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What’s wrong with adoption in Australia?

What's wrong with adoption in Australia?

Australia has the third-lowest adoption rate in the Organisation for Economic Cooperation and Development (OECD) – but why?

The OECD has 34 member countries, including the UK, US, Canada, France and Germany, as well as developing nations like Chile, Turkey and Mexico.

Advocates say there are several reasons for this.

1. The system is haphazard

The federal government looks after the inter-country relationships and overseas projects, but the states govern the actual application process, resulting in a confusing quagmire of bureaucracy.

For each country the requirements for applicants are different (some require prospective parents to be a certain age, or attend a certain church, or to have only been married once and for at least two or three years).

The rules also differ from state to state. In NSW, you can only adopt if you are aged under 45: in Queensland there is no limit. Victoria does not allow same-sex couples to adopt, but Western Australia does if they have been together for three years.

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2. Adoption is low on governments’ priority list

Streamlining the system to make it more effective would take money, effort and commitment, but there has been no sign of that from federal and state governments.

3. Governments are keen to avoid scandals

Governments shy away from the concept of adoption because they fear child trafficking or accusations of exploitation if a child presumed to be an orphan, for example, is later claimed.

Why should we care about adoption rates?

There are hundreds of thousands of children around the world who are genuinely orphaned, and would have access to better education, health care and opportunities if they could be adopted by a family in a developed country.

Moreover, there are thousands of families in Australia who would love to give these children homes because they are not able to have children, or would prefer to adopt a child than go through IVF.

However, they do not consider adoption a possibility because of the time, energy and resources involved, which often amounts to many years and tens of thousands of dollars.

Related: Fed-up couples giving up adoption dreams

What needs to be done?

Adoption advocates and the team at National Adoption Awareness Week would like governments to take a few simple steps to improve the way international adoptions are processed in Australia.

  • Appoint an oversight body to pull together state and federal policies and turn them into one, consistent national approach.

  • Dedicate more money and resources to strengthening inter-country relationships and making the process faster for families.

  • Solve the mystery of how many adoptees are living in Australia (no-one knows this figure) by adding a question to the next census.

  • Encourage a more adoption-friendly culture by acknowledging the positive effects adoption can have on families and the community.

The Weekly sought a response from the federal attorney general’s department. A spokesman said the government recognised the role of intercountry adoption in creating families, but many of the variables were due to different criteria and demands set by overseas countries.

The Intercountry Adoption Harmonisation Working Group was also trying to improve consistency by standardising things like adoption assessment. However, the number of healthy children in need of intercountry adoption was declining, he said. Most children put up for adoption are older or have medical problems.

For more information or to join the campaign to change adoption laws, visit National Adoption Awareness Week or email [[email protected]](/mailto:[email protected]).

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International adoption in Australia

International adoption in Australia

Inter-country adoption is a complicated issue – here are some facts and figures about Australian international adoptions.

  • In 2010, 197 children from overseas were adopted by Australian families, down from 434 in 2004-05.

  • At the end of the year, a total Australian 963 applications were waiting at overseas placement agencies .

  • Of the 197 placements approved for Australian families, most children (64) were from China, 31 were from Taiwan, and there were 26 each from South Korea and the Philippines.

  • The federal government manages the overseas programs; state authorities scrutinise and prepare families intending to adopt.

  • Adoptions can be expensive; for example, the adoption fee in South Korea was just raised from $US12000 to $US14000..

  • Different counties have different criteria: some will accept single women, some have age limits, some require parents to go to church.

  • Australia has adoption relationships with 14 countries.

For more information or to join the campaign to change adoption laws, visitNational Adoption Awareness Week or email [[email protected]](/mailto:[email protected]).

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Deborra-Lee Furness on adoption

Deborra-Lee Furness on adoption

Deborra-Lee Furness with orphans in Ethiopia

Deborra-Lee Furness raises two adopted children with her husband Hugh Jackman. Here, she talks about why adoption is important.

I was asked to write a short piece about why I think adoption is important.

I can’t think of anything more important than ensuring that every child in this world has at least one person who has their best interests at heart, someone who cares about them so they know they are loved and valued.

Every child deserves to be educated and nurtured so they can grow in a positive way and be able to eventually become a happy and contributing member of their community.

To steal a child’s innocence is one of the greatest crimes of humanity.

When a child is abandoned through poverty, war, illness or neglect that child’s innocence is lost and there are a myriad of challenges that child must overcome.

Orphanages are no place for a child to grow up and the streets are even worse. There are over 100 million orphans in our world. I don’t know many people who could just walk by a baby or child who is starving and alone and not do something.

Children are our most vulnerable citizens. They have to depend on us grown-ups to make the best decisions for their wellbeing.

There are too many orphans in the world and we cannot process families fast enough. Communities need to be strengthened economically to prevent child abandonment.

Any children who don’t have a permanent family should be placed in foster care or small group homes rather than large institutions.

I would love for everyone to feel responsible for these kids — to think of each of them as one of their own and contribute in some small way to bringing a smile to a child’s face.

This year, National Adoption Awareness Week wants to invite everybody to become a champion for children without families.

I want to invite Politicians to become advocates and seek policy change that would better the system worldwide.

I would like the academics to think out of the box and create solutions and systems that would benefit these kids.

Journalists can contribute by raising awareness and reporting of the realities that exist and the possibilities that could be.

There are endless ways that everyone can change the life of a child. Not every child can or should be adopted and we need to work out how best to serve all these children.

Deb.

For more information or to join the campaign to change adoption laws, visit National Adoption Awareness Week, Worldwide Orphans Foundation, or email [[email protected]](/mailto:[email protected]).

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Angelina Jolie’s Cambodian connection

Angelina Jolie's Cambodian connection

Angelina Jolie with her adopted son Maddox in 2005

When Angelina Jolie adopted an abandoned boy in Cambodia, no one realised she would go on to pour millions of dollars into his homeland and make a lasting difference to some of the world’s poorest people.

As the town of Samlout in north-western Cambodia comes into view, naked children and crumbling shacks give way to painted wooden houses.

Kids in school uniforms, emblazoned with the initials MJP, walk along a dirt road past orderly fields of crops and vegetables. Poverty in this former Khmer Rouge guerilla stronghold seems less desperate than in other regions. Welcome to Maddox Jolie-Pitt country.

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Few little boys aged nine can lay claim to their own philanthropic foundation, let alone a sleepy corner of a nation literally named after him.

Yet Maddox Jolie-Pitt is no ordinary youngster and his Hollywood-backed presence in this isolated region of Cambodia, on its protected north-western frontier with Thailand, is inescapable.

Maddox, the first of Angelina Jolie’s three adopted children, was born Rath Vibol into orphaned obscurity in August 2001. At six months, he was plucked out of a home for abandoned children in provincial Battambang.

Today, he is the jet-setting scion of Tinseltown’s most glamorous couple, Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt, collectively known as Brangelina.

Along with his five siblings (from three different countries), who lead a “luxury nomad” existence in the wake of their globe-trotting movie star mum and dad, he is a paparazzi favourite from Paris to Venice, New York and Los Angeles.

In Samlout, on the edge of the Cardamom mountains, however, Maddox and his high-powered parents are known for far more than their celebrity.

An estimated 5000 people living in 10 villages owe their livelihoods (or at least part of them) to him and his adopted mother and father, through the Maddox Jolie-Pitt Foundation, or MJP as it is known, created by Angelina in 2003.

Almost a decade after Maddox’s birth and adoption by the woman who put Angkor Wat on the tourism map as action hero Lara Croft in Tomb Raider, The Weekly is in Cambodia to retrace Jolie’s steps as she leapt from action hero to adoptive mother, humanitarian philanthropist and honoured Cambodian citizen.

It is a path littered with good deeds, millions of dollars and a wealth of conflicting theories.

The crowds at the “Tomb Raider temple”, as it is now known at Angkor Wat, are largest at the tree where Angelina Jolie was immortalised as the crusading Lara Croft.

Tourists from Korea, China, Eastern Europe and Australia troop to the spot where she emerged from the temple and try to re-enact her moves for their own cameras. “Is this where they filmed it?” a girl demands of her mother in a distinctly Australian accent.

Tour guides, taxi drivers and hotel staff at the closest town, Siem Reap, all talk about Angelina and how she stayed at this hotel or drank at that one. There are cocktails named after her.

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It was during the filming of Tomb Raider that Angelina fell in love with Cambodia. In turn, she helped make the Angkor ruins famous, turning them into one of Asia’s biggest tourist drawcards and bringing hotels, tourists and, most importantly, dollars to the once sleepy town.

Yet in the nearby city of Battambang — the birthplace of her son, Maddox — Angelina has barely caused a ripple. In Cambodia’s second largest city, where boulevards are lined with crumbling French villas, the people are poor, the streets are dirty and grubby, with malnourished street kids begging for a living. This may have been Maddox’s future had fate not intervened.

For more information or to join the campaign to change adoption laws, visit National Adoption Awareness Week or email [[email protected]](/mailto:[email protected]).

Read more of this story in the July issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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Angelina Jolie’s adoption guru on rehoming 10,000 kids

Angelina Jolie's adoption guru on rehoming 10,000 kids

Angelina Jolie with her adopted children Maddox, Zahara and Pax and her oldest biological daughter Shiloh

Dr Jane Aronson is a world authority on adoption. She has overseen the placement of thousands of children, including to celebrities Angelina Jolie and Mary-Louise Parker.

Angelina credits her with saving her daughter Zahara’s life: “My daughter is one of those children whom Jane helped have a chance to live, and I am forever grateful.”

She will be one of the guests at the National Adoption Awareness Week breakfast on November 7, which is co-hosted by The Women’s Weekly.

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What inspired you to work in the field of adoption?

Adoption of kids internationally exploded in the late 80s in the US and parents had no one to speak to about the complex and unique health issues the children faced.

They included TB exposure, parasites, hepatitis and syphilis. Then there were malnutrition and developmental issues.

I was well-suited to answer questions for anxious parents as a paediatrician specialising in paediatric infectious diseases. I had been a paediatric AIDS specialist and was very interested in parent education.

I began to speak at parent meetings and adoption advocacy organisation conferences. I started seeing more and more children adopted from abroad in my general practice in the New York area.

The numbers grew and I developed a specialty practice with a centre for families adopting internationally and domestically.

Do you have any adopted children of your own?

I adopted two children from abroad. Benjamin was adopted from Vietnam in September 2000 at 4 1/2 months of age. Desalegn was adopted from Ethiopia in June 2004 at 6 years of age.

There are reports you have helped thousands children find homes. Is this the case?

I have seen well over 10,000 kids adopted from abroad and counselled parents about adoption now for over two decades.

What are the issues national governments need to bring their attention to?

Governments around the world need to focus on orphans in their own countries; children living without parental care are at high risk for psychological and social problems and will not be prepared to live healthy and independent lives without the guidance of adults.

Orphans need access to medical care, mental health services, and education so that they can grow up to have families of their own and be able to contribute to the community they live in and to society in general.

To think that a country can ignore orphans is a tragedy; every country has these issues whether developing or modern. Not being aware of this catastrophic issue is immoral.

All kids deserve a permanent family or at least inclusion in the community in some form of family-based care so that they can be guaranteed protection and the potential for a healthy life.

Tell me about your partnership with Deborra-Lee Furness?

I met Deb seven years ago and we became friendly as Deb began her interest in orphans and vulnerable children in Kenya. She was eager to learn about international development, specifically about orphans who needed support in their own communities.

She became interested in my foundation, Worldwide Orphans Foundation (WWO), and this opened her heart to orphans and vulnerable children all over the world.

She and her husband, Hugh Jackman began to develop a network of connections to orphans in Cambodia, Ethiopia, and other countries through their friendship with Tim Costello, the CEO of World Vision Australia.

Deb was at the same time really digging deeply into the issues of adoption around the world and founded National Adoption Awareness Week (NAWW) with Australian colleagues. She invited me to help with promoting and elevating the issues of orphans and the need for fair and swift adoption practices in her homeland.

I have travelled to Australia twice now and worked with Deb for NAAW in 2009 and will again in 2011.

I am committed to helping Deb and other adoption advocates in Australia to help the government of Australia understand that adoption provides permanency for orphans and that making the process expeditious and transparent is a necessary pathway in all countries around the world.

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What worries you about Australia’s approach to international adoption?

What worries me is that any country that hasn’t created swift, efficient and just laws for adoption domestically and internationally or for foster care, is creating a long term issue for those children.

This lack of justice for orphans leads to social and community dysfunction because the community will be burdened with the tragic problems of children who grow into adults with no education, complex medical issues and long term mental health issues.

These vulnerable children who become adults face a life of criminality, mental illness, and joblessness; in effect, orphans end up in the street and are destined for prostitution, alcoholism, drug abuse and joblessness.

We can prevent all of this anywhere in the world by providing orphans with all the opportunities that all children are entitled to, whether as adopted individuals or those who are served in their own communities through government and non-governmental organisations.

Adoption is one option and the solutions for orphans who will not be adopted include foster care, family-based care and support from organisations that provide special services. This is what WWO and other NGOs provide for orphans in developing countries.

For more information or to join the campaign to change adoption laws, visit National Adoption Awareness Week or email [[email protected]](/mailto:[email protected]).

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Blanche d’Alpuget and Sue Pieters-Hawke’s airport scuffle

Blanche d'Alpuget and Sue Pieters-Hawke's airport scuffle

The airport scuffle between the wife of former Australian prime minister Bob Hawke, Blanche d’Alpuget and his daughter, Sue Pieters-Hawke was reportedly over d’Alpuget’s biography of Bob.

The Australian Federal Police were called to the Qantas chairman’s lounge at Brisbane Airport after witnesses reported seeing one of the women slap the other, the Daily Telegraph reported.

The pair is reportedly feuding over d’Alpuget’s biography of Bob, Hawke: The Prime Minister, which Pieters-Hawke says portrays her family and mother Hazel Hawke inaccurately.

Pieters-Hawke is also releasing a biography of her mother, Hazel: A Biography, in November this year.

Pieters-Hawke released a statement about the scuffle. She said she will not discuss the matter further but said she did not touch her stepmother in any way and that she called the police to the lounge.

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Vegetarian weekly meal plan

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Try a vegetarian meal plan for a week, and feel the difference.

The benefits of a vegetarian eating plan are numerous. But it takes planning to ensure you get all the nutrients you need. We have developed a weekly meal plan, so whether you are a seasoned vegetarian or are looking at introducing the odd vegetarian meal, we are sure you will find some inspiration here.

Each day upon rising: 300ml hot water with the juice of ½ lemon

After each meal: 500ml of unchilled water

Exercise for at least 30 minutes five days a week

The vegetarian diet plan

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Jodi Gordon’s joy: I’m engaged!

Jodi Gordon's joy: I'm engaged!

Newly engaged Jodi Gordon and Braith Anasta.

The actress couldn’t wait to share the news after her footy hunk popped the question.

Like most girls who have just excitedly accepted a marriage proposal, former Home And Away star Jodi Gordon was bubbling over with joy when she tried on her engagement ring. She flashed the stunning diamond for the world to see in a beaming profile picture on her Facebook page – and, at 8.06pm on June 16, she updated her profile status to “engaged to Braith Anasta”.

Within minutes, several of Jodi’s 380 friends had shot back their best wishes. “Congrats guys. All the best,” posted Ash May Brewer. “Congrats Jodi n Braith,” wrote Nikki Eslick “’bout time!!!!,” noted cheeky Sophie Rathmell. Days later, as Woman’s Day can exclusively reveal, Jodi was spotted trying on wedding rings at jeweller-to-the stars Nick Cerrone’s store in Leichhardt, in Sydney’s inner west.

And now she and Braith have splashed out $1.8 million for a stunning house in Clovelly, described by Raine & Horne Coogee agent Graeme Anderson as “perfect for a young family”. This topped off what has been an incredible two weeks for Jodi, who has tried to keep a lid on her engagement, but couldn’t wipe the smile off her face when she saw the property which will become their marital home.

With two major Australian films due for release later this year, and Hollywood calling, Jodi, 26, has never been hotter property. She recently signed with Australian agent Sean Anderson, who represents Jennifer Hawkins and Jamie Durie among others.

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Esther Anderson back in front of the camera and couldn’t be happier

Esther Anderson is back in front of the camera and couldn’t be happier

Putting the debate over her thin frame behind her, Esther Anderson is returning to modelling and feeling happier — and healthier — than ever.

Shaking a mane of impossibly shiny hair away from her equally immaculate face on the set of her latest fashion shoot, actress Esther Anderson looks every inch a professional model.

But it’s no surprise considering the Home and Away beauty started out as a clothes horse, which meant her face and figure were very much public property.

Now the slender star is returning to modelling, fronting a clothing campaign for Howard Showers, but her early experience in front of the lens and dealing with gossip about her “ultra-skinny” frame on Dancing with the Stars last year has given her a refreshingly direct view of her body this time around.

“I am a bit nervous about returning to modelling even though I did it for a big chunk of my life. I’ve modelled longer than I’ve been acting!” laughs Esther as a makeup artist smooths blush on to her perfectly defined cheekbones.

While there’s no doubt Esther’s frame is uncommonly tiny, the 32-year-old says her figure is a product of her very healthy upbringing and genuine love of vegetables, as well as her view that as a model and an entertainer she has a responsibility to consistently look her best.

“I was brought up in a very healthy family, the kind that always has brown bread,” Esther explains. “When I had friends over as a kid the treat I would ask for was white bread! So we’re lucky, we’ve always had a great relationship with food, I love vegies, and that’s really important.”

But Esther admits even her nutritionally balanced childhood didn’t stop her developing a sugar addiction when she first started on the set of Home and Away, playing policewoman Charlie Buckton, in 2007.

“I used to have a sugar addiction but I stopped giving it to my body and it stopped craving it,” Esther says. “The more you have something the more your body needs it. I had to get off needing sugar every day. It helped that I couldn’t eat chocolate because it gives me really bad migraines.”

Now Esther’s only guilty habit is coffee — and a penchant for skipping the gym!

“I have done gym work periodically, but I am lazy!” she says with a laugh. “There were a few years there when I was doing lots of lingerie work [as a model] and I really wanted to be toned for that. When I was modelling the focus was so much on the physical, and it still is an actress because you are employed looking a certain way and you have to stay that way, but I’ve never been on a diet in my life. Now it’s just about walking and being active. Growing up I played lots of sport but now it’s just about how much I run around!

“I love working out at the beach, because it’s outside and I go for long walks. But I do walk really fast. If I tell someone to meet up with me for a walk, I have to warn them they will have to keep up!”

Happily single, Esther estimates she is 5kg heavier than this time last year, but insists her shape isn’t something she worries about.

During her days modelling in Japan she became used to considering her body objectively and viewing her looks as a commodity, bleaching her hair and whitening her skin to match the demands of the market.

“I don’t take body criticism personally because it’s part of my job to look a certain way,” she says firmly. “As a model, for 10 years I got used to the focus on staying in shape and looking good. That’s just what you do. I might not have been able to do that, or have that focus, without work. For people who are working 12 hours in an office, it’s not their priority — they have to do other things, and they find it a lot harder to find that time. Whereas as an entertainer, it’s part of your job.”

Today there’s no doubt that Esther’s professional outlook has helped her perfect her figure, which today is resplendent in a blue and black striped dress from Howard Showers — who she says is a perfect match for her own style.

“Every woman wants to look good, and when you can put something on and feel good, it’s priceless,” she says. “I like fun stuff that suits me and accentuates my body. That’s why this range is so good. It’s beautiful and wearable. And it’s really flattering.”

It’s obvious that part of Esther’s success in front of the cameras both at the beginning of her career and now is because she is comfortable in her skin, no matter what she weighs.

“When I started on Home and Away the schedule was packed and I didn’t have the time focus on fitness,” she says. “People do make the time, on the show, but for me that wasn’t a priority. I was adjusting to everything else and I wasn’t in my lingerie every single week — although these days I am doing a bit more of that!

“I’m fortunate that I have always been healthy and I have learned healthy habits, ways to eat healthily for the rest of my life.”

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