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Real life story: “I married my high school teacher”

The ultimate taboo? One woman reveals how her high school crush... became her husband!
I married my high school teacher

True confession: Student and teacher relationship

I’m really nervous about going to my 10-year high school reunion. It’s not that I had a terrible time at school, in fact high school was a fantastic experience. I got on well with all of the teachers, I was vice captain with my best friend Laura was captain, I came first in mathematics each semester. And when I compare my figure now to my high school body, well, it’s changed for the better…

After school, I started studying science at university and hated every minute of it. I tried hard to please my parents and because everyone expected me to do well. But in the end I just wasn’t ready. I dropped out after the first year, saved like crazy over the summer and spent the next four years travelling around South America teaching maths and English.

Apart from visits from my family, in that time I completely lost touch with everyone from my life in Australia.

Towards the end of my time living in Peru I started to realise it was time to go home and grow up, and I was excited to give university another go. I moved back in with my parents, enrolled in Education at uni and breezed through the course.

Back to reality: from travelling the world to everyday life

My mum encouraged me to catch up with my best friends from high school, but I felt a bit nervous meeting up with Laura and the girls after five years which felt like five decades.

When I had been climbing pyramids on my own and meeting new friends over tacos, my old friends had all been planning their futures together and some even having babies. We all became friends on Facebook but attempts to meet up were never realised.

The return of my high school crush

For my first teaching practical I went to work at a public boys’ school in the outer suburbs of Sydney and discovered to my delight that my supervisor was my favourite maths teacher from high school.

Thomas, who had been my teacher for years 11 and 12, had been every girl’s crush as he was not just the only young, attractive male teacher at the all-girls school; he was also a genuinely nice person who we could tell wanted us to succeed.

Thomas was still the fantastic teacher I remembered him to be and in the first few weeks of my first practical Thomas gave me lots of helpful advice as well as being fascinated to listen to my stories from my time in South America.

It felt so good to talk to him, and in our break times I started asking Thomas about his life too. He had just gone skydiving for his 33rd birthday and loved spending the weekends with his sister’s kids.

One day he explained that he had stopped teaching at my high school the year after my year group had left because he felt a lot of pressure being a male teaching at an all-girls school. I was about to joke about how to my 17-year-old self he was the closest thing to Leonardo DiCaprio I had seen in my life. Then I realised that my 25-year-old self felt attracted to him in a completely new and very adult way. Was this the start of a teacher student affair?!

I was embarrassed to feel myself blushing and remembering the way my friends and I used to talk about him after class and felt really awkward around him for the last few weeks of my prac. I could tell he was confused about the way I avoided being alone with him and I really missed being able to ask him for advice — really I just missed talking to him.

On my last day Thomas organised a going-away afternoon tea for me and when he came over to give me a card and flowers from the staff he asked if he could speak to me privately.

I followed him down the corridor until he suddenly stopped and stood looking at me without speaking for a few seconds. It was the first time we had been alone together for weeks and my heart was racing. I felt so sad to be leaving the school and I also accepted that I was sad to leave him too. I was tempted to ask him out but was worried he would feel it was too odd since he had been my teacher so long ago.

Was I in love with my teacher?

When he asked whether I would be interested in coming back to the school for my next prac I was stunned for a minute. I had been thinking about him on a more personal level but there he was thinking about organising the next school term. Of course I replied that I would love to come back and, wanting to get away before he saw the tears that had started welling in my eyes I turned away to walk back to the staff room.

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I had taken about three steps back towards the staff room when I heard Thomas say something quietly behind me. I felt his hand on my shoulder and heard him say my name like a question. I turned back to face him and he saw how upset I was. I remember laughing through my tears as I felt his arms come around me.

We have been married for two very happy years now, and I got a full-time job teaching at a school near our house while he still teaches at the boys’ school where we met again as adults. It doesn’t feel at all like a teacher and student having sex – thank goodness!

A high school reunion… with a difference

Everything has been wonderful but I am really nervous about going to the reunion with my old teacher as my date. I’m very proud he is my husband, but at the same time I’m nervous for how the other students will react to him and what they will say about him. I’m also anxious about what the other teachers will say when they see that we are together and how they will act towards Thomas.

I’m tempted not to go, but at the same time I’m so curious to see where everyone’s lives have taken them and hope to see that they are all as happy as I am.

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How to wear pants and look sexier than ever

How to wear pants and look sexier than ever

Designs by Monique Lhuillier, Chris Benz and Jason Wu.

It has been 55 years since Yves Saint Laurent first sent pants down the runway, and while it has become de rigueur to see women wearing trousers to work, tuxedos out at night and jeans on the weekend, this season sees a new crop of pants take centre stage.

Forget the usual classic straight legged styles in blacks and neutral shades which usually dominate our winter wardrobe, right now it’s all about making pants the feature.

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A quirky printed pant is a great seasonal update. Whether you favour bold geometric prints, earthy ethnic prints or painterly florals, printed pants work well with a basic t-shirt and cosy knit, making a bold anchor for any outfit.

Wear them in silk for luxurious comfort, or in linen for a more tailored look, and if you’re willing, contrast colour on colour, or print on print, for even more of a statement.

Pink patterns paired with purple, bright red prints teamed with orange blazers and eye-popping blue floral pants worn with a flowing green silk blouse — anything goes.

On the other end of the spectrum, tailored high-waisted, wide-legged styles that skim the ground were in step with a seventies trend during the spring/summer shows.

Borrow from the boys and wear them with brogues and over-sized jumpers, or turn heads pairing them with sky-high heels and silk blouses unbuttoned to your bra — both accentuating your waist and making your legs appear endless.

And while we continue to farewell the long reign of the cigarette pant, there is no better way to embrace the fact that skinny is out, and wide is in, than with a pair of palazzo pants.

Shifting into an era of seventies infused femininity, palazzo pants in luxurious silks and soft breathable cottons create a soft and fluid silhouette, while keeping you cool on hot summer days.

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Tuck a flirty blouse into high waisted versions, or wear them slouchy with a simple t-shirt. With designers like Celine and Michael Kors to the major chain store Zara switching their allegiance to these soft and flowing styles, it’s time to take note.

From silky white or bolds brights to ethic prints and polka dots, there’s a style to suit every style and budget…

Video: Style that flatter every figure

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School starts too early, study finds

Later classes better for learning

Teenagers have been nearly impossible to drag out of bed on school mornings for decades — and now it appears there might be method in their madness.

A new study conducted by the University of California has shown that students learn better if classes start later in the morning.

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Delaying the first class by just 50 minutes can result in dramatic improvements in performance and the effects last for the rest of the school day.

“The most interesting finding was that the effect lingered throughout the day,” study leader Teny Maghakian said.

“It’s not just that you do poorly in your first-period class then wake up and do well in the rest of your classes; having an early-morning class negatively affects your performance throughout the day.”

The study, published in the American Economic Journal is the largest of its kind. It observed more than 6100 students over a four-year period and found that starting lessons at 9am or earlier resulted in significantly poorer learning.

This is thought to be due to teenagers’ circadian rhythms. While adults sleep most soundly at 4am, teenagers’ bodies keep producing sleep hormones until 7am.

This means that waking a teenager at 7am is the equivalent of waking an adult at 4am.

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Australian schools have been debating pushing back school start times to 10am in a bid to decrease absenteeism and allow students to catch up on sleep.

Later start times have also been suggested as a method of easing traffic and public transport demand in peak hour.

Your say: Do you think Australian schools should start at 10am?

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Bizarre new William and Kate dolls released

Bizarre new William and Kate dolls released

New William and Kate dolls

London’s iconic Hamley’s toy store released its own royal wedding dolls this week — but despite more than four months in production, the replicas have left shoppers scratching their heads.

The tiny figurines of Prince William and Kate Middleton in all their wedding finery are priced at nearly $160, but appear to bear little resemblance to the actual Duke and Duchess of Cambridge.

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With oversized heads, bulging jawlines and Hollywood tans, the dolls would be almost unrecognisable if they weren’t wearing tiny replicas William and Kate’s now-famous wedding clothes.

Indeed, their comical appearance has led many to compare them to the puppets from the 1960s TV show Thunderbirds.

Several toy designers have been working tirelessly since the April 29 nuptials to ensure the dolls are perfect. The Kate doll is wearing a replica of her Sarah Burton for

Alexander McQueen gown, complete with a miniature tiara and posy of flowers, while William is dressed in a tiny copy of his Irish Guards colonel’s uniform.

Related: The craziest royal wedding memorabilia

Arklu, the company that manufactured the dolls has defended them, saying they are meant to be tongue-in-cheek and amusing and not lifelike copies.

“The instantly recognisable and, some might say, delightfully kitsch wedding dolls pay homage to the stunning best-of-British outfits that so impressed the world when HRH Prince William of Wales married Catherine ‘Kate’ Middleton on April 29, 2011,” a spokesperson told the UK’s Daily Mail.

Your say: Would you pay $160 for these royal wedding dolls?

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Jennifer Aniston’s new man “is not the marrying type”

Jennifer Aniston's new man "is not the marrying type

While Jennifer Aniston and her new love interest Justin Theroux got everyone talking last week with news of their baby plans , one close friend of Theroux has spoken out saying he will never marry or have children with her.

The pair recently took time out on a loved-up trip to Hawaii where Jen was spotted sporting a suspicious baby bump, but InTouch Weekly reports it’s unlikely Justin will take the relationship further.

An unnamed friend of Justin told the magazine that he had shown a reluctance to commit to relationships in the past.

“Justin will never marry her,” the source said.

“He’s not the marrying type — as you can see from the 14-year relationship he was in, that didn’t end in marriage. He is not the kind of guy to be owned.”

The unnamed friend also confirmed the details that Justin was indeed still involved with his ex-girlfriend Heidi Bivens when he started seeing the 42-year-old actress.

“He totally lied to Heidi and broke her heart,” the source said. “[He was] very taken.”

Your say: Will the romance between Jen and Justin last? Share your thoughts below.

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Anne Hathaway: Kate Middleton is my style icon

Anne Hathaway praises Catherine the Duchess of Cambridge's style

She hasn’t exactly got it right every time, but it seems that when it comes to Anne Hathaway’s favourite style icon, Catherine the Duchess of Cambridge can do no wrong.

The actress has praised the princess for her “ladylike” dress sense, telling USA Today she was setting the standard for a new “anti-Hollywood” look.

“Can I tell you how grateful I am to Kate Middleton? Because she is such an advocate for dressing like a lady,” she said.

“I think for a few years that kind of slightly dirty look was adopted by Hollywood — you know, the stringy hair, homeless thing.”

Despite trying this look herself, the 28-year-old actress says she couldn’t pull it off and it made her look “chubby”.

“I was like okay, I’m going to give that a go. (But) it doesn’t suit me, I don’t suit it,” she said.

“I always looked kind of chubby.”

Anne, who is dressed by celebrity stylist Rachel Zoe, says she is now basing her look on Catherine’s style.

“I’m just very grateful to Kate for making looking appropriate really fun again,” she said.

“So right now my fashion choices are all about Kate Middleton.”

Do you consider Catherine, the Duchess of Cambridge a style icon? Share your thoughts below.

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Walk the Italian coast: Portofino & Cinque Terre

The Cinque Terre in Portofino is one of the Italian Riviera's jewels, situated along the seaside. Experience travel and walk the Italian coast.
The harbour at Portofino

On the Italian Riviera, people can eat as much seafood pasta and gelato as they like without putting on weight. Their secret is to keep on trekking along the beautiful trails of the Cinque Terre.

It’s not a look many followers of fashion would have thought Orson Welles and Paris Hilton had in common.

Yet 40 years ago, the great actor-director strode across Portofino’s piazza with a cute pooch in the crook of his arm – a look Ms Hilton has since made her own.

Orson’s canine accessory was captured by a paparazzo and is part of a permanent photographic exhibition at Castle Brown, the stone pile perched on a hill overlooking Portofino’s exquisite harbour.

Now a museum, the castle also sports photos of Humphrey Bogart and Ava Gardner arm in arm, Jackie O in her trademark sunnies, Ingrid Bergman giving her son, Roberto, a piggyback and Sophia Loren in a navy and white striped Chanel suit.

Little has changed. On the day I arrive, Beyoncé Knowles was tippy-toeing across the cobbles in a pair of high heels with an entourage of men so tall they could have been a basketball team.

In case you don’t know, Portofino is on the Italian Riviera, a breathtakingly beautiful 2000-year-old port and celebrity haunt first put on the map by Julius Caesar in the 1st Century BC.

Less than 150 kilometres down the coast from the glitzy resorts of Monaco and Nice, Portofino hovers above one of Italy’s most dazzling coastlines — the Cinque Terre — where an 18-kilometre walking trail wends its way through five enchanting fishing villages. Hence the name, Cinque Terre, which translates as Five Lands or Villages.

Portofino and its national park are seen as a wonderful warm-up to the walking trails of Cinque Terre, a short train journey south.

Ideally, this prelude should take three glorious days — one to explore Portofino, another on an invigorating walk to the medieval monastery of San Fruttuoso, followed by a final half-day stroll to the charming seaside town of Camogli.

On my visit, it only seemed appropriate to live like a rock star in Portofino and as a monk in San Fruttuoso, so on the first night I booked a suite at Hotel Splendido, one of Italy’s most fabulous, and on the second day, a cell-like room adjoining the monastery.

The first bed cost a small fortune, the second swallowed up the change left over from the former’s $1000 bill. If you ever decide to spend a motza on a hotel room, choose the Splendido.

It personifies la dolce vita — that glorious Italian expression that translates as the sweet life.

The walk to San Fruttuoso through a pine forest on the Portofino Promontory takes three hours and has many enchanting views of the Ligurian Sea.

The Benedictine monastery, circa 984AD, is on a pebbly beach at the end of a rocky cove. Three families live here and there are no roads — only walking paths and a little stone jetty for fishing boats and ferries.

At the mouth of the cove is an underwater statue of Christ with arms raised towards the surface. Shoals of fish swim in spirals around the statue’s hands, while catfish clean the algae off Christ’s feet.

It was placed here by fishermen in thanksgiving for lives saved in a storm. You can either hire a glass bottom boat in which a sturdy youth will row you to the statue or swim there yourself with some goggles.

My room at Da Giovanni, the inn next to the monastery, had a single bed, a basin and a window with a view of the bay. At 7pm, as the final ferry took away the last day trippers, the lady of the house served a sensational seafood dinner on the terrace.

There were only three other couples dining that evening. The three local families were either busy in Da Giovanni’s kitchen or chatting idly on the jetty in the bay below.

Later that night, sleep came easily thanks to the soft sound of lapping waves and the sweet song of a nightingale.

The walk to Camogli takes four hours and on arrival at the town’s seafront you won’t regret a step. Here, the port is full of colourful fishing boats and every facade of every house is covered in trompe d’oeil paintings — of maidens, garlands, temples and other 3D pastoral scenes.

Pick a cafe on the seafront and treat yourself to scampi and salad for lunch, before taking a ferry back to Portofino and heading south to the Cinque Terre on a local train.

The villages of Monterosso, Vernazza, Corniglia, Manarola and Riomaggiore are set along a scalloped bay like sentinels on rocky bluffs that jut into the Ligurian Sea.

You could walk from Monterosso in the north to Riomaggiore in the south in five hours, but that would be missing the point.

Hiking this coastline is about taking in the views, discovering a church in an olive grove, resting in orchards full of orange blossom, swimming in idyllic coves and sampling the glorious food at the many little trattorias en route.

You are, after all, burning a huge number of calories as you climb up yet another stone stairway carved into the side of another hill. Yes, the topography of Cinque Terre can look like a cardiogram, but the walk between Riomaggiore and Manarola is mercifully flat.

The Cinque Terre was declared a UNESCO World Heritage site in 1997 and today hikers from all over the world walk its trails in a national park that stretches from the coast deep into the mountains.

Since time immemorial, the local inhabitants have turned their precipitous slopes into fertile terraces by building more than 7000km of dry-stone walls. It’s estimated that these terraces have as much stone as the Great Wall of China.

Monterosso has a fine wide beach with rows of sun lounges and umbrellas — most of which will have been reserved by Italians from Genoa many months before your arrival.

One of the most invigorating walks is between Monterosso and Vernazza. From several high points on the trail, you’ll see all five villages in one sweeping vista.

Vernazza’s piazza is bordered on three sides by ochre-coloured houses and opens onto the harbour, where rows of blue fishing boats bob up and down at their moorings.

Recommended is an alfresco dinner at Gambero Rosso next to the quay, where you can watch the locals take their passeggiata (evening stroll).

The walk to Corniglia, the only village not on the water, passes through olive groves and lush countryside. The village, which stands like a fortress 100 metres above the sea, is surrounded by vineyards. Bottles of wine from here have been found in the ruins of Pompeii, the Roman city destroyed by a volcano in 79AD.

The pastel-coloured houses of Manarolo and Riomaggiore cling to the rocks above the sea like limpets. Both lack sheltered harbours, so when the sea gets rough, the fishing boats are hauled into their piazzas, where restaurant tables compete for space.

Try the local Troffie pasta with pesto, a vegetable pie or frittata. Other specialities are stuffed anchovies, seafood tagliatelle in tomato sauce and cuttlefish stew. And then there’s the local dessert wine Sciacchetra, otherwise known as the nectar of the gods.

Indulge in the food by all means, but if you’re walking after lunch, follow the local custom and keep the Sciacchetra for evening when the day’s trekking is done.

FLY: Qantas flies to Rome and Pisa, via London, with code-share partner British Airways. From Rome or Pisa, trains connect to Santa Margherita LIgure-Portofino. From Pisa, Portofino is 115km. Trains connect Santa Margherita LIgure-Portofino with all the villages of the Cinque Terre.

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Teens in sexual relationships less likely to misbehave

Teens in romantic sexual relationships less likely to misbehave

Parents of teenagers spend most of their time trying to stop their kids having sex with their girlfriend or boyfriend — but a new study suggests parents might be better off just letting it happen.

Researchers from the University of Texas have found that sexually active teens in committed relationships are less likely to engage in anti-social and delinquent behaviour than those who are not having sex at all.

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However teenagers who have casual sex are the most likely to misbehave, showing far higher levels of anti-social behaviour than any other group.

Study leader Paige Harden says the results may suggest that teenagers who spend more time alone with their boyfriends or girlfriends don’t have as many chances to get into trouble.

The study, which was published in the June issue of the Journal of Youth and Adolescence, examined 519 pairs of identical twins between the ages of 13 and 18.

Researchers quizzed the twins on their sexual activity and delinquent behaviour and identified several twins who had different sexual experiences, despite being genetically identical and being raised the same way.

Those who were sexually active in committed relationships displayed less anti-social behaviour than their twins who were abstinent or having casual sex.

In a separate study, published in the June issue of Child Development, Harden investigated the myth that intelligent teens wait longer to have sex.

The research found that family background and socioeconomic factors influenced the age teens lost their virginity, not how smart they were.

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The study again focused on twins and found that twin siblings lost their virginity at a similar age, regardless of their differing academic abilities.

Harden says the findings proved that teens from poorer families were more likely to struggle in school and have sex young, while those from wealthier families got better grades and delayed sex due to better schools and more parental supervision.

Your say: Are you surprised by this research that claims teenagers in romantic sexual relationships are less likely to get into trouble than those who don’t have sex?

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Relationship conflict does not change throughout marriage says study

Relationship conflict does not change throughout marriage says study

How much do you fight with your spouse? Do you fight like cats and dogs or are your arguments limited to a few small tiffs? Either way, a new study has found that the current level of conflict probably won’t change throughout the relationship and heavily impacts on overall happiness.

The US study found that this was good news for the 16 percent of couples who report little conflict or even the 60 percent who have only moderate levels of conflict.

However, the study was not so good for the 22 percent of couples who say they fight and argue with each other a lot.

Lead author of the study and assistant professor of human development and family science at Ohio State University, Claire Kamp Dush said the results showed there wasn’t a lot of difference in conflict over time.

“There was a very slight decrease in the amount of conflict reported in the final years of the study, which was slightly larger for the high-conflict couples. Still, the differences over time were small,” she said.

Data was collected by surveying almost 1000 married people under 55 years old for more than 20 years between 1980 and 2000.

Throughout the study marital conflict was measured by how often respondents said they disagreed with their spouse — never, rarely, sometimes, often or very often — and, based on these results, the couples were placed into high-, middle- and low-conflict marriages categories.

Dush said those in low-conflict marriages were more likely than others to say they shared decision-making with their spouses.

“That’s interesting because you might think that making decisions jointly would create more opportunities for conflict, but that’s not what we found,” she said.

“It may be that if both spouses have a say in decision making, they are more satisfied with their relationship and are less likely to fight.”

Those in the low-conflict group were also found to believe in traditional, life-long marriage.

“People who believe marriage should last forever may also believe that fighting is just not worth it. They may be more likely to just let disagreements go,” Dush said.

The results of the study were then used to identify how overall conflict was related to overall marital happiness.

The marriages surveyed were set into classifications of volatile, validator, hostile and avoider.

About 54 percent of couples fell into the lower conflict validator category and had lower low levels of divorce, high and middle levels of happiness and no more than middle levels of conflict.

“The validator marriages are often seen as positive because couples are engaged with each other and are happy. We found that in these marriages, each partner shared in decision making and in housework,” Dush said.

The other low-conflict couples, around six percent, were in the avoider marriages. These couples had more traditional marriages in which husbands were not involved in housework and the participants believed in life-long marriage.

“These couples believed in traditional gender roles and may have avoided conflict because of their beliefs in life-long marriage. These couples were also unlikely to divorce,” Dush said.

On the other hand, about 20 percent of those surveyed were in volatile marriages — high conflict and high or middle levels of happiness. The remaining participants were in hostile marriages, which were the most likely to divorce.

Although couples in both validator and avoider marriages tended to have lower levels of conflict, Dush believes that validator marriages may be the healthiest for couples.

“Avoiding conflict could lead couples to avoid other types of engagement with their spouse,” she said.

“A healthy marriage needs to have both spouses engaged and invested in the relationship.”

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Shocking celebrity family secrets

Sofia Vergara

Modern Family actress Sofia Vergara’s brother was recently deported from the US back to his native Colombia due to his extensive criminal record which included charges for public intoxication, assault and battery, grand theft and drug possession.

Sofia moved to the US with her mother, brother and sister in 1998, shortly after her older brother, Rafael, was killed in Colombia during a kidnapping attempt.

Charlize Theron

When Charlize Theron was 15-years-old her mother murdered her alcoholic father in self-defence.

Her mother has never been charged over her father’s death and the actress refuses to speak about the incident publicly.

Woody Harrelson

Harrelson’s father was a contract killer and was arrested after he shot dead Federal Judge John Wood Jnr when Woody was 18. His father was convicted and eventually died during his life sentence in prison.

Jack Nicholson

Actor Jack Nicholson was raised believing that his grandparents were his parents and that his mother was his older sister.

He found out the truth at the age of 37 through a journalist from Time magazine who was doing a feature on him. By this time both his grandmother and mother had passed away, leaving him with no idea who his father was.

“Only Ethel and June knew and they never told anybody.”

Jennifer Hudson

In October 2008 Jennifer Hudson’s mother and brother were murdered in their home. Her seven-year-old nephew was found dead days later in a car. All three had been shot. The estranged husband of the singer’s sister Julia was charged with first-degree murder in the killings.

Hudson has never spoken publicly about the incident but said on Oprah that she still tries to make her mother proud.

Rihanna

Pop star Rihanna reveled she has a secret family in Barbados including two older sisters and an older brother from her dad’s womanising past.

She also has two younger brothers from her father’s marriage to her mother.

Kevin Spacey

Actor Kevin Spacey has never spoken about his family secrets, but his brother Randall has. He spoke out claiming that their father was a member of the American Nazi Party and had sexually abused Randall as a child.

Spacey has never commented on their claims.

Oprah

In January 2011, after years of sharing other family’s secrets, Oprah shared with the world her own secret — her half-sister who her mother put up for adoption 50 years ago.

Winfrey’s mother, who had lied by saying two of her children had died, introduced Oprah to Patricia a year earlier when her half-sister tracked her down.

Lindsay Lohan

Lindsay and her siblings grew up not knowing that they had a secret half-sister Ashley Horn. Lindsay’s father Michael Lohan had an affair during his marriage to their mother resulting in a love-child.

Mariah Carey

Mariah Carey’s older sister Alison Carey works as a female escort.

She is HIV positive, a former drug addict and has been arrested for prostitution in the past.

Lionel and Nicole Richie

In 1983 Lionel informally adopted two-year-old Nicole Camille Escovedo, who he raised as Nicole Richie.

The pair have never spoken about who Nicole’s biological parents are, but it is believed that Lionel was friends with them prior to adopting Nicole and some reports say her biological parents were members of his band.

Arnold Schwarzenegger

After 25 years of marriage with Maria Shriver, Arnold Schwarzenegger revealed he had fathered a love child 10 years ago with a member of staff who worked with their family.

Kathy Griffith

In the past Kathy Griffith has revealed details of her now-late brother’s drug addiction and violent behaviour.

“My brother Kenny, who is now passed away, was a paedophile and went to prison and obviously wreaked a lot of havoc on my parents and the family … had an extremely profound impact on me,” she said in an interview .

“He was extremely sexually inappropriate with me ever since I was a teeny kid.”

Liv and Steve Tyler

While growing up Liv’s mother lied to her telling her that her father was rock star Todd Rundgren. She didn’t discover that she was Steve Tyler’s daughter until she met him aged nine and realised she had great similarities to his daughter Mia.

After approaching her mum about her suspicions, her mother confirmed that he was in fact her father, but Liv continued to keep it a secret for another five years.

Adrian Grainer

The Entourage star grew up not knowing who his father was. It wasn’t until he became famous that he decided to actively seek out his father, making his journey into a documentary.

The pair, who were estranged for 18 years, now maintain a warm relationship.

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