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Deborra-Lee Furness on adoption

Deborra-Lee Furness on adoption

Deborra-Lee Furness with orphans in Ethiopia

Deborra-Lee Furness raises two adopted children with her husband Hugh Jackman. Here, she talks about why adoption is important.

I was asked to write a short piece about why I think adoption is important.

I can’t think of anything more important than ensuring that every child in this world has at least one person who has their best interests at heart, someone who cares about them so they know they are loved and valued.

Every child deserves to be educated and nurtured so they can grow in a positive way and be able to eventually become a happy and contributing member of their community.

To steal a child’s innocence is one of the greatest crimes of humanity.

When a child is abandoned through poverty, war, illness or neglect that child’s innocence is lost and there are a myriad of challenges that child must overcome.

Orphanages are no place for a child to grow up and the streets are even worse. There are over 100 million orphans in our world. I don’t know many people who could just walk by a baby or child who is starving and alone and not do something.

Children are our most vulnerable citizens. They have to depend on us grown-ups to make the best decisions for their wellbeing.

There are too many orphans in the world and we cannot process families fast enough. Communities need to be strengthened economically to prevent child abandonment.

Any children who don’t have a permanent family should be placed in foster care or small group homes rather than large institutions.

I would love for everyone to feel responsible for these kids — to think of each of them as one of their own and contribute in some small way to bringing a smile to a child’s face.

This year, National Adoption Awareness Week wants to invite everybody to become a champion for children without families.

I want to invite Politicians to become advocates and seek policy change that would better the system worldwide.

I would like the academics to think out of the box and create solutions and systems that would benefit these kids.

Journalists can contribute by raising awareness and reporting of the realities that exist and the possibilities that could be.

There are endless ways that everyone can change the life of a child. Not every child can or should be adopted and we need to work out how best to serve all these children.

Deb.

For more information or to join the campaign to change adoption laws, visit National Adoption Awareness Week, Worldwide Orphans Foundation, or email [[email protected]](/mailto:[email protected]).

Video: Deborra-Lee Furness discusses her adoption battle

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The Weekly’s adoption campaign

The Weekly's Editor-in-chief Helen McCabe on why the magazine is campaigning to change Australia's adoption laws.
The Weekly's Helen McCabe heads the adoption campaign

The Weekly's Editor-in-chief Helen McCabe

Around the world there are millions of orphans and unwanted children and Australia has plenty of families wanting to provide them with the love and care they deserve.

Unfortunately, Australia’s adoption system doesn’t make this easy, and fewer than 300 inter-country adoptions take place each year.

Even for the few families who do get through the adoption process, it can cost up to $40,000 and take up to eight years from the beginning of the process to when the adoptive parents pick up their child.

In support of National Adoption Awareness Week, The Weekly is joining forces with adoption advocate Deborah-Lee Furness to change the way adoption works in Australia.

Through the stories you find here on our online adoption hub and in the magazine and through the breakfast we will be hosting during National Adoption Awareness Week, we aim to make it easier for Australians to adopt children from other countries.

**For more information or to join the campaign to change adoption laws, visit National Adoption Awareness Week

Your say: Do you think it should be easier for Australian couples to adopt children from other countries? Email us [email protected]

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Blanche d’Alpuget and Sue Pieters-Hawke’s airport scuffle

Blanche d'Alpuget and Sue Pieters-Hawke's airport scuffle

The airport scuffle between the wife of former Australian prime minister Bob Hawke, Blanche d’Alpuget and his daughter, Sue Pieters-Hawke was reportedly over d’Alpuget’s biography of Bob.

The Australian Federal Police were called to the Qantas chairman’s lounge at Brisbane Airport after witnesses reported seeing one of the women slap the other, the Daily Telegraph reported.

The pair is reportedly feuding over d’Alpuget’s biography of Bob, Hawke: The Prime Minister, which Pieters-Hawke says portrays her family and mother Hazel Hawke inaccurately.

Pieters-Hawke is also releasing a biography of her mother, Hazel: A Biography, in November this year.

Pieters-Hawke released a statement about the scuffle. She said she will not discuss the matter further but said she did not touch her stepmother in any way and that she called the police to the lounge.

What do you think of the airport scuffle? Were you there? Tell us what you saw in the comments box below.

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14 day meal plan for better digestive health

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Vegetarian weekly meal plan

Vegetarian pasta

Try a vegetarian meal plan for a week, and feel the difference.

The benefits of a vegetarian eating plan are numerous. But it takes planning to ensure you get all the nutrients you need. We have developed a weekly meal plan, so whether you are a seasoned vegetarian or are looking at introducing the odd vegetarian meal, we are sure you will find some inspiration here.

Each day upon rising: 300ml hot water with the juice of ½ lemon

After each meal: 500ml of unchilled water

Exercise for at least 30 minutes five days a week

The vegetarian diet plan

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Jodi Gordon’s joy: I’m engaged!

Jodi Gordon's joy: I'm engaged!

Newly engaged Jodi Gordon and Braith Anasta.

The actress couldn’t wait to share the news after her footy hunk popped the question.

Like most girls who have just excitedly accepted a marriage proposal, former Home And Away star Jodi Gordon was bubbling over with joy when she tried on her engagement ring. She flashed the stunning diamond for the world to see in a beaming profile picture on her Facebook page – and, at 8.06pm on June 16, she updated her profile status to “engaged to Braith Anasta”.

Within minutes, several of Jodi’s 380 friends had shot back their best wishes. “Congrats guys. All the best,” posted Ash May Brewer. “Congrats Jodi n Braith,” wrote Nikki Eslick “’bout time!!!!,” noted cheeky Sophie Rathmell. Days later, as Woman’s Day can exclusively reveal, Jodi was spotted trying on wedding rings at jeweller-to-the stars Nick Cerrone’s store in Leichhardt, in Sydney’s inner west.

And now she and Braith have splashed out $1.8 million for a stunning house in Clovelly, described by Raine & Horne Coogee agent Graeme Anderson as “perfect for a young family”. This topped off what has been an incredible two weeks for Jodi, who has tried to keep a lid on her engagement, but couldn’t wipe the smile off her face when she saw the property which will become their marital home.

With two major Australian films due for release later this year, and Hollywood calling, Jodi, 26, has never been hotter property. She recently signed with Australian agent Sean Anderson, who represents Jennifer Hawkins and Jamie Durie among others.

See inside Jodi and Braith’s love nest in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale June 27, 2011.

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Esther Anderson back in front of the camera and couldn’t be happier

Esther Anderson is back in front of the camera and couldn’t be happier

Putting the debate over her thin frame behind her, Esther Anderson is returning to modelling and feeling happier — and healthier — than ever.

Shaking a mane of impossibly shiny hair away from her equally immaculate face on the set of her latest fashion shoot, actress Esther Anderson looks every inch a professional model.

But it’s no surprise considering the Home and Away beauty started out as a clothes horse, which meant her face and figure were very much public property.

Now the slender star is returning to modelling, fronting a clothing campaign for Howard Showers, but her early experience in front of the lens and dealing with gossip about her “ultra-skinny” frame on Dancing with the Stars last year has given her a refreshingly direct view of her body this time around.

“I am a bit nervous about returning to modelling even though I did it for a big chunk of my life. I’ve modelled longer than I’ve been acting!” laughs Esther as a makeup artist smooths blush on to her perfectly defined cheekbones.

While there’s no doubt Esther’s frame is uncommonly tiny, the 32-year-old says her figure is a product of her very healthy upbringing and genuine love of vegetables, as well as her view that as a model and an entertainer she has a responsibility to consistently look her best.

“I was brought up in a very healthy family, the kind that always has brown bread,” Esther explains. “When I had friends over as a kid the treat I would ask for was white bread! So we’re lucky, we’ve always had a great relationship with food, I love vegies, and that’s really important.”

But Esther admits even her nutritionally balanced childhood didn’t stop her developing a sugar addiction when she first started on the set of Home and Away, playing policewoman Charlie Buckton, in 2007.

“I used to have a sugar addiction but I stopped giving it to my body and it stopped craving it,” Esther says. “The more you have something the more your body needs it. I had to get off needing sugar every day. It helped that I couldn’t eat chocolate because it gives me really bad migraines.”

Now Esther’s only guilty habit is coffee — and a penchant for skipping the gym!

“I have done gym work periodically, but I am lazy!” she says with a laugh. “There were a few years there when I was doing lots of lingerie work [as a model] and I really wanted to be toned for that. When I was modelling the focus was so much on the physical, and it still is an actress because you are employed looking a certain way and you have to stay that way, but I’ve never been on a diet in my life. Now it’s just about walking and being active. Growing up I played lots of sport but now it’s just about how much I run around!

“I love working out at the beach, because it’s outside and I go for long walks. But I do walk really fast. If I tell someone to meet up with me for a walk, I have to warn them they will have to keep up!”

Happily single, Esther estimates she is 5kg heavier than this time last year, but insists her shape isn’t something she worries about.

During her days modelling in Japan she became used to considering her body objectively and viewing her looks as a commodity, bleaching her hair and whitening her skin to match the demands of the market.

“I don’t take body criticism personally because it’s part of my job to look a certain way,” she says firmly. “As a model, for 10 years I got used to the focus on staying in shape and looking good. That’s just what you do. I might not have been able to do that, or have that focus, without work. For people who are working 12 hours in an office, it’s not their priority — they have to do other things, and they find it a lot harder to find that time. Whereas as an entertainer, it’s part of your job.”

Today there’s no doubt that Esther’s professional outlook has helped her perfect her figure, which today is resplendent in a blue and black striped dress from Howard Showers — who she says is a perfect match for her own style.

“Every woman wants to look good, and when you can put something on and feel good, it’s priceless,” she says. “I like fun stuff that suits me and accentuates my body. That’s why this range is so good. It’s beautiful and wearable. And it’s really flattering.”

It’s obvious that part of Esther’s success in front of the cameras both at the beginning of her career and now is because she is comfortable in her skin, no matter what she weighs.

“When I started on Home and Away the schedule was packed and I didn’t have the time focus on fitness,” she says. “People do make the time, on the show, but for me that wasn’t a priority. I was adjusting to everything else and I wasn’t in my lingerie every single week — although these days I am doing a bit more of that!

“I’m fortunate that I have always been healthy and I have learned healthy habits, ways to eat healthily for the rest of my life.”

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Manu Feildel: My life as a single dad

Manu Feildel: My life as a single dad

Manu and his son Jonti.

The DWTS heartthrob opens up to Katherine Chatfield about his closeness to his son and how he’s open to love again.

It’s 5.10pm and Manu Feildel has packed up his dancing shoes and is rushing to pick up his son Jonti from school. As he arrives there’s a squeal of delight from Jonti and his friends, who are all delighted to see the Dancing With The Stars contestant.

“When I take him to school, all his friends start cheering my name,” says Manu, 38. “He’s definitely not shy about asking people if they know who I am. He’s very proud.” Manu, 38, separated from his partner of 12 years at the end of 2009 and the two share custody of their beloved six-year-old son.

“You just have to split your time and your company,” Manu says of learning to juggle the different aspects of his life. “Jonti is very understanding. He knows what I do. And I share it with him. I come back and tell him what I’ve done.” Despite having been thrust into the limelight when he appeared as the host of My Kitchen Rules early last year, Manu makes a point of trying to keep Jonti’s life as normal as possible.

“When we spend time together we do what dads and sons do,” he shrugs. “We love going to the cinema. Every kids’ movie that comes out, we’re the first ones to go and see it. We go to the park and the beach and all the normal stuff.” Manu says the pair are very alike. “He’s like me in so many ways,” he says. “He’s a clown. Physically he’s like me, and he can be grumpy, which is like me as well. But he’s very loving. We’re best mates.”

See more beautiful pictures of Manu and Jonti, as well as Manu’s recipe for Witlof and ham gratin, in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale June 27, 2011.

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Michael Jackson’s ex sister in-law fears for his children

Michael Jackson's ex sister in-law fears for his children

Having lived in the family estate for nearly 20 years, Alejandra Jackson reveals some never-before-heard home truths about the way the late King of Pop’s children are being raised.

Recently, she left the Jackson clan’s compound in Encino, California. Now, in this Woman’s Day exclusive, the mother-of-five gives her unique insight into their troubled lives. “I love Michael’s children with all my heart, so of course I worry about them,” Alejandra says.

“When he was alive, I would only see Prince, Paris and Blanket from time to time, usually when we visited them at Neverland. But my son Jaafar and Prince were always good friends. They were of a similar age, so hit it off from the word go.

“After Michael died, his kids came to live with us in the Encino house – and they became so close with my kids, before long they were always in my room. “I was with those children 24 hours a day,” she continues. “Mrs Jackson [Katherine] would be there, but she was dealing with so much. She had all these people coming to see her, and all these big things to take care of. It was me who was always with the kids.

Find out why Alejandra thinks Micahle wouldn’t be happy with how his children are being raised in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale June 27, 2011.

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The Amazing Race girls Sam and Renae: Our fight over a man

The Amazing Race girls Sam and Renae: Our fight over a man

The gorgeous girls from WA, racing around the world together on TV’s hot new show, reveal the truth about the rumoured love triangle.

They’re billed as the best of friends on hit show The Amazing Race Australia, however when it comes to dating, Samantha Schoers and Renae Wauhop really should be each other’s worst nightmare. Before embarking on this journey with Renae, 23-year-old Sam made the decision to break up with her boyfriend, West Coast Eagles AFL player Mark Nicoski. But to Sam’s surprise, Mark, instead of nursing his broken heart, found an unlikely new love… Renae!

While Sam dated Mark for most of last year, their romance didn’t stop sparks flying when she introduced Renae, 23, to Mark at a backyard “jamming” session when the girls made it back home once filming ended. “He plays guitar and I sing,” offers Renae. While many people would end a friendship over such tangles, it didn’t faze the girls.

“People have been making out that there’s this murky love triangle and a rivalry between Sam and me, but nothing could be further from the truth,” says Renae. “There is no animosity between us and we’re both happy.” The vibrant Perth girls have been joined at the hip since Renae, a Miss Universe Australia runner-up, brazenly “picked up” her fellow tomboy mate-to-be in a bar four years ago.

“Sam was dancing and she looked pretty cool, so I offered to buy her a shooter,” Renae says. “I didn’t know anyone there, so it was a pick-up line… we’ve been friends ever since.” The two were attracted to each other’s up-for-anything attitudes and boyish styles. “I shot my first goat at 11,” says Renae, who has a black belt in karate and grew up riding motorbikes in Geraldton, 400km north of Perth. “I didn’t wear my first skirt until I was 15,” shoots back Sam with a grin. “My mum forced me into modelling and deportment because she wanted me to act more like a lady.”

Your say: Who’s your favourite team on The Amazing Race? Share your thoughts below.

Find out what the girls really think of the Amazing Race in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale June 27, 2011.

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