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Sting on love, life & sweet music

Sting with wife Trudie Styler

He owns a palazzo in Tuscany and homes in London, New York, Malibu and the Caribbean – not bad for the son of a milkman. Sting, one-time teacher turned rock god, talks to Susan Chenery about vanity, Trudie and what makes him tick.

When Sting opens the door he has just woken from a deep sleep. His hair is standing up and he is sort of half awake and blurry. It is a strangely intimate moment. In his sleepiness, which lasts for quite a while, he is vulnerable, defenceless, an ordinarily tired man. It might interest you to know that Sting wakes up “chuckly” and sort of cuddly.

He calls me “love” and “darling” and for a brief and shining moment, I get an idea of what it might be like to be Mrs Sting, his wife, Trudie Styler.

From the vast balcony of his luxurious hotel, the landmarks of Rome are lit up far below. In the November gloom, the sky is low, mean and troubled. Sting, 59, loves the northern winter, where everything turns inwards against the insistent cold. “I enjoy that, it is clearer, the air is clearer,” he says. “I like to put a fire on, I like the cold. I look forward to the winter, I like weather like this. It is stimulating, it is creative.”

Shades here of the King Of Pain, whose melancholy mind informed the lyrics of many Police songs of the ’70s and ’80s.

Leaning against a chair is a lute on which he plays Bach every day.

“It is sort of a daily exercise that stands me in good stead,” he says. “I mean, people wouldn’t want to pay money to hear me play Bach. I am not under any illusions about that. For me, it is a kind of spiritual exercise.”

In the days leading up to this interview, I was astonished at how many Sting/The Police songs I heard in an average day – in bars, cafes and shops – explaining easily why he is one of the highest paid musicians in the world. We all want to “walk in fields of gold”, with someone we love and might grow old with.

“I like the idea that they are touchstones for people and their memories,” says Sting. “I would never contradict anyone who said, ‘Oh, this song means this to me.’ Of course, it does, though it may mean something totally different to me. And I always manage to find something new in the songs that takes my interest.”

Read more of this story in the January issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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Rebecca Gibney makes a splash

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At 46, Australia’s golden girl Rebecca Gibney remains a knockout in a swimsuit. She tells Kelly Baker how diet, exercise and the support of a loving husband have helped her embrace her changing body.

“Who else is appearing in this story,” asks Rebecca, “Are there any other older women … or just me?” The conversation we have next goes something like this. I say a name and Rebecca responds, “Gorgeous girl … younger. Beautiful girl, but also younger. Lovely, lovely girl, stunning … younger.”

Rebecca is laughing throatily throughout and the conversation is clearly in jest, but there’s something so very sweet and vulnerable about her that I feel compelled to try to say something positive anyway. And so I tell her that, sure, she might be the oldest of the beautiful women that The Weekly has included in this particular portfolio, but she’s the one who will take the coveted cover position.

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The hairstylist begins working on those soft blonde curls and I perch on a stool nearby. We talk nonsense, gossip about marriages gone bad (Rebecca is happily married to artist Richard Bell, but an earlier marriage to singer Jack Jones ended in divorce) and swap stories about our children. She swoons over her son and his utter deliciousness, her husband’s, too. She’s utterly in love with them both. In fact, as far as Rebecca is concerned, life is heavenly. She finally has the family she’s always dreamed of, she’s surrounded by dear friends and, she loves playing late-in-life mum Julie in the Seven Network’s Packed To The Rafters. Everything in her life is damn near perfect (touch wood) although, she does admit that she occasionally looks in the mirror and simply can not believe what she sees.

“There are times when I think, ‘Whoa, where did that come from?’ ” says Rebecca, shaking her head and poking at her flat tummy with a finger. “But for the most part I feel pretty good. My husband always says to me, ‘Darling, you’re beautiful just as you are. It doesn’t matter anyway, as we’re going to grow old together; let it go.’ And I think he’s right. There is something liberating about getting older. I’ll always try and make the most of what I’ve got, but I’m not going to get stressed about it. I’m not 25, I’m not 35, I’m not even 45! So there’s no point trying to be.”

Still, she’s not about to give up altogether. Rebecca loves regular facials, she cares for her skin and never goes without SPF 30+. She also dabbles in a little Botox, the muscle-freezing injectable that instantly wipes away fine lines and wrinkles.

“I don’t have any right now,” she laughs, when I ask her. “I mean, have a look?” And at that, she wrinkles her brow and crinkles her eyes to demonstrate. But I do occasionally get just a little. I don’t go overboard. I don’t want to look frozen and I can’t be an actress and have no expression in my face – that would be mad. But I do get some of the harsher lines softened.”

Not too many women in the public eye will admit to getting work of any kind done, but Rebecca is one of those rare honest creatures who will ’fess up to just about anything. She tells me she had considered surgery (“Heck, I’ve considered everything,” she chortles), but is too afraid to go through with it.

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“I’ve done the research,” she whispers to me. “I looked at an eye lift, but I have noticed very few people get great work done. I believe the eyes are the window to the soul and I’m terrified the surgeon would muck it up and then what? I might end up looking like a startled deer or like I’ve got a carrot up my bum.”

Read more of this story in the January issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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Aussie women would rather marry a tradie than a prince

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With a royal wedding coming up thoughts of marrying into wealth are in many people’s minds, but a new survey by The Weekly has found that Australian women would rather marry a tradie than a prince.

The 1000 women surveyed also said that they would rather marry a tradie than a millionaire, an actor or sportsman.

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“I think it’s a very Australian result,” editor-in-chief Helen McCabe said.

“Australian women are very down to earth and that’s reflected in this result.”

Other results in the survey showed that the debate over the monarchy is still on a knife edge.

Fifty-two percent think the nation should remain a monarchy, while 82 percent want William to be the next king instead of Charles.

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Seventy-five percent back William’s decision to give Kate his mum Diana’s ring.

And Diana still tops the popularity poll of the royals, joint with Princess Mary on 45 percent support from the public.

For more, pick up a copy of The Weekly, on sale on December 22.

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Pregnancy know-how

When it comes to nutritional supplements for the mother-to-be, folic acid — the B-group vitamin that is critical for helping to prevent birth defects such as spina bifida — gets all the press.

However, several studies suggest that choline, a less well-known water-soluble nutrient that is also classed with the B-group vitamins, is just as important in ensuring healthy foetal development, particularly in reducing the risk of heart defects.

According to a study of mice by researchers from Cornell University and McGill University, low choline intake during pregnancy was associated with increased levels of homocysteine in the blood, which is a risk factor for heart disease, as well as heart problems in the animals’ offspring.

Another report, published in Behavioral Neuroscience, suggests that adequate choline during pregnancy was linked to improved attention span in test animals’ babies. Even though these were animal studies, not human ones, it makes sense for any pregnant mum to err on the side of caution and ensure she eats good food sources of choline, such as liver, eggs, fish, chicken, spinach, tofu, and wheatgerm.

Vegetarians may want to consider a supplement, with professional supervision.

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Shania Twain to marry the man whose ex-wife stole her husband

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After being left heartbroken by her husband of 14 years, Shania Twain has finally found love again but in very unusual circumstances.

The country music singer’s ex-husband, producer Mutt Lange, left her for her best friend in 2008. Now 45-year-old Shania has announced her engagement to that best friend’s ex-husband, the UK’s Daily Mail reported.

The real-life wife swap, which sounds like a Jerry Springer episode, saw Shania and 40-year-old Frederic Thiebaud become secretly engaged two months ago in Switzerland.

Despite the unusual situation, Shania is said to be “happier than she’s ever been” to be engaged to 40-year-old Frederic Thiebaud.

Following the breakdown of her first marriage following rumours of her husband and best friend’s affair, Shania turned to Thiebaud for support sparking a friendship.

“We leaned on one another through the ups and downs, taking turns holding each other. We’ve become closer and stronger through it all,” Shania wrote about their relationship last year.

Thiebaud popped the question with a three-carat, emerald-cut diamond ring worth an estimated $100,000, which he designed.

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Kylie Minogue releases Christmas message and hints to an Aussie tour?

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Kylie Minogue has hinted she may be touring Australia next year in a Christmas message to fans while announcing the release of two Christmas tracks for Vision Australia.

“I have some very exciting news for you in 2011, which I can’t tell you yet, but I can hardly wait,” Kylie said in a video message, signing off with “I can’t wait to get home and see you in 2011.”

The 42-year-old singer, who is slowly losing her Aussie accent, has released ‘Let It Snow’ and ‘Santa Baby’ with a portion of proceeds going to Vision Australia to assist their work with children who are blind or have low vision.

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Most shocking celebrity transformations!

Amy Winehouse

It’s hard to believe that Amy Winehouse once looked this healthy! She went from looking like this at the beginning of her career to…

Amy Winehouse

…looking like this.

Ashlee Simpson

Ashlee Simpson has gone from Jessica Simpson’s sweet little sister…

Ashlee Simpson

…to rocker Pete Wentz’s wife. She has had a number of hairstyle changes along this way, but this is her latest ‘do.

Britney Spears

Who could forget Britney Spears when she first popped on to our radar in 1998 with her single ‘Baby One More Time’.

Britney Spears

But her wholesome image didn’t last for long!

Christina Aguilera

Christina Aguilera went from this slim shy girl…

Christina Aguilera

…to an outspoken woman who is now proud of her curves.

Johnny Depp

Johnny Depp has transformed himself for a number of roles including performances in Pirates of the Caribbean and Edward Scissorhands.

Johnny Depp

While the star still has his charm, he looks nothing like himself as a young actor, but more like his Pirates of the Caribbean character.

Heidi Montag

The once-natural Heidi Montag famously transformed herself after undergoing 10 plastic surgery procedures in one day.

Heidi Montag

Her surgery included increasing her chest to a G-cup and having her ears pinned back.

Jennifer Grey

After Jennifer Grey’s role on Dirty Dancing in 1987, she decided to have a nose job to remove the bump from her nose.

Jennifer Grey

But the procedure made her almost unrecognisable. “I went in the operating theatre a celebrity and came out anonymous,” she said. “It was like being in a witness protection program or being invisible.”

Michael Jackson

Michael Jackson’s incredible transformation included up to a dozen surgeries in two years and visits to the plastic surgeon about every two months. He famously went from this …

Michael Jackson

…to this.

Princess Mary

Australia’s own Mary Donaldson went from an everyday Tasmanian-born real estate agent…

Princess Mary

…to the Crown Princess of Denmark and a complete style icon.

Ricki Lake

As a young actress Ricki Lake had always struggled with her weight.

Ricki Lake

But in 2008 she told People magazine that she had shed 63 kilos and couldn’t believe the size she once was.

Victoria Beckham

Victoria Beckham is a far cry from the young Posh Spice she used to be.

Victoria Beckham

She has transformed herself into a style icon and fashion designer.

Nicole Richie

Nicole Richie went from Paris Hilton’s mischief making best friend…

Nicole Richie

…to chic style icon, mother and wife.

Kirstie Alley

Kirstie Alley has transformed herself from this…

Kirstie Alley

…to this. The actress who has struggled with weight gain over the past few years is currently trying to trim down.

Cher

A once natural looking Cher has transformed herself from this…

Cher

..to this over the years.

Celine Dion

Thanks to a nose job and some straightening out of her teeth, Celine Dion went from this…

Celine Dion

…to this.

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Review: *Love and Other Drugs*

It’s hard to understand how a book exposing the hypocrisy and immorality of pharmaceutical marketing could be the basis for a romantic comedy, but Love and Other Drugs is surprising in so many ways.

The lead character (played by Jake Gyllenhall) is based on Jamie Reidy, the man who wrote the book Hard Swell: The Evolution of a Viagra Salesman.He is a red hot salesman; whether he is selling stereos, mobiles, or his charms, he succeeds using his charisma and energy to seduce all, even grandmas. He’s the family drifter who will never settle for anything less than hedonism and is the perfect empty vessel for Pfizer’s sales training techniques. The first act delves into the sales techniques they use, and it is a real eye opener and stomach churner.

It is while posing as a doctor he is entranced by Georgie (Annie Hathaway) who explodes onto the screen and soon turns Jamie’s world, and the movie, on its head. She is sassy, brutally honest and viciously verbose and wants nothing more in her life than casual encounters, and figures a drug salesman is as empty as she can get.

Two people, madly in lust, committed to nothing more than gratification and avoiding commitment … what more could Gen X want?

The truth is, Maggie is in stage of one of Parkinson’s disease, and Jamie is in stage two of his fledgling career; Viagra is about to hit the charts, so for both of them, love’s not on the menu. But with two such attractive talents burning for each other, love triumphs. After all, who could resist Jake Gylenhall’s bedroom eyes or Anny Hathaway’s sumptuous smile?

If the left turn from satire to romance is a surprise, then so is the sensitive way Parkinson’s is treated. The scene where they visit a Parkinson’s convention is hilarious and moving. The sufferers joke about anything from opening jars to happy endings. It’s that sort of film. And Jamie’s over-reaction to wanting to save Maggie is the sort of heroics sufferers admire and admonish.

The plot does take predictable turns, but does them with style. Romantic comedies rely on chemistry, and Gylenhall and Hathaway — reuniting after Brokeback Mountain — produce a combination which rivals nitro and glycerine; it is dazzling to watch. Hathaway sparkles from her first scene and Jake does all he can to keep up. The way they crack through their wordy dialogue is a treat to watch, and the movie revels in their happiness, with languid scenes of naked lovers talking. They are so good that there is no need for the annoying frumpy older brother, Josh (Josh Randall), but Hank Azaria is strong as the disillusioned, corruptible doctor.

This is a unique romantic comedy which pulls no punches; while its snappy dialogue, take on the drug industry and themes of illness are a definite modern approach, it is still the all-important chemistry of the two leads which carry it. These two don’t just act their parts; the crackling you’ll hear is what’s left off the screen.

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The truth about sags and bags

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Just because your dad had a double chin doesn’t mean that you will — research suggests that life experiences may outweigh genes when it comes to ageing.

It seems that the amount of time that you spent on the beach as a teen with just a bottle of baby oil between you and the sun’s rays isn’t the only predictor of how well (or how badly) your face will age. According to a study from the US University Hospitals Case Center, published in Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery, getting divorced, gaining or losing a lot of weight, and taking antidepressants wreak even more havoc on your looks.

The researchers set out to assess the effects of genetic predisposition and life experiences on appearance. To do so, they chose 186 pairs of identical twins, who are, of course, genetically programmed to age at the same pace. Each twin provided details about their health history and personal background, and each provided a photograph. These images were examined by a group of testers, who were asked to nominate the age they perceived the people in the photos to be.

The panel found that those twins who had been divorced looked two years older than those who were married, single or widowed. Weight played a role in age perception, with a twist: heavier twins under 40 years of age were thought to be older than they actually were; however, heavier twins over 40 were seen as younger than their real age, while heavier 40-plus twins who had lost a lot of weight quite quickly were also perceived to be older than they were. Perhaps most interesting of all was the effect of the use of antidepressants, with twins who had used these medicines looking much older than those who had not.

The emotional and financial stress of divorce is an understandable risk factor for accelerated ageing, and weight carries such emotional loading — no pun intended — that it is also not surprising that it affects our perception of what a person is like. But why antidepressants? The researchers speculate that, because these drugs can act as muscle relaxants, that long-term use may cause loss of tone in the facial muscles, hastening the development of sagging skin. The good news is that you can control and avoid several environmental stressors that cause premature ageing and – potentially – turn back your age clock.

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Miranda Kerr’s baby bump has her blooming!

Miranda Kerr's baby bump has her blooming!

The Aussie beauty models her burgeoning baby bump with doting Orlando on hand.

She knows how to work a catwalk in custom-made jewellery and expensive heels, but Miranda Kerr’s baby belly may be her best accessory yet.

The Gunnedah-born girl simply beamed as she and husband Orlando Bloom took a stroll through West Hollywood after a romantic brunch. With a hand on her bump and a big smile on her face, the 27-year-old, who is due to give birth in January, looked to really be enjoying her pregnancy.

“I’m definitely taking more time out to relax and be present to the whole experience,” Miranda recently told Vogue magazine, adding that she can’t wait to meet her unborn child.

“Every mother I’ve spoken to has said you cannot explain the profound feeling of love that comes over you as soon as the baby is born. I’m really looking forward to that moment.”

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