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Sue Pieters-Hawke on her mum and “the day Blanche slapped me”

Sue Pieters-Hawke on her mum and "the day Blanche slapped me"

Bob and Hazel Hawke’s daughter Sue tells why her mum was never a “doormat”, and reveals what really happened between her and her stepmother during that ugly public incident last year.

When a disagreement aired between Sue Pieters-Hawke and her stepmother, former Prime Minister Bob Hawke’s second wife Blanche d’Alpuget, last year, no-one imagined it would end in violence at Brisbane Airport. With the incident reported to the Federal Police, it hit national headlines. However, neither woman has ever spoken about the spat, which took place in the exclusive Chairman’s Lounge in June – until now.

“I approached her to say a friendly hello, but she slapped me hard three or four times, and yes, I was shaken,” admits Sue. “I never touched her. There was no catfight. There were no lasting injuries.”The two women have not spoken since the ugly incident, although Sue – who next week releases her own biography of her mother, Hazel – has spoken to her famous father Bob. She hopes the rift will be healed, despite some “difficult” revelations about Bob in Hazel: My Mother’s Story. “If Dad chooses to read it, I hope he might think it tough but fair,” Sue says.

“If you read the book, you will see the positives about Dad, and I don’t apologise for also portraying things that were difficult, because they were part of Mum’s journey. You can’t explain Mum if you don’t have them there as well as the great things.” Blanche’s fury was sparked by an article Sue wrote in Melbourne’s The Age newspaper in July, 2010, to correct a perception that her much-loved mum was a “dowdy doormat” who only stayed with unfaithful Bob in order to become First Lady. With Hazel, 82, now suffering advanced dementia, Sue felt compelled to publicly defend her mother and put right some misconceptions arising from publicity for Blanche’s revised biography, Hawke: The Prime Minister, and for a telemovie about him, which premiered at the same time on Channel Ten.

“I hadn’t read Blanche’s book and I was in no way criticising the book, then or now, but clearly myself and many other people thought that there was a very incorrect portrayal of Mum in the media at that time,” says Sue. “Dad let me know that Blanche was very upset and saw it as an attack on her integrity as a writer. I reiterated that had not been, and is not, my intention. She’s a very good writer. We simply had a difference of opinion about some things. I was sorry if she took it that way and felt personally hurt. She didn’t want to speak to me, but I talked to Dad.” Sue thought she would let the dust settle before attempting to make peace with Blanche, never imagining that their disagreement over “alternative views” of Hazel would result in violence.

Read more about Sue’s story and more on her mum’s life in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale October 17, 2011.

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Our shoot with Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

You may think Warnie’s ex-wife would be at war with Shane and Liz Hurley, but madly-in-love Simone is way too happy to be bitter.

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

Simone Callahan and Toby Roberts

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Tomkat’s surprise second wedding!

Strolling through the streets of the US city of Pittsburgh last week, Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes grin from ear to ear, stopping at every intersection for a kiss or a cuddle.

They look equally loved-up the next day on a carousel ride with daughter Suri, 5. Their glances and whispers suggest a secret… but what? We know! One of Tom’s closest friends reveals exclusively to Woman’s Day that Tom, 49, has again “proposed” to Katie, 32, promising her a romantic second wedding to celebrate their fifth anniversary on November 18. “He wants to really push the boat out and do something to show Katie he loves her more than ever,” our source says, adding that this treat was inspired by the marriage of Prince William and Kate Middleton.

Read more in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale October 17, 2011.

Tom and Katie share a sneaky smile.

Katie enjoys a carousel ride with daughter Suri.

And now it’s Tom’s turn!

The family enjoyed the Schenley Plaza’s carousel in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania

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Sara Leal breaks her silence: My night with Ashton

Sara Leal breaks her silence: My night with Ashton

The woman at the centre of the sex scandal threatening Ashton Kutcher’s marriage to Demi Moore tells her story to Woman’s Day.

From the moment she walked into his party in the Diamond Suite at San Diego’s Hard Rock Hotel in the early hours of September 23, Sara Leal could tell Ashton Kutcher was out to seduce her. “He’d graze my leg or, like, grab my hand a little bit,” Sara, 22, claims, speaking to Woman’s Day in her first interview since hooking up with the married star of Two And A Half Men. After doing shots together, the actor made her a vodka cocktail. Then, as the sun rose, he suggested the administrative assistant and her friend Marta Borzuchowski join him in the spa pool on the balcony.

“I started looking for towels,” Sara recalls. Ashton, 33, followed her into the bathroom. “He just came up and kissed me.”Moments later, all three of them were in the spa, naked, when another friend asked Ashton, “Aren’t you married?” The star fell quiet for a few seconds, then replied, “I’m separated.” Sara took him at his word – although the Texas native later learned that it was, in fact, his sixth anniversary with his wife Demi Moore, 48, from whom he was not legally separated. As partygoers dwindled, the seduction moved to the bedroom, where Sara claims they had sex twice. “He was a good lover,” she says. “But if I had known from the beginning he was married, none of this would have happened.”

How did you end up at the party?

My friend texted me. One of our mutual friends had a room right next to Ashton… We went to see what was going on and they let us in. He was in the bathroom with some girls just talking, so we went up and introduced ourselves.

Were you shocked when he asked you to go in the spa?

When you’re this age, drinking after hours, you’d get in a hot tub. I didn’t think it was out of the ordinary. I wasn’t self-conscious about getting naked.

But people could see you?

I was sitting on his lap and then these strange people came out from next door and kept trying to talk to us. Ashton was like, “Let’s go inside… Go in my room and shut the door.”

Read more the full interview with Sara Leal, including the intimate moments with Ashton and what she would say to Demi Moore in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale October 17, 2011.

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Simone Callahan: “Good luck Shane!”

Simone Callahan: "Good luck Shane!"

You may think Warnie’s ex-wife would be at war with Shane and Liz Hurley, but madly-in-love Simone is way too happy to be bitter.

With sparkling eyes and a healthy glow, Simone Callahan looks like she has discovered a fountain of youth without resorting to plastic surgery, extreme dieting or fake tan. Just back from a relaxing private yoga retreat in Bali and sporting a golden tan and a big smile, Simone looks more like a model than a mum of three, but then she freely admis she is the happiest she has ever been. “I wish Shane nothing but luck,” she says.

The man putting the smile back on Simone’s face is hot model and sales executive Toby Roberts, who swept her off her feet when she least expected just after Shane was caught out with Liz. “My confidence took a beating,” Simone admits. “Toby definitely rescued me at the right time in my life. There was a lot going on in my head at that time and my confidence was totally shot… and still is to a certain extent. “But he is such a genuine person, so positive with a very good nature. He’s very strong – which I like – and he makes me laugh. There’s lots of magic there.”

While Shane and Liz have been parading their love for the whole world to see on Twitter, at events and in interviews, Simone has tried to keep her own love life out of the spotlight. The romance would never even have begun if it weren’t for Toby’s step-sister Shara, who is also a close friend of Simone’s, “playing cupid” to get Toby and Simone together. But even after the first sparks started to fly, she and Toby were determined to take things slowly and let their relationship blossom, rather than rushing into a longer term commitment.

Toby even admits he initially felt Simone may have been on the rebound. “I didn’t want to plunge headlong into things because I knew you and Shane were very much together late last year,” he said. “I thought it could have been a rebound situation!” But he could not have been further from the truth.

Read more about Simone and Toby’s relationship, how she feels about Shane and Liz’s wedding and how they plan to work as a family with Shane and Liz in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale October 17, 2011.

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Feeling uncomfortable in your bra? It’s time to get fitted!

Feeling uncomfortable in your bra? It's time to get fitted!

When was the last time you were fitted for a bra? If you can’t remember or have never been fitted, there is no better time than the present, particularly during the month of October.

Not only will you be giving yourself a more comfortable fit, you will also be helping to raise much-needed funds for breast cancer research, with Bras N Things donating $1 to the National Breast Cancer Foundation every time someone gets fitted at a store.

Bras N Things fitting specialist Carla Lucato says some woman don’t completely understand the importance of being fitted properly for a bra.

“Eight out of 10 women are wearing the wrong size bra,” she said.

Carla recommends that every time you purchase a new bra you get fitted by a professional. Bras N Things offer free bra fitting consultations throughout their stores.

So, how do you know you’re wearing the wrong bra size? Carla says that if you can feel your bra throughout the day, it’s not the right size for you.

“A well fitted bra should be supportive, comfortable and flattering under the clothes that you are wearing,” Carla said.

“You shouldn’t even know that you’re wearing a bra.

“Your bra should be supportive and comfortable at all times. If you’re not getting fitted correctly you’ll be feeling your bra all day.”

Other than the uncomfortable factor of a bra that doesn’t fit correctly, Carla says it can “make or break an outfit”.

If you are wearing the incorrect bra size you will:

  • Feel uncomfortable

  • Your bra will sit poorly under your clothes

  • It will ride up your back

  • It will dig into your shoulders (where the strap sits)

  • It can cause bruising under arms

  • It may give you back pain

  • It may give you “double busts”, side cleavage and back cleavage

From October 10 to October 23, Bras N Things plan to fit 10,000 woman, raising $10,000 for the National Breast Cancer Foundation.

These funds will enable the foundation to fund research programs to cover every aspect of breast cancer, from increasing the understanding of genetics to improving ways to support women and their families.

To find your local Bras N Things store visit www.brasnthings.com

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True Confessions Agony Aunt: I don’t want my husbands baby I want to adopt

Woman and husband worried about adopting a baby

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For as far back as I can remember, I’ve known I want to adopt children rather than have my own. I’ve always been careful to mention this to boyfriends, rather than hiding it from them.

Before I married my husband I tried on several occasions to warn him about this, but he always cut me off, saying it was too early to talk about children. Now we’ve been married for five years and are ready to start a family.

He adores children and I know he would be an amazing father. He comes from an Italian background where family is everything. His older and younger brothers both have children already and he is brilliant with them. Many of his friends have children too.

From the way he plays with them and looks longingly at them, he is clearly ready for us to start a family and hopes that we will have our own.

After much discussion he has agreed that if we try to have one child of our own naturally, he would accept adopting a second child, if I really can’t cope with the idea of giving birth to another. But the problem is, I really don’t want to have my own at all.

I can’t quite explain why I feel so strongly about this. It could be because I suffered a STD when I was about 18 and spent a year having doctors poke about at me at regular intervals and hate the thought of it happening again. It could be because I am very sporty and dread the idea of losing my physical fitness. I also don’t like pain!

Several female friends have had really nightmarish pregnancies and births and hearing their stories has put me off even more. But more than that, I just don’t feel the need. I don’t have that maternal instinct, the longing to have my own babies that all my female friends seem to have. I do like children though, and I love the idea of taking on an orphaned child, especially from an overseas country.

My marriage is otherwise extremely happy and my husband and I are like best friends. Am I being really selfish here or should I stick to my guns? We are both 35 now and it feels like time is ticking away. How can we find a compromise in this matter? I am terrified it is going to tear our marriage apart.

You can’t find any compromise until you’re being totally honest. He believes that you’ve agreed to try to get pregnant but you have no intention of that, which is more likely to cause your relationship to falter than actually telling him the truth.

It would have been better if you had made some decisions together about this before you got married but you cannot let the subject drift vaguely any longer, no matter how difficult it is to be honest about how you feel.

Perhaps he did you a disservice in not discussing the matter fully before you married but the only way you can reach any sort of workable compromise now is to stop pretending and come clean about your feelings.

You’ve listed a number of reasons why you don’t want to get pregnant which you should really explore, especially your concern about being examined by doctors as pregnancy is not an illness and examinations tend not to be invasive – getting your blood pressure taken and having regular blood tests are the most standard procedures and the only intimate examinations are likely to take place during labour. You’re unlikely to have to see much of doctors since midwives and nurses will provide the bulk of your care.

There are many women who make sure they don’t lose their fitness while pregnant and pain can be very well controlled in childbirth.

Also, adoption is not the easiest of processes so find out about the realities before making any decisions or vague assumptions about how easy it is to adopt a baby, but do it as a couple. You say you’re not maternal yet you also say you would love a child, which is a very mixed message. Try to be as honest as you can with yourself as well as your husband and get all your worries out in the open.

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True Confessions Agony Aunt: Turning envy to your advantage

Woman jealous of colleague

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Many of the enquiries I get as an Agony Aunt are from people eaten-up with jealousy over what they perceive to be the success other people are experiencing, unable to recognise what they see on the surface might bear little relation to the reality.

Here’s how to turn your jealousy or envy into a positive for yourself and those around you.

Some people seem to have amazing luck yet many would subscribe to producer Sam Goldwyn’s wry comment “The harder I work the luckier I get”.

Countless celebrities point to a tutor or coach who believed in them and set them on their road to success whilst many others remember short-sighted teachers who viciously told them they were stupid or would never amount to anything. Instead of being cowed by such a lack of confidence in them, their reaction was to show the critic just exactly how much they could achieve.

Similarly, bad luck can stop some people in their tracks, while others can see it as a fact of life and try to negotiate around it, hopefully learning from the experience.

If her apparent life of luxury leaves you so envious of her good fortune that you are unable to see any of the negatives, such a lack of imagination could have a very limiting effect on your own achievements. Seeing only what you want to see results in an inability to recognise that while wealth, beauty and success make life easier at times they offer no guarantees against suffering disappointment, illness or despair.

Hilary Swank and Halle Berry are both stunningly beautiful award-winning actresses, yet that probably counted for nothing when their marriages ended.

Many people fail to follow in the hard work or experience of those they look up to and instead assume instant gratification to be a right. How often have we heard hollow laughter from ‘overnight’ successes who have worked for years to get where they are but whose long grind is conveniently forgotten in following the ‘why spoil a good story with the truth’ mantra?

Sometimes even just putting your negative thoughts in writing can bring about the solution as it will force you to take time to consider the facts and recognise that what you might be doing is generalising without all the details.

Many women are effectively paralysed by this envy which drains their energy and prevents them making positive changes and aiming high.

There’s a huge difference between being selfish and being self-aware – concentrating on improving and enjoying our own lives rather than fretting over things that don’t matter or cannot be changed.

  1. Accept that you may envy some people, but although you may feel everything has come easily to them, you don’t know that for sure.

  2. Negative emotions can produce very positive effects — your envy of someone else’s success can drive you on to greater things. Don’t let it poison you — use it well.

  3. Nothing beats hard work. Always being ready to learn something new and put in the graft has its own rewards, even if it’s just awareness that you’re living up to your capabilities.

  4. Don’t bad mouth other people. Be gracious in the face of other people’s success, be grateful to those who help you and if you can’t forget an insult use it to spur you on to better things.

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Celebrity fitness trends

Want to push your fitness to the extreme? Check out the latest fitness trends that keep the stars fit.

Celebrity fitness trends

Want to know how Scarlett Johannsen stays tonedf? Want to push your fitness to the extreme? Check out the latest fitness trends that keep the stars fit.

Jake Gyllenhaal — free running

Jake Gyllenhaal did his own mind-blowing stunts in his upcoming movie, Prince of Persia: The Sands of Time. To train for the movie, the 29-year-old took up parkour — a physical discipline of training to overcome any obstacle within one’s path by adapting one’s movements to the environment. Jake trained with David Belle, the inventor of parkour. “He taught me to actually run on walls and jump from rooftops safely. It’s not fake. We actually did it,” Jake told Good Morning America.

Victoria Beckham — Yogalosophy

Former Spice Girl has followed Jennifer Anniston to take up Yogalosophy, a fitness regime which combines yoga and toning exerciseswith astrology. Jennifer credits her body to Mandy Ingber’s method, and has even featured in one of the DVDs. A friend told Heat magazine that Victoria bought the Yogalosophy DVD and “does her workout at home around four times a week to ‘align her mind and spirit’. She’s really starting to notice the difference.”

Scarlett Johansson — ping pong

What do Scarlett and Axl Rose have in common? They are both members of SPiN, a ping-pong social club opened by celebrity and table tennis junkie Susan Sarandon.

Hilary Duff — Piloxing

A workout that combines features of Pilates with boxing, Piloxing is the brainchild of Swedish dancer and celebrity trainer Viveca Jensen. The work-out mixes air punches with weighted gloves, along with tummy-strengthening and toning exercise. Hilary is a fan: “After training with Viveca I feel physically strong and mentally empowered,” she wrote on Viveca’s website.

Jodie Kidd — polo

The former supermodel is a dedicated player of horseback polo, and often plays for the Apes Hill Polo team in Barbados, where she lives. In 2004, Jodie co-founded Pret-a-Polo, a venture to marry up polo, fashion and partying. She told UK’s Daily Mail: “Polo is exciting, skilful and already quite sexy. There are good-looking players, horses and a lot of attractive women attending.”

Katie Holmes — soul cycling

Forget spin, the latest bike craze is SoulCycle, a 45-minute session that also brings a spiritual experience. Since this indoor cycling studio opened its doors in New York five years ago, SoulCycle has attracted celebrity devotees: Brooke Shields, Tom Cruise, Katie Holmes and Jon Bon Jovi. The key way SoulCycle is different from other indoor cycling sessions is the spiritual element as the instructors educate, entertain and inspire. At the start of every workout, the lights are dimmed, candles are lit and the instructor cues up a playlist of music that’s specifically timed to help give motivation and energy.

Kardashians — Kangoo Jumps

Kangoos are low-impact, rebound sport shoes originally developed in Switzerland, specifically for joggers to minimise the impact on joints. Running in these special shoes promises a full-body work out. When Kim and Kourtney Kardashian were photographed bouncing around Miami Beach in Kangoo Jumps last year, pogo jogging really became a fitness trend.

Matthew McConaughey — barefoot running

Have you seen the shoes that look like rubber glove toe socks for the feet? They’re Vibram FiveFingers shoes that are meant to mimic the experience of running barefoot, yet protect your feet from dirt and debris. Hollywood actor Matthew McConaughey swears by barefoot running as a safe and effective workout that stimulates the muscles in your feet and lower legs. Other celebrities that have been seen sporting a pair of Vibrams include Kate Hudson, Channing Tatum and Scarlett Johansson.

Jennifer Lopez — Zumba

The Latin dance-inspired cardio craze has taken over gyms across Australia. Zumba promises to work out your core, arm and leg muscles while burning calories. Jennifer Lopez recommends Zumba. In a recent interview, J-Lo said: “As women, we tend to give away a lot. We take care of a lot of people, and we can’t forget to take care of ourselves. If that means once a week you’re going to go off without the kids or without anybody and just go shoe shopping — well, that’s me, because I love shoes — or get a facial even if your sister thinks that’s selfish, or join a Zumba class, or take a painting class, or whatever, you’ve just got to do it.”

Marisa Tomei — hula-hooping

Remember hula hoops in the playground? Well, using a weighted hoop to get a full-body work-out can burns up to 600 calories an hour. It also tones your muscles and improves your posture. Marisa Tomei took up hula hooping to get fit for her role as an exotic dancer in The Wrestler. Beyoncé, Liv Tyler, and even Michelle Obama have also introduced the hula hoop to their work-out routines.

Gisele Bündchen — TRX Suspension

The ultimate portable workout that you can literally take anywhere. No wonder, the TRX Suspension is popular with jet-setting, time-poor celebrities. Fans include Gwen Stefani, Mary J Blige and Gisele Bündchen. The only equipment used is a nylon strap and handle that you can easily pack in your suitcase. Just attach it to a door or other sturdy base and you’ll strengthen and tone your muscles by lifting and lowering your own body weight.

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The cutest kids in Hollywood!

Hollywood has recently experienced a celebrity baby boom with a number of new arrivals to stars including Salma Blair, Natalie Portman and Victoria Beckham.

And there are still some arrivals on the way with Beyoncé Knowles and Jennifer Garner also recently announcing that they are expecting!

So, with so many cute kids running around town, we thought we would share some of the fun!

Here are some of the cutest kids in Hollywood.

Miranda Kerr and Orlando Blooms son Flynn.

Rachel Zoe’s son Skylar.

Katherine Heigl’s daughter Nancy Leigh.

Salma Blair’s cutie Arthur Saint Bleick.

Salma Hayek’s daughter Valentina.

Isla Fisher’s daughter Olive.

Sarah Jessica Parker’s twins Marion Loretta Elwell and Tabitha Hodge.

Hugh Jackman’s daughter Ava.

Michelle Williams and Heath Ledger’s daughter Matilda.

Usher’s sons Usher Raymond V and Naviyd Ely Raymond.

Kourtney Kardashian’s son Mason Disick.

Jerry O’Connell’s twin daughters Dolly and Charlie.

Heidi Klum’s sons Henry, 6, and Johan, 4.

Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes’ daughter Suri Cruise.

Jessica Alba’s daughter Honor Marie Warren.

Halle Berry’s daughter Nahla Ariela Aubry.

The Brange clan including Pax, Zahara, Maddox , Shiloh, Knox and Vivienne.

Nicole Richie’s children Harlow and Sparrow.

Ricky Martin’s twins Matteo and Valentino.

Gwyneth Paltrow’s daughter Apple.

Reese Witherspoon’s kids Ava and Deacon Phillippe.

Matthew McConaughey’s children Vida Alves and Levi.

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