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Which hair brush should I use?

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Question:

There are so many hair brushes on the market and I’m a little confused about what brush I should use to style my hair. My hair is curly and very frizzy.

Julie, via email

Answer:

As a general rule, you should use natural bristle brushes. Beyond this your hair will determine the type of brush you should use. For more bounce and a tighter wave, select a smaller round brush. For a sleek, straight finish, opt for a thick, large round brush.

For very curly hair a paddle brush is best. While hair is damp, pull the brush from the roots, with the dryer directed at the roots to pull out the frizz. Once hair is dry, section it off and smooth it around a large, round brush for a frizz-free finish.

The AWW beauty team

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Gardening for beginners

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You have just mortgaged your life and bought a house — with garden. Or you are paying rent on a house, and a garden comes with it … Or you have had a garden for years but “garden” is a bit of an exaggeration, as it’s mostly weeds, lawn that has to be mowed and a few hardy shrubs left by a previous tenant. You have no idea what they are … but you do know they’re ugly.

Where do you start?

Do not panic:

Once you have the right plants gardens mostly grow themselves. After all, the bush grows without us interfering. You don’t even have to spend lots of money — the best and most hardy gardens are usually grown from cuttings and spare bulbs dug from someone else’s garden, ie, free.

Take a long walk around the neighbourhood and look at gardens:

Decide which ones you love and which ones you hate… then forget about the ones you love that have two eager gardeners in large hats weeding the flowerbeds. Their gardens get a lot more work that you probably want to give yours.

Come home, have a cup of tea, and work out what you’d like your garden to look like:

Flowering shrubs and a million birds and mulch? Neat shrubs and paving, with architecturally interesting shrubs like you’d find in a garden designer’s handbook? A wilderness of fruit trees with a vegie garden? A heck of a lot of roses? A bit of everything?

Plan your garden:

Take a pen and paper and make a drawing of your garden. Work out where — if anywhere — you’d like the paving, big shrubs, tall trees, some colour to see when you drive up and something gorgeous outside the kitchen and living room windows.

Go to a few open gardens in your neighbourhood and take a note of what looks good and flourishes in your area:

Most garden problems come from trying to grow the wrong plants — the sort of “one plant suits all gardens” that you’ll find in some garden centres.When in doubt, don’t just buy what looks good in the garden centre — ask. Garden centres may have many plants that will only survive in your area with lots of cosseting, but they’ll also have lots of expertise. Before you start mooching down the aisles and fall in love with a blooming great shrub, show one of the garden centre people the plan of your garden, and ask what they’d advise.The conversation could go a bit like this:

“Hi, I’m new to gardening. I’m looking for a shrub that grows about two metres high, that will have pink/white/blue flowers and doesn’t need pruning or lots of water.”Or you might say: “I really want a flowerbed with lots of colour. What do you advise? I’d like flowers that I just have to plant once and then mostly forget about. Oh, and what sort of mulch and slow release fertiliser do you recommend, too?”

When in doubt, don’t just buy what looks good in the garden centre — ask. Garden centres may have many plants that will only survive in your area with lots of cosseting, but they’ll also have lots of expertise. Before you start mooching down the aisles and fall in love with a blooming great shrub, show one of the garden centre people the plan of your garden, and ask what they’d advise.

The conversation could go a bit like this:

“Hi, I’m new to gardening. I’m looking for a shrub that grows about two metres high, that will have pink/white/blue flowers and doesn’t need pruning or lots of water.”

Or you might say: “I really want a flowerbed with lots of colour. What do you advise? I’d like flowers that I just have to plant once and then mostly forget about. Oh, and what sort of mulch and slow release fertiliser do you recommend, too?”

If you are renting you need to make a decision: Will you stay there long enough to make it worthwhile planting out the garden? This may well be “yes” in hot climates, where gardens grow fast and you’ll have a stunning garden in a year or two. You may also love the idea of planting a garden for other people too. (I hope the people who live in the houses I once rented are still enjoying the trees I planted.)

But if you plan to move soon you can have a potted garden — even great big pots fit in a removalist’s van. In hot, dry times you can even “plant” the pots of annual flowers that you plan to remove in a few months time. “Planting” pots keeps the roots cooler or warmer and moister, but there is the danger the roots will soon spread out from the pot, so only do this as a short-term project.

Ask for cuttings:

Think of anyone you know who has a garden — a friend at work, your mum, your gran. Ask them if you can have some cuttings. (If they’ve gardened for long enough, they’ll know what a cutting is.) If your best friend just happened to be renting a place with a good garden but doesn’t know anything about gardening either, head to the library and look at a gardening book with a section on “cuttings” or “propagation”.

It’s easy to take cuttings or divide plants — and you will be amazed how fast and easily hardy plants (the best ones for your area) will grow. Just try not to plant any that will turn into weeds, that is, ones that grow too easily. Hint: If anyone says, “Oh, you’re welcome to it. I can’t get rid of the stuff!” this means that — in your area at least — it’s a weed.

But most of all — have confidence and have fun. That is the great gardener’s secret. We don’t do it to have gardens to be admired. We don’t do it for the exercise either, or to reduce our waistlines or our blood pressure, though that happens too.

We garden because it is one of the great fulfilments in the world.

How can I possibly afford to buy all the plants I want?

Buy seeds and tiny plants — they’re cheaper — and wait for them to grow. Or join a local gardening club and help someone in exchange for cuttings — it’s a great way to learn from experienced gardeners.

Treat yourself to one packet of seed a week, one small plant a month and one great gorgeous treat — like a big pot or shrub — for your birthday.

How can I chop down a dead tree?

Don’t. Get a professional to do it (look up the Yellow Pages).

Better still, ask around and find someone who is happy with the job they had done and use the same operator. There are some careless and (garden) ignorant cowboys out there. Conversely there are some real artists with a chainsaw — make sure the one you hire does what you want done.

Anyone you hire should take it down branch by branch so the whole thing doesn’t collapse all over your garden. (You may only want to take the branches off anyway and grow a passionfruit or bougainvillea up the trunk.)

How can I have time to garden?

Set aside half an hour one day a week — it’s amazing what just a regular limited amount of time can do. Better still, make a fortnightly date with a couple of friends to garden at their place or yours. The garden owner provides the cool drinks and blueberry muffins afterwards. You’ll have earned it — and it’ll be great exercise, mentally calming and enormous fun.

You may even end up with a stunner of a garden.

Your say: How did you start your garden? What tips do you have for someone starting a garden? Share with us at [email protected]

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DJs Spring Summer collection

Talk on the red carpet was about the law suit filed hanging over former David Jones CEO Mark McInnes, but the designers (mostly) kept tight lipped and let their clothes do the talking.

With Miranda Kerr missing (on her honeymoon with new hubby Orlando Bloom) DJs pulled out all stops with Aussie supermodels Abbey Lee Kershaw, Catherine McNeil, Nicole Trunfio, Alexandra Agoston and Samantha Harris taking the final bow.

The neutral, draping trends we saw at RAFW were obviously a favourite of the David Jones buyers with muted tones featuring heavily in the show.

Camilla & Marc

Camilla & Marc

Lisa Ho

Alannah Hill

Ginger and Smart

Fleur Wood

Willow

Scanlan and Theodore

Akira

Carla Zampatti

Thurley

Ginger and Smart

Bianca Spender

sass and bide

Alex Perry

Camilla

Isola by Megan Gale

Isola by Megan Gale

Jets by Jessika Allen

Zimmerman and C&M Swim

Zimmerman and C&M Swim

Tigerlily

Abbey Lee Kershaw, Catherine McNeil, Nicole Trunfio, Alexandra Agoston and Samantha Harris

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Expect “smack in the face” music from family act La Spina

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Music act La Spina might be a family affair but if you’re expecting Partridge style harmonies and Von Trapp family matching kitchen-curtain outfits you’re way off- the brother-sister music act say music from their first collaboration will “smack you in the face.”

While Anna-Marie, 36, had an established career singing with pop megastars Savage Garden her 40-year-old brother Rosario was an acclaimed opera tenor.

But now the pair are relishing the opportunity to create their debut album together, Always You, a groundbreaking collection of ‘orchestral-pop’ epics.

And surprisingly, sibling rivalry was the last thing on their minds.

In fact, working with her brother took a lot of the strain out of the music making process, explains Anna-Marie.

“We don’t have to watch ourselves or be diplomatic. If we fight or don’t want to do something we can yell and scream and then go and have lunch two seconds later,” she says.

With Anna-Marie in charge of the musical composition, Rosario was more than happy to be “just the singer.”

“Anna’s the smart one out of the two of us,” he explains, “I’m just the ‘do-wop’ boy”.

The upfront approach certainly works for the pair as the album brilliantly manoeuvres through a range of original tracks and cover songs, the most surprising of which is a unique version of the Iron Maiden classic ‘Run to the Hills’.

“I love that song,” says Rosario. “To me it’s very classical, almost operatic in the way it is written,” no doubt a surprising insight for many fans of the classic heavy metal group.

“Every time it’s mentioned, everyone has the same reaction as you. They all go ‘Oh wow!’ And I say ‘Well good!’ Some people are going to hate it and some people are going to love it. And that’s fine you know.”

Recorded with the 65-piece Melbourne Symphony Orchestra, one would expect the cascading sounds of strings, brass and woodwind. Less expected is the appearance of the Savage Garden rhythm section, whose drums and bass guitar lend a heavy pop-music slant on Anna-Marie’s classical arrangements.

La Spina’s debut album Always You will be available on August 6, 2010. For a free download of the album’s title track click here!

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SuBo struggling on less than $900 per week

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Always chipper, but things aren't looking so good for SuBo

Scottish singing superstar Susan Boyle is reportedly living on £500 per week with no access to the millions of dollars in royalties she made from her debut album I Dreamed A Dream.

The singer also does not have a credit card and is not able to furnish her new five-bedroom home, her brother Gerry claims.

She has resorted to buying clothes from budget clothing chain Tesco and using public transport because of her financial arrangements.

Sources close to the singer deny claims Boyle was blocked from accessing her earnings. They say Susan imposed the budget on herself and chose to invest the rest of the money, the Daily Mail reported.

In pictures: Susan Boyle’s rise to fame

They said the new house was nearly fitted out and she could withdraw as much money as she wanted.

But Gerry Boyle, 55, was concerned about his sister’s situation spoke out on the weekend. “When Susan realised she can’t just walk into a bank and take out her own money she had a fit because she thought she was down to her last few quid,” he told the UK’s News of The World.

“Her millions are ring-fenced but Susan has no concept of money. She was extremely distressed. She lives in fear of losing everything and returning to her old life before she made it big.

“Susan said to me, ‘I’ve been told I get £500 a week because I’m a novice. I don’t have the money to go and buy the furniture’.

“So she’s still stuck in the small council house where we all grew up. She should be able to walk into a bank anywhere and say she wants £50,000 cash. That may not be advisable, but it would be her choice because it’s her money.

“Susan is baffled about money. All she wants to do is sing. So we asked the questions that should have been asked a while ago. Why doesn’t she even have a credit card? Why does she feel she doesn’t have control over her finances.

“And we’ve got worries about her safety too. She visits the local Tesco most days all on her own. So we raised concerns with her management. Susan doesn’t look as if she is a successful international chart star. She’s lonely and downtrodden.”

Your say: What do you think of Susan Boyle? Do you think it is wise for her to restrict her spending to $900 a week? Or should she be living it up a little more?

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Lindy exclusive interview 30 years on

Lindy exclusive interview 30 years on

The red blanket of parched earth is endless, each kilometre stretching out the same as the last. Yet to Lindy Chamberlain, a certain patch stands out like a beacon, even 30 years on.

“Stop here,” Lindy says suddenly, causing a convoy of four-wheel-drives to come to an abrupt halt. “It’s over there,” she says without hesitation. All heads turn in the direction of her pointing finger. All that’s visible is yet another dry, dusty patch of desert. But not to Lindy. For her, this is a sacred place, a site redolent with memories both terrifying and touching. This place, she says, is where her baby Azaria’s clothes were found.

It’s hard to believe it’s 30 years since a distraught Lindy clambered desperately from a dishevelled tent, screaming into the night, “The dingo’s got my baby”.

For Lindy, 62, the horror of that evening and the nightmare that followed burns more intensely than ever.

“You can’t turn it off,” says a pensive Lindy, who is returning to The Rock with Woman’s Day to mark the anniversary of the disappearance of her baby daughter, Azaria, on August 17, 1980.

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Liz Hurley? In your dreams Warney

Liz Hurley? In your dreams Warney

She’s an international model and swimsuit designer, a blueblood brunette with an impeccable pedigree. He’s a chain-smoking cricketer with a bad reputation who spruiks hair-restoration treatments. Yet, it appears that opposites do attract, as Liz Hurley and Shane Warne proved when their friendship was made public last week. The unlikely duo attended the posh Glorious Goodwood race meet in London, with 40-year-old Warney stepping in for Liz’s textile heir husband, Arun Nayar, as the leggy model’s date for the day.

It appears the couple met years ago through mutual friend – and one-time rumoured paramour of Shane’s — Jemima Kahn, and have since kept in touch via Twitter.

Liz, 45, is said to have been seeking mad punter Warney’s advice on the gee-gees after investing in some thoroughbred horses and, naturally, the spin bowler was only too happy to help.

But Shane’s wife, Simone, need not worry about her hubby’s friendship with one of the world’s greatest beauties.

If Shane’s going to cheat, odds are in favour of it being with a blonde.

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James Bulger’s mum — my hell never ends

James Bulger’s mum — my hell never ends

The news that one of James Bulger’s killers has been accused of a new sordid crime has reopened old wounds for the late toddler’s mum, Denise.

It was the case that sent shockwaves around the world 17 years ago. James Bulger was just two years old when he was abducted at a shopping centre in the English city of Liverpool and brutally tortured and murdered.

In an unthinkable twist, it was revealed the killers were 10-year-old boys – Robert Thompson and Jon Venables, who became the youngest convicted murderers in modern English history.

After eight years in prison, the boys were released in June 2001 with new identities. At the time, the European Court condemned their “inhuman treatment in an adult court”.

On March 2 this year, Jon Venables – now 27 – was taken back into custody amid allegations he possessed “high-level” child pornography. For James’ mother, Denise Fergus, now 42 and remarried with three younger sons aged 10 to 16, this latest development is too much to bear.

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I’m not having an affair but it’s more than a friendship.

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I’m not having an affair but it’s more than a friendship. My husband and I have been friendly with another couple for about five years but a year ago the man started to work at my company and we have great fun together. Not during work because that would cause problems, but a couple of times a week we have a sandwich together and we take it in turns to drive to and from work.

My husband isn’t the least bit bothered about this but his wife is quite a jealous person and now when we’re all out together she makes digs about us spending so much time together.

Later this year we go away for a three night conference and she’s already started moaning about it, so I asked my husband if he wanted to come although partners aren’t really expected to join us. He said he couldn’t think of anything more boring and said I should stop pandering to her – that if they had any issues it was up to them to sort out.

He’s right and there’s no way we would have an affair but I talk to this man the way I talk to my sister. We’re very close and we even discuss sex which might sound a bit strange but there’s nothing in it.

I mean, I think we’re both attracted to each other because we discussed it once and agreed that if we’d met when we were single things would be different, but we are both happily married so we’ve put that behind us and just enjoy being friends.

The only annoying thing is his wife because I really think she could cause problems – she’s started going on at him to apply for other jobs.

Your husband sounds very calm and confident, maybe because he senses that even if you and this man find each other attractive you have no intention of doing anything about it. If your friend tells his wife that you discuss sexual issues or that he finds you attractive that could be why she reacts like this.

However, it isn’t your problem other than how her jealousy could impact on your friendship and she will have a fair amount of influence, so you might want to consider reassuring her to some extent. Perhaps you could nurture a separate friendship with her, so she learns to like and trust you more and realises that you’re not a threat.

Ultimately, it’s up to your friend how he responds to her jealousy though you acting totally normally around her should help.

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Midwinter feasts

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Midwinter is the time for feasts — not just around the table, with friends on long cold winter nights, but in the garden, too..

Summer’s harvests often have to be picked fast, before the fruit fly get into the apricots or the lettuces go to seed. Winter harvests are more gentle, and more generous too. They go on producing for months, while you pick them as needed — if the birds don’t get there first.

If you don’t have any of the winter beauties below, this is the perfect time to plant most of them, so that next year, or in two or three years’ time, you too can pick baskets of winter bounty, and share it with your friends.

The most beautiful winter harvests:

There is nothing as elegant as rich orange persimmons, hanging from a leafless tree. They are almost too lovely to pick. Sadly if you don’t, the birds will soon find them. I tie “bird bags” — calico bags or old stockings — over some of mine, to keep at least some of the fruit for ourselves. I have to admit that daggy calico bags do dampen the elegance a bit.

Persimmons grow in any climate, though they may need a sunny wall in very cold climates, and may not lose their leaves in hotter winters.

Red round pomegranates hang from leafless branches too. I used to battle the birds for them, until I decided to grow five pomegranate trees instead of one. Now there’s enough for all of us — and the birds look beautiful, too, cavorting upside down as they eat the fruit. Pomegranates suit almost any climate, and are wonderfully drought-hardy once they have been growing well for two or three years to get established.

I love the bright orange fruit of cumquats and calamondins — calamondins are like cumquats, but smaller, sourer and hardier in frost and heat. They make great marmalade and cordial, too. Oranges and mandarins also have their own beauty, glowing orange in the deep green leaves. Starved citrus, on the other hand, just look ugly.

If your citrus trees have narrow, yellowish leaves, give the poor things a good feed of old hen manure or other organic fertiliser or citrus food, a good water, plus a good mulch too.

In frost-free areas, tamarilloes can be stunning — dangling from the tree or rather large bush. They also fruit the same year you plant them. Commercial tamarilloes are deep red, but there are dark orange and pale orange and even yellowy orange varieties around too, that seem to be a bit more cold-hardy than the red ones.

Tamarilloes are one of the few fruits that grow in dappled shade — a great plant to fill in awkward spots in the garden. Tamarillo grows quickly from seed, or you can propagate it from a cutting in late winter. The bush tolerates about three degrees of frost. Even if all its leaves disappear, they’ll come back in spring and it will bear a late autumn crop. In mild areas, tamarillo crops all year round.

Peel your tamarilloes before eating. Chop them into fruit salads, use instead of kiwifruit on pavlova — or try a mix of red tamarillo slices and green kiwifruit. Add tamarillo to a salsa of chopped coriander leaves and diced avocado.

The most generous winter harvests:

This might be lemon trees or Tahitian limes: so many fruit you’ll find yourself giving away baskets full and hopefully getting some jars of marmalade in return. Avocadoes give lemons and limes a run for their money, though — a good, well-grown backyard avocado tree can give you hundreds of fruit each winter.

Another over-the-top cropper is kiwifruit. You need a male and female for pollination, and a good sturdy fence or pergola for them to ramble over, or a warm balcony in cold areas. But in return you get masses of fruit … or the birds get masses of fruit, so pick them as soon as you see the first bird pecks, or you may find they vanish before you can get a taste.

The prickliest winter harvest:

Chestnuts take about 10 years to fruit and grow into enormous trees. But if you have space you’ll find they drop their spiky nut vases all through winter, so every day there is a basket full to pick up — carefully, with gloves on. They are great fun for kids, like a backyard treasure hunt tree, where they never know quite how many nuts they’ll find each morning. Chestnuts are traditionally roasted, but they are just as good boiled for about 20 minutes — and it’s much easier!

Winter salads:

I plant masses of red mignonette lettuce in autumn, enough to see us through the winter. Although mignonette and other winter lettuce like cos are frost-resistant, they don’t grow fast (or even much at all) in cold weather. They make lovely salads though, soft-leafed hearts mixed with crisp slices of apple and thinly sliced celery.

Parsley is another wonderful winter salad standby, if you’ve remembered to plant lots in summer to see you through winter. Finely chopped broad-leafed or Italian parsley is wonderful mixed with chopped avocado, celery, apple, peeled tamarillo and a touch of lemon- or lime-based salad dressing.

And then there are garlic chives, and winter sweet broccoli and cauliflower to steam or roast and serve with vinaigrette too, and carrots and beetroots that really are sweeter and have a richer flavour in winter, and superb either raw or grated with salad dressing, served hot or cold.

Australian gardeners are lucky. We have backyard bounty all year long. Midwinter is the perfect time to share it — winter harvests that become midwinter feasts.

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