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MasterChef’s Geni: I’m off to see my secret lover

As the newly ejected contestant prepares to fly off to her ‘special man’ in Cyprus, Lucy Chesterton reports there could be trouble brewing in her kitchen.

When Brisbane widow Geni Papacostas appeared on MasterChef cooking up endless dishes of delicious Greek food, she was hiding a very personal secret.

The 54-year-old has revealed she spent the “whole time” on the show pining for a secret lover – and worrying he wouldn’t wait for her.

The teaching assistant, who has lifted the lid on the “bitterness and rivalry” behind the scenes on the show, now feels torn between the man she has a relationship with in Queensland and the “special man” who lives in Cyprus.

“I want to go back to Cyprus, because there could be a special something waiting there for me, and I don’t mean olive oil,” she says.

Geni, who wowed judges on the show with her lamb giouvetsi and creamy custards, was eliminated from MasterChef last week after losing a “pressure test” with fellow contestants Poh Ling Yeow and Andre Ursini.

But all along, she was more worried about what was bubbling away in her personal life than the judges’ verdict.

“The man is still waiting for me,” she says. “I really don’t know what I’m doing. He already gave me two months, since April, while I was on the show, so I want to fly as soon as I can to Cyprus.”

She insists she is not a love cheat, but wants to give it a try with her secret man.

“I’m not a two-timer, believe me. I haven’t had a man in my life for a long time,” says Geni, who has three adult children.

“The person that is here, my kids would love me to be with. He is all mixed up and he doesn’t know what might happen in the future. And I am sort of looking at him, thinking, ‘I’ve gotta sort my life out!’ Even if it’s selfish, I would like to take off, leave him behind and give it a try in Cyprus.”

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Prince Harry love triangle – who will win his heart?

After a fling with sexy TV presenter Caroline Flack, Harry is now considering a reunion with old flame Chelsy Davy. Get ready for a right royal cat fight, says Lucie Morris.

Let the battle commence! There are now two contenders for Prince Harry’s royal affections – two feisty and headstrong women who aren’t used to taking no for an answer.

British TV host Caroline Flack and law student Chelsy Davy both love a party and a cocktail or two – potentially perfect soul mates for a fun-loving young army officer. But after enjoying some dates with Caroline in London, the 24-year-old Prince has reportedly told her he is pining for his old flame Chelsy – whom he split with in January after five years together.

Harry’s time with Caroline, who hosts the UK version of Gladiators, apparently caused the Prince to appreciate Chelsy more, and he is now said to be considering a reunion.

But Caroline won’t let him go easily, despite embarrassing newspaper reports about alleged high jinks with a string of famous men. Her spokesman confirmed this week she is determined to clear her name and is taking legal advice over the reports – perhaps in a bid to win Harry back.

Caroline is also said to be furious over reports that Harry has dumped her. The UK Sun newspaper claims she flew into a rage in a pub last week, ranting to friends that Chelsy is “not even that pretty”.

Leading royal expert Robert Jobson told Woman’s Day he wouldn’t rule out Harry getting back together with Chelsy.

“My understanding is that Caroline was a fling, if that. I am sure Harry misses Chelsy,” he says, “They enjoyed a long and meaningful relationship. She was his first love and they meant the world to each other.”

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My eight-year-old daughter beat lung cancer

Sydney schoolgirl Ruby King is one of just 60 children in the world to be struck with the deadly disease. Phillip Koch meets a special little girl who fought to beat the odds.

When little Ruby King danced in her primary school concert in November, it marked the end of a terrifying seven-month ordeal for her and her family.

For the best part of a year, eight-year-old Ruby’s symptoms had doctors bewildered. Finally, in October last year, she was found to have lung cancer – becoming one of only a handful of children in the world ever diagnosed with the disease.

“It was horrifying,” says her mum Rebecca, from Sydney’s Sutherland Shire. “Ruby started to get sick in March last year but because she was wheezing a lot we thought she had asthma. Then she had a cough that didn’t go away.”

Over the next seven months, Ruby’s mum and dad, Adrian, consulted doctor after doctor to try to discover what was wrong with their little girl, but the medics were puzzled.

“When we were down in Victoria on a family bike ride, Ruby got really sick and started to complain that her chest was hurting – and it just didn’t seem to get better,” says Rebecca.

The family came home, and soon after, Ruby, then seven, started losing a lot of weight and began coughing up blood.

Now Rebecca and Adrian knew their daughter was suffering from something far more serious than asthma.

Ruby was admitted to Sydney Children’s Hospital, Randwick, for what doctors thought was pneumonia.

A scan showed a blockage to her lungs, but even after exploratory surgery uncovered a large mass, doctors thought it was unlikely to be sinister. Lung cancer was almost unheard of in a child Ruby’s age.

But pathology tests proved the growth was a malignant tumour. The Year Three schoolgirl had a form of cancer which usually only affects adults…

Read the full story in this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale June 22, 2009.

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Melissa Seymour: My perfect life is over

Sydney Swans great Brad Seymour’s wife has been transformed from high-flying businesswoman to bed-ridden invalid. She tells Jacqui Lang of her battle.

Until late last year, dynamic Sydney businesswoman, author and mother-of-two Melissa Seymour led a fast and exciting life. The wife of former Sydney Swans star Brad Seymour was running her own busy PR agency and loved entertaining at their Sydney beachfront apartment.

“Mel’s always been a bubbly, go get ’em girl,” says Brad.

But now Melissa, 35, can barely get out of bed and uses morphine daily – “which turns me into a bit of a zombie” – to ease her chronic pain.

“I had a fantastic life until seven months ago, when I just woke up with sharp pain in one side of my face,” Melissa says.

“The pain has not gone away since – except when it’s masked with the use of really strong drugs. My life hasn’t been the same since, nor has Brad’s or our children’s.”

At first, Melissa suspected she had shingles and tried to carry on while taking painkillers.

“Then late last year I had to fly to LA for a weekend with a client. I was in so much pain, it was then I realised how much this condition was wrecking my life.”

After extensive tests, Melissa was diagnosed with trigeminal neuralgia, a facial nerve disorder affecting one in 15,000 people. The crippling pain means she finds it difficult to care for Saskia, 2, and Jonah, 6, or devote enough time to running her agency.

“Mel still looks fine, but there’s been a big decline in her usual happy disposition,” says Brad, who’s now the family’s chief cook and cleaner.

“Until this happened, I had no idea what chronic pain was; childbirth doesn’t come close,” says Melissa…

Read the full story in this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale June 22, 2009.

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Anti-Ageing Meal Plan

This anti-aging meal plan will take years off how you look and feel, and it will help you to lose weight. This seven-day plan is loaded with natural anti – inflammatory foods, vitamins and antioxidants that protect and boost your body’s cells at the surface of the skin right through to your internal organs.

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Skiing in the American Rockies

Being high above the snowline is an unforgettable experience anywhere, but the American Rocky Mountains can lay claim to some of the best snow destinations of all.
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With their majestic peaks, wilderness vistas and vast back bowls brimming with pristine powder snow, the Rockies have it all. In Colorado, there are 300 “blue sky” days a year and an annual snow dump of around nine metres, which generally falls at night, leaving the days sunny and fine.

Besides the spectacular scenery and weather, there are three other irresistible reasons skiers and snowboarders cross the Pacific for a skiing holiday in North America: value, vertical and variety.

Thanks to competition among US ski resorts, prices have taken a tumble and with a stronger Australian dollar and competitive air fares, it’s now possible to ski in Colorado for eight days/seven nights (airfares included) for less than $3500.

Then there’s the sheer joy of skiing down those immensely long, immaculately groomed runs — some of which are 5km in length. Plus, there is great variety. In Colorado alone, there are 25 alpine resorts in the heart of the Rocky Mountains.

Even if you don’t ski, there’s plenty to do: from snowshoe tours and snowmobile safaris to spa treatments, hot springs in the snow and retail therapy. And don’t forget about the bars, restaurants, nightclubs, sports centres, swimming pools and cinemas.

In North America, ski lifts start to run in November, but good snow usually comes in December. A white Christmas is something to think about, but book early and you’ll pay less. In January and early February, there are colder days and better-quality snow, whereas in late February and March, there’s sunnier weather with generally reliable snow cover. Some areas stay open until April for spring skiing with cheaper deals and sensational weather.

Aspen Snowmass

Colorado, USA

This frontier town is so well known for its glamour and being a celebrity haven that you can lose track of the natural wonders of its four mountains and for skiers and boarders these qualities run deep. Of course, the glamour is worth a word — especially around the town of Aspen, where you can spot Hollywood stars, admire the Victorian architecture and gaze at the peaks above.

Aspen mountain, which springs up at the end of the main street, has some of the more challenging terrain, with steep, fast-groomed runs. Buttermilk is a curious mix, with parks and pipes for snowboarders, but also some very good learning terrain for eager beginners. Aspen Highlands is a gem for skiers who want to stretch their legs and hike to the spectacular bowl above the highest lift and it also has some excellent groomed runs. Finally, Snowmass is simply vast, with a ski-in/ski-out village and some of the world’s best cruising terrain.

Places to stay: Couples and sharp skiers should stay in Aspen; families and learners are better off in Snowmass.

Skiing area: 2424ha

Longest run: 8.5km

Vertical drop: 1343m

Terrain mix: 25 percent beginner; 43 percent intermediate; 42 percent advanced/expert.

Visit: www.aspensnowmass.com

Jackson Hole

Wyoming, USA

At the top of Jackson Hole’s highest lift, the Aerial Tram, you are at the peak of the skiing world, high in the Teton mountain range, looking way down on the Snake River as it winds its way through the valley.

The river was named when the West was still a wild place. The valley might have been tamed now, but close by is the world-famous Yellowstone National Park and there’s still plenty of wild terrain on this mountain to please the adventurous.

Jackson Hole is most renowned for its steep and challenging terrain, with long runs on difficult faces or through tight couloirs or deep gullies filled with snow. It also has areas of excellent cruising terrain for developing skiers and snowboarders.

The best places to stay are at Teton Village, below the ski runs, but the Jackson Hole township, about 20 minutes away on a shuttle, is well worth a visit for its eating, shopping and Western-style bars and boardwalks.

Places to stay: If you stay in town, there is some excellent value to be had in winter.

Skiing area: 1100ha

Longest run: 11.5km

Vertical drop: 1260m

Terrain mix: 10 percent beginner; 40 percent intermediate; 50 percent advanced/expert.

Visit: www.jacksonhole.com

Steamboat

Colorado, USA

Steamboat has been called a cowboy town — but only in the sense of boots and stetsons — so don’t be surprised to see skiers on the slopes in full cowboy clobber. In January 2008, hundreds of them will take part in the 34th Cowboy Downhill Race, a colourful, slightly surreal sight.

Steamboat is famous for “champagne” powder snow. In fact, it claims to have coined the term to describe the way its light, dry, fresh snow floats around as you ski through it. It has also put its stamp on the term “champagne corduroy” to illustrate the standard of grooming on its main trails — not that Steamboat is unique in having good grooming, but it does have some of the best on its beautiful aspen-lined trails.

Billy Kidd, a US Olympic medallist, lives here and hosts a run down the mountain for all comers each day he’s in town and it’s worth tagging along. A natural entertainer, Billy offers excellent tips for skiers based on his racing background. After a hard day’s skiing, visit the hot springs in town and have a long soak — it’s bliss.

Places to stay: The mountain village has ski-in/ski-out accommodation and motels, hotels and self-catering places in Steamboat itself, a town with a western flavour and an entertaining main street to explore.

Skiing area: 1176ha

Longest run: 4.8km

Vertical drop: 1118m

Terrain mix: 13 percent beginner; 56 percent intermediate; 31 percent advanced/expert. Visit: www.steamboat.com

Travel essentials

Contact Travelplan (tel: 1300 130 754; www.travelplan.com.au) has ski holiday packages to the resorts above. For the best deals, book early.

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The benefits of plant-based eating

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A well planned plant based diet can provide all the essential nutrients required for a healthy, balanced diet while also boasting various health benefits.

Including more plant based foods has been found to be beneficial in managing weight and provides protection from common lifestyle diseases, including heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes and some forms of cancer.

Researchers believe that weight control is achieved because a plant based diet is high in fruits, vegetables, grains and legumes, all of which are naturally low in fat. Plant based foods also contribute more fibre, helping us to feel fuller after meals, reducing the need for snacking.

But what about meat?

Research has consistently shown that a well planned plant based diet can be better for overall health than one that includes meat. A typical vegetarian diet contains more fibre, phytochemicals, vitamin C and antioxidants while containing less salt and fat, especially saturated fat and cholesterol. If the thought of cutting meat out of your diet altogether seems too challenging, try cutting down on your intake as a start. Include more whole plant foods and think of meat more as a side dish than the focus of a meal. For more ideas on plant based meals call one of the Sanitarium Nutrition Service dietitians on 1800 673 392 or email us at [email protected].

How can I be on my way to achieving a well planned, balanced plant based diet?

Eating a variety of whole plant foods, as minimally processed as possible, will provide all the protein, iron and zinc your body needs. Follow our advice to help achieve a nutritionally sound plant based diet:

PROTEIN Include alternative plant-based proteins, such as legumes, nuts, seeds and soy. For example, use cashew nuts, canned chickpeas or tofu in your favourite stir-fry recipe, add some canned beans to soups and salads, pine nuts, pecans or lentils into a pasta dish or have a handful of nuts and seeds as a between-meals snack.

IRON Spinach, broccoli, almonds, wholegrain cereals and lentils are all plant-based sources of iron. To enhance the absorption of iron, try having a food containing vitamin C – such as an orange or a tomato – to accompany your meal.

ZINC is especially important to boost the immune system. To include enough zinc in your diet, try snacking on some pumpkin seeds and cashews for a hit. Other nuts, beans and legumes are also good plant sources.

VITAMIN B12 Choose foods – in particular soy milks that are fortified with vitamin B12. Milk, yoghurt and eggs are also sources of this vitamin.

OMEGA-3 ESSENTIAL FATTY ACIDS Good for heart health, walnuts, soybeans and canola oil all contain omega-3 fats. Try sprinkling some walnuts through salads, cooking with a small amount of canola oil and using soy milk on your cereal.

This information is brought to you by the Sanitarium Nutrition Service. If you would like more information email [email protected]

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My online girlfriend turned out to be a man

In February of 2008 I met a girl online. She was living in America, I was living in Australia. I was about to turn 18, she told me she was 19 turning 20.

We became fast friends and talked every day, nearly all day on Skype using microphones and I would get on my webcam but she said she would get one. Within the first few days she had me, she sent me a bunch of pictures of herself, she was beautiful and so was her voice.

After a couple of months it was clear that we wanted to meet up and have an intimate relationship. I asked her why she couldn’t get a webcam. After six months or so she just said she really wanted for me to wait and see her in person for the first time .

She always told me that I’d look so much better if I cut my long hair. For her 20th birthday I went out and cut my shoulder-length hair to a very short length, got home and showed her on the webcam, she was speechless and very happy. By now we were very, very close and were open about how much we loved each other, even though we had never met.

She told me I couldn’t come and visit her and she couldn’t come and see me because she needed to finish college first and would miss me too much if I came and left or she came to see me then had to go back. After some more months she admitted to me that her father beat her and that when she came to see me she’d never go back to America and that she’d be leaving her family for good. She would get very upset when I mentioned anything about us meeting up.

As the year went by she would always tell me about her gay friend, Chris, who was her best friend. She was also extremely needy and obviously had issues but I was there for her 24/7. She would get very upset if I wanted to go out and see friends, I didn’t go out much at all and was stuck inside the house, I even missed out on my friend’s going-away party. She would get mad at me over tiny little things like if I needed to eat and she didn’t, she’d get mad and say I didn’t like spending time with her anymore.

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Rove & Tasma marry: “Just as I wanted my wedding to be”

Rove McManus and Tasma Walton

With sand between the toes and romantic vows, Rove McManus married sweetheart Tasma Walton in a winter beach ceremony in remote Broome this week.

“Rove McManus and Tasma Walton are pleased to confirm that they were married on Tuesday June 16 in a private beach ceremony in Broome, Western Australia,” a statement from the couple read.

“They celebrated the day with a small group of close family and friends. It was Tasma who proposed to Rove, having first asked his mother for her blessing. There are no honeymoon plans and both Rove and Tasma will be returning to the east coast for work commitments.”

Confirming the happy news Tasma said it was just as she had wanted her wedding to be. “The day was everything we hoped for: simple, quiet and intimate, in a beautiful Broome landscape with a small group of family and close friends celebrating beside us,” the new Mrs Rove said.

The bride was all in white with Walton opting for a simple, yet elegant vintage 1970’s sundress while Rove was casual and ditched his shoes for the ceremony.

And for Rove, it was a blessing to have his nearest and dearest around him. “Tasma and I are very happy and look forward to that continuing for a long time to come. It was wonderful to get to share that happiness with both our families and friends around us.”

While the pair have been friends for more than a decade the newlyweds began dating in 2007. Their wedding follows Rove’s heartache at losing his first wife Belinda Emmett to cancer in November 2006.

The beachside ceremony in beautiful Broome shared a theme from their childhood with both growing up in beachside Geraldton, Western Australia.

A former Blue Heelers actress, Tasma became friends with Belinda when they were both working for Channel Seven, Belinda on the soap, Home And Away. Now a City Homicide star, the 35-year-old says she acted as a shoulder for Rove to cry on following her friend’s death. It was Tasma who introduced Rove to Emmett at the opening of Sydney’s Fox Studios in 1999.

As she prepared for her private wedding earlier this month, Tasma revealed the depth of the couple’s love in one her most revealing interviews yet. “He is just a beautiful soul and I feel very blessed, very lucky. I’ve had my fair share of disastrous love affairs. So I’m thanking God I’ve found the guy who’s actually the perfect specimen,” she told the Herald Sun magazine. “He’s faced some very big challenges and has come through them with strength and grace,” she said.

While the pair have remained intensely private throughout their relationship, Rove also recently revealed how he’d opened his heart up again. He said a recent trip to Africa made him realise the depth of his love. “There’s a great mix of happily going and getting dirty looking for animals in the wildest jungles. Not only that, it’s wonderful to have someone to share it (life) with again. It’s going great, all is well,” he said.

“We have a wonderful harmony together, and I think that has come through years of friendship,” Walton told The Daily Telegraph. “It’s actually really great because I can tend to be a little bit glass half empty and he is certainly glass half full. It’s a really nice balance and he helps me just to see the light in life really.”

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12-year-old girl falls pregnant to live-in boyfriend

The father of a pregnant 12-year-old girl who is set to become one of Australia’s youngest ever mothers says he warned authorities she was at risk.

News that the troubled young girl is six months pregnant to her 15 year old boyfriend has sparked outrage.

NSW Community Services Minister Linda Burney admitted her department had made “major mistakes” in not acting on the father’s concerns.

The father contacted DOCS when he learned his daughter, who lived with his estranged wife, started sharing a bed at the age of 11 when her boyfriend moved into their home.

“It’s a disturbing case. It is true in my view that DoCS should have intervened more strenuously than what they did,” she said.

Police said they were also unable to intervene because both children were under the age of consent. If the boy had been 18 or older, police would have immediately begun a criminal investigation.

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