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Gerrard Gosens: I’m dancing for my daughter

The blind adventurer has never let his disability defeat his ambitions — now he’s a role model for daughter Taylor, who inherited his condition, writes Jo Knowsley.

Gerrard Gosens has the whole nation watching when he appears each week on Dancing With The Stars — but his 11-year-old daughter Taylor doesn’t need to see his performance to be inspired.

Like lots of little girls, Taylor adores her father, but this pair have an additional bond. Taylor was born with Gerrard’s congenital eyesight condition, and has just four per cent vision.

Gerrard, 39, has refused to let his blindness defeat him.

He has co-piloted aircraft, competed in three Paralympic Games and remains determined to conquer Mount Everest after a failed attempt in 2005.

But the day Taylor was born in October 1997, he strongly felt there was something wrong with her eyesight. When his fear was confirmed, he almost collapsed with shock.

“We didn’t really know, and nor did the doctors, how much my blindness might be hereditary,” Gerrard says. “Our son Jordan, now 14, was born with no eyesight problems. And when Taylor arrived, doctors thought she was also fine.

“But when I reached down towards her she grabbed one of my fingers and pulled it to her face. I had a really sick, sinking feeling, because, even thoughI couldn’t see them, I knew immediately there was something wrong with her eyes. When doctors later confirmed it, I had to clutch the bedside railings, because I thought I was going to pass out.”

Gerrard and his wife Heather, 43, who heads a special education unit for disabled kids in Brisbane, always wanted a large family. But after Taylor, they were so scared of producing another blind child they decided to have no more children.

Taylor has inherited Gerrard’s disability, but also his dogged determination. Her dad admits they share a special bond.

“Yes, I suppose it’s because I know the challenges Taylor will face as she goes through life in a sighted world,” Gerrard says.

“By doing Dancing, I want to show her, and all young people, that they can overcome obstacles — whatever they are — to achieve their dreams.”

For the full story see this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale July 27, 2009.

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Rugby League’s most famous groupie: I’ve been tamed

She’s been painted as the most notorious woman on the rugby league scene, but Jo Knowsley discovers a very different — and very engaged — Charmyne Palavi .

Brisbane mother-of-three and tanning salon operator Charmyne Palavi, 38, is set to put her NRL notoriety behind her after becoming engaged to 22-year-old Michael Browne — a winsome rugby union player 16 years her junior.

To Michael, Charmyne is the epitome of beauty — he adores her. And he insists he’ll still think that way when she’s 50 and he’s 34.

“This is the first time I’ve really been in love, and I know it’s the real thing,” he says. “I don’t see what the fuss is about. I’ve had no negative feedback. My mates think it’s great. I’ve pulled one of the most well known women in Australia.”

The couple met in March this year at Brisbane’s Normanby Hotel, where Michael saw her across the room and asked a mate, “Who’s that girl?”

“She was wearing a little black dress and I thought she was hot as hell,” he tells The Lowdown.

“When I got home to my aunty’s I showed some photos on my phone and said, ‘That’s the girl I think I’m going to marry.’ Then I started texting her and we met up at her place later in the week.”

Former West Subiaco player Michael, who is just eight years older than Charmyne’s eldest daughter Jessica, admits he has had “only a couple of girlfriends”. But he said he’s not bothered about Charmyne’s past — and the fact she has become somewhat notorious after appearing on an episode of the ABC’s Four Corners, in which she frankly discussed her experiences on the football dating scene.

“I told him pretty much everything,” says Charmyne, who admits to enhancing her breasts by two cup sizes to a voluptuous D. “But the real truth, not like it appears in the papers.

For the full story see this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale July 27, 2009.

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Mitchell Johnson: I forgive you mum

The cricket hunk tells Lucie Morris why he is sending a public message of forgiveness to his mother for her attacks on his new fiancée Jessica Bratich.

It’s the sort of upsetting family incident which could cause long-lasting damage — but cricket star Mitchell Johnson is clearly in a forgiving mood.

The 27-year-old fast bowler, who is in England for the Ashes series, has used an exclusive interview with Woman’s Day to issue a personal message to his mother, whose cruel public outburst against his new fiancée Jessica Bratich earlier this month made national headlines. In a shocking rant delivered on Nine’s A Current Affair, Vikki Harber accused karate champion Jessica of effectively stealing her son, saying Jessica was more interested in money than her son’s career. “I believe she self- promotes herself,” Vikki said.

But despite the obvious humiliation and devastation the remarks have caused the couple, Mitchell says he wants to offer an olive branch to his mum.

Speaking from the Royal Garden Hotel, the Australian cricket team base in London’s Kensington, Mitchell took the chance to issue a public message to his mother back home in Coolangatta on the Gold Coast.

“The message I want to say is, hopefully things can work out and be resolved,” Mitchell says.

He also expressed his hope that his mum will be among the 100 close friends and family who will witness the couple’s planned beachside ceremony near Broome in May next year — even though he’s had no contact with her since January.

“Obviously you want both your parents at your wedding — it’s a pretty big deal — so hopefully, when that time comes, everything is fine.

“She’s my mum, so she’s done things for me, and you want family to be there at your wedding. You want everyone to be together.”

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Julie’s back-to-school lunch tips

She’s the most famous cook in Australia after taking out the MasterChef title, but at home she’s a mum who packs the lunches. Julie Goodwin shares how she keeps her boys happy.

My boys already eat so much that when they’re older I don’t know what I am going to do to feed them all — I think I’m going to have to buy a cow!

Soon I’ll have to give them lunch backpacks, not lunch boxes. The teachers at their school have already asked me to come and help out in the tuckshop, which was funny considering my youngest [Paddy, 10] came home one day after the MasterChef thing had started and said, “My teacher was really excited to see what I had in my lunch box”, and all he had was a Nutella sandwich.

I told him just because I’m on MasterChef doesn’t mean I’m going to start cooking gourmet lunches — it’s just not going to happen.

Lunch isn’t exactly where I have my creative flair, but I do have a few little secrets. When we have leftovers we do exciting things with them, so the boys have an interesting lunch that day.

And at home when we know things are going to be busy during the week, we often make sandwiches at the beginning of the week and put them in the freezer. That way the kids [Joe, 13, Tom, 12 and Paddy] can just help themselves. But there are definitely no special stashes of Mars Bars. I’d be drawn and quartered if I sent them off to school with that.

I’ve always been experimental with cooking, and now after MasterChef, I have more technique to back that up. I’ll hopefully be passing that on to the family, but I also love cooking the old favourites as well.

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Stephanie Rice’s big distraction

Stephanie Rice’s chest infection isn’t the only thing disrupting her training for this week’s world titles. She is also stricken with love, writes Sarah Blake.

Looking more like honeymooners than elite swimmers about to compete on the world stage, Stephanie Rice and Ashley Delaney had eyes only for each other as they strolled the streets of Manchester, England.

With arms wrapped tightly around each other, the sporty pair’s super-charged intimacy left onlookers in no doubt about their romance, even within the strict confines of the Australian swim team’s UK training camp.

“It’s long-distance relationship syndrome,” says a team mate. “Back in Australia, where Steph lives in Brisbane and Ash in Canberra, there aren’t a lot of opportunities to spend quality time together. But going overseas on the same swim team … they’ve had a lot of quiet time to just hang out together and be a couple.”

Woman’s Day revealed the new relationship last month, and there is no doubt the romance has gathered steam since then. While they were both slogging it out in Manchester, it wasn’t all hard work. The couple were spotted window shopping, and having coffee at a cafe near their hotel.

“When Ashley and Steph are with the rest of the team, they tend to stand apart from each other. But when they’re alone they’re like any other couple, walking with their arms around each other,” an onlooker said.

With Ashley, 23, on hand to nurse Stephanie, 21, through a persistent respiratory infection, their love affair has provided a welcome distraction from intense pressure in the lead-up to the World Championships.

However, the team member said there were concerns the golden girl would not be able to put her infatuation with the rising backstroke star to one side as she competes at this week’s FINA World Swimming Championships in Rome.

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Catriona’s big baby surprise

Moments after her final visit to the obstetrician, Catriona Rowntree shared her joy with Woman’s Day editorial director Alana House.

Days before the birth of her first child, Catriona Rowntree relaxed over lunch with a girlfriend at Café Di Stasio in the Melbourne bayside suburb of St Kilda, then drove to the obstetrician for her weekly check-up.

Her doctor had exciting news — the baby’s head had engaged, so she could give birth at any time. He even speculated that the baby will be more than 4kg.

“I’m having a fat, happy baby,” Catriona laughs. “The ultrasound technician said, ‘Oh my gosh, that’s one well-nourished baby.'”

It’s been a hassle-free pregnancy, which the Getaway host puts down to healthy eating and exercise.

“I’ve done sensible things like choosing fruit over chocolate,” Catriona says. “I haven’t had one sick day. I’ve had moments when I’ve been tired, but it’s mainly because I’ve felt like I had to get everything done immediately.

“People tell me I should sit down and relax, but that’s not really me. I haven’t been able to switch off from work either. I’m constantly on the phone asking if they need me to do anything.”

As Woman’s Day caught up with Catriona, she was heading home for dinner with her family. Her husband James Pettit was cooking a labour-inducing curry, and her mother Heather and beloved 96-year-old grandmother Riria Smeaton were due to arrive at any moment to await the birth. They brought with them a family heirloom bassinet that until recently had been holding her brother’s three-month-old baby.

Catriona says it’s incredibly important to have these women by her side for the birth.

“My nan’s dearest wish was to see me walk down the aisle, and my dearest wish is for her to hold my baby,” she says.

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Amazing knickers

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A department store in London is expecting to be inundated with orders for miracle “fat-busting” undies, which it’s selling for £30 ($60).

In May this year, John Lewis’ online store sold out of the knickers within an hour and the company’s London department store sold out in one day. New stock went on sale July 22, and is expected to sell quickly as well, the UK’s Daily Mail reported.

The Scala Bio-Fir Anti-Cellulite pants promise to rid wearers of the “orange-peel effect”. The John Lewis company ordered 40,000 pairs and says the knickers have flown off the shelves faster than any other lingerie range this decade.

Fans of the garment reportedly include actress Sienna Miller, who is widely reported to have said in a 2007 interview, “My so-called fabulous shape is due to airbrushing. I have small boobs and cellulite.”

The pants, containing crystals, work by warming up when they come in contact with the skin. The warmth reportedly increases circulation in the hips, thighs and bottom, encouraging fat cells to “melt” into a liquid which is excreted from the body by the liver.

More than 4000 people signed up to receive an e-mail alerting them when the pants were to go on sale again.

Research found that four out of five women who wore the undies every day for a month lost centimetres off their stomach, thighs and hips. The results reportedly last 12 months, pending the wearer eats healthily and exercises regularly, the Daily Mail reported.

After the knickers went on sale in May for £25 ($50), they were soon changing hands on eBay for up to £60 ($121). The new stock is available from John Lewis’ online store for £25 to £30 ($50 to $60).

You can now buy yourself a pair from www.bioshapewear.com.au.

Your say: How much would you pay for a cure for cellulite? Do you have any cellulite reducing tips? Tell us below…

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How to find a job in a recession

You may have lost your job or worry that you one day will. There's ways to bounce back from such an unfortunate event.
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I HAVE a secret method that I used a few years ago when I was first looking for a job. Given the current state of the job market, there’s never been a better time to start testing my secret method.

**Step 1: Know thyself

** Read the book I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What It Was by Barbara Sher, in which you may discover that there are unconscious self-sabotaging reasons why you’re confused about the type of job you really want to do. If you already know what you want to do and understand why you want to do this job, you can skip this step.

Step 2: Establish there is a job

Having decided what job you want to do and your reasons for doing it, look at employment advertisements and see what is available in the area you’re interested in. If there aren’t any available, consider what skills you have and think about areas where there are jobs available that need your skills. If there aren’t any, it’s time to re-train.

Step 3: Take the initiative

So now you know what type of job you want and that there are openings available in the market, you need to understand something – at least half of all jobs are not advertised. They are often filled internally or by someone the employer knows.

So how do you find these jobs? Use my secret method. First, write a Top 20 list of the places you would love to work. Then you call these companies and ask to speak to their recruitment department. They will either have a human resources person internally or direct you to an external company.

If it is an internal person, they will probably be very impressed that you took the initiative to call them and find out what jobs they have open. And remember, if they pick you, it will save them paying to advertise the job. So, it is in their interests to talk to you.

If your potential employer directs you to an external recruitment company, ask which company it is, what they are looking for in the successful applicant for the job you want and, most importantly, if it’s okay if you mention to the recruitment company that you spoke to your potential employer directly. You then call the recruitment company and tell them that you spoke to the potential employer, and that they told you to call the recruitment company. The recruitment company will take you seriously if they know you have been referred by the employer. Plus you already know what they are looking for in a successful applicant, so you’ll be ahead of everyone else from the start.

This secret method has worked successfully for me. Given that there are now fewer jobs to choose from, it makes sense to try and access the 50 per cent of jobs that are not advertised.

Good luck and happy job hunting!

Virginia Graham is a mortgage broker for Model Mortgages.

Your say: Have you ever lost your job or had to find a new one due to the recession? Email us on [email protected]

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Jennifer Hawkins Swimsuits

Jennifer Hawkins models the latest stunning collection from her own swimwear brand, Cozi by Jennifer Hawkins, in tropical Fiji.

Items from the Jennifer Hawkins Cozi collection will be available at Myer between July and December 2009. —————————————————————— Jennifer Hawkins: A week in my world In pictures: Jennifer Hawkins’ hot hairstyles True Confession: I pay my lover a wage

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*Don’t Tell Eve* by Airlie Lawson

Download your exclusive first chapter from Don’t Tell Eve by Airlie Lawson here.

About the author:

The desite to write can strike at any age. In the case of Airlie Lawson, who spent the first decade of her life on a farm in South Australia, where she had a horse called Punch, the urge expressed itself at around the age of six, when she wrote her first book, stapling together the pages and proudly presenting it to her mother.

About the book:

Eve is brash, loud, ruthless and dresses like a ballroom dancer. She’s also the new American CEO of an Australian publishing company that’s been taken over. Her first move in this entertaining novel is to sack some very decent people and treat them appallingly. However, someone, somewhere, is plotting their sweet revenge.

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Don’t Tell Eve by Airlie Lawson, Random House, $32.95. Your Say: Have you read this book? Share your thoughts below…

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