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Bindi, Jungle Girl: Crocodiles

Bindi with a baby croc

If you’ve always wanted to know more about animals, Bindi Irwin is the little girl to ask. Each month, Bindi will write about a different animal and answer readers’ questions in the magazine.

In May, Bindi tells you all about the crocodilian family and how keen she is to help them survive.

Pick up a copy of the May issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly to read more about crocodiles and see below for information on how to ask Bindi your most pressing wildlife questions.

Answer

Good question, Sam. They don’t eat exactly the same food. Freshwater crocodiles eat smaller things, such as fish and insects, and saltwater crocodiles eat bigger things, such as small reptiles and mammals. It also depends on their size and the availability of food. Here at Australia Zoo, they all eat similar food, just the portion size varies.

Got a question for Bindi? Send it to Ask Bindi, The Australian Women’s Weekly, GPO Box 4178, Sydney NSW 2001 or send an e-mail to [email protected].

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Terri Irwin’s Mother’s Day makeover

Terri, Bindi and Robert Irwin

Facing her first Mother’s Day without her husband, Steve, by her side, a still grieving Terri Irwin opens her heart to Michael Sheather and enjoys being made a fuss of when The Weekly gives her a glamorous makeover.

Photography by Graham Shearer. Styling by Jane de Teliga.

For Terri Irwin, every day is a struggle. In public, she puts on a brave face, but, behind the smile, the upbeat persona and the positive attitude is an overwhelming and ever-present sense of loss. Though some of the raw pain that followed Crocodile Hunter Steve Irwin‘s tragic death eight months ago has receded, barely a day has passed that Terri hasn’t wept or longed to hear her husband’s voice or feel his touch.

And yet Terri also feels that she has come a long way since September 4, when she received the dreadful news that Steve, 44, was dead, his heart pierced by a stingray’s barbed tail while filming a documentary on Batt Reef in Queensland. During the intervening months, Terri has found the strength to take on Steve’s conservation mantle and his mission to spread the word about our fragile ecosystems and the importance of animals to an audience that now spans the globe.

“It’s very strange to be eight months down the track from Steve’s death,” says Terri, 42. “It’s hard to get my head around the idea that, with time, you start coping better, because what often isn’t spoken of is that when you lose someone, as time passes, you miss them more and more, not less. I miss Steve now more than ever.

“I’m happy to take time to honour my grief, but I have so many things that I would like to accomplish. Steve always used to say, ‘You don’t know how long you are here.’ I try to keep that in the back of my mind. My grief comes very easily, but I keep putting one foot in front of the other. I’m quite surprised that eight months on, in some respects, it is harder, but I am a determined woman and I am seeing some accomplishments already in what Steve hoped for.”

Read the whole story and see Terri as you’ve never seen her before, only in the May 2007 issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

If you’re looking for more Irwin action, check out the latest Ask Bindi — where Bindi Irwin answers your wildlife questions in the pages of The Weekly — and read our online tribute to Steve Irwin.

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*The Scandal of the Season*

The Scandal of the Season

EExclusive extract from The Scandal of the Season (Random House Australia) by Sophie Gee.

Arabella Fermor was looking at herself in the glass, considering on which side of her cheek the morning’s beauty patch should be placed. She stepped back so that Betty, her maid, could tighten the robings on her stays. Arabella’s lapdog, Shock, got up from his basket, gave himself a rousing shake, and trotted around to the other side of her bed. When Betty had made the last adjustment to her gown, Arabella picked the dog up and carried him down the stairs, leaving the room in disarray behind her. A footman gave Arabella her hooded mantle in the hall, and she wordlesly handed him Shock in return. Immediately he passed the animal on to another servant, and went to help Miss Fermor into the carriage.

Arabella, known to her friends as Bell, was blessed with an almost perfect face and figure — and had been told as much from the earliest age. But in spite of this, Arabella had not allowed her loveliness to be the ruin of her character. She had long known that she was very pretty, but that knowledge had not distorted her powers of perception or understanding, with the result that at the age of 22 she combined beauty and cleverness in almost equal parts.

She was well educated, having been provided as a child with a governess, and afterwards with some expensive years at a convent school in Paris. And yet it was not formal education that made Arabella remarkable. She was distinguished rather by her capacity for observation and judgement, and for these she relied not on books and learning but upon life itself. Here again Arabella had been lucky. Her parents had taken up residence in a town house in the smart London parish of St. James’s, and granted their eldest daughter as much access to life (at least as it was lived in this small corner of the world) as she ever could have wished for. Arabella had good manners, excellent conversation, and highly developed powers of social observation. She was, therefore, uniquely positioned to put her talents to the use for which they had been cultivated: the acquisition of a rich husband.

Arabella was in London when she received the letter from her cousin Teresa announcing that she and Martha were coming to town. Teresa and Arabella had been in Paris at the same time, and Teresa had greatly admired her cousin’s worldiness and sophistication. Back in England, they had continued to meet periodically, tied by bonds of family and religion, but they had never been intimate friends. Teresa spent almost all of her time with her sister, Martha; Arabella was several years older than her own sisters, and saw very little of them. Neither did Arabella spend much time in her parents’ company, busy as they were with social preoccupations of their own. She enjoyed being self-reliant, pursuing her life in London largely independently of her family and childhood friends. It had long been her intention to make a glittering match, to become the envy of the close-knit Catholic circles that she had always found so stultifying. But after two seasons in town she had met no one to inspire the kind of passion that she yearned to feel, and she had found herself withdrawing from romantic intimacies that she knew most girls would have been delighted to entertain. She had met rich men; she had met handsome men. But she had not fallen in love.

When Teresa’s letter arrived Arabella at first thought little of it, but as the days passed she found herself looking forward to her cousin’s arrival much more eagerly. In spite of her many diversions, in spite of her enviable independence, she had grown bored. Arabella did not imagine that Teresa herself would provide the variety and change that she sought, but it did occur to her that, in showing her cousin the town, she might encounter new scenes to refresh her world-weary gaze.

So it came about that on a Friday morning, when the Blount sisters had been in town for a few days, Arabella had dressed early and was stepping into her carriage, preparing to collect Teresa for a trip to the shops at the Royal Exchange.

The coach drew up outside the town house in King Street where the Blounts were staying, and after a minute or two Teresa came out of the house.

Arabella greeted her, kissing both cheeks.

“Hello Bell,” Teresa replied. “How glad I am to see you.” She looked at her cousin appraisingly. Arabella was just as handsome as ever, she was disgruntled to note.

Arabella saw the glint of envy in Teresa’s eye, and wished that she did not feel so gratified by it. “Where is Martha?” she asked.

“Abroad with our aunt and mother,” said Teresa. “They are gone to visit Mrs. Chesterton, exactly the sort of tiresome thing that Martha likes to do. Your gown is handsome, Bell,” she said. “Is it the one you wore at Mapledurham when I saw you last year?”

Arabella had noticed before that her cousin became competitive whenever she felt ill at ease.

“I haven’t had that gown for quite some time,” she answered. “This is another in a newer style, without flounces.” She straightened out the lace fringe of her sleeve. Better pay Teresa a compliment in return. “Your hair looks well, Teresa. I supposed that your aunt’s maid helped you put it up.”

“Not at all,” said Teresa. “Martha and I brought our maid to town.”

“Ah!” Arabella raised her chin in assent. That explained why her cousin’s hair had been done in such an old-fasioned style. She wondered whether she ought to point it out to her, delicately of course.

But the carriage turned from Cheapside into Cornhill, and both girls were distracted by the sight of the Exchange. Teresa forgot her envy and unease, and gave a gasp of excitement. “What a magnificent building!” she exclaimed. “I had quite forgotten.”

Their coach was dwarfed by the immense stone front of the façade, its high arcades and columns reaching skyward beside a great foral arch. The massive windows of the first floor stretched towards a noble balustrade, and high above the whole was the tiered clock tower, piercing the sky like the dome of a cathedral and chiming out the hour of noon across the city.

As Teresa swung the carriage door open, sound and smell assailed her forcefully. Here at last! In London, on a glorious morning, the whole visit stretching before her. She caught the jingle of the muffin man’s bell as he pushed through the crowd with a tray of hot cakes. A heavy thump as bales of cloth were thrown down from a cart. The stamp of hooves on the muddy straw when the carriages stopped, steam hissing off the horses’ backs. A constant shrill of whistles from messenger boys. She could smell chestnuts roasting and the acrid smoke of the braziers; the spice of warmed cider; the piercing stink of fresh dung. She stood on the step of the cab, her breath misting in the cold air as she took in the scene. Then she jumped down to the pavement, thrilled to be in town and determined to make the outing a success.

Book Group Questions

  • Was it love alone that made Arabella risk her reputation to have an affair with Lord Petre?

  • Did Lord Petre really love Arabella or was he always going to bow to his parent’s wishes?

  • Was Alexander Pope’s role in the affair entirely innocent?

  • Was being a woman then a lot more difficult than it is today?

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New book taints Diana’s memory

  • Diana pursued Prince Charles and was more interested in his royal title than in the man himself. When asked by her mother if she loved him or loved ‘what he is’, she replied, “What’s the difference?”

  • Charles’s former flame Sabrina Guinness claims Diana was “all over” Charles prior to their courtship. “She was flirting, she was giggling … sitting on his lap.”

  • Diana had two “assignations” with Charles on the royal train before they were married, but leading up to the wedding she worked with the palace to maintain an image of virginity.

  • Diana did not throw herself down the stairs while pregnant with William. She only stumbled, and later made up the story as a way to gain sympathy.

  • After her divorce, she was looking for a wealthy and powerful husband “with a Gulf-stream jet”. She had no intention of marrying Dodi Fayed and instead had her sights set on American financier Teddy Forstmann.

  • Before her death, she and Prince William fought about her relationship with Dodi.

Portions of the book are to be printed in UK Vanity Fair next month and publishers have already coughed up a £1million advance for its full publication.

In a bitter blow to the royal family, the book is due to go on sale in mid-June — just two weeks before the 10-year memorial concert planned by Diana’s sons William and Harry.

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Beating the winter couch potato

By Jo McKinnon

Keeping yourself motivated to get out and do some exercise during winter can be a tough call when you live in Australia’s southern states. Those shorter days and cooler temperatures seem to transform occasional exercisers into chockie-scoffing couch potatoes in record-breaking time.

So how to beat the lure of the Doona and the telly? We asked fitness trainers from Canberra and Melbourne (where it gets darn cold) for their tips on sticking it out exercise-wise during winter.

  • Make it fun

Canberra-based personal trainer Annette Brown points out that winter only really covers 10 weeks of the year. Instead of dreading it, she suggests you look at winter as a chance to have a fling with a different form of exercise — “something you may have always wanted to try”.

You could sign up to do five weeks of indoor swimming and then five weeks of dance classes (those salsa styles will really get you moving). Or try indoor rock climbing, Pilates or a boxing class.

Look on it as a winter romance — it may develop into a passion or stay as a 10-week flirtation, but you’ll have had fun.

  • Pay in advance

There’s nothing like handing over your hard-earned cash to get you off the couch. Pre-paying for classes means you’ll have wasted money if you don’t go, and it’s amazing how much motivation that twinge in your hip-pocket nerve can give you.

  • Do it in a group

When people try doing an exercise program on their own, about half will have given up within six weeks because it’s boring. But sign up for a group exercise session with a personal trainer, and you’re more likely to keep going.

“All you have to do is turn up and it’s the trainer who has to think about keeping it fun and varied,” says Ryan Wavish of Group Exercise Therapy in Melbourne (www.groupexercisetherapy.com.au). “And if you don’t turn up, there’s someone who will give you a call and find out what’s going on.”

It doesn’t have to be an exercise class either. You could join a jogging, cycling or walking group in your area.

As Ryan points out, if you have to exercise in the dark after work because of the shorter days, it’s more fun and much safer if you do it with other people.

  • Be active at lunchtime

Shifting your fitness focus in winter from after work to lunchtime makes sense. If you go outside it’s warmer than at night and you’ll also be getting a dose of vitamin D-inducing sunshine. You could do a fitness class or simply go for a walk with workmates.

“Changing your routine is a good idea, as it can help to keep you motivated,” says Jesse McConaghy, a trainer with Succeed Personal Development in Canberra (www.succeed.com.au). “Lunchtimes are a great option, as it can break up the day and actually help to increase energy levels throughout the day.”

But don’t forget the sunscreen. You can still get sunburnt in winter.

  • Move it inside

Doing your exercise indoors takes yucky weather right out of the equation. You may never have considered going to a gym, but winter is a smart time to try it.

Gyms see a surge in memberships in January due to new year’s resolutions, but have a large number of people drop out after those first three months. “To cover the drop-off in memberships, some gyms offer cheaper 10-week winter programs from May 1 or June 1,” explains Annette.

And you can certainly get the same cardio work-out as you would with a jog.

“Health clubs have a variety of cardiovascular equipment — treadmills, rowers, bikes, elliptical striders — that are a great alternative to the great outdoors,” says Jesse.

As well, sports such as soccer, basketball, netball, cricket, volleyball and tennis are played year round indoors.

  • Learn to wake up

Just getting out of bed on a winter’s morning can be a trauma for some people, let alone getting up to do exercise. But Ryan has a simple technique.

  • Lay out your clothes the night before. All you have to do is roll off the mattress and into your exercise gear.

  • When you first wake, before you even open your eyes, gently wiggle your toes. This induces blood flow, gets your heart going and wakes up your body.

  • Finally, clean your teeth. It invigorates your mouth and helps you wake up.

  • Set a spring challenge

Setting yourself a long-term goal will also keep you exercising. Ryan suggests signing up for a big event in the spring, maybe a long cycle race or a half marathon.

“Pay for the event, commit to it. Then tell people you’re going in it. They’ll keep asking you how you’re going with your training and that makes you stick to a training regimen. Enter the race and then you’ll feel guilty if you don’t do it,” he says.

If you’re feeling ready to get off the couch and brave the chilly weather, be sure to check out these essential winter exercise tips.

Personal trainer Annette Brown can be contacted at [email protected]

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Reese tells Jen: ‘Hands off my man!’

The Oscar-winning actress finds herself embroiled in yet another love triangle.

Reese Witherspoon has warned Jennifer Aniston to keep her hands off her man after Jen and Jake Gyllenhaal shared a passionate kiss at a recent awards ceremony in LA.

Presenter Jake left the audience stunned when he swept up the 38-year-old actress in an intimate embrace and locked lips as he presented her with an award.

“It wasn’t just a polite peck on the cheek. There was definitely feeling in that embrace,” says one witness.

Reese, who is filing for divorce from Ryan Phillippe, broke down in tears after hearing about the kiss.

“Why would he do that?” she despairingly asked a close friend. “Why would she do that?”

“Reese is very unhappy about it because she really thinks Jake is everything that Ryan wasn’t,” reveals the shocked friend. “She thinks he’s sensitive, caring and understanding. Now she’s beginning to wonder …

“She always thought Jake to be intelligent and charming. That’s why she’s so stunned by the photographs of Jake and Jen. She’s really hurt by what she’s seen. They seem to be very explicit and everyone knows Jennifer’s looking for love.”

Just days earlier, Reese and Jake had agreed to make their romance official after months of speculation they were a couple.

While Jake, 26, is a good deal younger than Jen, it’s not the first time the pair have been romantically linked.

The two set tongues wagging when they cosied up on the red carpet after playing lovers in The Good Girl in 2002, and were also spotted having several intimate dates in the months following Jen’s divorce from Brad Pitt.

They have also talked openly about their fondness for each other, leaving many to speculate that they’re more than just friends.

“I like to think I’m his Mrs Robinson,” Jen once joked, while Jake says, “I like her, honestly. Everyone falls in love with Jennifer.”

Friends say Jake is now working hard to win back Reese’s trust.

“She’s the most exciting woman I’ve met in years. She’s beautiful, intelligent, she’s a family woman, a fantastic mom and someone who knows what true love is,” he gushed to friends.

“If I’ve made her mad, I’m sorry. I mean really sorry. She’s the best thing that’s happened to me. I have so much respect for her, and I think we are falling in love. I wouldn’t do anything to hurt her intentionally. I should have been more careful.”

For the full story see this week’s issue of Woman’s Day (on-sale April 23).

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Runaway pram drowning tragedy

When baby Leonardo’s pram rolled into the River Torrens last Christmas the tragedy made headlines. Now his mother reveals the pain of losing her precious boy.

Stunning model-mum Kerry Lucas proudly placed her baby son in front of the Christmas tree, smiling as she snuggled a first Santa hat onto his downy head.

Grabbing her camera, she captured the magical moment for the family album, knowing five-month-old Leonardo would soon be snoozing in his three-wheeler pram on their regular early-morning jog along Adelaide’s River Torrens.

Little did she know her happy snapshots would become a reminder of a Christmas celebration tragically cut short.

Kerry pointed out ducklings along the river bank to little Leo as she pushed him along at a brisk jog on December 15 last year. Moments later, a mobile call interrupted her run. She turned to scribble a phone number down on her leg, as she had no paper. As she did this, the pram slipped unnoticed towards the river with the slumbering infant strapped firmly inside.

“The woman caller was still on the line when I noticed Leonardo had gone, and she must have heard me jumping in front of cars begging motorists to help me find my missing baby, which must have been awful for her,” says Kerry, 31.

The former Inside Sport cover-girl’s anguished cries attracted the attention of a nearby TV camera crew, who filmed what they thought was a baby kidnapping, and passers-by joined the frantic search.

But 25 minutes later, Leonardo’s pram surfaced in the river, and a different tragedy unfolded.

Now, four months after the accident made headlines, his shattered mother has finally broken her silence about the tragedy in a bid to kick-start the special legacy founded in little Leo’s memory — and to spare other parents the heartache she and her husband Wesley Legrand are now enduring.

“Even now, that day’s a horrible blur where time stopped still and nothing felt real,” Kerry says sadly. I don’t remember calling Wes or my mum, but I must have because they arrived on the scene after the police.

“All I remember is police asking questions — they even asked me if I had a baby and rang the hospital to check.”

“There’s no timetable for grief … it can take weeks, months or years — but I have a special place in my heart I know will never heal.”

Today, counselling has helped Kerry speak Leonardo’s name again with joy.

Her pain lingers, but Kerry wants her work to help bring hope to other parents battling grief. She is donating the full payment from her story with Woman’s Day to SIDS and to the Leonardo Appeal, launched in conjunction with Channel Seven and Messenger Newspapers.

“The funds from Leo’s appeal will go towards Seven’s Children’s Research Foundation which funds studies into issues affecting children’s health and welfare and will help save other children’s lives,” she says. “So people mustn’t be afraid to speak Leo’s name — he was such a happy baby — and his smiles will remain with us for life.”

For the full interview, see this week’s issue of Woman’s Day (on-sale April 23).

To donate to The Leonardo Appeal, call (08) 8243 8259 or mail to Channel Seven Children’s Research Foundation, PO Box 2438, Regency Park, SA 5942. Contact the SIDS Foundation on 1300 308 307 or go to www.sidsandkids.org

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