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In the mag – December 1, 2008

Issue on sale Monday November 24, 2008

Hugh Jackman opens up: Our baby heartache

The Australia actor breaks his silence about the private struggle he and wife Deborra-lee Furness have endured to become parents…

Baby no 2 for Nicole Kidman

The actress happily reveals the first signs of a new baby at the world premiere of her film Australia

Sarah Jessica Parker and Hugh Grant’s secret dinner date

SJP steps out with playboy Hugh Grant in New York…

Ange tells: The secrets of our family

Angelina reveals the relationships between her kids and how they’ll celebrate the festive season…

John Edward: My Special bond with Terri Irwin

In a world exclusive, the famous medium explains and writes about his very close relationship with the Irwin family…

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Sarah Jessica and Hugh’s secret dinner date

Sarah Jessica Parker steps out with playboy Hugh Grant in New York…

Amid talk that her marriage to actor Matthew Broderick may be in trouble, Sarah Jessica Parker and Hugh Grant have been spotted having an intimate dinner.

Just days after a downcast Sarah Jessica was seen walking in New York City without her wedding ring, the 43-year-old actress and British playboy Hugh, 48, were spotted leaving the city’s trendy Cipriani restaurant together last week.

Insiders say the pair have been keen to spend as much time together as possible, despite the romantic comedy they’re set to star in not scheduled to start filming until March next year.

Hugh appears to have finally ended his long on-off romance with Jemima Khan, while Sarah Jessica’s 11-year marriage has been under a cloud since July, when a US magazine claimed Matthew, 46, had conducted an affair with a 25-year-old college student.

For the full story, see this week’s Woman’s Day (on sale November 24).

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Ange tells: The secrets of our family

**By Sarah Fleetwood/Viva Press

Angelina reveals the relationships between her kids and how they’ll celebrate the festive season…**

With six children eagerly awaiting Santa’s visit this year, Angelina Jolie admits Christmas will be a very busy time in the Jolie-Pitt household.

This globetrotting family are yet to decide where they’ll be spending Christmas Day, but Ange promises that no matter what, the entire family will be together. And for this hands-on mum, that’s all that matters.

With six kids waiting for Santa, it’s going to be exhausting.

Heavens, no. There’s nothing nicer than getting them all off to bed and asleep, and then wrapping all the presents for them and anticipating the day. Filling the stockings is a lot of fun. It’s tiring, for sure, but it’s the sort of tiredness that fills you with pleasure. Parents will know what I mean.

What is the family doing for Christmas?

As yet, I have no idea. It’s all very flexible. But there’s no way we won’t be all together.

Do the kids all get along?

Wonderfully, yes, and thank goodness! Pax and Z [Zahara] have bonded remarkably well, because they’re so close in age. Maddox and Pax also have a strong bond, because they are brothers — they are a really formidable item when they’re together…

For the full interview, plus more sitings of Jennifer Aniston’s baby bump, see this week’s Woman’s Day (on sale November 24).

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I escaped an Aussie sect

When Australian mum June Rose-Claire tried to leave extremist sect the Exclusive Brethren she lost everything ? including her two sons.

June Rose-Claire was a carefree, laugh-a-minute kind of girl. Then she made the innocent mistake of falling in love.

The man she fell head over heels for was a churchgoer ? so naturally June assumed he would believe in all the Christian virtues of grace, mercy, love and kindness to your fellow man.

As she plunged headlong into her relationship, she quickly found herself immersed in the church of the Exclusive Brethren. Instead of heaven on earth, she found a living hell.

“One minute I’m this happy, very energetic aerobics instructor who is also working at a health food store and studying hard to become a naturopath,” June tells Woman’s Day. “The next, I’m an oppressed wife, accused by his church of being a whore, of dabbling in the occult, withholding money and warned against having anything to do with anyone outside the church.

“Its silly calling them a church ? they are more like a cult. Cults take over people’s lives; church is meant to be a place of joy, love and worship. I never felt God was anywhere near whilst [I was] a part of the Exclusive Brethren. It was all about fear, brainwashing and extreme control.”

NOTE: A complaint to the Australian Press Council about part of this article was upheld. Read the full adjudication here.

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Hugh Jackman opens up: Our baby heartache

The Australia actor breaks his silence about the private struggle he and wife Deborra-lee Furness have endured to become parents…

Hugh Jackman has finally revealed the heartbreaking battle he and Deborra-lee Furness went through while trying to fall pregnant.

Now a dad to two adopted children, Oscar, 8, and Ava, 3, Hugh, 40, told a US magazine last week that he and Deborra-lee, 48, were unprepared for the emotional and physical turmoil they endured while trying to have a baby by IVF.

“We always wanted to adopt, but first we wanted to have two kids biologically,” he says. “We tried for a long time, and it didn’t happen. That was difficult, unexpected.

“I got married at 27, and before that it was all about not getting pregnant. My wife is very headstrong. She’d gotten pretty much everything she’d wanted in life — except this.”

A candid Hugh reveals that the period where he and Deborra-lee attempted IVF was perhaps the most challenging time of their 12-year marriage.

“I hope Deb doesn’t mind me saying so, but that was a tough, tough time,” he told the mag…

For the full story, see this week’s Woman’s Day (on sale November 24).

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Baby number 2 for Nicole Kidman

The actress happily reveals the first signs of a new baby at the world premiere of her film Australia

Proudly showing off a bump beneath her clinging dress at the Sydney premiere of the outback epic Australia, a beaming Nicole Kidman appeared keen to let the world in on her happy secret.

Seeming to confirm insider talk that she’s expecting her second baby with husband Keith Urban, Nicole, 41, said she’s looking forward to expanding her family and that her days of working on back-to-back movies are behind her.

“I’m in a place in my life where I have had some great opportunities but I may choose to have some more children,” Nicole coyly told reporters, before walking the red carpet with Keith, 41. “There are many things I want to do besides act.”

For the full story, see this week’s Woman’s Day (on sale November 24).

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John Edward: My Special bond with Terri Irwin

In a world exclusive, the famous medium explains and writes about his very close relationship with the Irwin family…

World-renowned medium John Edward, a close friend of the Irwin family for many years, held a private meeting with Terri Irwin and her father-in-law Bob after Steve Irwin’s tragic death from a stingray attack in September 2006.

Ever since this private meeting, fans have naturally been curious to know if the world’s most famous psychic made contact with the late wildlife warrior from beyond.

In the past, John, who does a weekly psychic reading in Woman’s Day, has remained tight-lipped on what took place in that meeting, although he recently revealed that Terri now knows exactly how to communicate with her late husband on the other side whenever she needs to.

“If I can get people to recognise how our loved ones and friends communicate with us, I’ve done my job,” John said. “I want people to understand the world of energy they live in.

“People always think of communication [with dead people] in the same way we communicate when we are alive, and they superimpose that expectation on me. But it’s not like that.”

For the full story from John Edward, see this week’s Woman’s Day (on sale November 24).

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Pierce Brosnan’s mamma of a role

He’s played James Bond and Remington Steele but for his new role the Hollywood hunk has been singing a very different tune.

Congratulations. Mamma Mia! is absolutely amazing!

It could be good. It could really be good! I had the time of my life doing it. Really, I cannot wax lyrically enough about my experience with Meryl Streep, Colin Firth and Julie Walters. And Phyllida Lloyd, the director, of course. And Judy Craymer and the world of Mamma Mia! Julie and Phyllida and Catherine Johnson, the writer, did create something that is enduring and meaningful and, above all, entertaining.

Have you sung in front of the camera before?

No, I did a movie with my company Irish DreamTime, a number of years ago, called Evelyn, and I sang in that. It was Irish pub songs. You know (starts singing) “yeah, diddly-diddly-diddly-doo!” with a pint of Guinness in my hand. It was a lot different than making a movie about ABBA.

Which is your favourite ABBA song to sing?

In the movie the song I sing is When It’s All Said and Done. I also sing SOS with Meryl. The song When It’s a All Said and Done is from the album The Visitors, which some people consider ABBA’s greatest album. It’s when they were kind of splitting up and their lives were going in different directions, so the song has words that are very powerful and meaningful. On the album, the song is a disco song, but for the musical and the movie they’ve brought it down to a ballad. It’s a very sad song, you know. “Here’s to us, one last toast, then we pay the bill…” It’s all about him and her, the life they’ve lived and where they are now.

What’s the strongest memory from making Mamma Mia!?

Seeing Meryl Streep and hearing her sing The Winner Takes It All will never, never be forgotten.

Was it scary to sing?

I was terrified, terrified. It was the last thing I’d ever imagined to be offered a job like this, but the agent said “Meryl Streep, Mamma Mia!, Greece”, and I quickly said “I’m in!” I didn’t even ask “How much?” — just, “I’m in!” (laughs). I was in London at the time and they said “We’d like you to go and see the play tomorrow night”, so I took my family. I realised as I sat in the theatre that I didn’t know which role I was going to play. I’d forgotten to ask my agent which role I was meant to be playing. I knew about the play, the musical, I’d seen the posters on the side of buses in London and on the posters in the subways, but I had no idea what the show was about. I didn’t know if the story was about ABBA themselves or whatever. So I sat in the theatre, the curtain went up and there was this rather simplistic set and I thought, “Oh dear”. But I also said to myself, “Well, it must be good if Meryl Streep has said yes to it”. I said that mantra to myself many times over the next 15 minutes, yet from the stage the songs were going out and I thought “Oh, I remember this one and I remember that one, this is good.” Everyone was giving it 100 per cent. And by the end of the night I was up on my feet going (starts singing) “Waterloo!” Ahh, what am I doing?! (laughs)

Do you remember where you were in 1974 when ABBA won the Eurovision Song Contest with Wateterloo?

I was in drama school ’74 to ’76. They were on the cover of the Evening Standard. Swedish romping… spandex. Oh, the blonde, Agnetha…

In the movie, we see photos of your character as a younger man, with a beard, moustache and long hippy hair. Did you ever have that look when you were younger?

When I went to drama school I had hair down to my shoulders, and a goatee beard and an earring. I was a little hippie. I thought I was the second coming to acting.

You were right though.

Well, I don’t know about that. (laughs) You soon get that kicked out of you (laughs) I just thought I was great, then I realised that I was pretty mediocre but had some talent in there somewhere.

Were you a fan of ABBA when you were younger?

I do remember ABBA, I remember their great success very well. The hits kept coming and coming, and they were invincible. They were a great source of humour and parody and ridicules with their silly costumes and their capes, and boots… but they were in the same boat as everyone else style-wise at that time. Marc Bolan was equally as mad and crazy with the clothes. ABBA’s music had heart and they wrote great truthfulness.

What was your first meeting with Benny and Bjorn like?

They couldn’t have been more gracious and welcoming, and more cool, hip and iconic. Charming, beautiful guys. It helped enormously with my fear and anxiety when I looked over at Colin Firth and then Stellan Skarsgard looking terrified. The three of us were like deer in the headlights. Three thespians about to sing ABBA…

If you were to divide your life into phases, which phase would you say you’re at now?

I think I’m just half way through the second act, aren’t I? Please. Is this the second act? We have a long time to go, surely? I’m only 54 now.

How do you keep so fit?

I have kids (laughs). I have a 7-year-old and an 11-year-old. I surf every day — I live in Hawaii these days.

Why did you move to Hawaii?

Just to get away. I’d like to be there when I enter the third act, you know. Perhaps then I can say, “Now, let’s get on with some painting and gardening.” My wife is a gardener and she’s created the most beautiful garden for us. I like to paint and my life is so rich. Hawaii is like Ireland with the heat turned up.

You’re very committed to environmental issues, can you tell us about that?

I think we’re all involved now. We’re all in the same boat, because we’re all on the same planet. If there’s any mantra to be had or any meaningfulness to be gained from that work for one’s children and one’s children’s children to have clean air and clean water. We need to save this planet from haemorrhaging in order to have a sustainable future. Instead of just sitting around and wondering what to do or how to do it, I suggest that you get connected, switched on and start in your own backyard. Try to take care of something in your community that could help your community to build something that protects this earth, the beauty of this earth.

Do you grow your own vegetables in your garden?

We do a few. Where we are everyone is a gardener really. We have fruit trees; bananas and papayas.

Different from Ireland?

Yes (laughs) it’s very different from Ireland.

Don’t you miss a pint of Guinness?

I get it from the factory. They send it to me! (huge smile)

Is it correct that you’re an American citizen now?

I had to be. I had to have a voice, with the lunacy of Bush and his regime. Living with that for four years and seeing the debacle that happened between him and Al Gore. It was shocking blow and I’d been there for many years and so I wanted to become an American citizen. America had been good to me, and I had American sons, an American wife and an American life. It’s my home, so before the last election I became an American citizen so that I could vote.

Do you miss times being Bond?

No, not at all.

What kind of father are you?

One always wants to be a good father. I’m loving, kind and I’ve become a wiser father since my early days of fatherhood. Time has become more powerful, Times past, time present, time future. Just being with my children, my boys, and doing things like learning how to surf.

Are you a strict father?

No, luckily my wife is (smiles) she’s a great mother, a kind and loving mother, but she has the discipline that I don’t have, which allows me to be the conquering hero.

This movie, Mamma Mia!, was made by a very female team. The writers, producer and director were all women. Was there a different feel on the set, compared to on other movie sets?

Yes, it was beautiful. The female energy permeated. It was a great security and a great nurture, and I think Phyllida Lloyd, the director, is somebody who has an over whelming capacity to nurture people and performers. She has a sense and an intuition towards composition, creative artistic life, and that is transmitted to the company. Mamma Mia! is Phyllida and Judy’s life, it’s the jewel in their crown. After they’ve done this movie they’ll be able to move on in to any direction they want to. Phyllida wants to do an action movie, perhaps she should do another sequel to The Thomas Crown Affair (smiles).

Mamma Mia! is a romantic movie, about eternal love. Do you believe in eternal love?

Love and only love. That’s all there is in life. Anything else is meaningless. Love is what makes the world go around. We all want to be in love, but you have to keep love going constantly. Love can peter off, but then it goes into a friendship, it goes into another kind of yearning, to the yearning of what that love once was. But then we have to, hopefully, have the intelligence and the courage to stay with that person and stay with the investigation. Unless there is something really twisted and mangled about it, then you have to walk away. You don’t want to be the toxic people who live a toxic life, you have to drop those people quickly in life.

You’ve been named one of the most beautiful people in the world. Have your looks been good for your career or has it made your career more difficult?

(blushing)… Eeeh. I used to be… I could have been a contender. But there you go. I’ve been blessed with finding acting. I’ve been blessed with employment as an actor, and I love it as much now as I did when I was 22, 23. There are challenges and one can always get better, it’s work in progress.

Have you ever been down? Have you ever been in a position where it was hard to get up and get moving again?

You’ve got to keep going. Oh yeah, I’ve been there. I’m the worst on myself, the hardest on myself and you know; when the black dog comes and sits beside you, it’s not a great place to be at 4 or 5 o’clock in the morning.

How do you pick yourself up?

Oh, you know, I have a good talk with him up there [nods towards the sky], have a good good prayer. Try and figure out what the problem at hand is. Can I solve the problem now? And if you can’t solve the problem now, you leave it for another day and solve the problem at hand. Get on with it. Snap out of it.

You could listen to some ABBA to get yourself in a happy mood…

(Laughs) Yes, and put on some lycra and dance. Oh, wait until you see the movie! It’s so much fun and ABBA are so loved by everyone!

Mamma Mia! is now available on DVD.

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I’m a closet heterosexual

I'm a closet heterosexual

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Ever since I was a little boy I knew I was gay. Being attracted to other boys at school felt like the most normal thing in the world to me, but I always knew it was something that had to be kept a secret, that my family wouldn’t understand.

My parents were strict Christians. And while I knew they loved me, the Bible and its rules always came first. Even at a young age I knew I was a “sinner” for feeling the way I did.

Throughout my teenage years it was pretty easy to keep my sexuality a secret from my parents. Being Christians, they didn’t want me dating girls until I was ready for marriage. I was a shy kid, so I didn’t get much attention from girls anyway. It wasn’t until I went to university that things started to change.

When I first moved to the city to enrol in uni, I felt like I’d discovered a whole new world. Within a few weeks I’d moved into a typical student share house, full of artistic, fun, experimental kids who loved to party. But it was Amanda who I hit it off with the best. She was the first person in my life who actually “got” me and it wasn’t long before I told her my big secret. She didn’t even bat an eyelid, she just hugged me and told me she was proud. I felt like an enormous weight had been lifted from my shoulders.

Not long after that I met my first boyfriend. Looking back, I can see that Sean was self-absorbed and shallow, but as far as I was concerned at the time, he was my true love. So I started coming out to my friends. I even told some of my old school friends back home and I got nothing but support and encouragement from everyone I told.

Convinced that I was going to spend the rest of my life with Sean, I decided it was time to tell my family. Everybody else had been so supportive, I was sure my parents would at least accept my sexuality, even if they couldn’t be happy about it. I was wrong.

I came out to my parents during a trip home for my mother’s birthday. Mum couldn’t look me in the eye and couldn’t stop crying. Dad yelled at me for ruining mum’s special day and then kicked me out of the house. They never actually said they didn’t want to see me again, but that’s what I assumed they meant.

When I got back to my house in the city, Sean was there to greet me. I was so relieved to see him until I saw the look on his face. He told me he wanted to end the relationship. He’d never meant for things to get so serious with me. He was young and just wanted to play the field. I was crushed. I’d lost my parents’ love and my boyfriend’s love all in the space of one day.

The one person who was there for me was Amanda. That night, we hit the pub hard. And after that we hit the clubs. At 4am we finally stumbled home, falling into her bed together for one of our usual late night chat sessions. But that night was different. I don’t know how it happened but suddenly we were kissing, then we were touching, then one thing led to another and I was doing something I never imagined I could ever do — I was having sex with a girl.

The next day we pretty much laughed it off. How drunk and crazy we’d been! It didn’t change a thing between us and I loved Amanda for that.

I moped around feeling sorry for myself for a few more weeks before I fell for a new guy and suddenly Sean was ancient history. Things fizzled out with the new guy and I moved onto another, then another.

I was having a great time on the dating scene when a little later down the track, Amanda knocked on my bedroom door with a brown paper bag in her hand. Inside it was a pregnancy test. She took the test while I waited outside the toilet door, just as any girl’s best friend would. The only difference was, her best friend was also the father.

Our son Felix was born during our second year at uni. Amanda had to move back home but she never told her parents who the father was. And I never told my parents a thing — I hadn’t spoken to them since that awful fight the year before.

I wasn’t going to leave Amanda in the lurch. While she dropped out of uni to raise the baby, I dropped out and got a full time job as a waiter. Difficult as the situation was, I was ecstatic to be a dad and I knew I had a responsibility to provide for my son. Every month I gave Amanda and the baby as much as I could from my measly salary.

Eventually, Amanda moved in with a guy who treated Felix like a son. I met a guy too — my first and only long term boyfriend. I watched from a distance as my son grew up, started walking, talking and went off to school. By the time he was six, I barely saw him anymore. He had a “dad” and didn’t need me. I just deposited the money in his mum’s account. I knew Amanda was doing OK.

I finally patched things up with my parents. I’d taken their anger all those years ago to mean they never wanted to see me again, but in fact they’d missed me terribly. With time they learnt to accept my lifestyle and they even met my partner, Tim, a few times before we broke up last year.

It was not long after the break up that Amanda got in touch with me asking if I’d be willing to visit our son. Her partner had walked out on them and Felix, who was 10 by this stage, was asking questions about his real dad. I was only too happy to be back in my son’s life.

What started as weekend visits soon became daily, and before long, Felix and I had formed a real father-son bond. Amanda and I grew close again too, closer than before, even. One night after we’d put our son to bed, Amanda and I found ourselves back in a familiar situation. But this time there was no alcohol involved, we were perfectly sober and we knew exactly what we were doing, we knew this felt right.

It’s been over a year now since Amanda and I became an “item”. But while I was so quick to come out of the closet and tell the whole world I was gay, I’ve hardly told a soul that I’ve turned straight now. I know my gay friends would have trouble accepting it, as if I’ve betrayed them in some way. And I know it would destroy my parents. How can I tell them they have a grandchild they’ve never met, born out of wedlock to their gay son, who, by the way, is about to become a father again in a few months time?

For now, I just don’t have the guts to tell them. As far as they know I’m their single gay son who lives alone in an apartment in the city. I only hope that one day I can figure out a way to explain this whole thing to them, and to my friends. And that this time my “coming out” will cause me less heartache than it did the first time around.

Names in this story have been changed. Picture: Getty Images.

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Christmas with The Australian Women’s Weekly

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Christmas with the Australian Women’s Weekly Channel Nine, Sunday, 7th December, 6.30pm

From the pages of the December issue, watch Margaret Fulton, Australia’s much loved food writer prepare her Glazed Ham. She douses it in Guinness and the flavour is incredible. Other recipes prepared in the televised special include Pete Evans’ gorgeous little Mini Black Forest Gateaux.

Each year Deborah Hutton hosts the Special and watches other people cook. This year Deborah takes us into her home and prepares her style of food for Christmas lunch which includes Aperol and Red Grapefruit Cocktail, Oysters with Lime Dressing, Spicy Barbecue Prawn and Rocket Salad with Wasabi Coriander Mayonnaise and Salmon with Herb Walnut Salsa…not to mention Drunken Berries with Toasted Panettone and Mascarpone!

With Australia the movie, the flavour of the month, Christmas with The Australian Women’s Weekly takes you to the majestic Kimberley in the far north-west of Western Australia where some of Baz Luhrmann’s epic was shot. To quote a local, “The Kimberley is an empowering place, the country is very ancient and it’s just one of those places that makes you proud to be an Australian”. By a giant Boab tree or two, the biggest bush Christmas lunch comes together with plenty of beef!

These are just some of the highlights from Christmas With The Australian Women’s Weekly just in time to help you finalise your festive plans so be sure to tune in on Sunday, 7th December at 630pm on Channel Nine.

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