Advertisement
Home Page 5273

Fergie under fire over orphanage scandal

The former Duchess of York is accused of failing to fulfil her promises to Romania’s poor…

Sarah Ferguson has come under fire for failing to come up with the $617,000 she promised to help establish a health care centre for women in the Romanian town of Tinca.

Her pledge was made last year on an ITV documentary. The program, A Tonight Special — Duchess and Daughters: Their Secret Mission, aired in the UK in November, and saw Fergie, Beatrice and Eugenie highlight the plight of abandoned children across Eastern Europe, including the appalling conditions of state-run orphanages in Romania and Turkey.

During a visit to poverty-stricken Tinca, Fergie vowed to raise funds to equip and staff a medical centre.

Charity organisation Romanian Relief had enough funds to construct the building’s shell, but needed more money to make the clinic operational.

“I knew I had to find a solution. I couldn’t have gone with you and seen abhorrent sights and not back it up,” Fergie told ITV presenter Chris Rogers, who travelled with her. “I am not that sort of person. I am absolutely adamant about it. You cannot make false promises.”

Related stories


Advertisement
Home Page 5273

The bizarre life of the octuplets mum

Mum of 14 Nadya Suleman is being branded an Angelina copy-cat, amid fears for her eight newborn babies.

The strange life of octuplets mum Nadya Suleman is causing concern, with the unemployed 33-year-old single mother denying claims that she’s obsessed with Angelina Jolie, and brushing off concerns she will be unable to look after her 14 kids.

Nadya already had six children aged two to seven, conceived by IVF, and lives on a disability pension. She has sparked outrage over her decision to undergo IVF treatment and deliberately have six embryos implanted. Two embryos split into twins, so eight babies were born.

“Those are my children and that was what was available and I used them,” Nadya told the Today show in the US last week. “I took a risk. A gamble.”

Nadya’s own mother, Angela, is leading the chorus of criticism.

“The truth is, Nadya’s not capable of raising 14 children,” says Angela, who lives with her daughter and calls her actions “unconscionable”.

“She already has six beautiful children. Why would she do this?”

The Insider television program reports that Nadya is up to $50,000 in debt. A website has been set up in her name to help raise money for the babies…

Would you donate to a cause like Nadya’s? Have your say below…

Related stories


Advertisement
Home Page 5273

Drought disaster: ‘We’ll never leave the land’

By Jackie Brygel

Farmer Ann Sloane is helping to bring hope back to rural battlers, and you can too…

Name: Ann Sloane

Her dream: That all Australians support drought-stricken farmers on Woolworths’ “Backing Our Farmers Day”

Ann Sloane knows all too well just how tough it can be working on the land during a crippling drought. She and her husband Alexander, who live on a property in Savernake in southern New South Wales, recently suffered their third major financial loss with the farm’s dry-land cereal project.

But while their farm ? along with so many others across the country ? has been ravaged by the drought, Ann and Alexander can’t imagine living anywhere else.

“Alexander’s family selected this block back in 1862,” explains Ann, 56. “He’s been farming full-time since the 1960s. I was a country girl and also have a strong affinity with the land.

“Doing what we do is full of challenges, but the rewards are very real. And we feel we have such a strong family heritage here and such a love of the land, so we will continue on.”

Parents to four grown-up children, the enterprising couple recently began diversifying into other areas, such as prime lamb, tourism and photography, to bolster their floundering income.

“None of them raises amounts as large as a wheat crop would, but we’re doing what we can,” Ann explains. “You have to try to be adaptable with this drought.

“We have rainfall records dating all the way back to the 1860s. The drought in the last few years has broken all of those records.”

Deeply concerned about the level of despair among local farmers, Ann and a friend last year organised a drought support dinner at Ann’s local RSL club.

“It’s heartbreaking for some farmers,” she says. “They don’t know what’s going to be around the corner from day to day.

“The dinner I organised was in response to the suicides that I heard about in the area. People were just without hope. It can be overwhelming, the blackness that they feel, and they do think there’s nowhere to turn.

“I wanted to try and bring a message of hope and faith back into people’s lives and show them that they can get through these tough times,” she continues.

“It can’t ever be that tough that you should take your own life, and that was my motivation. We had a full crowd for the dinner and it was a really moving night.”

Ann also urges everyone to participate in Woolworths’ Backing Our Farmers Day. On Friday February 20 Woolworths will donate the entire trading day’s profits from all purchases made at any Woolworths or Safeway store to our farmers.

Woolworths expects to raise more than $5million from the day. The money will be used to fund emergency assistance grants and community infrastructure projects in rural Australia.

“It’s important to generate an understanding in the city of what lies behind the supermarket shelves. This day helps to do that by raising awareness.”

Have your say below…

Related stories


Advertisement
Home Page 5273

Australia’s worst bushfires: Words of support from Aussie celebs

Aussie celebs offer words of support and condolence to those affected by Victoria’s bushfire disasters.

? reporter on Nine’s Getaway

“I still don’t know if I have lost anyone I know. But my friend’s Mum has lost her home and lost lots of her friends. And I have other friends, who have lost lots of their friends and they are feeling emotionally ruined.

“It’s a numbing sensation. At first you just feel stunned, and then you just really want to help these Australians rebuild their future.

“I’d just like to ask people to dig a bit deeper if they could. I gave in the beginning but now the enormity of the tragedy is becoming clearer I think it’s important to find a way to give more. That’s the inspiring thing about being part of the lucky country. Even when it’s not having luck, Australians are so generous and work together.

? TV presenter

“I have spent time for work and personally in Kinglake, Marysville and Beechworth and am incredibly saddened by the loss of such beautiful Australian towns.

“Like all Australians I am incredibly saddened by such great loss of people, their townships and their collective history.

“Australians are so incredibly resilient and generous. There’s always hope. I’d like to tell those people who are suffering that we are with them 100 per cent.”

? TV presenter

By the time you read this, I hope my friend’s father is out of intensive care and recovering from his horrific burns. My thoughts are with him and his family.

This of course has affected me the same as all Australians. You feel so deeply for the loss of life and also of neighbourhoods. As ugly as the situation looks on our TV screens, we can’t imagine what those on the ground have been through. I feel helpless, yet can feel comfort in knowing that the amazing emergency services are being provided and the enormous amount of money raised will benefit those who deserve it the most at this time.

If there’s one good thing to come out of this tragedy, is that it is heart warming to see that in the year 2009, there is still such strong support for our fellow Australians. The spirit and soul of the nation is not lost. Thank you to all of the CFA workers and volunteers who put their lives on the line. It’s impossible to imagine how much worse this catastrophe could have been without you.

? Olympic swimmer

“Along with every other Australian it has made me realise how vulnerable we are. It’s only an hour away. It also makes you realise how volatile Australia is. In Queensland we have people drowning in floods and here we have people being burnt alive.

“You feel so helpless. You can give people new clothes and in some cases a new home, but I know they are never going to be the same again.

“I do want to tell those people who have lost loved ones or lost their homes that they are not alone, even though they may feel that way at the moment. Australians are so good at uniting.”

? Channel Nine cricket commentator and former Australian cricketer

Our home is a property in Kilmore in the area where one of the worst fires started. It was heading our way and the wind changed. So everything we have today ? my family, our home, our car and our business ? remains thanks to a bit of wind. Unfortunately, so many others aren’t as fortunate.

It’s given me faith in the Australian spirit that even the fury of Mother nature will never dampen the Aussie resolve.

I think the important thing to get our heads around is that people are going to need our help long after it ceases to be on the front pages of newspapers. People are going to need help for a long time to come. It’s not going to be a short-term fix.

? professional poker player who travelled to Whittlesea with friend Shane Warne

“I’ve haven’t been directly involved but it feels so close to home. I am standing in the football oval at Whittlesea where the kids are now here playing as they don’t have anywhere else to go. It feels so surreal, it’s really hard to describe.

“I am actually speechless. My heart goes out to the people here.

“God bless everyone from me and my family. One thing about Australians is we pull together in a crisis, and I’ll be doing whatever I can to help.”

Related stories


Advertisement
Home Page 5273

Aussie stars rally in support of bushfire victims

By Patrice Fidgeon

Pictures: Gina Milicia

Russell Crowe, Keith Urban, Nicole Kidman, Kylie Minogue, Natalie Imbruglia, Simon Baker and Portia de Rossi were among the first stars to offer their support to bushfire victims.

Gladiator star Russell says he would do “anything at all” for the Victorian bushfire victims and Kathy Lette, Dannii Minogue, along with Kylie and Natalie, and are joining forces to host a benefit in London.

Los Angeles-based actors Cameron Daddo, Rachel Griffiths and Portia, along with Ellen DeGeneres, will do the same to help devastated Victorians, whose plight has touched people around the world.

The unending generosity of Australians here and abroad was highlighted on Thursday night when the Nine Network raised millions in a telethon: Australia Unites ? The Bushfire Appeal.

Former Olympic champion swimmer Giaan Rooney says she hopes the telethon and messages of hope from celebrities around the world will at least provide a little hope.

“You always hope you get to do something where you can help others. That’s what TV is all about at a time like this ? to provide a distraction and give people a bit of hope,” she says.

“What do you say to people who have lost loved ones, lost their homes ? lost everything they own? They need hope.”

Nine weather presenter and Temptation co-host Livinia Nixon was in Queensland when she found her dad’s farm was in the path of the fire ? and a close friend’s mum lost her home at Marysville.

“A friend of mine texted me to say her mother’s home had been razed to the ground in Marysville. She lost not only her home but all her possessions ? everything. All that was saved were her two dogs. Marysville had been totally devastated. I think only the bakery was left standing.

“It was such a beautiful area ? so close to Melbourne. I’d been there often ? doing stories and I used to go cross country skiing at nearby Lake Mountain.”

Livinia says presenting the weather meant she was fully aware Saturday was always going to be a dreadful day.

“Not only unprecedented high temperatures, but northerly winds gusting up to 100km per hour.

“But when it hit watching what was coming through on the news services, it was really too much to comprehend,” Livinia says sadly.

Livinia was shocked but also fearful for her father who has a farm at Yea, one of the surrounding areas which was also affected.

“I was beside myself trying to contact my father ? worried sick because he was on his own ? and his farm is only half an hour from Marysville,” she says. “I had a few meltdowns when I couldn’t on so many occasions and I kept hearing about lightning strikes where he was.”

“Fortunately he got through it. And when you see what is coming in now in terms of support, you really do see the best of people. Aussies are great when the chips are down. We all pull together.”

The Melbourne Footy Show’s co-host James Brayshaw who helped host Eddie McGuire run the telethon, was flying back to Melbourne when he first heard about the devastation the bushfires had wreaked on Victoria.

“I knew something bad was happening in Victoria but it wasn’t until I was at the airport and saw the papers that it really hit me ? Oh my God,” James says. “I had no comprehension until then just how bad it was.”

“I think the fact Nine jumped in so quickly with the telethon was a fantastic initiative. You often feel in TV that it can be a pretty vacuous business, but when you get the chance to pull something like this together it’s a great feeling to know you can really do some good.”

Related stories


Advertisement
Home Page 5273

You are what you drink

You are what you drink

Did you down a glass of ordinary orange juice at breakfast? Do try to keep up! The new and incredibly nutritious ‘super-juices’ provide a wealth of health-promoting ingredients. Pamela Allardice shows you four wiser ways to wet your whistle.

  • Amazing acaiThe berries of the Amazonian acai palm (Euterpe oleracea) produce a claret-coloured juice with a sweet flavour, redolent of blackberries and honey. Acai is a rich source of vitamins C and E, and anthocyanins, a type of antioxidant that defends tissues against free radical damage, and thus – in theory, at least – slows the ageing process.Acai also provides heart-healthy omega-6 and omega-9 fatty acids, plus plant sterols, including resveratrol, which reduces blood clotting, and beta-sitosterol, which cuts total cholesterol levels, along with polyphenols, which have a vasodilatory effect, meaning they help to regulate blood pressure.

  • Gorgeous gojiThe flame-coloured berries of the Tibetan goji plant (Lycium barbarum) have long been used in Asia for medicinal purposes. The colour of the juice is usually a light red and its flavour sharp or refreshing, depending on how sweet a tooth you have.Research indicates that goji berries and juice have immune-boosting activity along with hypoglycaemic (blood sugar-lowering) and hypolipidaemic (blood fat-lowering) effects, making them both possibly beneficial for people with type 2 diabetes and high cholesterol, respectively. (Note: Goji has anticoagulant properties, so consult a health professional if you are on anti-coagulant medication, e.g. Warfarin.)

  • Mmmmm … mangosteenMangosteen juice has a divine purple colour and a tangy, sweet flavour, somewhere between pear and raspberry. Native to the tropics, mangosteen (Garcinia mangostana) boasts the modest nickname, ‘the queen of fruits’, and is packed with xanthones, which are antioxidants that help boost immunity.Several studies into mangosteen show that it has cancer-prevention potential and acts as an antibacterial agent in the body; it also has a powerful antihistamine action, making it potentially useful in treating and preventing allergies.

  • Perfect pomegranateWith its glorious, rich ruby colour, pomegranate’s Latin name, Punica granatum, translates loosely as ‘seeded apple’, and its tart, citrus-y taste is indeed reminiscent of a crisp Granny Smith apple. Pomegranate – both its seeds and the pulp encasing them – is a mighty source of antioxidants (three times more than red wine or green tea), ellagic acid, and tannins, which all have a cardio-protective effect.Research suggests that pomegranate juice can improve blood flow to the heart, slow the build-up of plaque in arteries, and reduce blood pressure via its effect on angiotensin-converting enzyme (which is actually how many anti-hypertensive medications work.) In one study, pomegranate juice was given to patients who were genetically predisposed to heart disease; the results showed that LDL (‘bad’) cholesterol dropped, HDL (‘good’) levels rose, and oxidation of LDL was cut significantly.Pomegranate also shows promise as a treatment in prostate cancer with another study showing that when patients with the disease took pomegranate, anti-cancer compounds called ellagitannins formed in their prostate tissue which slowed the cancer’s progression.YOUR SAY: What drinks do you enjoy to maintain good health?

Amazing acai

Acai also provides heart-healthy omega-6 and omega-9 fatty acids, plus plant sterols, including resveratrol, which reduces blood clotting, and beta-sitosterol, which cuts total cholesterol levels, along with polyphenols, which have a vasodilatory effect, meaning they help to regulate blood pressure.

Gorgeous goji

Research indicates that goji berries and juice have immune-boosting activity along with hypoglycaemic (blood sugar-lowering) and hypolipidaemic (blood fat-lowering) effects, making them both possibly beneficial for people with type 2 diabetes and high cholesterol, respectively. (Note: Goji has anticoagulant properties, so consult a health professional if you are on anti-coagulant medication, e.g. Warfarin.)

Mmmmm … mangosteen

Several studies into mangosteen show that it has cancer-prevention potential and acts as an antibacterial agent in the body; it also has a powerful antihistamine action, making it potentially useful in treating and preventing allergies.

Perfect pomegranate

Research suggests that pomegranate juice can improve blood flow to the heart, slow the build-up of plaque in arteries, and reduce blood pressure via its effect on angiotensin-converting enzyme (which is actually how many anti-hypertensive medications work.) In one study, pomegranate juice was given to patients who were genetically predisposed to heart disease; the results showed that LDL (‘bad’) cholesterol dropped, HDL (‘good’) levels rose, and oxidation of LDL was cut significantly.

Pomegranate also shows promise as a treatment in prostate cancer with another study showing that when patients with the disease took pomegranate, anti-cancer compounds called ellagitannins formed in their prostate tissue which slowed the cancer’s progression.

YOUR SAY: What drinks do you enjoy to maintain good health?

Related stories


Advertisement
Home Page 5273

Australia’s worst bushfires: What the officials say

Leaders and other officials from Australia and around the world offer words of support and condolence to those affected by Victoria’s bushfire disasters.

“This is a terrible and devastating tragedy. Hell and all its fury has visited the good people of Victoria… many good people now lie dead. Many others lie injured. This is a level of horror that few of us anticipated.”

“These communities will be rebuilt. These communities will rise again through the efforts of the local people and governments combined.”

“It’s mass murder.”

“All Victorians and all Australians should know that in this darkest hour they are not alone.”

“There’s a long road ahead.”

“We salute the extraordinary courage of all the emergency services workers. Police, Fire, Country Fire Authority, those who work in our hospitals, those in the SES.”

“The seventh of February 2009 will now be remembered as one of the darkest days in Australia’s peacetime history.”

“Victoria is a state that will never be the same.”

“It will be remembered as a day of tragedy, courage and sheer luck.”

“To each person who fought these fires, we say thank you. And most importantly, as a nation and as a community we need to extend our helping hand to rebuild these towns and lives in the weeks and years ahead.”

“The impacts on families are just devastating.”

“It’s been, I think, the worst day in our history.”

“This is a deeply sad and shocking tragedy.”

“This truly has been a tragedy that has brought out the most terrifying side of nature, but it has brought out the best in Australians.”

“I was shocked and saddened to learn of the terrible toll being exacted by the fires this weekend. I send my heartfelt condolences to the families of all those who have died and my deep sympathy to the many who have lost their homes in this disaster on so dreadful an occasion as this for Australia.”

“President Obama said that we should know in Australia that the prayers of himself, his wife Michelle, their family and of the American people are with the people of Victoria, people of Australia,” Kevin Rudd said.

“The President offered his prayers to the people of Australia and his condolences to the victims. He asked if the US could provide assistance to the government and people of Australia to assist with the fire” ? White House spokesman.

“Property isn’t worth it. It’s not worth losing your life to save your house.”

“This is by far the worst disaster I’ve been involved with.”

“We’ve cracked the $2million mark. It’s an unprecedented outpouring of goodwill never seen before in our living memories.”

Related stories


Advertisement
Home Page 5273

Super mum fights bushfires

With her face smeared with ash and soot, Brooke Bishop still manages to muster a smile.

The stay-at-home mum, who also happens to be an Army Reservist, didn’t hesitate when the call for help came through on Sunday 8 February.

“Help was needed to build containment lines around communities that had been left devastated,” says Brooke, mum to William, 5, and Edward, 4.

Without hesitation, the entire Bishop family stepped in to help keep the home front ticking along while Brooke was out in the bush.

“My family and friends were great,” Brooke said.

“I wasn’t sure what they would think, but they all said it was a great thing to do and that they would all help out.

“So Mum is babysitting and my husband James is taking a bit of time off work as well.”

Brooke is a Sapper, or military engineer in 4 Combat Engineer Regiment, a Ringwood-based unit within 4 Brigade, the home of Army Reservists in Victoria.

“I have been quite shocked by what I’ve seen,” says the young mum. “It really does affect people up here in the country. I haven’t been into the really bad areas but just being up on the hill and looking out and seeing total blackness, it’s really sad.”

The Australian Defence Force is helping in the bushfire effort, establishing a Joint Task Force to bring relief to the victims of the crisis.

Related stories


Advertisement
Home Page 5273

Adventurer dies trying to save his Harley

By Patrice Fidgeon

Pictures: Gina Milicia

“Get in the car, drive and don’t stop… no matter what,” Arthur Evers told his wife Petra. Arthur was an adventurer who had already cheated death twice, but tragically died in the full force of the inferno that engulfed Kinglake.

The 57-year-old train driver ignored his partner of 35 years Petra’s pleas to leave his treasured Harley Davidson ? which was insured ? and flee their home together in their car.

“I had a call from Eden Park at about 2pm warning me about the threat of fire in our area,” Petra says, her voice shaking as she clings tightly to Arthur’s devastated mother Nadia. “Then a neighbour walked up to me in the front yard and told me there were spot fires about a quarter of a mile away.

“Arthur was up on the roof with the hose, filling the gutters. I told him to get down and said we should go, but he said I was panicking.”

Determined to get them both out, Petra quickly packed a few belongings.

“Suddenly there was this dreadful noise ? a vroom, like a tornado or the rush of a jet engine and the walls were vibrating, literally shaking. It was so scary.”

Grabbed their two dogs ? Arthur’s Jack Russell, Jackie, and Petra’s Maltese, Bobo ? Petra packed the car.

“By this time the wind had changed and the fire was roaring up the hill. It was dark as night.

“I said, ‘Arthur, this is it. We have to leave now,’ but he just looked at me and asked where his bike keys were.”

Despite Petra’s tears and pleas for him to travel with her in the car, Arthur was determined to save his bike.

“He told me to drive like mad. By this stage there were flames about six feet high in the front yard and as I drove off I heard Arthur’s bike start and could see him behind me.”

Tragically that final glimpse was the last time Petra would ever see Arthur alive.

“The roaring wind and choking smoke was everywhere. It was like a black fog. I couldn’t see anything. I tried to look out the back and I couldn’t see Arthur on his bike.”

Driving around burning trees and through walls of fire, Petra heard explosion she assumed her tyres blowing. In fact the noise was her headlights imploding with heat.

Finding a policewoman, who directed her to the St Andrew’s hotel, Petra arrived ? and waited for news.

“I told everyone he was behind me and would be here in a minute ? but he didn’t come,” says Petra, her face breaking with grief.

Walking down the hill to search, Petra was met with a horrifying sight of flames and destruction.

“It was only then I had some idea of the extent of the inferno. It was just horrific and I realised he would have had no chance. But I still hoped he would make it.”

It was early Sunday that Petra received the answer she had desperately hoping she wouldn’t hear. The police had found Arthur’s wallet. He was dead.

“I screamed and just collapsed on the road, sobbing. Someone from the hotel was good enough to pick me up and take me back to the hotel. It was just devastating.”

Petra and Arthur had been living at Mt Beauty when bushfires raged through that area two years ago.

“It got within two doors of our place. So we were both very fire-conscious.

“But this time there was just no warning and with those conditions ? unbelievably high temperatures and hot northerly winds gusting up to 100km per hour ? no-one had a chance. It wouldn’t have mattered what you did.”

And just a year ago Arthur Evers cheated death a second time when the 35ft catamaran he bought in Mauritius sank when he tried to sail it back to Australia.

“I wanted him to put it on a ship and have it sent back to Australia, but Arthur wanted the adventure of sailing it back from Mauritius.

“He hired skippers and was about 600 nautical miles out of Mauritius when it sank. I was back in Mt Beauty and Arthur was bobbing around in the Indian Ocean for three days while I was worried sick not knowing if he was still alive,” Petra explains.

“When he lost the boat we used the insurance money from that to buy our house about 6km from Kinglake six months ago.”

Petra doesn’t know what happened to the house.

“We haven’t been allowed back to see but I know 95 per cent of the houses in that road have been totally destroyed.

“But it doesn’t matter now. I just can’t cope with the fact that Arthur isn’t here ? that he didn’t make it. It’s just too awful.”

Petra is staying with Arthur’s mother Nadia until she’s allowed to return to her own place ? and discover its fate.

“Arthur’s mother is devastated,” Petra says, comforting Nadia. “She just adored her son. She says she has lost everything and can’t stop crying.”

We invite you to share your comments below…

Related stories


Advertisement
Home Page 5273

Our first date was a lie!

When I was 21, I fell in love with Eric Lee. A friend of a friend, Eric was intelligent, funny, charming — basically, everything a girl could have wanted. The only thing he wasn’t was interested in me!

A very shy person, I spent the frequent times we met awkwardly trying to make conversation while he nodded and smiled politely. I knew he was probably checking out all the other girls at the various parties we met up in, and it tore my heart out, but I just couldn’t get the confidence up to ask Eric out.

This went on for two years, during which time Eric had a lot of girlfriends — none of them very serious — and I secretly pined for him. By this time, I was working for an accounting firm in the city; our university days were behind us, as were the university parties, so I didn’t see him nearly as much. But this had its advantages — I had pretty much accepted that I had no chance, so the times we did meet were far less awkward — although I still didn’t have the courage to ask the guy out.

When the annual company ball was announced, I felt sick. All my friends were asking their partners and people they liked, but I was too busy silently yearning for a guy who barely knew I was alive. It wasn’t until I opened up to my best friend May that I found with a solution: pretend I needed a date to impress the big bosses.

May convinced me to approach Eric with the idea that I was going for a promotion, and needed to give the impression that I was serious and stable. I didn’t know if it would work, but I was willing to give it a try. Surely he’d say yes if free alcohol was involved, and it didn’t actually mean anything…?

Nervous to the core, I needed a stiff drink before I even picked up the phone, but once I’d dialled the number, the lie came out easily enough.

“Hi Eric,” I stammered. “I’ve got a work ball on Friday night, and I need to pretend I have a boyfriend, or I have no chance at getting a promotion.”

Surprisingly, Eric was totally open to the scheme. He thought it would be fun to pretend we’d been madly in love for ages, and promised he’d spend the whole night looking lovingly into my eyes. This part made me sick with nerves, but there was no going back. The fake date was going ahead.

Eric and I played our parts so well that every single person in the room was fooled. Even my closest friends expressed their surprise that I’d never mentioned I had a boyfriend. I should have felt elated, but I just felt sad and unfulfilled. I’d finally had my dream date with my dream man, and it wasn’t even real.

We’d had such a good time too — chatting and laughing. Because it was all a sham, I’d quickly lost my reserve, and felt I could talk to Eric easily. But now the evening was over, and I knew I’d probably never speak to him like that again — I’d just have to wait for the next nervous small talk at someone’s housewarming or barbeque.

So you can’t imagine my shock when, the following day, the phone rang. It was Eric! He’d had such a nice time, he said. He couldn’t believe he didn’t know me after all these years and wanted to catch up for coffee. I was elated. A real date! Coffee quickly led to dinner, which led to other dates. Before I knew it, we were a proper item, and my lie had become the real thing.

Several years have passed, and Eric and I recently celebrated our second wedding anniversary. We laugh about the way we got together but, although he knows our first date wasn’t real, Eric has no idea that I lied about needing a boyfriend, because that was the only way I could ask him out!

Names in this story have been changed. Picture posed by models.

Your say: Have your say about this true confession below…

Related stories


Advertisement