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‘Help me teach my kids to save’

— with financial expert Adrian Raftery

It’s never too early to learn valuable financial lessons.

Most parents think that children are too young to understand the concept of money, but you’d be surprised at how much they learn just by watching you.

When I met Michelle, she said her kids didn’t receive pocket money. I told her that giving them a small amount of pocket money can help them learn about managing their finances.

If they have an income, it allows them to practise spending, saving and budgeting. It’s an important lesson they must go through in order to be more careful when they’re older.

I told Michelle to ask the two eldest (Lauren and Matthew) for some saving goals. Matthew wants a new bike, and Lauren wants an iPod. I got them to start shopping around and looking at the prices for these items. By doing this, they realised the prices varied by as much as 20 per cent.

I developed a budget with them, towards saving for these. They’d need to put aside some pocket money each week.

We also needed to dangle a carrot for their savings plans. How would they feel if they got the opportunity to earn extra pocket money? I told Michelle not to pay the kids extra for doing their general chores, but reward them for tasks such as washing the car or cleaning windows.

Finally, we got the kids to open a savings account which pays eight per cent interest. It’s important they see that money can make more money by earning interest.

    1. Put money into a savings account. Open a small account for them and get them to put any birthday money into it. Teach them the benefits of interest and that “money can make money”. They can each earn up to $1667 per annum before the taxman wants to tax them.
    1. Give them pocket money. It doesn’t have to be much. You just need to start getting them to learn about spending, saving and being responsible with money.
    1. Help set some savings goals. Motivate them to want to save for a future purpose. Sometimes it’s good to get them involved in your own savings goals (eg, house, car) so they can learn first hand from you.
    1. Give extra opportunities to earn money. Give them the chance to do extra chores around the place. This teaches them the value of hard work.
    1. Take them shopping. Most parents think this is the worst thing to do, but it can be a great educational tool for them to see you shop around for bargains. Get them involved and ask them to look at the price of items.
    1. Savings chart. Get them to chart how much they are saving each week, and help them visualise the benefits of saving.
    1. Let them ‘fall off the bike’. Kids need to understand the important lesson of losing money so they appreciate it more in the future. It’s better to learn at a young age rather than later in life.
    1. Show them the household budget. Show what bills are being paid and their cost, and what money is coming in to pay for the bills. It helps give them a better idea of money management.
    1. Simply say no. When they put on a performance at the shops and want something, tell them they have to wait, save up and shop around before they can get it. This gets them out of the habit of impulse purchases, which should stay with them later in life.

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Bushfires special: Return to Marysville

Pictures: Ray Messner

As police close in on the arsonist believed responsible for the fatal Marysville fire, we reunite with the locals we first met in 2002.

In 2002, Woman’s Day went to Marysville to meet the residents and find out why this mountain retreat was such a loved part of Australia.

We found a close-knit community filled with thriving local businesses and residents committed to creating a safe place to raise their families.

Among them were cafe owners Jane and James Fraga. A lot has changed since 2002, not least the Fraga family, which now has two additions ? Benjamin, 2, and Anna, eight weeks. Other changes have not been so happy.

Tragically, not only did Jane and James lose their home and cafe in the fires, but two much-loved employees also perished.

“This is where my son’s bed used to be,” says Jane as she shows Woman’s Day what’s left of her house, now little more than dust. “It’s where I’d tuck him in and tell him, ‘Tomorrow we’ll go pick daisies from our friend Veronica’s garden’.”

It’s only in recent weeks that the Fragas and the rest of the town’s survivors have been able to return to Marysville, and many tears have been shed.

“There have been a lot of funerals. It hasn’t been easy,” says Jane. “It was a very tough wait not knowing if anything was left. Somehow, walking through it all at last has helped me to deal with what’s happened. There’s nothing left of our home, but at the cafe we managed to salvage a few bits of equipment.”

The resilience of Jane and James is inspiring. Putting their pain behind them, they insist that compared to some friends, they’re doing well, even using the word “lucky”.

“A friendly customer has given us their holiday home in Buxton, just 10 kilometres away, to rent for a few months,” says Jane. “We’ll build a new home in Marysville. Thankfully, we had insurance.”

When we first met Jane and James, they explained how the town’s beautiful forests and friendly locals had charmed them into making it their home. Their newly established Fraga’s Cafe was fast becoming a hit with locals and tourists alike, their Belgian lemon teacake gaining fame.

“We’ll never leave here,” said James, who married Jane in the forest in 2000. Despite the horrors of February 7, he hasn’t changed his mind.

“Like most people from Marysville, we’ll be back,” nods Jane. “For some older people, the thought of rebuilding is just too hard, but the majority of people want to stay in this community.

“To lose your house or business, that’s a setback. You can rebuild. But we’ve lost friends, the homes that Benjamin and I would walk past each day, waving at the neighbours. We’ve lost everything that made up our world. But we’re still here, and we’re focusing on the future!”

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I risked my baby’s life to save my sister

By Sarah Gawthorne

Pictures: David Hahn. Make-up: Deanne Dority.

When Stephanie Martin’s sick sister needed help, she bravely volunteered, despite the risks.

Cradling her two-month-old baby boy in her arms, Stephanie Martin is clearly mesmerised by her tiny bundle. Steph’s sister Jessica sits by her side, and as the loving mum and devoted aunty coo over little Zelko Levi while he sleeps, they share a smile. Both are just happy that their family is safe and well after a health crisis almost ended in tragedy for them both.

Jessica, now 18, was 14 years old when she was diagnosed with leukaemia.

“I’d been sick with what I thought was the flu,” says Jess. “When I was diagnosed with leukaemia after some tests, I was terrified. My whole family was there to support me, including Stephanie.”

Jess needed a bone marrow transplant and her family were tested to see if one was a match. Stephanie, then just 16, was the only suitable donor.

“When I found out Jess was sick I just kept wishing it was me,” says Stephanie. “I’d have done anything to take away the pain she was in. When they said I could give her my bone marrow, I didn’t hesitate.”

After the painful operation, both the sisters recovered while their family waited to see if it had been a success.

“I was bruised and sore and couldn’t walk after the transplant,” says Stephanie. “But all I cared about was Jess. When we found out it had worked and she started getting better, I was so relieved.”

After months of recovery, Jess finally returned to school and, other than the odd check-up, life went back to normal.

“We’d always been close, but after going through that, we had a special bond,” says Steph.

Four years later, shortly before her 18th birthday, Jess started to feel unwell again.

“When the doctors said the leukaemia was back, I was devastated,” says Jess. “I could not face going through it again.”

To help The Children’s Hospital at Westmead call 1800 770 122 or visit www.chw.edu.au

Do you agree with Steph’s decision to risk her unborn baby’s life for her sister? Have your say below…

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Jennifer Aniston’s shock baby plan

Amid reports that her arch rival Angelina Jolie is pregnant again, Jen turns to an old friend to fulfil her baby dream.

Newly single Jennifer Aniston is so desperate to become a mum that she’s turned to an unlikely source — her former Friends co-star David Schwimmer.

Insiders on the set of Jen’s new flick The Baster — in which she plays a woman who turns to artificial insemination to have a baby — confirm that the 40-year-old divorcee has embraced the unconventional method herself so that she can finally realise her dream of becoming a mum.

Stinging from reports that her ex-husband Brad Pitt is expecting a fourth biological child with his partner Angelina Jolie, and bitter about her romantic prospects after her split from singer John Mayer, Jen is determined to take matters into her own hands.

“Jen’s been telling everyone on the set this film should be promoted as the story of her life,” a set insider told US magazine National Enquirer.

Even more surprising than her baby-making choice is her choice for the father.

“The real shocker is that she says her choice for artificial insemination is David Schwimmer,” the insider reveals. “She says David is perfect father material because he’s the whole package — handsome, smart and with a full head of hair.”

Although the two were never romantically involved, they were close throughout their show’s 10-year run and have stayed in touch. “We are truly friends,” says David.

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Kate Middleton’s new family shame

More humiliation for Kate as a family night out turns sour.

Prince William’s girlfriend Kate Middleton is again suffering public humiliation and fearing for her future as a royal, following a raucous night out with her family.

What began as a celebration of her brother James’ 22nd birthday turned into a shameful drunken spectacle outside a posh London nightclub. Onlookers described the birthday boy as “absolutely legless” as his father Michael and sister Pippa, 26, struggled to bundle him into a taxi shortly after midnight — only 90 minutes after they’d arrived.

An embarrassed Kate, 27, made no effort to help her brother. Her cheeks flushed and eyes bleary, she tried to cover her face and avoid the scene at the members-only club that’s a haunt for young royals.

Her image-savvy mother Carole tried to stop snappers capturing the ruckus, fearing a royal backlash that could shatter her dreams of her daughter marrying William. Kate has already been dubbed “Waity Katie” because she’s been dating Wills for seven years with no hint of an engagement.

Reacting like a cornered lioness defending her cubs, Carole reportedly chased away one photographer, who’d spotted Michael apparently trying to urinate on a fence. Michael’s girlfriend also tried to shield him from sight.

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Reality star Susan Boyle: Will she get a makeover?

She won hearts for her natural talent, and look — but now there are fears we’ll lose the real Susan.

Surprise singing sensation Susan Boyle, 47, who won hearts all around the world with her angelic voice and unpolished charm, has shocked fans with talk of an image revamp.

The brand new superstar, who leapt from obscurity after her stunning TV performance on Britain’s Got Talent, has gone from unemployment to internet phenomenon in just one week. But now, after more than 100 million views of her performance on the Web, the sweet-natured Scot admits she is already feeling the pressure to change her appearance in her quest to win the competition.

“I will need to sort out my dress sense and my weight,” she told the UK’s Daily Mirror, as she left her home barely recognisable in a funky new leather jacket and sporting a slick new hairdo.

“It wasn’t until I saw myself on TV that I realised how frumpy I was,” she says. “It doesn’t worry me too much — but I will be doing a bit more exercise. When there is this much attention on you, you have to look your best.”

A rep for the show confirmed to In Touch magazine, “We will be making [Susan] over on the show.”

While Susan assures fans there will be no extreme makeovers, saying, “I would not go in for Botox or anything like that,” there are fears that any image change will upset Susan’s millions of fans, who have embraced her for her homely, unstyled charm and ample inner beauty.

“For now I’m happy the way I am — short and plump,” Susan declared following her first performance on the show. “What’s wrong with looking like Susan Boyle?”

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VIDEO: Shaheen Jafargholi takes on Susan Boyle

Susan Boyle won hearts around the world with her stunning rendition of I Dreamed A Dream, but there’s one young man who is going to give her a run for her money in this year’s Britain’s Got Talent competition — 12-year-old Shaheen Jafargholi. Here he wows the crowd with Michael Jackson’s Who’s Loving You.

She won hearts for her natural talent, and look — but now there are fears we’ll lose the real Susan. Plus, watch the video that made her famous worldwide.

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Jana Rawlinson’s secret marriage hell

The sporting star’s marriage has been torn apart by a string of vicious public arguments.

Olympic golden girl Jana Rawlinson’s shock marriage split has left many of her fans stunned — but insiders say that her seemingly perfect relationship with fellow hurdle champion Chris has long been plagued by trouble.

Despite telling friends recently that she was looking forward to giving their son Cornelis a brother or sister, Jana has reportedly moved back in with her parents, leaving Chris to care for their boy at their Canberra home.

Rumours that Chris is now looking for work back in his native UK could mean Jana faces life as a single parent.

Insiders reveal that cracks have been appearing in their union for up to a year. Speaking exclusively to Woman’s Day, a former neighbour of the couple says their relationship was far from perfect when they lived in a Sydney suburb during 2008.

“When they moved into the street there was a lot of excitement, after all, Jana Pittman — as we all called her — was a bit of a star,” says the neighbour, who wishes to remain anonymous.

“They were very friendly with everyone from the off. They’d get involved socially in the street, go to barbecues and parties, and Jana even started to do personal training with some of the women.

“They’d turned their double garage at the front of their house into a fully kitted out gym, so you’d often see them in there. Everyone liked them.”

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Brooke Hanson exclusive: My miracle baby

By Julie Hayne

Pictures: Trevor King

The expectant mum feared years of hard training had robbed her of the chance to have children.

You’d be forgiven for not recognising Olympic champion Brooke Hanson if you passed her in the street these days. The former elite swimmer’s once super-toned physique has been replaced by what Brooke calls a “real woman’s body” — and, most thrillingly, a baby bump.

“I’m totally excited,” says the bubbly 31-year-old as she welcomes Woman’s Day into the Melbourne home she shares with husband Jared Clarke. “All the medals, ribbons, trophies and certificates in the world couldn’t compare to the excitement we felt when we learnt that ‘Baby Clarke’ was finally on his or her way.”

Brooke’s joy is made even more precious by the fact that for so long she feared her life in the pool had destroyed her chances of being a mum. “Being one of the best swimmers in the world turned my body into a robot,” says Brooke. “I had irregular periods for 15 years and no cycle at all in the last three years of my career.

“When I retired from swimming [in late 2007], I was on a mission to transform my body from that of an elite athlete to one of a woman wanting a baby. Not competing gave me the chance to concentrate on gaining fat in spots a woman needs to, which in turn gave me a regular cycle.

“After six months, my doctor gave me the thumbs-up and told Jared and I to go have some fun,” she laughs.

The champ, who can count among her medals a silver and gold from the 2004 Athens Olympics, reveals it was in February during a visit to her grandparents in Coffs Harbour, NSW, that she learnt she was pregnant. “I had a feeling I might be pregnant, but when I did a test, it was negative.

“I did another test while I was in Coffs, because I was so fatigued, and this time it was positive.

“I was in the bedroom, and when I yelled out to Jared and told him we were having a baby, he came running in and hugged me harder than he ever has, and we both started crying.”

For the full story, see this week’s Woman’s Day — on sale April 27, 2009.

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Return to Marysville

As police close in on the arsonist believed responsible for the fatal Marysville fire, we take a look at the town now and its glimmers of hope for the future.

Click here to meet some of the locals who are rebuilding their lives.

As police close in on the arsonist believed responsible for the fatal Marysville fire, we take a look at the town now and its glimmers of hope for the future.

Click here to meet some of the locals who are rebuilding their lives.

As police close in on the arsonist believed responsible for the fatal Marysville fire, we take a look at the town now and its glimmers of hope for the future.

Click here to meet some of the locals who are rebuilding their lives.

As police close in on the arsonist believed responsible for the fatal Marysville fire, we take a look at the town now and its glimmers of hope for the future.

Click here to meet some of the locals who are rebuilding their lives.

As police close in on the arsonist believed responsible for the fatal Marysville fire, we take a look at the town now and its glimmers of hope for the future.

Click here to meet some of the locals who are rebuilding their lives.

As police close in on the arsonist believed responsible for the fatal Marysville fire, we take a look at the town now and its glimmers of hope for the future.

Click here to meet some of the locals who are rebuilding their lives.

As police close in on the arsonist believed responsible for the fatal Marysville fire, we take a look at the town now and its glimmers of hope for the future.

Click here to meet some of the locals who are rebuilding their lives.

As police close in on the arsonist believed responsible for the fatal Marysville fire, we take a look at the town now and its glimmers of hope for the future.

Click here to meet some of the locals who are rebuilding their lives.

As police close in on the arsonist believed responsible for the fatal Marysville fire, we take a look at the town now and its glimmers of hope for the future.

Click here to meet some of the locals who are rebuilding their lives.

As police close in on the arsonist believed responsible for the fatal Marysville fire, we take a look at the town now and its glimmers of hope for the future.

Click here to meet some of the locals who are rebuilding their lives.

As police close in on the arsonist believed responsible for the fatal Marysville fire, we take a look at the town now and its glimmers of hope for the future.

Click here to meet some of the locals who are rebuilding their lives.

As police close in on the arsonist believed responsible for the fatal Marysville fire, we take a look at the town now and its glimmers of hope for the future.

Click here to meet some of the locals who are rebuilding their lives.

As police close in on the arsonist believed responsible for the fatal Marysville fire, we take a look at the town now and its glimmers of hope for the future.

Click here to meet some of the locals who are rebuilding their lives.

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