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Colin Firth: My secret family

Colin Firth: My Secret family

Jackie Brygel reveals the reclusive actress who bore the star’s first son.

Accepting his star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame in early January, an emotional Colin Firth paid homage to his beautiful Italian wife Livia Giuggiolo, who has, he says, “walked every step of this with me, joyfully and truthfully. When I look down there at that star, it’s her name I see.”

Colin, 50, and film producer Livia, 40, have shared a fairytale existence since meeting on a movie set 15 years ago. And the UK actor has made it clear his roles as a devoted husband and hands-on father to their sons, Luca, 9, and Matteo, 7, are central to his life.

What’s not so widely known is that Colin has another, less public family he keeps very much out of the spotlight. And that spotlight has only grown more intense now he’s a hot Oscars favourite for his critically acclaimed role in The King’s Speech.

Woman’s Day can reveal that Colin also has a grown-up son named Will, who bears a striking resemblance to his famous father. The 20-year-old is the product of Colin’s earlier relationship with Meg Tilly, 50, a one-time Oscar-nominated actress who has since left Hollywood to live a low-key life in the Canadian countryside.

“He absolutely adores Will but he had to choose between family life in an isolated log cabin and working,” explains the actor’s sister Kate.

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Octomum’s toddlers turn two!

Octomum's toddlers turn two!

Life doesn’t get any easier for Nadya Suleman as her eight toddlers turn two.

As an unmarried mother-of-14 with a $4000 a month mortgage, Nadya Suleman faces severe financial problems and the possibility of being evicted from her home.

But despite these hardships, the controversial California woman known around the world as “Octomum” was determined to celebrate the second birthday of her octuplets on January 26.

She splashed out on a cake, balloons, party favours and even special birthday outfits for the six boys and two girls, who arrived into this world amid a media whirlwind in 2009.

Noah, Maliyah, Isaiah, Nariyah, Makai, Josiah, Jonah and Jeremiah – the world’s only known set of healthy living octuplets, conceived via in-vitro fertilisation – looked confused and often upset throughout the bash.

The shy little girls huddled together on the same chair, while youngest brother Jonah, born with a cleft palate, peeked bashfully from below the table. Nadya, 35, could only produce a wan smile for the cameras as she posed with her brood and distributed the cake.

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Flood family: One mini bus, 14 kids and a lot of love

Flood family: One mini bus, 14 kids and a lot of love

All it takes is lots of lists and one very organised mum to get the Bonell brood back to classes.

For many children affected by the Queensland floods, last week saw a return to their normal routine as they went back to school. But for one Toowoomba family, setting off for school means nothing short of a military-style operation for all 14 children.

The Bonells are able to return to their routine after they escaped unscathed from the devastating floods – although as the water headed up their street, they feared the worst.

“But luck was on our side,” says mum Jenny. “The waters only made their way under the house and into the pool. It was frightening for the kids, especially the younger ones, but we’re grateful we’re OK.”

As all 10 of the school-aged Bonell children board their personal school bus in regimented fashion, supermum Jenny takes her place behind the wheel. After a quick roll-call, she runs through their check-list: lunches, water bottles, hats, books, pencil cases… Then seat belts are fastened and the family’s 16-seater weaves through the streets of Toowoomba for drop-offs at high school, primary and prep.

The Bonells have their morning routine down to a tee. Taking their seats for breakfast are Jesse, 21, Brooke, 20, Claire, 17, Natalie, 15, Karl, 14, Samuel, 12, Cameron, 11, Sabrina, 9, Timothy, 8, Brandon, 6, Eve, 4, Nate, 3, and Rachel, 2. Amazingly, Jenny and dad Ray smile as they prepare mountains of toast and pour litres of milk into a metre-long long row of cereal bowls.

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Simone’s revenge: I’m in love too!

Simone's revenge: I'm in love too!

As her ex Shane Warne chases Liz Hurley around the world, Simone Callahan shows off her hot new love back home.

Glowing with love and wearing a smile, Simone Callahan wants everyone to know she couldn’t care less about her ex-husband’s fling with Liz Hurley.

“I’m happy,” confirms Simone, who is staying mum on her new love affair. But these simple words speak volumes. Shane Warne’s long-suffering ex-wife had her heart broken by his wandering eye and sexting addiction. Now she has finally moved on from Shane – and what a sweet revenge it is!

She is dating Toby Roberts, a 182cm-tall model with all his own hair, a sun-kissed tan and a natural smile.Simone, 41, is anything but the victim this time round, with some friends suggesting she walked away from Shane, 41, long before he started romancing Liz, 45.

“Simone has been enjoying a string of dates,” confides one insider. There was no doubt romance was in air when, two days before her birthday last week, Simone and Toby had an intimate dinner at Mr. Wolf, celebrity chef Karen Martini’s “look at me” restaurant in Melbourne’s St Kilda.

The clearly besotted couple held hands and touched each other throughout the romantic meal, with Toby seemingly hanging on Simone’s every word.

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True Confessions Agony Aunt: My daughter wants to share a bed with her boyfriend in my house

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My 20 year old daughter is away at university and is coming home for a long weekend with her boyfriend. They’ve been going out together for six months and this is her first serious relationship although she’s had more casual boyfriends in the past.

We’ve met him twice and now and while discussing her visit she’s asked if they can share her bedroom whenever they come here and although I didn’t give her a definite answer I’m very uncomfortable about it, as is her dad.

I want her to come home to see us and really don’t want her visits to be reduced over this issue, but I don’t think I’m ready for this.

We discussed sex and contraception when she was much younger and when I tried to mention this a couple of months after she met this boy she simply said she didn’t want to talk about it and found me speaking to her embarrassing.

We also have a boy of 17 and a much younger daughter of 12 and I’m not sure what precedent we would be setting by agreeing to this, especially since our son has a girlfriend who sometimes stays over but always sleeps in the spare room.

How can I sort this out without a fight or alienating my daughter?

That can be difficult in this situation because you either have to agree that any sexual relationship, providing that it’s happening over the age of consent, can be carried on in your home or you say that only long term relationships can have that privilege, or you maintain that can only happen if a couple are engaged or married.

If you go for the first option you then have to consider how you will feel if one of your children goes in for a series of one night stands at any point because you could be meeting a series of strangers in the kitchen every morning and with the last option you are setting a fairly high bar – what happens if none of your children marry but settle happily into long term relationships?

This would probably be an easier decision to make if you weren’t worrying about the younger siblings, but if you make it clear that you value long-term and loving relationships you are encouraging all of them to be open about their own relationships and also saying that you respect their judgement when it comes to choosing long-term partners.

However, there are a couple of useful strategies if you want a little more time before taking this big step, bearing in mind that her boyfriend might actually be quite embarrassed at the thought of sharing a bedroom in your home, having only met you twice.

Explain your concerns about her siblings to your daughter, especially concerning her brother who might feel he should also have his girlfriend staying in his room and ask her if you can compromise for the next six months, at which point you can rightly say you know him much better and this is definitely a long term relationship and needs no excusing or explaining.

There is a big difference in maturity between 20 and 17, which she will undoubtedly agree with and tell her you would appreciate her help in setting a bench mark for the family. That means that for the next few visits they have separate rooms though you might have to turn a blind eye to any night time wanderings but that some time in the foreseeable future that situation will change and they can share a room.

As your children get older this is a decision which will come up again, so you need to do some careful thinking about the long term implications of what you agree as well as the short term to make sure everyone feels comfortable.

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The real cost of healthy food

With prices on the average grocery bill on the rise, it seems that fresh fruit and vegies are often blamed for spikes in cost — or even worse, are avoided in the name of the household budget.

So, are fresh fruit and vegetables really more expensive than their processed counterparts?

“The Real Cost of Healthy Food” report card examines this question, comparing prices of fresh foods versus common processed alternatives. And you may be pleasantly surprised by the results.

Fresh foods top the class, often coming in dramatically cheaper than processed alternatives. In fact, fresh foods remain the cheaper option even when taking into consideration seasonal changes in prices.

Here are some examples: Just compare a rolled-up fruit bar at $25.80 per kilo to an average of $4.30 per kilo of apples, or potato chips at $19.90 per kilo compared to popcorn kernels at only $3 per kilo. These are remarkable differences and equivalent to savings of around 85 percent.

Similarly, a small can of baked beans with two slices of wholegrain toast, at a cost per kilo of $5.75, will cost you half the money of a pastie, at a cost per kilo of $10.80.

While shopping smart and making savings you are also buying foods that are fresh, less processed and better for you. It’s great for your body and your budget!

Buying seasonally can help you make further savings. Seasonal fruit and vegetables are often cheaper and fresher. You can also opt for dried, frozen or canned alternatives to save. For example, frozen mixed vegetables are handy for long-term storage.

Here are some more practical examples to help cut your grocery bill:

  • Buy in bulk. Shopping once a week and buying bulk saves you time, money and unnecessary trips to the supermarket.

  • Cook it, freeze it. Thinking of takeaway or ready-meals? Save time and money by cooking large meals and freezing them in edible portion sizes for days you’re too busy or don’t feel like cooking.

  • Plan ahead. Think about meals for the week ahead and shop with a list. This will help you to avoid wasting money on food that will just go off, limit tempting impulse buys, and reduce the risk of forgetting items you may then pick up at more expensive convenience stores.

  • Waste none. Use leftovers for delicious new dishes.

  • Count your beans. Legumes are a great addition to many meals, provide protein and other essential nutrients, and they are cheap! Buy them dried or canned for easy storage.

Please note that costs are an estimate and they may be different for your local area.

For a copy of the “Real Cost of Healthy Food” report card, just visit www.gofor2and5.com.au.

Your say: How do you reduce your grocery bill? What are your favourite recipes? Share with us below.

This information is provided by the Sanitarium Nutrition Service.

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How to keep your clothes looking new for longer

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Question

What’s the best way to keep your clothes looking new longer? Is it in the way they’re washed?

Jess, via e-mail.

Answer

Besides wearing your clothes, washing will also contribute to their worn out look. To keep your clothes looking new longer, here are a few tips.

Make sure you separate your whites, blacks and colours into different wash loads to avoid colours running into white or pale coloured items, and white fibres sticking to darks and blacks.

A regular soak in Napisan or similar product will keep your whites look white and fresh for longer, removing stains and keeping them bright.

Make sure you wash towels, tea towels, and bed linen in a separate wash too. The fuzzy fibres are almost impossible to completely remove from dark clothes. However, if one manages to sneak into a dark wash, use a loop of gaffa tape or similar with the sticky side out to remove any visible fibres.

Remember to check the care label in your favourite garments to ensure you don’t ruin them in the washing machine or tumble dryer. Dry cleaning or hand washing may be required for some fibres and will help to prolong the life of special garments.

Delicates can sometimes be machine washed but are best placed inside a delicates bag.

When washing wool items make sure you use a specific wool wash product and hand wash. Machine washing or using hot water may shrink a woollen item. Dry knit wear flat to avoid stretching or damaging the garment.

To avoid fading bights, do not hang them to dry in direct sunlight.

The AWW Fashion Team

This article is brought to you by Napisan, to find out more on how to keep whites Crystal White, head to www.vanishstains.com.au

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Nicole Kidman on getting over Tom Cruise

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Nicole Kidman is in her prime as wife, mother and true-blue Aussie. As Bryce Corbett chats to her about life and love with Keith Urban, their daughter Sunday Rose, and her Oscar-worthy role in Rabbit Hole, he discovers there is still one subject she won’t talk about…

In her new movie Rabbit Hole, Nicole Kidman plays a mother devastated by the accidental death of her four-year-old son. For a good part of the film, the pain being felt by Nicole’s character Becca is internalised. The audience is in no doubt that grief that has torn Becca’s world apart; that she is now confronted with a life she had no clue she would one day have to live and is struggling to find the emotional tools to live it. And yet, she remains contained.

Related: Nicole Kidman ‘on cloud nine’ after the birth of new baby Faith Margaret to a surrogate last month

In a climactic scene with her husband, played by Aaron Eckhart, Becca finally cracks. “It feels like maybe I don’t feel badly enough for you!” she wails. “Maybe I’m not feeling enough!” It’s a cry to let her grieve in the manner she chooses. To show that beyond the composure is a heart riven with unimaginable pain, and that while to the outside world she may appear detached and incomprehensibly serene, deep down she is hurting as anyone else in her situation would.

The role – and indeed the film, of which Nicole is a proud producer – is generating serious Oscar buzz. It’s only acting of course, but such is the passion that Nicole has for the film and such was the single-minded determination with which she pursued its realisation, you are left to wonder if it perhaps deals with issues and themes closer to Nicole Kidman’s heart than she could ever say.

Nicole Mary Kidman is sitting opposite me, perched on the edge of a bed in a small suite of the Blue Hotel in Woolloomoolloo, Sydney. A southerly buster is crackling above the cityscape outside the window and cockatoos screech as they dart above treetops in the Royal Botanic Gardens. Up close, she’s strikingly attractive. Yes, the skin on her face is flawless, but not in an apparently fake way. There are smile lines at the corners of her eyes and frown lines on her forehead. She looks like your garden-variety, genetically-blessed, sun-averse, Hollywood megastar.

She’s wearing a figure-hugging dress. The tiny tummy, which has sparked rumours of a pregnancy but which Nicole assures me is not another Urban-Kidman co-production but simply the result of “too many hamburgers” and the Kidman women’s tendency to little tums, is not in evidence today.

Kidman is currently married to country music star Keith Urban and the pair have two daughters, two-year-old Sunday Rose and baby Faith Margaret, who was born to a surrogate on December 27, 2010.

In pictures: Nicole Kidman’s style over the years

It’s been 10 years since her decade-long marriage to Tom Cruise came to a sudden end. She now says she was so thrown by the split that she spent years in the relationship wilderness. It was a whole six years after her divorce when fellow Aussie-done-good in America Keith sauntered into her life and asked how her heart was that she was able to reply: “Open”.

“I took a long time to heal, put it that way,” she says now. “I was just very cautious. So when I gave Keith that answer, it was true. For the first time in what had been quite a few years, my heart was open… There were people before who had tried to date me and I was like: ‘No, no, wrong girl.’ I just really wanted to spend time alone so I could heal. And that took me almost six years, which is unusual I know, but that was just how it was. It had to do with me not having anything to give anyone else. I just wanted a family. I’m just the kind of girl who likes to be married.”

Read more of this story in the February issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

Subscribe to Australian Women’s Weekly to receive 15 percent off the newsstand price and a free Botani skincare pack, valued at $44.90.

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Video: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban announce the birth of their new baby girl, Faith Margaret.

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Queensland’s floods of a lifetime

Floods engulf Queensland

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Twenty-two lives lost, tens of thousands cut off and more than 10,000 homes ruined as Queensland is engulfed by one of the state’s worst floods. With stoic courage and good old Aussie resilience, the residents of 20 towns rose to meet the disaster. However, as the muddy waters recede, the cost of the devastation is being measured in billions. Sue Williams reports.

State in crisis

The great Aussie spirit lives in Queensland. Groups of families, facing ruin after being evacuated from their own flood-ravaged homes, worked tirelessly to fill sandbags to protect the homes of others. Their selfless generosity brought a lump to the throat of Premier Anna Bligh on her tour of disaster-hit Rockhampton and other towns. “It’s just heart-breaking to watch this,” she told The Weekly. “But then, in the midst of all this extraordinary hardship, there’s such a remarkable resilience and generosity. It’s going to be a long, long road to recovery, but there’s incredible spirit here.”

Related: The Weekly’s readers share their experiences of the floods

Such scenes were played out every day as large swathes of Queensland battled to survive the worst floods in living memory, with 10 lives lost and the volume of water in the south-east of the state alone enough to cover the whole of new South Wales.

In Rockhampton, the worst-hit town, where floodwaters peaked at 9.2 metres, and more than 500 people were evacuated, three times the volume of water of Sydney Harbour rushed past in the swollen Fitzroy River every 24 hours. More than 1000 homes were inundated, thousands more cut off, more than 20 towns and communities hit and over 200,0000 people affected by the flooding of an area the size of France and Germany combined. Now, as murky waters leave Rockhampton, Bundaberg, Theodore, Emerald and St George, the brave locals are sweeping up mud and snake-infested vegetation, and most of them are vowing to rebuild their lives.

Where the water is going

As water levels finally fell in Rockhampton, with vast volumes gushing out into the sea, marine scientists began to fear for the health of the Great Barrier Reef from the sheer onslaught of pesticides, fertilisers and soil rushing into the ocean. Inland, with the rest of the water flowing south, pushing over the border into New South Wales and rushing into the Darling River on its way to the head of the Murray, South Australia put low-lying areas on high alert.

The damage bill

The cost of the floods has been put at more than $5 billion and possibly as high as $9 billion. AMP chief economist Shane Oliver says more than $6 billion worth of exports alone have been lost, mostly in coal as mines were flooded and 40 had to be shut down. Since Queensland supplies half of the world’s coking coal – mostly to China and India – and 40 per cent of its thermal coal, power prices are now expected to rise even more, with the volume of steel production around the world also predicted to be hit.

In pictures: The devastation caused by the flooding in Queensland

Up to $1 billion worth of agricultural produce has been lost, too, according to Brad Pfeffer of the Queensland Farmers’ Federation. “It’s hard to assess just how much until the waters finally go and reveal what’s lying underneath,” he says. “But about 80 per cent of the state’s farms will be affected in some way, with stock lost or missing and crops ruined. Farmers are resilient people, but we’ve had calls from some in tears.”

Prices of some fruit and vegetables have already almost doubled in many places, the cost of milk has risen and sodden paddocks will delay planting for next year, forcing prices up through winter, too. “There’s such widespread devastation, there’ll be a flow-on even into next year,” says Growcom chief executive Alex Livingstone.

Read more of this story in the February issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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A perfect pear

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Pears are possibly the easiest fruit tree to grow (although, arguably, plums could compete for that spot!). It’s hard to kill a pear tree. As long as your climate gets some frosts each winter — in other words, as far north as Brisbane — you can grow a pear tree.

In subtropics and tropics, though, you’re best advised to grow one of the available varieties of Nashi pear, a Japanese breed that needs less chilling than old-fashioned European pears and has apple-crisp fruit. Look for one of the heat-tolerant varieties. It’s hard not to get boxes of fruit, too, even if you only have one tree.

Don’t be put off if the only nashi pears you have had were rather disappointing ones from the supermarket — a Nashi pear picked and eaten from your own tree is completely different — juicy, crisp and refreshingly tasty.

If you want to be sure you get fruit, though, grow a Williams bon Chrétien pear, a popular backyard pear that is the only one sure not to need a pollinator. Better still, plant a multi-graft tree. Pears bear so prolifically that one giant tree will give you too much fruit for the average family; if it has two or three varieties ripening at different times you’re more likely to be able to cope. Or grow several varieties as single-stemmed cordons and espalier them as a productive screen anywhere sunny — the trees are planted very closely together, and pruned into thin wall so they stay small, beautful- and very productive.

Pears grow best in deep fertile soil, but they’ll cope with just about any soil that isn’t pure sand or waterlogged or salty. Pears cope with the coolest of Australian climates and while they need cool winters they will tolerate hotter summers than apples.

The one disadvantage of pear trees is that they are big, though pears grafted onto quince stock produce smaller trees. But if you don’t want to do the whole espalier thing, you can prune your pear so that it has one main trunk, and prune off the lower branches, too. That will give you a tall straight tower of blossom, leaves and fruit, and let sunlight in so you can grow other shrubs or even flowers around it. Pears are great trees to shade a kitchen window, keeping out the summer sunlight but letting the winter warmth in when they lose their leaves.

The pear you’ll usually see in supermarkets is Williams (also known as Williams bon Chrétien, Bartlett or Duchess). It’s a good soft pear that doesn’t keep well. My favourite is Beurre Bosc, a slim, brown skinned, hard fleshed pear — it’s the best for cooking (stays wonderfully firm but tender) and keeps for months wrapped in newspaper in the larder. There are many other superb pears available, including the aromatic Doyenne du Comice, a stunning pear that bruises too easily to be marketed.

Pears are easy to look after —or rather, don’t need looking after at all. Don’t bother pruning, except to keep them in shape — pears tend to grow too vigorously after pruning. Feed once a year, in early spring; too much feeding later on can lead to soft fruit that doesn’t keep so well. Mulch in harsh dry summers. Pears can get codlin moth or fruit fly. You can drape the trees with fruit fly netting, or grow late varieties that fruit in winter instead of early ones — while fruit fly will attack soft winter fruit like overripe oranges, they don’t seem attracted to hard-skinned late pears.

Pear and cherry slug is the worst problem — horrible, slimey-looking black sawfly larvae that suck the goodness from the leaves so they curl up brown and or covered in an ugly tracery. Pears are usually so vigorous they easily survive this pest, so if you don’t like spraying, plant the tree where the bit of mess won’t bother you. Othewise spray with Pestoil.

Like apples, you can pick home-grown pears over about a month or six weeks. Pick the largest fruit first; the smaller fruit will keep getting bigger.

Unlike most fruit, pears are best picked about two weeks before they are ripe, or at least soft (it will still taste sweet — if you pucker when you taste it, leave it alone). Pears become juicy as they soften. This is usually about a week after the birds have started munching it. Fruit should snap off easily without twisting.

Pears keep for weeks or even months in the fridge. Most will keep for weeks and often a lot longer wrapped in newspaper and stored in a cool dark place. A warning though: fruit fly infected fruit will go soggy and leave a mess of fermenting fruit and sodden newspaper Make sure you only store fruit that doesn’t have any blemishes.

Anyone who has a pear tree will grow used to giving baskets of fruit away to friends. Even kids who think they don’t like fruit will suddenly discover why humans have loved pears for thousands of years once they pick their own straight from the tree.

A home-grown pear is magic, an easily grown gift from the generosity of the earth.

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