat well while on the go?

โ€œYou just plan for it,โ€ she says. โ€œIโ€™ve been doing this since I was 20. I carry my food around with me. I make up a batch of vegetables and just make sure I always have tuna or something like that. I believe in eating โ€“ and the better you eat, the more you can eat!โ€

Georgie frequently shares snaps from the set of Home and Away.

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Her approach to mental wellbeing is equally as simplistic. Thereโ€™s no complex meditation regime, or self-help books for the soap star, instead she maintains mental equilibrium through staying active.

โ€œYou canโ€™t really think about anything else while youโ€™re exercising,โ€ she muses โ€œEspecially with the kind of exercise I do. Swimming, in particular, dramatically changes your physical environment. I feel completely restored when I get out of the waterโ€ฆ itโ€™s a great mental health break. For me, exercise wipes the slate clean. When you finish exercising, you start everything afresh.

โ€œIf I have a problem, then I figure out the solution. I think having my diagnosis and being put in a brace at the age of 13 taught me this really early on. When you look at problems like this, it becomes clear what you can do and what you canโ€™t. If thereโ€™s nothing you can do about it, then you need to figure out how to live with it, or ride it out. Problems are part of life, so we all just have to deal with them.โ€

Itโ€™s clear that Georgie takes a โ€˜when life gives you lemonsโ€™ approach, and she is quick to agree.

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Georgie takes a โ€˜when life gives you lemonsโ€™ approach when it comes to lifeโ€™s problems.

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Simple common sense

โ€œI am incredibly pragmatic,โ€ she says, chuckling. โ€œIf I do need extra help to shift gears mentally, then Iโ€™ll put my favourite music on and cook a meal. I might catch up with a really old mate, someone Iโ€™ve known for a long time; or I go for a walk, which in itself is really beautiful.โ€

Further evidence of her pragmatic nature can be seen in how she dealt with her hip replacement last year. Despite the fact that she was first diagnosed with arthritis at the age of 40, she waited 13 years before undergoing the procedure.

โ€œThe osteoarthritis was actually caused by my scoliosis,โ€ she says. โ€œAs my pelvis is slightly twisted, my right leg just wore out. At that stage, a hip replacement lasted 15 years and after that I would have needed another operation. But you can only have two or three replacements, and then they run out of options. So, I waited and waited, and finally had it done last year. By waiting so long, the new generation of replacements last longer, so Iโ€™ll be 78 or so when I need another one.โ€

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Sheโ€™ll always have that ballerina star power!

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Worth the wait

Playing the waiting game is nothing new to the small screen legend though. She wanted to get things right before approaching motherhood, giving birth at 35 to her daughter Holly, now aged 18.

โ€œI wanted to be a mother for a very long time,โ€ she confesses. โ€œI just had to wait to meet the right guy! I kept on meeting guys I just didnโ€™t want to be a parent with, then finally I met my husband when I was 33. It was just the way it worked out.โ€

And the โ€œright guyโ€ turned out to be screenwriter, Steve Worland. The pair married in December 1999, making this year two decades together as husband and wife. But after 20 years, and a home life that often sees both of them in the house for long periods as Steve works from home, how do they avoid conflict?

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Her Home and Away character may have had some rocky romances, but Georgie and her real-life husband Steve keep things pretty private.

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โ€œWe just give one another an enormous amount of space,โ€ she admits. โ€œWeโ€™ve never been joined at the hip, itโ€™s just not the way we operate. I think itโ€™s very healthy to do a lot of things separately, we have our own interests and I think that really helps. We do things independently, but also as a family, and as a couple.โ€

Her husbandโ€™s job means that child-rearing has been an even split, though Georgie knows that all too often the lionโ€™s share falls to women to โ€œjuggleโ€.

โ€œI think we women see it as our role to juggle,โ€ she says. โ€œThis isnโ€™t meant to be disparaging towards men, but it isnโ€™t the way society sees them when they become fathers. They arenโ€™t seen as โ€˜having it allโ€™. Itโ€™s not even a turn of phrase used for dads. No father is ever asked, โ€˜How do you juggle it all?'โ€

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Parenting isnโ€™t the only area that Georgie is breaking new ground in. Professionally, sheโ€™s one of only a handful of women who are acting into their 50s and beyond.

Georgie is one of the few women who are acting into their 50s and beyond.

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Model examples

โ€œIt can only be a good thing,โ€ she says of this new wave. โ€œWeโ€™ve always had so many male actors over 50, so itโ€™s about bloody time! We were underrepresented, in fact, back in the day our age wasnโ€™t represented in the media much at all. It was basically viewed that woman were no longer viable over the age of 40. But that has really changed now.โ€

Certainly getting older doesnโ€™t bother the 53-year-old, and she views her parents, Tony and Rosemary, as model examples of ageing gracefully.

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โ€œMy dad is 89 and heโ€™s pretty much the same as he was when he was 59. My mum is turning 85 this year and she still does adult education. Theyโ€™re both involved in social activities and stay current with politics and the like. These are people who are involved in life, and I think that has a lot to do with how you see yourself, as a person, rather than as an age.โ€

Itโ€™s plain-speaking advice like this that has helped see her through tough times. And when it comes to life lessons she employs day-to-day, she has wisdom that is characteristically matter-of-fact.

โ€œDonโ€™t get in your own way,โ€ she states, simply. โ€œI learned that when I was very young. A lot of people will think themselves out of doing something, but instead of overthinking you should just back yourself and do it. Itโ€™ll turn out all right!โ€

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