In Australia for a series of talks, The Real Housewives Of New York City icon and business mogul Bethenny Frankel is ready to get candid.
Ahead of these talks, the star, 53, revealed to us what she plans to do here with her daughter Bryn, why sheโs saying no a lot more and why sheโs turned her back on the franchise that made her name.

Weโre so excited to have you back in Australia!
Thank you. Iโm excited. Iโve been three times and itโs a really far trip, but me saying yes each time says a lot about how much I love your country. Itโs a magical place. Itโs a long trip, but itโs totally worth it. And to be able to bring my daughter, itโs something not to be taken for granted. Iโm really excited to be sharing it with her.
What have you planned to do with her while youโre here?
Well, I did the [Harbour] Bridge Climb last time and I think Bryn might like that. She loves animals, so to see a koala in some sort of intimate setting. And I guess sheโs got to see a kangaroo too!
So youโre doing two talks while youโre here โ one in Sydney and one in Melbourne.
What can we expect from these events?
Weโre going to talk about business and balance and motherhood and age and beauty and influence โ maybe a little gossip. Iโm just excited to have fun, to connect and to laugh. If you go on my social media, it says that my number one fans are in New York, and the number two is Australia!

We canโt wait to hear you talk about motherhood because youโve been on top of your game for so long and yet youโve always prioritised Bryn. How do you juggle it all?
Iโm at the point in my life where I only do what I want to do and it makes sense. Itโs always a discussion and I donโt want to say a battle, but I say no to most things.
I just want to spend time with my daughter. For example, I was thinking about a big event [recently] but I had a tournament of my daughterโs for lacrosse and thatโs really the most important thing.
So, you hit 50, and your priorities really change. When youโre young, you can just do anything anytime. Itโs just the quality of time becomes so much more important.
Something you did say yes to recently however is starring in a new Lifetime movie, Danger In The Dorm!
It was so shocking to get the call to get the part. And then it was a shock to get the script. I thought it was going to be a couple of lines and it wasnโt โ they gave me a lead. I was like, โAre they nuts!?โ It was hard work.
I have a newfound respect for actresses and crews. Itโs really hard work. But Iโm glad I did it, it was a great experience.
So the wonderful Sally Obermeder is hosting your chats in Oz. Have you watched The Real Housewives Of Sydney at all?
I will say to you I donโt watch Housewives and I just cancelled my ReWives podcast. Itโs just not where I am. The space has changed and I have changed with the space. But I bet the [Sydney] ladies are so interesting!

So you donโt see yourself ever returning to reality TV?
No, I love reality TV. Itโs just not a reality TV show where thereโs an underlying goal that there has to be conflict. I just think life is too short and Iโm in a different place in my life. I donโt want to be blindsided with conflict.
What would you say if Bryn wanted to do reality TV when sheโs older?
She wouldnโt because she doesnโt like it, but I mean she might if it was something cute and fun, but she wouldnโt if it was something like Housewives.
IN CONVERSATION WITH BETHENNY FRANKEL Hosted by Sally Obermeder, Friday, ICC Sydney. Tickets from ticketek.com.au.
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