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Fears for Michael Jackson’s children

They spent their lives hidden from the world by a father determined to keep them safe – now there are concerns for the uncertain future of Michael’s children, writes Lucie Morris.

He was adored around the world by millions of fans as the King of Pop, but to his three children – Michael Joseph Jackson Junior, 12, Paris Michael Katherine Jackson, 11, and Prince “Blanket” Michael Jackson II, 7 – he was just Daddy.

Hidden away, and often pictured with their heads covered by veils, the children were protected by the singer because of his fears of kidnap.

Michael Jackson was the children’s whole life. They lived a largely nomadic existence and, bereft of friends, relied on just each other and their father for company. But their young lives were shattered last Thursday afternoon. The three kids were reportedly all at their Holmby Hills home when their dad had a heart attack and staff were forced to call an ambulance at 12.21pm, LA time. They were then left with a nanny while Michael was rushed to hospital.

Later, it was the grim duty of family members to return to the house and gently break the news that their father had died.

Now it is feared the children will find themselves at the centre of a bitter custody battle between Michael’s ex-wife Debbie Rowe, mother of the eldest two, and the parents and siblings of the singer, who may be keen to bring them up as their own.

There is also concern the anonymous surrogate mother of “Blanket” may step forward to claim custody in a legal battle which could last years.

Until last year, when the children’s faces were finally pictured in Las Vegas, few outside the family and their staff had seen their impish smiles and fair skin. The star went to great lengths to protect their privacy. Now, no matter who wins any eventual custody fight, their upbringing could change dramatically.

Brian Oxman, the Jackson family’s long-time lawyer, suggested that the children would temporarily be placed in Michael’s mother’s care, saying, “Probably Mrs Jackson will take care of them, she loves them.”

The children may also be offered homes by their many godparents including British child star Mark Lester, who has said he will live up to his duties.

Mark and Michael’s families recently spent time together when the pop superstar was in London planning what were to be his comeback shows at The 02 arena in London.

Lester said he would “do anything” to help the three children, saying, “They’re the most fabulous kids. I’m here for them 24/7. Whatever they need, they’ve got from me.”

Legal experts predict Michael’s kids may well be the sole heirs to their father’s estate, however, his fortune has dwindled in recent years, and there were reports the singer was in $500 million debt. His 50-concert This Is It tour was believed by many to be a plan to save his finances.

“There might not actually be that much to inherit, at the end of the day,” says the source. “The most valuable asset Jackson probably has are his children.”

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I tried to break up my two best-friends!

Sarah and I have been best friends for as long as I can remember. Tall, lean and tanned it is not difficult to see why Sarah has never been short of male attention. She was constantly bombarded with offers of dates which she regularly accepted only to get bored of her prospective partner a few days later.

A self confessed “man-eater” I doubted Sarah’s chances of ever taking a guy seriously and her flippant nature never bothered me – until she met Tom.

I knew Tom through work and we became the best of mates. Our connection has never been romantic; it is more of a brother/sister relationship. Shortly after I met Tom his girlfriend broke up with him, leaving him devastated.

To take his mind of things, I invited Tom out where I introduced him to Sarah. They got on well and I was hardly surprised when Tom asked me for Sarah’s number. I hesitated, gently warning him that I didn’t think that Sarah was looking for anything serious. I just didn’t want to see Tom get his hopes up.

Sarah and Tom went out a few times and soon they became a fully fledged couple. It was evident that after a week of being together Tom was besotted. Tom was dangerous ground considering he was still hurting from the disappointment of his last relationship. I felt that I needed to protect him from the inevitable heartbreak that commitment-phobe Sarah was going to induce.

I met Sarah for a coffee and Tom, naturally, came up. “He is a really nice guy, but I’m just not sure he is for me,” she sighed twirling her hair. I had heard this line a million times before and it rang out like warning bells. This was the point where Sarah was bored and would give the perfectly suitable guy the flick. I have to admit I was relived.

Three months later they were still together! I was convinced that every day Sarah continued their relationship it meant more heartache for Tom.

Everything came to a head when I got a call from Sarah: “How dare you warn Tom about me!” she spat down the line, referring to what I said when Tom requested her number. “I didn’t mean it like that! I was trying to protect you both!” I protested. “It’s nice to know what you really think of me!” she snarled and slammed down the phone.

Sarah went away to Queensland for a few weeks for work. I assumed that Tom would be collecting her mail everyday she was away. I bought a cheesy postcard with a picture of a sunset on it and flipped it over. I scrawled “A little reminder of the fun we have started… Kisses, Joe” on the back. Then, I posted it to Sarah’s home. I knew the moment Tom saw the postcard he would run a mile!

I waited a week and heard nothing from either of them. The suspense was killing me so I picked up the phone and rang Sarah.

I was amazed when she apologized to me for our fight! I was equally surprised that no mention was made of my postcard. We continued to chat about her Queensland visit when she erupted in to a fit of laughter.

“You wouldn’t believe what happened!” she gasped. She told me how the year before she had met a guy through work who promised to send her some information. “It took him a whole year to contact me and then he did it with the tackiest postcard!” she giggled “Sleaze!”. Apparently Tom saw they funny side of “Joe’s” desperation and even stuck it on the fridge!

Just recently, after spending four years together, Tom and Sarah got married. As they raised a toast at the reception thanking me for bringing them together, tears sprung to my eyes realizing how close I was to ruining something that was so clearly meant to be.

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I seduced my daughter’s boyfriend

Image source: Getty - posed by models

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My daughter Anna had boyfriends regularly and they were all quite the same. They were young, awkward teenage boys who were overjoyed they had a girlfriend.

I met Anna’s 19-year-old boyfriend, Lukas, for the first time at a small party she had for her 17th birthday. Lukas was absolutely gorgeous: tall, tanned, green eyes, broad shoulders and ruffled blonde hair. He came up and introduced himself to me and gave me a firm handshake, which I find is so important when I meet new people.

He gave me a charming, white-toothed smile and said how pleased he was to meet me. I had never intended to look amazing for the evening, but I dressed up for her birthday. But after meeting Lukas I rushed back to my room to fix my hair and make-up.

Anna was my only child and over the years I have taken care of my appearance. I was only young and I was used to attracting men. I knew I shouldn’t have with Lukas but there was something I couldn’t resist.

I ignored my feelings for him that night, while still looking at him when I coincidentally had to put more food or drinks out. While getting food from the kitchen I overheard the boys on the porch talking about how much of a MILF I was. I didn’t know what a MILF was until I asked Anna the next day.

Most of the guests stayed the night. As I went to bed I walked out to see Lukas returning from the bathroom shirtless. I tried to ignore it as best as I could but Lukas noticed my interest straight away and gave me a flirty, arrogant smile. I composed myself and returned the look, his surprise gave me the knowledge I could have him straight away. I controlled my urge that night; I knew it was Anna’s birthday.

Every time Anna wanted to invite him over I said she couldn’t. I didn’t want to confront him or the feelings I had. Anna got upset so often when she couldn’t have him over, as it had never been an issue before, and she thought I hated him.

One night I finally agreed to let Lukas stay over. I nervously got ready. My hands shook when I put my mascara on and I put on my nicest underwear and sprayed on the perfume I only used on special occasions, Chanel Chance.

Lukas was arriving from his water polo practice and Anna had singing lessons the same afternoon, so I assumed they would arrive the same time.

Unfortunately at 6pm Anna called and said there had been a car accident and traffic had been built up. She was trying to get the back way home but couldn’t get through.

Lukas arrived on time. I thought it would be awkward, conversing with my daughter’s boyfriend, but I found him so witty and charming. He spoke so confidently and smoothly; I couldn’t tell if he was flirting with me or not.

I got a wine out of the fridge as I did every night and later found myself flirting with him. I bit the edge of my wine glass and laughed when he spoke, leaning over casually so he could catch a glimpse of my cleavage. I noticed his eyes glanced casually over my body, there was no effort to hide it and he caught my eyes, in that moment I knew I had to do something.

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He doesn’t know I was nearly a 40 year-old virgin

I had been in three serious relationships with men who were fantastic. But as for meeting all the criteria and my sexual life – none of them went all the way.

I met my current boyfriend through the most random of introductions, and, as often with life’s funny ways, he turned out to be that guy who swept me off my feet. And he later proved that he was very much in love. He adored me.

I knew I was finally ready to make a change to my sex life. By no means was I a forty year-old virgin, but I wasn’t a spring chicken either. I was at once both scared and excited.

My dilemma was that since the first day my boyfriend and I had talked about past relationships, I had admitted to sleeping with my exes. I am intrinsically a very passionate and affectionate person, and during this conversation came across as very experienced with sexual dalliances. I was intimidated by his age and experience – quite the attractive man with quite the list of ladies to his name. I felt the need to meet him in expectations. Yet I told him I wanted the two of us to wait, until it was the ‘right time’. I felt really rotten, but compelled to tell this story. He had no idea what ‘the right time’ was, but was incredibly sensitive to my feelings and acted like a true gentleman. We were passionate in all other aspects and he even admitted to me he couldn’t wait for the moment.

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We didn’t kiss until our wedding day

Gold Coast newlyweds Ari Dannenberger and Rachel Nancarrow tell Jo Knowlsey about the chastity promise that meant they didn’t even kiss until they married.

As they read their vows aloud, there was one thing both Rachel Nancarrow and Ari Dannenberger were anticipating more eagerly than anything else: the moment they were named husband and wife and could share their very first kiss.

“It was like a fairytale,” Rachel, 22, from the Gold Coast, said after the wedding.

“Once Ari lifted my veil and our lips locked, everything else disappeared. I was so glad we had waited because it made that kiss very, very special.”

Ari, 30, agrees: “I know some people might be critical and think it was a silly arrangement. But I’m glad we made the commitment we did. It added to the purity of our marriage. It meant our relationship has been built on more than just physical attraction.”

The couple, both committed Christians, first met just over three years ago at the Surfcity Christian Church in Surfers Paradise. And at first glance, they would not have appeared an obvious match. Rachel, then 18, came from a devout church-going family, while Ari had just abandoned a life he says was dominated by his recreational drug and sex addictions.

But when they worked together as social workers at Transformation Ministries, a Surfers Paradise drug and alcohol rehabilitation centre, they began developing a very close friendship.

And two years ago, during “a serious talk” when they were both at Bible College, they realised they held the same values and decided they would commit to a future together…

For the full story see this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale June 29, 2009

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Aussie surrogate mum: Sarah Jessica did the right thing

As debate rages over Sarah Jessica Parker’s decision to pay a woman to carry her babies, an Australian mum tells Jackie Brygel her own surrogacy story.

Melbourne mum Fiona Rushford knows all too well what Sarah Jessica Parker has gone through to expand her family.

Eight-and-a-half years ago, Fiona’s sister Laura Clark gave birth to Fiona’s much-longed-for only child, Phillippa.

Sarah Jessica, 44, and her actor husband Matthew Broderick have controversially become the parents of twin daughters, Marion Loretta Elwell and Tabitha Hodge via a surrogate mum. But Fiona urges people not to cast judgment over their paid-for babies.

“I have heard some criticism about the lady who carried the twins for her and I think people should look beyond that and just think what a wonderful gift this lady has given to Sarah and her husband,” Fiona says. “They have had one child [six-year-old son James Wilkie] naturally, but you don’t know what people’s circumstances are.”

After several miscarriages, 10 years of IVF treatment and an ectopic pregnancy, Fiona had almost lost hope of becoming a mother when Laura, who has two children of her own – Lochlan, now 11, and Serena, 13 – presented her with a life-changing offer.

Aware that her sister’s dream may never be realised, Laura announced that she wanted to act as Fiona’s unpaid surrogate. For Fiona, it was the light at the end of a long, dark tunnel.

“Laura and her husband Dominic said, ‘If you’ve got embryos, maybe if you put one in a good oven – which was Laura’s way of saying it – it might happen’, ” Fiona smiles. “Dom was very supportive and still is.”

“I just felt that it was the right thing to do,” says Laura matter-of-factly.

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Stephanie Rice’s hot new love

Australia’s golden girl of the pool has fallen hard for hunky fellow Olympic swimmer Ashley Delaney, reports Sarah Blake.

Sweating it out through long days of high-altitude training at a camp known as “torture” among competitive swimmers doesn’t sound like the most auspicious way for a love affair to start. But for three weeks last month, that’s exactly what happened for Stephanie Rice and Ashley Delaney.

The new couple’s team-mates say the chemistry was palpable during the weeks of intensive training in Phoenix in the Arizona desert.

“Ash is great – not merely a sensational looking bloke but someone with real substance,” says a member of the Australian swim team.

“He’s not a party animal. He’s modest, down-to-earth and dependable, and always easy to be around.

“You can see Steph’s so relaxed when she’s with him, in and out of the water.”

A talented backstroker based with the Australian Institute of Sport in Canberra, 23-year-old Ashley is a long-time friend of Stephanie, and described by teammates as one of the nicest guys in Australian swimming.

“It may initially have been a surprise to a few people when they got together, but he has singlehandedly brought her sparkle back,” the swimmer says.

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Sonia Kruger loved up in Italy

The recently separated star and her TV boss lover enjoy the romantic Italian Riviera, reports Angela Mollard.

Strolling with her new love while enjoying a relaxing Italian holiday, Sonia Kruger had clearly put the pain of her recent marriage split behind her.

The Dancing With The Stars host and her new boyfriend, Craig McPherson, enjoyed a five-day break in the picturesque coastal village of Positano.

Sonia and Today Tonight National Executive Producer Craig, a divorced father of six, have tried to keep their relationship quiet, but after months of secrecy they fled to Europe to revel in each other’s company.

The couple enjoyed leisurely lunches and romantic strolls around the historic hilltop village with its stunning vistas of the Mediterranean. They stayed in the bougainvillea-covered Eden Roc hotel, where their $600-a-night room overlooked the sea below.

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Rebekah’s gorgeous garden wedding

The small screen star’s wedding was an intimate affair. Sarah Blake was there to help celebrate.

Home And Away favourite Rebekah Elmaloglou’s wedding to Kane Baker was an intimate, idyllic return to the Byron Bay hills where they first fell in love.

From a dreamy bush waltz to a belting blues set from the groom, music wound its way through every moment of Rebekah and Kane’s afternoon celebration. And in a fitting nod to their union, each perfect note hummed with a deeply personal resonance.

This meant the impromptu twilight waltz was accompanied by Rebekah’s beaming father Gregory, a cellist with the Sydney Symphony Orchestra for 45 years, while Kane’s late night jam session saw his dad David grab the mike and draw the party to the dance floor.

“It was the perfect mix – we had a bit of classical, we had a jazz band and then there was some blues and rock ‘n’ roll. We wanted it to have a little bit of everything that makes us who we are,” Rebekah explains.

The signs that theirs would be a wedding to remember were there from the first rays of dawn. Gone for just one day was the rain that would return the next morning, the natural setting of a friend’s luxury retreat shining under brilliant blue skies.

“It was everything we had hoped for, exactly what we had pictured,” says Rebekah.

“And the best thing was that it wasn’t contrived at all. Instead, it all just flowed beautifully and we didn’t have to worry about anything.”

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Kevin Rudd on *Rove Live*: What did you think?

Prime Minister Kevin Rudd appeared on TV talk show Rove Live last night — in the same show as comedian Sacha Baron Cohen‘s latest madcap character, Bruno, no less.

“I said, ‘Are we on together? Like, you know, in the studio at the same time?”‘ Rudd said, recounting his reaction to appearing on the show with Cohen’s ultra-camp alter-ego.

“Basically, I’m in a state of induced panic,” he said. “Each one of you would be, too.”

Host Rove McManus also quizzed the Prime Minister on his strained use of the colloquialsm, “fair shake of the sauce bottle”.

“How many times a day do you actually shake the sauce bottle?” Rove asked.

Rudd paused, took a sip of water, and then replied: “Not often enough”.

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