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The five simple functions we are too busy to do right

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Does hurrying the kids through their breakfast, before dashing off to work, then doing 10 things at once, before popping in and out of meetings sound familiar to you?

Whether it’s work, looking after the kids, racing to get somewhere or rushing to do something, we all get caught up in everyday life. So it’s not surprising that we often forget to do the simple things, such as drinking enough water or simply stopping to take a breath.

Here are the little things you may forget, or not have time to do throughout your day, which are having a big impact on your health.

Why it is important: Dr Doug Hansen, an assistant professor of family medicine at the University of Colorado in the US, says daydreaming puts you in an alpha state where you are more capable of being creative and inspired. “We spend most of our time in this brain state called the beta brain wave, which is associated with our logical thinking but it’s not a very inspirational state,” he told MSNBC.

If you don’t stop to daydream you never fully recharge, putting a halt on your creative ideas.

What you can do: It takes just 10 minutes of zoning out and focusing on a something you desire to recharge and get your creative juices flowing again.

Why it is important: Around 60 percent of your body’s weight is made up of water and water is required by every cell to function properly. “The typical person loses 10 to 12 cups of water daily through urine, sweating, bowel movements and breathing,” Dr Hansen says.

He says it can take a while for your brain to recognise that you’re thirsty, so by the time you realise it, you’ve probably waited too long, however if you drink water all day, which is the way the body tends to use fluids best, you won’t feel thirsty.

What you can do: It is important that you consume around eight to 10 cups of fluid a day to adequately replace losses.

Why it is important: Dr Hansen says the bladder is an extremely adaptable organ, with the cells in the bladder able to stretch thanks to their elastic properties. Holding urine when needed, like when on a long car trip, is okay every now and again, but repeating this can have a negative effect.

He describes the bladder as similar to a rubber band. If you keep stretching it out by “holding it”, at some point it won’t spring back by emptying fully. The remaining urine gets trapped leading to infection and incontinence issues. “Repeatedly or chronically holding it might increase your risk for urinary tract infections or even incontinence,” he says.

What you can do: Visit the bathroom six to seven times per day when you have the “got-to-go” feeling, no matter what.

Why it is important: Shallow breathing becomes a habit, because you have forgotten to take time to take a deep cleansing breath. Other than making you feel stressed out, shallow breathing can cause a build-up of carbon dioxide. This can put you at greater risk of lung complications, such as pulmonary infections.

What you can do: Sit upright, with your shoulders back and chest out. Take deep cleansing breaths in through the nose and out through the mouth several times throughout the day. Apart from helping you breathe better, it will clear your mind and help you to relax.

Dr Hansen also recommends taking up exercise that engages the respiratory system like walking, swimming or biking. He said once you start to fully work out your cardio respiratory system, deeper breaths will become the norm. If you have any concerning breathing problems, be sure to have them checked by your doctor.

Why it is important: How often do you gulp down a meal while racing to get somewhere? We are all guilty of neglecting to take time eat properly. This can cause heartburn, gas and indigestion, but it can also contribute to obesity and eating disorders.

It takes the brain 20 minutes to register the feeling of being full, when you go past this 20 minute mark, you bypass satiety. Remember, food that is designed to be eaten quickly, often isn’t the healthiest choice.

What you can do: Dr Robert Bonakdar, director of pain management for Scripps Center for Integrative Medicine in La Jolla in California, says you should eat before you are starving and spend 20 to 30 minutes sitting down eating a meal. “I like mindful eating in that it makes the experience more about the food and all factors that went into it (where it comes from, how it tastes, how it makes one feel), which are lost with mindless eating,” he told MSNBC.

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Gwyneth Paltrow reveals her body secrets

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She has one of the best bodies in Hollywood and now Gwyneth Paltrow has revealed her secrets to how she manages it.

The 38-year-old actress said she does not obsess about her body shape and that she loves to eat.

The mother of two said she is diligent about her fitness routine but told Self magazine she does allow herself to break away from exercise every now and again in order to maintain her sanity.

“I’ve found what works for me,” she said. “I know if I put in an hour and a half, five days a week, I’m good. If I’m on vacation and, like, ‘f— it, I’m not working out’ I know what to do when I get back.

“A lot of women think, ‘Oh my God, I could never get there’ but I don’t think that’s true. It’s simply relative to how much you put into it.”

Despite her carefree holiday attitude, when she is at home she is at it five days a week.

“I do 45 minutes of cardio five days a week, because I like to eat. I also try for 45 minutes of muscular structure work, which is toning, realigning and lengthening,” she said.

“If I’m prepping for something or I’ve been eating a lot of pie, I do two hours a day, six days a week for two weeks.”

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The Weekly’s royal wedding covers

For 78 years, The Weekly has been the trusted source of all royal goings-on for generations of Australian women.

From the marriage of Princess Elizabeth II to her dashing Greek-Danish Prince Philip in 1947 to Charles and Diana, Andrew and Fergie and most recently, Edward and Sophie, The Weekly has always been on hand to celebrate a royal wedding.

Now we have our Prince William and Catherine Middleton cover to add to this beautiful collection.

The latest issue: Prince William and Catherine Middleton

Queen Elizabeth’s marriage to Prince Philip in November, 1947

Grace Kelly’s marriage to Monaco’s Prince Rainier III in April, 1956

Princess Margaret’s wedding to Antony Armstrong-Jones in May, 1960

Prince Charles’ marriage to Diana, Princess of Wales, in July, 1981

Prince Andrew’s wedding to Sarah Ferguson in July, 1986

Prince Edward’s marriage to Sophie Rhys-Jones in June, 1999

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Where to go for the best royal wedding coverage

Where to go for the best royal wedding coverage

For 78 years, The Weekly has been the trusted source of all royal goings-on for generations of Australian women.

From the marriage of Princess Elizabeth II to her dashing Greek-Danish Prince Philip in 1947 to Charles and Diana, Andrew and Fergie and most recently, Edward and Sophie, The Weekly has always been on hand to celebrate a royal wedding in the House of Windsor.

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Back in 1947, we had to wait days to receive photographs from London before we could publish them and reveal the lavishness of a far-flung fairytale wedding to a breathless Weekly readership. These days, the cut of Kate’s dress, the number of diamonds in her tiara and every tear shed by the young bride will all be tweeted or broadcast live-via-satellite within seconds of them appearing.

Which is why The Weekly will be taking a thoroughly modern approach to the coverage of the upcoming royal nuptials.

Because we all like to multi-task these days — it’s not enough to watch the TV, we have to tweet, blog or update our status at the same time — The Weekly will be throwing all its considerable resources to providing the most comprehensive coverage of the royal wedding any colonial could wish for.

Correspondents on the ground in London will tweet all the action live. Follow The Weekly’s London correspondent on Twitter by clicking here.

Our London operative will be tweeting all the preparations in the lead up to the big day and giving a flavour of the mood in the English capital as the Brits shape up to do what they do best: pomp and ceremony.

On the day of the wedding, make The Australian Women’s Weekly’s royal wedding hub your online base for all the action as it unfolds.

Weekly reporters will be live blogging the wedding and providing a constant stream of up-to-the-minute coverage of everything from the dress, to the wedding party, to the ceremony, vows, guest list and after-party.

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Photo galleries will also be published on The Weekly’s royal wedding hub, ensuring that even if you can’t get to TV screen during the wedding, or if you choose to sleep through it and want a one-stop shop in the morning for a comprehensive wrap-up of all wedding proceedings, we will more than have you covered.

And then, once you have devoured it all online, be sure to be among the first in line at your local newsagent to pick up your copy of the special Royal Wedding Commemorative issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly (on sale from May 4) — and take part in a 78-year-old tradition.

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Kate Middleton’s pre-wedding diet

Kate Middleton's wedding diet

With the Royal wedding just weeks away, Kate Middleton has stepped out with Prince William in Lancashire looking slim and trim.

In fact, Kate’s recent slim down has forced her to resize her reported £32 million ring so that it doesn’t slip off her finger.

The princess in waiting’s pre-wedding weight loss is being put down to the Dukan Diet, which was designed by French doctor Pierre Dukan, and works in four stages to lose and stabilise weight.

Watch the video below to learn more about the Dukan Diet and why it appeals to Kate Middleton.

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Women lag behind financially

While women are assumed to be the bigger spenders of the household and less fond of budgeting their finances than men, there was little evidence to support this preconception — until now.
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A new survey of about 800 Australians by Bankwest has found that more women are struggling financially than men. The Financial Fitness Index found 39 per cent of the women surveyed were financially unfit, which is almost the half that of men at 23 per cent.

And the numbers get worse. Commonwealth Bank-owned Bankwest recorded a rise in the number of women who are financially unfit by eight percentage points, while the number of men who are struggling financially has dropped by twp percentage points compared to 12 months ago.

Vittoria Shortt, head of retail at Bankwest, admitted that the contrast in results for each gender could be caused by the fact that women earn less on average than men. Shortt also notes that many households have experienced higher living costs in the past year.

Looking at Australian Bureau of Statistics data, the average male adult’s income is $1361.50 per week while adult women fall short of that by more than $230 per week. That’s almost $12,000 a year less than men.

While there’s no doubt that there’s more than a little inequality with average salaries between men and women, the rising living costs affect households equally. Although some could argue that running several hair straighteners, blow dryers and various other grooming equipment in a household full of females could bump up the electricity bill somewhat further than a house full of men.

For those women who have entered 2011 with a little too much debt on their credit cards or came back from summer holidays with not a penny to their name, it’s not too late to pull your financial health back in shape.

Start by putting your credit cards on a diet. If you have more than one, it might be worth considering consolidating your cards to the one account.

Balance transfer credit cards are a good solution for those determined to get back on top of their finances. They work by moving your debt from your other cards to the new card with a low introductory rate, for instance 0 percent for six months.

The trick to balance transfer cards is to pay off your debt during the honeymoon period before the interest rate reverts to a much higher rate. The purchase interest rate can also be much higher so it’s best not to use the card for purchases either.

If you’re serious about saving in 2011, start by comparing your financial products online at RateCity.com.au and get out of debt for good.

Michelle Hutchison is a consumer advocate at RateCity. RateCity is a privately owned company in partnership with ninemsn, publisher of the Australian Women’s Weekly website. The above information is general only and does not take into account your objectives, financial situation or needs.

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William, Prince of hearts

William, Prince of hearts

Prince William in Queensland yesterday

His wedding is only a month away, but Prince William didn’t hesitate when his grandmother the queen asked him to visit disaster stricken areas in New Zealand and Australia on her behalf.

Leaving fiancée Kate Middleton at home to fine-tune the final plans for what will be the most-watched wedding of the decade, William was honoured to step up to the plate and represent the House of Windsor.

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In an emotional royal visit, he consoled relatives of the victims of the Christchurch earthquake and the Pike River mine explosion, and those affected by the Queensland and Victorian floods. It was just over a year before that he had taken time out to comfort the families of victims of the Victorian bushfires.

The surprise trip this month came hot on the heels of William’s equally frenetic tour of the UK, this time with wife-to-be Kate Middleton on his arm.

The “changing of the guard at Buckingham Palace” is clear to see — Prince William has arrived and with him the royal family is young again. And for all of us watching the 28-year-old royal with his innate ease and grace with ordinary people, it’s just like watching his mother before him.

A mere flash of his blue eyes and catch of his shy smile evoke memories of Diana and the deja vu does not stop there. William was well-taught by his mother, not just on how to cope with his bizarre life in the spotlight, but on how to use it to reshape the monarchy, affect change, make a difference and somehow stay true to himself.

Diana, the aristocratic preschool teacher whose blue-blooded lineage can be traced back to King Charles I, was just 20 when she gave birth to William on June 21, 1982, and even though there was never any question about what William would do when he grew up, she was determined to stamp her mark on the future King of England.

Battling the stifling protocol of the English “royal firm”, Diana strove to give Prince William Arthur Philip Louis Windsor not just a normal, loving childhood, but one that might equip him with a fresh attitude and mindset on the life of duty which lay ahead of him.

“He’s a deep thinker,” she said proudly of her son, who was 13 at the time of the interview and whose first tour of duty was to Australia with his parents when he was nine months old.

Away from the cameras, she introduced her sons to radically different corners of their kingdom. They visited homeless shelters and met people with HIV.

“I want William to experience what most people already know. That he and Harry are growing up in a multiracial society in which not everyone is rich, has four holidays a year, speaks standard English and has a Range Rover,” said Diana.

Related: Kate Middleton’s shrinking frame sparks concern

“What Princess Diana did was to bring up a couple of normal human beings [in her sons]. They come across as real people,” says Michael O’Mara, publisher of leading books on the royal family, including Andrew Morton’s biography of Diana.

“If Charles had married another person who was more like the Windsors, the children would have been more inward looking, less relaxed and removed from the real world.

“Diana was dragging her sons around to doss houses — they understand real people. The common touch is the main thing. The way William sounds is completely different to his father. He may sound posh, but he comes across as relatively normal, not from another planet or from an episode of Doctor Who.”

Read more of this story in the April issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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Video: Prince William and Kate Middleton’s final public appearance before their wedding

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The downfall of Ricky Nixon

The downfall of Ricky Nixon

Ricky Nixon was an AFL star who spun his success into a multi-million dollar sports management business. Yet the high-flyer spiralled out of control. Sue Smethurst reports that his business is in tatters, a sex and drugs scandal has forced him into hiding and police are investigating.

When Ricky Nixon called a press conference in March 2002 to announce that football hero Wayne Carey was quitting the game because he’d been caught having an affair with his teammate’s wife, few would have predicted that the highly respected sports agent who sat beside Wayne, crimson with rage that his number one star had been brought down by a femme fatale, would one day fall on the same sword.

The football world was in shock last month when news broke that “Australia’s Jerry Maguire”, Ricky Nixon, a man arguably as famous as some of the stars he managed, had allegedly been having an affair with the teenage girl at the centre of the “St Kilda nude photo scandal”.

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It was a bombshell claim that the 47-year-old married father of two, who was effectively charged with ending the media frenzy after nude pictures of one of his clients were uploaded on Facebook, was in fact having an affair with the 17-year-old girl who created it.

Ricky, who has managed the biggest names in the game, denied the claims of a sexual relationship in a Clinton-esque style statement that admitted to “inappropriate dealings”.

Yet the tech-savvy teen had an ace up her sleeve. After making explosive further allegations that they had shared cocaine and alcohol, she released videos that she had taken on her phone, allegedly showing Ricky cavorting on her hotel room bed in his underwear, and “sext” messages so explicit they would make Shane Warne blush. It was game over.

Once considered a powerbroker of the AFL, Ricky, who had forged a career spinning and saving the reputations of his often-troubled clients, was now in need of crisis PR himself.

He checked into rehab to deal with “a substance abuse problem that has impacted on my life and my decision making” and had his licence to manage formally suspended after a report by prominent Melbourne QC David Galbally, acting for the AFL Players Association, described him as dishonest and unprofessional.

It is a staggering fall from grace at the hands of the girl dubbed “a teenage Mata Hari with a mobile”.

So what of Ricky Nixon now? Those in the business say his career is over, absolutely unsalvageable. “What parent is going to allow their child to be managed by Ricky Nixon?” says a rival agent.

“He will never manage a player again and it’s a real shame because it could’ve ended so differently for him, but it’s all over now.”

Related: Ricky Nixon enters rehab

Yet those who know Ricky Nixon say the hardest blow will be to his ego, that this sex and drugs scandal will forever overshadow an otherwise extraordinary career.

Perhaps Ricky summed it up best in his book when he wrote, “It’s just the law of the jungle; a good manager will strike the right balance between what’s fair market value while not losing sight of pushing for the best possible deal for his client. One side burning the other is to no one’s advantage because there will always be another day when you don’t hold all the aces.”

Read more of this story in the April issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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Parents with young children are heavier study finds

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A new US study has found that new mothers of young children are heavier and eat more fatty and high-sugar foods than women without children.

The University of Minnesota researchers collected data from 1520 adults with an average age of 25, including parents with children younger than five years old, and found that parents were less active, the Associated Press reported.

The researchers found that mothers ate more fatty foods and drank about seven sugary drinks weekly, compared to about four among childless women.

The mothers surveyed also consumed an average of 9910 kilojoules a day, around 1550 more kilojoules than women without children, and mothers exercised less than their childless counterparts.

As a result, mothers had a slightly higher average body mass index (27) than childless women (26).

Fathers included in the study were found to eat the same daily amount of kilojoules as childless men and both had an average BMI of about 25, but fathers also did less physical activity.

Study co-author Dr Jerica Berge said the research “wasn’t about blame” but “about identifying … a very high-risk time period [for parents]”. She said doctors should be aware of the heightened risks so they can provide appropriate advice to parents.

The researchers, who publish their results in the Journal of Pediatrics, said the solution could include diet advice, parent-child exercise classes, or simply getting parents to take walks with their kids.

The researchers took race, income and other factors into account, which may have affected participant’s diet.

But the study did have limitations, including limited data on the women who had recently given birth and could still be holding pregnancy weight and information about single parents was not included.

American Dietetic Association spokeswoman Sarah Krieger, who works with new mothers, said some of those involved in the study may be suffering from postpartum depression, which could have affected their eating and exercise habits and the results of the survey.

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Banish multitasking and concentrate on the job at hand

Feeling overwhelmed? Easily distracted? Too busy to stop? Performance expert Dr Adam Fraser shows us how to get back into 'the flow' and focus on the task at hand.
Banish multitasking and concentrate on the job at hand

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Feeling overwhelmed? Easily distracted? Too busy to stop? Performance expert Dr Adam Fraser shows us how to get back into the flow and focus on the task at hand.

“Multitasking is impossible,” Dr Adam Fraser says. “What we’re actually doing is switch-tasking. We can only give our conscious attention to one task at a time. In our society of instant gratification, iPhones and Facebook and a thousand distractions, people are losing the capacity to control their attention.”

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Dr Fraser uses the term “flow” to describe a performance state where we have a clear goal, a calm mind, positive emotions and optimistic thoughts. You can find flow in any of life’s daily challenges — via work, socially, doing sport or hobbies, even domestic duties. Here are Dr Fraser’s tips on reaching this Zen-like state.

Have a clear goal

The brain needs clear goals so it can pool all its resources and focus. “Take a deep breath and relax,” Dr Fraser says. “Make a strategic, big-picture list of where you are trying to get to at the moment, and the most important things you need to accomplish. Then look at all the activity you have to do in your day, and if it’s not related to what you are trying to achieve, dump it. Make a list of the small steps that you need to do, prioritise them and knock them off one by one.”

Be present

The mind is calm when it is not looking to the past or future. “Practise being present with tasks,” Dr Fraser says. “Close your email, turn your phone off and get that one thing done. When you’re on the phone, don’t clean out your inbox. In conversation, focus on the other person, completely. Research shows that presence builds trust and rapport.”

Positive emotions

“One of the biggest tickets into the flow state is to manage your emotions,” Dr Fraser says. “Most people are not aware of the emotions they feel. They wake up with a certain emotion and very quickly that emotion turns into a mood and over time that mood becomes a temperament.”

We don’t need to fake a good mood to get into one: “Emotional intelligence is not about insincerity. It’s about becoming self-aware. It’s about asking yourself: ‘What is my emotional state and how can I get into a better one?’,” Dr Fraser says.

“If you’re feeling angry — why? Ask yourself, ‘Will anger help me get what I want from the situation? No. It will alienate the people around me so they won’t help me. If I stay calm and remind myself of the bigger picture and put myself in the other person’s shoes then I can have empathy, tolerance and compassion around the situation.’ If you’re feeling apathy and boredom, how can you find enthusiasm and passion for the situation?”

An optimistic mindset

“If you approach a challenge thinking, ‘I suck at this, it’s not going to go well, I’m not having a good week,’ you’re not going to get into the flow with it,” Dr Fraser says. “Whereas if you think, ‘Yeah I do this really well, I’m a really good worker, I’m smart and I’m capable’ — you’re chance of flow is far greater.”

According to psychologist Dr Mark Seligman, optimism can be learned. All we need do is change our explanation style.

When an event occurs to us or around us we explain it to ourselves on three levels:

  1. Permanence: Is this something that happens all the time or is it rare?

  2. Pervasiveness: Does it affect everything (global) or does it affect very little (specific)?

  3. Personalisation: Is this event due to me, or is it due to others?

“I could watch the news and say, ‘The world has gone insane, this always happens. We’re all doomed,'” Dr Fraser says. “I’ve made it permanent, global and internal. Optimists make bad events temporary (‘It’s a rare event’); specific (‘It affects a small part of the world’); and external (‘It’s nobody’s fault, luckily it’s nothing to do with me’). Studies show that our explanation style dramatically affects our happiness.”

Related: Top 10 tips to beat mortgage stress

Ready to practise the Art of Flow?

“You know you are in the flow when you feel stimulated, you are actively engaged in the task at hand, and hours pass like minutes,” Dr Fraser explains. “It’s the opposite to overwhelmed.”

For more information, visit www.dradamfraser.com.au.

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