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Wedding make-up

Question:

I am getting married and have a fair complexion. What colours would you suggest for a natural look and what down-hairstyles are in this season?

Heidi, via e-mail.

Answer:

I always think that a combination of peaches and soft pinks work well on a pale complexion. You should, however, have a trial before the wedding, just to make sure you are happy with the results. As far as hairstyles go, there seems to be a real swing towards soft, cascading curls pulled back loosely. Again, a trial prior to your wedding is advisable.

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I broke up my sister’s relationship!

My sister had recently bought a brand new, expensive laptop computer after months and months of saving. I couldn’t wait to get on it, so when she was out one day I slipped into her room and went on the Internet.

I was searching for some information on a project I was doing at uni, but the words I was searching for kept leading me to pornographic websites! Suddenly I heard my sister’s car, so I quickly shutdown the computer and pretended not to have been on it.

Two days later, I heard a sobbing noise coming from my sister’s room, so I went in to check if she was alright. She wasn’t. She told me that she had somehow contracted viruses on her laptop, so she had taken it in to work with her for one of her male workmates to fix.

After leaving the computer with him overnight, she went to see him the next morning, only to be informed that the viruses had been contracted from all the porno sites she had visited! She was totally humiliated! But that’s not the worst part …

She then went on to tell me how her boyfriend was the only other person she had let use the computer and because she knew she hadn’t visited those sites, it must have been him! So she confronted him, but of course he denied it. They then had a huge fight and broke up! I felt so bad … but I was in too deep to tell her the truth.

My sister still calls her ex-boyfriend a perverted liar, but the whole time I was the culprit!

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Angie’s great golf adventure!

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By Annette Campbell

Angie Innes, a 45-year-old mother-of-two from Sydney’s north-western suburbs, has a health and wellbeing message for all of us. “Have a hit of golf!” she smiles. “It’ll do you the world of good.”

Earlier this year, just before her 45th birthday, Angie made a list of things she wanted to do for herself. “I’ve always been doing things for my husband, our kids and work,” she says. “I never really did things just for me, so I thought ‘If it’s not now, it’ll be never’ and that maybe I’d burn-out otherwise.”

Close to the top of that list were golf lessons. “Just because I’m 45, it doesn’t mean I can’t try something new,” she shrugs. “And I’m so glad I went ahead and did it. I love it. I’ve learned something and am getting better at it.”

Angie and her husband Ian have been married for 25 years. They have a son, Matthew, 19, and a daughter, Jessica, 15, and run their own sales and marketing company. Over the years Angie had often thought about giving golf a go, so when the kids were older and she and Ian had started working for themselves, she decided the time was right. Along she went to a beginner’s course run by instructor Anne Rollo at a local club. And after only a couple of lessons, Angie was hooked!

“I really liked Anne and the other ladies — we all got on famously and laughed more than playing any golf,” she beams. “I was having a great time with some fun women. And after about six lessons, four of us decided to keep playing every fortnight.

“I must admit that when I first started, I did think all the walking might help me lose a little weight, but have I? No! Sure, I’m walking a lot more, but then we go and have lunch!

“But I’m doing this more for mental wellbeing anyway — the pure fun of it! I’m used to sitting every day at work and I’m absolutely not a gym-goer. So this is my relaxation; my little escape. It’s just so wonderful to be outside and away from telephones, in beautiful weather and on a lovely green golf course.”

Now Angie even has her own set of golf clubs, thanks to birthday and Mother’s Day gifts from her family. So there’s absolutely no stopping her.

“My game is improving and at the same time I feel I’m more relaxed as a person,” Angie explains.

Angie is now keen to encourage other women to take up something new — at any time of their lives 7#151; for the physical and mental benefits.

“You’ve just got to do it, whether it’s golf or something else,” she enthuses. “Make time for yourself. It doesn’t mean you love your family any less. But you need time with yourself and just to be with other women and have a laugh.”

For more info about golf, including hints and tips, visit Anne Rollo’s website:

www.annerollogolfinstitute.com

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Fashion classics

What are the fashion classics? I’d like to add them to my wardrobe.

Karen, by email.

By investing in a good set of fashion “classics” you will find your wardrobe much more versatile and user-friendly. It’s worth your while to spend a bit of time and money finding quality, classic pieces that fit you properly. These items can be worn season after season, worn together for a timeless look or mixed up with the season’s more directional trends.

White Shirt

An item that can take you from corporate to casual. Try Herringbone (02 9212 2911) or Baubridge and Kay (1800 818 629) for high quality shirts.

Tailored 3 Piece Suit

The 3 piece suit consists of a pencil skirt, trousers and a jacket. Finding a suit that fits properly can often seem daunting, however starting at Myer (1800 811 611) or David Jones (13 33 57) could be a good idea. They carry a large number of styles and sizes. Cue (1800 060 706), Ojay (03 9827 4244), and Sportscraft (1800 002 477) also offer suits at affordable prices. Don’t forget, you can always have a suit altered professionally by a tailor or dress maker for the perfect fit or hem length!

Jeans

A good pair of denims is one of today’s most worn items and can be dressed up or down to suit almost any occasion! In our August issue we tested out some of the best jeans styles around. Our favourites included: Classic cut Levis from Just Jeans (03 9420 0200); Young innovative EDC jeans by Esprit (02 8586 0444); Comfortable stretchy jeans from RM Williams (08 8259-1000); Dressy dark denim from Simona (1800 654 116); Plus Size jeans from My Size (03 8420 1000); and cute and cropped from Blazer (03 9427 1466). If you shop around to find a pair that is comfortable and fits well, you’re guaranteed hundreds of wears from them.

Little Black Dress

It is always good to start with a basic wardrobe colour such as black, brown, grey or navy and accessorise to suit the occasion. Add a splash of colour with shoes and a scarf, add a touch of glamour with sparkly jewellery and an evening bag, or simply add sophistication with pearls. Some stores to try for the perfect LBD: Feathers (1800 800 670), Simona (1800 654 116), Witchery (1800 640 249), Howard Showers (02 8344 0999), George (02 9698 7233), or Leona Edmiston (02 9331 7177).

Trench Coat

A must have for the cooler months. A trench can be worn over almost anything and will instantly add a touch of Audrey to your wardrobe. Wear it with jeans, suits, skirts, or even by itself! Try David Lawerence (1800 100 366), Jigsaw (1800 621 757), and Morrissey (1800 061 047). For an evening look try a satin trench for and instantly sleek modern look: we love Carla Zampatti (02 9264-8244).

Accessories

Classic must have accessories include – black court shoe or pump – try Midas (03 9670-7111), tote bag – try Longchamp (02 9232 5173), sparkly evening bag – try Olga Berg (03 9419 6711).

The AWW Fashion Team

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Exclusive extract: the stockmen

Selected as the Great Read in the November issue of The Australian Women's Weekly.

Selected as the Great Read in the November issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly. Rosemary Highgrove-Jones focused on the dog through her camera’s viewfinder. She chuckled, then pressed the shutter down. Click. In the sweltering heat, amongst dozing red gums and drunken racegoers, she’d captured the image of a cocky little Jack Russell pissing on Prudence Beaton’s chunky leg. Yellow urine seeped into Prue’s beige pantyhose as she continued to sip, politely and obliviously, on equally yellow Chardonnay. Satisfied, the Jack Russell snorted, pointed his stumpy tail to the sky and scuffed up dried grass and dust with rigid legs. He then turned his attention to Prue’s Maltese Terrier. The two little dogs stood nose to tail, in a formation not unlike yin and yang, and began spinning slowly in a circle, oblivious to the throng of human activity above their heads. Rosemary had raised her camera again to capture the bum-sniffing on film, when she heard her mother’s voice. “Rosemary Highgrove-Jones! What in God’s name are you doing?” Margaret hissed, firmly pushing the camera down. “You’re supposed to be working! Duncan’s relying on you! You’re not going to let him down again, are you?” “Why do you think they do that, Mum?” “Do what?” Margaret frowned, momentarily creasing her perfect foundation. Rosemary nodded at the dogs. “Sniff each other’s bums like that.” “Oh, Rosemary!” Margaret Highgrove-Jones took her daughter’s elbow in a pincer-like grip and steered her towards the VIP tent. “Now come on, I’ve got some people who are dying to get their faces in the social pages.” Margaret, tall, slim and upright in her blocky heels, seemed to tower above her daughter. Rosemary squinted at the sun shimmering in her mother’s rust-coloured organza dress and chanted to herself, “I must not be anti-social when doing the social pages.” “Let’s huddle in close for a nice photograph for The Chronicle,” said Margaret as she gathered up a collection of old ladies sweating in race-day frocks. Rosemary raised the camera, her eyes scanning the women. Her mother stood front and centre of the group, looking like a blonde version of Jackie Onassis. Click. Rosemary took up her pen and notebook and began to scribble down who was in the shot. No need to ask how to spell their names. They were her mother’s regular rent-a-crowd of graziers’ wives. “Got time on your social rounds for a glass of shampoo?” Margaret asked, waving a champagne flute at her. “Fraid I can’t,” Rosemary said. “Got to watch Sam in the next race.” Rosemary walked through the crowd towards the racetrack. The men standing among the litter of betting slips glanced away from odds chalked up on the bookies’ stands to watch the pretty girl pass. Some of them wore their dinner jackets with shorts and Blunnie boots. Others in proper suits had their shirtsleeves rolled and ties slackened about their necks. Beyond the fringe of bookies and punters, boys in jeans, blue singlets and big black hats slumped on a sagging couch on the back of a ute, drinking beer. They clutched cans in stubby holders while Lee Kernaghan’s songs vibrated from the ute’s stereo. When they saw Rosemary, one boy whistled. Embarrassed, she looked away, but then stumbled as a green wheelie bin rolled past her. A tubby bloke stood tall in the wheelie bin, like Russell Crowe in a Gladiator chariot. He held his beer can high and roared “Charge!” as his mate pushed him at high speed over the bumpy ground, scattering the crowd. Rosemary watched the boys until they were out of sight, then turned to see her father’s serious face. Gerald Highgrove-Jones was standing tall, like a slim grey gum, with other gentlemen of the ‘tweed coat brigade.’ These were the men of the district who never loosened their ties no matter how hot it was or how much alcohol they drank. Royal Show badges were pinned with pride to the thick woollen lapels of their jackets. Among them, his fine long legs clad in moleskin pants, was her brother Julian. As usual, he looked subdued and bored. Like Gerald he towered above the other men, but instead of standing upright he seemed to stoop, as if trying to hide. Like Julian, Rosemary had tried so hard to fit in. Each year, she’d tried to get excited about the coming bush races. Weeks before, the volley of phone calls between the ladies in the district would begin. Who would do hors d’oeuvres? Salmon or shrimp in vol-au-vents? Caramel slice or coconut slice? She tired to gush over the dresses in the latest catalogues from Maddison & Rose and be upbeat and bubbly about her mother’s special trips to Laura Ashley and Country Road in Melbourne. Margaret was always striving for Country Style magazine perfection. But Rosemary and perfection just didn’t fit. She looked down at her now-creased white linen dress with its pattern of cornflowers and daisies. It had been ordered from Melbourne and cost a bomb. But still, Sam had said she looked nice. She looked for him now in the area cordoned off for riders. Pretty girls in tight Wranglers, cowboy hats and singlets moved purposefully about their horses, carrying buckets, adjusting buckles, rubbing rough brushes over their mounts. They were girls her age. She’d known a couple of them at pony club, but her mother had refused to let her go on with her riding once she’d left the district for boarding school. In the years since she’d been home, the girls had barely spoken to her. Except when she was with Sam. She saw him on the far side of the track. He was with a group of riders making their way to the starting line. Collected in on tight reins, the horses bowed their heads and swished their tails nervously. Sam’s black gelding, Oakwood, loped in circles. Sam rode like a stockmen, not a jockey, and he’d set his stirrups longer than the other riders as he always did at bush races. Rosemary eyed Sam’s strong, tanned hands as he expertly gripped his reins. Beneath brown skin, the veins in his arms stood out. Oakwood, too, had rivers of veins running under his glossy coat. His Australian stockhorse freeze-brand gleamed against his dark coat. Rosemary felt a tingle run through her as she took in how magnificent Sam and Oakwood looked together. It was as if man and horse shared the same blood, veins pumping as one.

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Crochet throw rug

A pattern for the Crochet Throw Rug.

Download the pattern for the Crochet Throw Rug. Crochet Throw Rug MEASUREMENTS Throw Measures (approx) 110 x 150 cm MATERIALS Panda Magnum 8ply 100g ball x 9 One 4.00mm crochet hook or THE REQUIRED SIZE TO GIVE THE CORRECT TENSION; knitter’s needle for sewing in ends. TENSION This throw has been designed at a tension of 1 patt to 9.5cm and 6 rows to 10cm over patt, using 4.00mm hook. ABBREVIATIONS beg=begin/ning; ch=chain; cm=centimetres; cont=continue; dc=double crochet; dtr = double treble; foll = follows, following lp/s=loop/s; patt = pattern; rep=repeat; st/s=stitch/es; tr=treble. ‘Dec’=(yoh, draw up a lp in next st, yoh and draw through 2 lps on hook) twice, yoh and draw through all 3 lps on hook. SPECIAL ABBREVIATION ‘fdtr’ = work 1dtr around the stem of the next st, inserting hook from right side of work. THROW Using 4.00mm hook, make 340 ch. Work from diagram (refer below) or written instructions as folls: 1st Row: Miss 7ch, 1tr in each of next 10ch, 7tr in next ch, 1tr in each of next 10ch, miss 3ch, 1dtr in next ch, miss 3 ch, 1tr in each of next 10ch, rep from to last 15ch, 7tr in next ch, 1tr in each of next 10ch, miss 3ch, 1dtr in last ch. 2nd Row: (1dc, 2ch) in first st, miss 3tr, 1tr in each of next 10tr, 7tr in next tr, 1tr in each of next 10tr, miss 3tr, ‘fdtr’ around next st, miss 3tr, 1tr in each of next 10tr, rep from to last 15 sts, 7tr in next tr, 1tr in each of next 10tr, miss 3tr, 1dtr in last st. 3rd Row: As 2nd row, working all tr into back lp only. Last 2 rows form patt. Cont in patt until work measures 150cm from beg. Fasten off. Designs and images provided by Panda Yarns www.pandayarns.biz

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Plastic cup flowers

These craft ideas come from The Best of Children's Art & Crafts.

These craft ideas come from The Best of Children’s Art & Crafts. You will need: coloured plastic cups tissue paper or paper serviettes stickers for decoration drinking straws with bendable joint vase, pot or branch glue adhesive tape scissors Step 1 Using scissors, cut the rim off a plastic cup. Fringe the cup from the rim almost to the base, without breaking off the pieces. One cup can be glued inside another to make extra petals, if desired. Step 2 Gently bend the petals back. Crumple a piece of tissue paper or paper serviette and glue it into the base of the cup. Crumple tiny balls of a contrasting colour paper and glue them around the edge of the first paper centre. Decorate the flower with stickers. Step 3 Trim a drinking straw to desired size, tape to back of flower for the stem. Step 4 Arrange flowers in a vase or pot, or tape to a branch for display. For variation, cut individual petal shapes from plastic cup or plate and glue together at the flower centre. Use the base of a second cup for the centre and fill with coloured cotton wool, or decorate with stickers.

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Jessica’s family nightmare

For Jessica Rowe, every cloud has a silver lining ... and she should know. Despite a childhood darkened by her mother's struggle with mental illness, the gorgeous news television presenter welcomed everything life threw at her with a smile.

For Jessica Rowe, every cloud has a silver lining … and she should know. Despite a childhood darkened by her mother’s struggle with mental illness, the gorgeous news television presenter welcomed everything life threw at her with a smile. When her mother was found vacuuming the bookshelves in the early hours of the morning, young Jessica Rowe knew that things were bad and about to get a whole lot worse. Terrified, she and her two little sisters would listen as their mother, Penelope, maniacally cleaned and scrubbed their flat all through the night, every night.

“And then,” recalls Jessica, “her whole face would be sunken and sort of hollowed out because she wasn’t sleeping. She would have these huge black rings under her eyes. She just wouldn’t look like herself anymore. She’d sink into herself, there would be a deadness in her eyes, there would be no light.”

As children, the Rowe girls – Jessica, Harriet and Claudia – learnt to read the warning signs that signalled an episode of their mother’s manic-depression and vigilantly watched out for them. “Do you think Mum’s okay?” they would worriedly ask each other. “Look at what she just bought. Is she about to go again?”

The frenzied cleaning, the manic behaviour that would precede the devastating depression, was a terrible “thing” that would take hold of, engulf, and distort their mother and, ultimately, send her back into hospital, sometimes for months. “Basically Mum would become catatonic. She couldn’t walk, she couldn’t talk, she couldn’t cope with any noise. She’d just totally withdraw and be so down and black.” Read how her mother’s breakdown and the collapse of her parents’ marriage have shaped Jessica into the person she is today. Full story in the November 2004 issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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The red wine outfit

My mother and I are very close. She’s 40-years-old and I’m 20. We have gone through a lot together, and do fight, but we still remain the best of friends.

One day, she splurged on a fantastic top, which she bought from Myer for $150. It was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen. I knew that my mum had saved a long time for this top and that she was very protective of it. I had my eye on it but she told me that I couldn’t touch this one. Unfortunately, I had other plans …

My mother and I are the same size in clothes, and that night I had a hot date and needed a new outfit. I waited until she was out and quickly coordinated my entire outfit — makeup, hairdo, and accessories — to match this top. I looked hot!

That night, I went to a flashy restaurant and was so nervous about the date that I decided to order a bottle of red wine for the both of us, to calm myself down.

The waiter finally came and served me my drink, only to be bumped by someone behind him, accidentally pouring a whole bottle of red wine on my top and lap! I was so embarrassed, even my date was laughing at me! I didn’t care about him, but I knew I was in big trouble.

My mum didn’t know that the date I had been telling her about was that night, so I told her I was sleeping at a friend’s house. The next day I went to Myer and bought my mum the same top, except a size larger.

I told her that I had noticed there was a tear under the arm of the top and I had exchanged it for her as a surprise! There were no more tops left in the same size, I said, so I had opted for the larger size — it would look better anyway. She was so happy about my lovely thought and effort, and the following day she bought me a similar top that I could wear for that hot date I had been talking about! If only she knew …

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Dry hands

Question:

I work in a fruit and veg area of a shop and find my hands are so dry and cracked. I put cream on often during the day, Avon and Rosken Skin Repair, but to no avail. Please help, they look terrible!

Carol, via e-mail.

Answer:

The best advice I can give you is to invest in a great pair of cotton gloves and Hamilton Dry Skin Treatment Lotion, which is available at pharmacies. Before bed, slather on the lotion and then pull on the gloves and sleep with them on. You will notice the difference in no time. Hope this helps.

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