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Exclusive: Fitzy’s footy wedding

By Jenny Brown.

The TV and radio star ties the knot in the holiest place of all — Adelaide Oval.

The hallowed turf of Adelaide Oval had never seen anything like it: a shirtless bridegroom playing touch footy with a flock of Sydney Swans and Adelaide Crows AFL stars; his beautiful bride kicking off her shoes to join in; a TV chef acting as celebrant and blessing the ceremony with fine Jamaican rum.

As weddings go, this one broke all the boundaries. But Ryan “Fitzy” Fitzgerald was determined to make a mark when he married the love of his life, Belinda “BJ” Irons on a sweltering autumn day.

Somehow the loveable larrikin, who swapped AFL and Big Brother fame for a hit career in TV and radio, persuaded custodians of the historic cricket ground to let him stage his wedding on the pitch itself.

So the famous scoreboard — more used to heralding the exploits of Bradman, Warne or the Chappells — proudly displayed the legend, “Ryan and Belinda Fitzgerald, March 15, 2008.”

What’s more, curators switched on the floodlights for an impromptu kick-around once night had fallen over the newlyweds’ celebrity-filled reception in the Clem Hill Stand.

It’s not every day that Gladiators host Tom Williams and his girlfriend Kylie Speer play ball with radio funnymen Merrick and Rosso, Big Brother’s Bree Amer and Bodie Czeladka, or AFL players like Mark Ricciuto, Simon Goodwin, Brent Reilly, Brett Burton, Michael Doughty, Michael O’Loughlin, Jude Bolton, Ben Matthews, Heath James and Dean Brogan!

Pictures by Ross Coffey.

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Ryan ‘Fitzy’ Fitzgerald’s wedding

Ryan “Fitzy” Fitzgerald was determined to make a mark when he married the love of his life, Belinda “BJ” Irons on a sweltering autumn day.

Belinda’s brother Brad walked her down the ‘aisle’ — a wide red carpet out on the field.

Fitzy kisses his bride after their vows: “I promise to love you through good times and bad, with all I have to give and all I feel inside, in the only way I know how; completely and for ever.”

The party moves across the green to the reception in the Clem Hill Stand.

Fitzy and groomsmen — best man Matt Semple and groomsmen Matt Ericson and John Kindstrom — strike a pose beneath his customised scoreboard!

Belinda and her bridesmaids — Nikki Irons, Abby Peckover and Tracy Bache — cosy up among the gorgeous flowers.

At just over 2m tall, Fitzy towered over his dainty bride BJ, who looked stunning in her silk-satin gown by local designer Alexia George.

Party time for the whole family.

The newlyweds with TV host Tom Williams and his girlfriend Kylie Speer.

Reception hosts, radio comedians Merrick Watts (right with wife Georgie) and Tim Ross (left with wife Michelle) kept the party laughing.

The reception was a lovely indoor-outdoor set-up, with plenty of treats for guests…

…including a chocolate fountain!

And the wedding cake was a tower of delicious chocolate mousses.

Fitzy waltzes the Aussie way — in thongs!

Guests hit the field for an impromptu game with their commemorative footballs — “Ryan and Belinda: we couldn’t have done it without our teammates.”

Fitzy marks BJ’s kick — what a team!

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Image obsession and disappointment

Judy Davie

**Dear Judy,

I have lost 8kg and even though I feel much better, I don’t like my body. Everyone says I look great but I don’t feel I look as good as I expected to. I thought after all the effort it took to lose weight I’d feel fabulous but now when I flick through magazines and see pictures of gorgeous Hollywood stars, I feel disappointed and depressed.

— Disappointed**

We are an image-obsessed society and we continually make the mistake of comparing ourselves to others. Yesterday I was speaking to a professor who had just returned from a business trip to India. He commented on how Indians, unlike Westerners, are grateful for what they’ve got, while we always seem to want what we don’t have.

While it’s good to have personal goals and projects to work towards, it’s not good if the motivation behind the goals is to try to be better or have more than those around you. When you read the stories of many ‘gorgeous’ movie stars, you’ll find most of them are fighting their own personal battles and regardless of what they look like, many still battle with marital breakdowns, substance abuse, and unmet career expectations.

It’s important to recognise that being gorgeous doesn’t necessary mean you will be always be happy.

A number of years ago I worked with a journalist on a story about how she, with a team of professionals by her side, could look like a star. She had a personal trainer, fashion stylist and hairdresser and me as her food coach. After six weeks with all of us helping her, she emerged slim, buffed and gorgeous.

In her story, she talked about the personal sacrifice required to achieve the look. After six weeks on a super strict diet with early morning workouts and early nights in bed she couldn’t wait to resume a normal life, out with her friends again enjoying the occasional glass of red wine and bowl of pasta.

Congratulations — losing 8kg is a terrific accomplishment and I’m only sorry you don’t feel as proud of yourself as you should. Instead of looking at photos of stars, why don’t you look at some old pictures of yourself and compare the difference?

Think back to the days when you were 8kg heavier and the impact it had on your energy levels, skin appearance, and physical fitness. And finally, instead of looking at people who you think look better than you do, look at people less fortunate like those in India, and be grateful.

All the best,

Judy

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My husband thinks my son is his

I always knew I’d be a mother one day. As a little girl I dreamed of living in a big house with six children playing in the backyard. When I married my childhood sweetheart I had no reason to doubt that dream.

But after 12 years of marriage and still no children, the dream was in tatters. My biological clock was ticking rapidly and my marriage was on the rocks. David had wanted children just as much as me and we both felt unfulfilled without them. So we decided to seek help.

The fertility specialist said David’s sperm count was too low and we had no chance of having children naturally. We kept trying, getting our hopes up only to have them dashed month after endless month.

I never blamed David but I know he blamed himself. He became withdrawn, emotionally and physically, and the wedge between us grew bigger and bigger. We still loved each other, but it wasn’t enough to get us through the depressing reality that we would never have children of our own.

On my 38th birthday, I decided to do something about it. I wanted a baby of my own before I was 40 and I was going to go out there and get one. I thought about having an affair but quickly dismissed that idea. I still loved David and couldn’t cheat on him.

The only other course of action left was artificial insemination with donor sperm. I investigated my options and thoroughly checked out the procedure with several clinics until I settled on one.

Six weeks later, when I showed David the home pregnancy kit with the two little pink lines on it, he was over the moon. He cried with joy and the wall that had slowly built up between us crumbled in seconds. I’d never seen him so happy. But for me the experience was marred by my guilt. I’d started a lie that I’d have to continue for the rest of my life.

My little miracle, Eric, is beautiful. He has blond hair and a pointed chin like me, and green eyes like his father. At least, I assume they are like his father’s. When my mother-in-law commented that green was a rare colour and didn’t appear in either of our families, I began to panic. Surely she suspected something!

But I managed to convince her that my late grandfather had green eyes and since there are only black and white photos of him in existence, she can’t prove otherwise. Still, I was in constant fear that she would learn the truth.

It wasn’t until Eric’s third birthday that I realised my guilt and fear were unnecessary. Sure, I’d lied to everyone, including my adorable son, but everyone is so happy. David and Eric are wonderful together. My favourite weekend activity is to watch the two of them playing in the park. My husband is a wonderful father and role-model to our little boy.

The way I see it, a little person has entered this world and he will be loved, cherished and given every opportunity in life that we can give him. In turn, he has made two people incredibly happy and enriched the lives of every member of our circle. What more evidence do I need that I have done the right thing?

Picture: Getty Images. Posed by model.

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Halle Berry welcomes baby Nahla

A ready-to-pop Halle Berry has finally popped! The Oscar-winning actress gave birth to a daughter on Sunday at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in LA. She and partner Gabriel Aubry have named their baby Nahla Ariela Aubry, Halle’s rep has confirmed.

It’s said the name Nahla is the Arabic word for “drink of water”, and that Ariela is derived from Hebrew word ‘Ariel’, meaning “lion of god”. Interestingly, both names also relate to Disney heroines — Nala in The Lion King and Ariel in The Little Mermaid.

“We didn’t have a name picked out until just before we left the hospital,” Halle told Access Hollywood. “For us it was hard to name the most important person in our life until we met her.”

According to Gabriel’s sister Eugenie, the model and, now, new dad was very excited at birth time.

“He called my father to say, ‘It’s time! It’s happening!'” she told Us Magazine. “She was about to give birth. He sounded a bit nervous but happy!”

“He loves kids! Gabriel is an uncle, and the kids just love him. They bring him so much joy,” Eugenie says.

41-year-old Halle and 32-year-old Gabriel met at a Versace photo shoot in November 2005, and went public with their relationship three months later. They announced they were expecting last year.

“I’ve accomplished things I never thought I would,” Halle was quoted in Parade magazine. “Now my sights are set on a different chapter in my life, which is motherhood. That’s the goal I have very clearly set for myself.”

And Gabriel is the man to accompany her on the journey.

“I have someone who is putting a spark in my eye,” Halle told Hello magazine of her beau. “I have never been in better physical and emotional shape, and I’m happy in my personal life — what a novel idea!”

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Heather Mills

Heather Mills has made headlines again this week as her divorce from Sir Paul McCartney finally settled in court, resulting in a $52.3 million pay-out to the former model.

Since her marriage to Sir Paul in 2002, Heather has featured regularly in both the British and international media for her troubled relationship with the former Beatle and also for her work as an activist. Heather has been relentless in her support for causes such as animal rights, the curtailment of landmines and aid for amputees. She has also campaigned for vegetarianism and against trade in fur which resulted in her appearing in an anti-fur advertisement for a PETA campaign.

Despite this activist work, Heather remains a controversial public figure and has received heavy criticism from the British tabloids over the past few years. Of particular media interest is Heather’s speculated strained relationships with stepdaughters Heather, Mary and Stella throughout her four year marriage to Sir Paul.

Heather gave birth to the couple’s only child in 2003, Beatrice Milly, and this year celebrated her 40th birthday.

We take a look back at Heather’s life in pictures here.

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Brave Patrick Swayze fights back

The actor refuses to let his devastating cancer diagnosis defeat him.

Patrick Swayze is determined to fight on as he wages a desperate battle against pancreatic cancer. His condition is so critical he’s been undergoing experimental treatments in a last-ditch bid to save his life.

Flying between his secluded ranch and Stanford University’s Cancer Center on his private plane with wife Lisa Niemi, Patrick — who is refusing to give up his reported three-packet-a-day smoking habit — is living as normally as possible, despite the graveness of his situation.

His heartbroken 81-year-old mother Patsy Swayze says her son is taking comfort from the wave of love and support he has received from family and fans.

“He doesn’t deserve to get this!” said a devastated Patsy in an exclusive interview. “He just doesn’t deserve it. He’s got such a big heart. He’s been such a good and generous and thoughtful person,” she said, fighting back tears.

“It breaks my heart to know he’s suffering. But he bears it and he’s determined to beat this … he’s getting the best treatment he can.”

Despite weight loss and discomfort, Patrick, 55, is handling the frightening ordeal better than those around him and is always trying to cheer them up, says a family insider.

“Patrick, as usual, is worried more about other people than himself,” a friend told the National Enquirer. “He is watching everyone around him, and if they are upset or crying, he tries to give them hope and encouragement.”

For the full story, see this week’s issue of Woman’s Day (on sale March 17, 2008).

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Hollywood’s oldest pin-up girl

By Henry Austin

With admirers including Elvis and JFK, Hollywood sex symbol Mamie Van Doren has lived the life many women dream of.

Glamorous, smart and well maintained, Mamie Van Doren would look fabulous for a woman in her early forties. But age is just a number for Mamie, who is officially a pensioner at 75. And the Hollywood sex symbol, who’s been serenaded by Elvis, partied with The Beatles and recently launched her own wine, claims the only cosmetic surgery she’s had is a facelift.

Sex is the secret

“I’ve always tried to enjoy every day as much as possible,” Mamie says, tossing her blonde mane behind her. “Life’s too short to mope about, and now I’m in the autumn of my life I have no intention of slowing down.

“I was lucky to be born with a good bone structure, and I think a healthy sex life, which I definitely have, has helped to maintain my youthful appearance.”

Born Joan Lucille Olander on February 6, 1933, Mamie’s star rose early when she won a beauty pageant aged 16, where she was spotted by billionaire producer and notorious recluse Howard Hughes. He invited her to appear in one of his films and they dated for several years.

“He was an odd man. Very aloof and a bit of a loner. But he gave me the break I needed,” she recalls.

Her striking looks caught the attention of Universal Studios, and in January 1953 they signed her up, hoping she would bring the same success that Marilyn Monroe had given 20th Century Fox. They also changed her name.

“It was the done thing in those days,” she says. “The Mamie was a tribute to Mamie Eisenhower, the wife of the then President, but to be honest, they could have called me whatever they wanted. I wasn’t fussed. I was just delighted to be signed up.

“Over the years I grew into the name, and I left Joan Olander behind a long time ago.”

Catapulted onto Hollywood’s A-list, she was soon working with and wooed by some of the biggest names in cinema, including Gone With The Wind star Clark Gable and heartthrob Tony Curtis.

At just 17, Mamie had eloped with Jack Newton, the first of her five husbands, but the marriage was dissolved within months. In 1955, she married band leader Ray Anthony and gave birth to her only son, Perry, now 52.

Mamie and Ray drifted apart and soon she was back in the centre of Hollywood life with a host of suitors. One night in Las Vegas, a young pop star asked for a signed picture.

“He was the most beautiful man, his name was Elvis,” Mamie laughs. “We met in the Riviera Hotel and he took me for a ride in his Cadillac. Pulling over, he serenaded me with his new song Love Me Tender. Needless to say, we had a lot of fun that night.”

For the full story, see this week’s issue of Woman’s Day (on sale March 17, 2008).

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Exclusive: Bob’s hot in Hawaii

By Alex Needs

The Biggest Loser trainer takes us on a Hawaiian adventure.

Hold on to your seats, Australia, we may be about to score a new resident. And he’s pretty easy on the eye too. Speaking exclusively with Woman’s Day at Turtle Bay Resort in Hawaii, The Biggest Loser trainer Bob Harper reveals he considers Sydney his second home. So much so, he’d love to buy a pad in Sydney’s posh Palm Beach.

Taking time out from filming the show’s upcoming Face Your Fears special in the Pacific paradise, the 42-year-old takes us for a tour round the resort, posing for shots while taking many of his own. The keen photographer and genuine nice guy is so eager to make the most of our shoot, he jumps in the water fully clothed, to give us some see-through shirt action.

Brimming with energy, the California native then relaxes over a tequila and soda — fresh lime, no cordial — to talk candidly about The Biggest Loser and his first book.

What are the main differences between the Aussie and US contestants?

OK, I want to be very clear here. When it comes to the Australian people, they definitely have more of a laid-back attitude. Whereas the Americans … we’re Type A people, meaning we’re aggressive and we’re loud and we’re go-go-go. The Aussies are more like, “Are you going to the gym? I’ll go if you go …” More laid-back. In America, I’m like, “You’ve worked out enough, let’s get out of the gym and go back to the house.”

Are the Americans more competitive?

I think that as competitive as the Aussies are, the Americans are 10 times more competitive. When they get in that house they’re like, “What do I have to do to win? I’m gonna win at all costs.” In Australia it’s more of a love fest at first … and then the competition starts.

Do the contestants try and get you involved in their games?

Oh, yeah, all the time. They really want to use the trainers against each other. They do that a lot with Jill and I. Saying to her things like, “Well, Bob did this for us. What are you going to do?” and vice versa.

So, do you and Jillian make a joint plan of attack?

Yeah, we always sit down with each other and go, “OK, here’s what I’m going to do. You tell me what you’re going to do so they can’t manipulate us!” You have to understand when you are shooting the show, be it in Hawaii, Australia, wherever, your world is really tiny and limited, so people react in really exaggerated ways. You’re hysterical. You cry over the least or the biggest things.

Tell us more about the book.

Everyone was very interested in me writing a book, but they just wanted me to put my name and face on something. I didn’t want to do that. The thing I’ve learned with all these contestants is that these guys are just off-track. They are in need of support and someone to guide them back onto the right path. It’s like throwing a life preserver into an ocean of people who need help. I had someone turn those words around and say, “You’re a lifeguard, because you’re teaching these people how to swim”, and I was like, “Yes, you’re exactly right.” I’m really proud of it and excited to talk about it, because at the end of the day, it’s about getting people to feel better about themselves.

Do you find that the people who come to you are in dire straits?

They are at their wit’s end. They just don’t know what to do any more. They have been bombarded by book after book telling them how to “do this, do that, do eat this, don’t eat that. Stand on your head for two hours a day and then you’ll lose all the weight.” People are confused. So I get them to slow down and try not to stress out. I remind them this is a lifetime journey that we are on. This is not going to end once you get into your skinny jeans and your wedding dress. This is going to continue.

Can you see yourself doing a photography book next?

Yeah, I’ve been wanting to do a coffee table book. I mean, there’s not a lot of money in coffee table books, but it’s a passion of mine. I actually had an idea to do one in Australia. See, I love that every time I drive around in Australia I see all these kids waiting to go on the bus and they are all in these school uniforms. We don’t wear uniforms at school in the US and I love the juxtaposition of these modern-day kids with their iPods in and their haircuts and then they’re in all these traditional uniforms. I see a book there. I see some really great photography.

The Biggest Loser screens weeknights at 7pm and Sunday nights at 6.30pm on Network Ten. Bob’s book Are You Ready! is out April, published by Random House.

Pictures: Delmar Galicinao.

For more of this exclusive interview, see this week’s issue of Woman’s Day (on sale March 17, 2008).

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In the mag – March 24, 2008

On sale Monday March 17, 2008

Heath’s little girl caught in bitter family feud

The Ledger family is at war after claims Matilda will get nothing from her father’s fortune.

Katie’s shock: Tom caught kissing two women

The actor’s wife is furious after he is caught getting close to two mystery ladies.

Jen and Owen’s hot new romance

Romance is blossoming on the set of Jennifer Aniston’s new film Marley & Me. Insiders say the actress has fallen for her sexy co-star, Owen Wilson.

Brave Patrick Swayze fights back

The actor refuses to let his devastating cancer diagnosis defeat him.

Exclusive: Bob Harper’s hot in Hawaii

The Biggest Loser trainer takes us on a Hawaiian adventure.

True life: Hollywood’s oldest pin-up girl

With admirers including Elvis and JFK, Hollywood sex symbol Mamie Van Doren has lived the life many women dream of.

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