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Larry Emdur: The nicest guy in TV

Larry Emdur: The nicest guy in TV

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Larry Emdur hit a career low withCelebrity Dog School, but the master of re-invention is now one of TV’s most loved hosts.

It was not so long ago that Larry Emdur was the butt of jokes in Australian television circles.

Finding himself jobless — yet again — after the axing ofWheel of Fortune, the TV presenter had to sit back and cop it as a placard-wielding Rove McManus, from the rival Ten Network, launched a tongue-in-cheek crusade to “Save Larry Emdur”.

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Then cameCelebrity Dog School, a dog of a show, which Larry hosted for just three episodes in 2007 before it, too, was canned.

“You know times are tough when you end up doingCelebrity Dog School,” says legendary TV producer Adam Boland, chuckling.

Even Larry’s sister, the acclaimed artist Martine Emdur, admits that the close-knit family has had some “serious giggles at his expense” over the years.

Yet, these days, it is Larry who is having the last laugh — all the way to the bank.

When we meet, Larry has just wrapped up another episode of the infomercial-packedThe Morning Show, which over the years has seen him rap with Vanilla Ice, strut the catwalk with Australian supermodel Alyssa Sutherland and get naked under the covers while discussing the sexual droughts of married couples.

“When I’m driving to work each day, I know it’s going to be fun, it’s going to be different,” he says. “That’s the beauty of it.”

Larry says nobody — least of all him — predictedThe Morning Show’ssuccess when it launched in 2007, immediately knocking Australia’s daytime TV queen Kerri-Anne Kennerley off her ratings throne.

He had planned to give the show six months “to see how it worked out”, but a month into the new gig, he went home to his wife, Sylvie, and told her he could see himself doing it for the next decade.

He had found a place, outside the “boxing ring” of prime-time TV, where he could have fun, use his creative talents — and still be home for the school run.

Friends and family speak of Larry’s devotion to his family — to Sylvie, their children Jye, 17, and Tia, 12, and his wider family.

He lives within five minutes of his mother, his sister, Martine, and her young son, Asher, and of his psychologist sister, Nicole, and her four children.

“We spend a lot of time together and Laz and Sylvie are still holding hands and kissing at the dinner table,” says Martine. “They still look at each other with googly eyes!”

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Last year, Larry whipped his wife off to Bora Bora to renew their wedding vows after 15 years of marriage.

“The business is so crazy and all-consuming,” he says, “and she’s been so supportive. I just wanted to tell her that I love her and to make it special.”

Adam Boland, who is now a consultant and director of social media and strategy with Seven, predicts the network will use Larry for special broadcasts, such as New Year’s Eve. “He’s back from the wilderness in a big way.”

Read more of this story in the October issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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The Hypnotist’s Love Story

The Hypnotist's Love Story

The Hypnotist’s Love Story, by Liane Moriarty, Macmillan Australia, $32.99.

Australian author Liane Moriarty is a regular choice for our Great Read and with The Hypnotist’s Love Story she’s done it again.

This is a gripping romance with a thriller edge that probes the rather in-vogue subject of stalking in an intriguing way.

The tale filters through two voices: that of Ellen, who has just started dating single father Patrick, and of Saskia, Patrick’s ex-girlfriend, who has been ritually stalking him for three years since their break-up. What is fascinating is that we’re sympathetic to both characters.

Ellen is a hypnotherapist who, despite being surrounded by sceptics, is an extremely successful practitioner.

The book opens at the genesis of Ellen’s relationship with Patrick. They’re on their fourth date in a restaurant and Patrick declares he has something to tell her, but then disappears.

When he returns, he reveals he has a stalker who has been watching them from another table. It’s a chilling moment, which ironically also excites Ellen and sparks a full-blown relationship. And as their love grows, so the stalking steps up a notch.

“I woke up early, ravenous for information,” says stalker Saskia. “What were they doing right that moment? Had he stayed at her place? Had she stayed at his? My need to know felt physical, like a nutritional deficiency.”

Is Saskia as crazed as she sounds? What’s interesting is that, like Ellen, we’re drawn to this lost woman, which is perhaps a very female reaction.

We take her side over Patrick’s and the overriding question in this compelling triangle is not so much what will Saskia do next, but what did Patrick do to her to leave her so unstable and desperate.

Liane poses the question of whether, maybe, there’s a stalker in all of us, as Ellen cleverly employs her own brand of stalking, by using hypnosis to put Patrick in a trance and spy on his emotions for his first, now dead, wife.

It’s a clever device, but what lifts this tale to another plane is the level of empathy that runs through her narrative, making the reader as emotionally involved as her characters.

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Gok Wan’s style secrets

Gok Wan's style secrets

Are you an hour glass? Pear shape? No idea? If you’ve never considered what body shape you are UK stylist Gok Wan is here to help.

“In 16 years of dressing women — over 40,000 in my career — I would say the first question any woman will ask me is ‘what body shape am I?'” Gok says.

Gok, who isn’t afraid to take everyday women of all shapes and sizes, young and old, out of their clothing comfort zone, has just wrapped up his second Aussie tour this year.

Teaming up with Westfield, Gok has toured Australian shopping centres doing what he does best — dressing woman and helping them to embrace their body shape.

And it’s clear to see why women love Gok.

“Who wants Aunty Gok to dress them?” He asked an enthusiastic crowd at the launch of his tour in Sydney, before choosing a clearly delighted woman, measuring her up and declaring she is an hourglass body shape.

So, for all the women after some styling advice from “Aunty” Gok himself, we asked him his top styling tips, how to learn your body shape and how to feel confident in your skin, at any age.

Why do you think 93 pe cent of Australian woman are not confident in their clothes?

Because they’ve been dictated to for so long but the revolution has begun, and women are now starting to dress for themselves and not for anybody else!

What’s the best way for woman to get confident in their clothes?

Understand your own personal style, and consider three things — firstly your body shape; secondly — commit to a maximum of two styles per season; and thirdly — make sure the clothes that you’re wearing suit your lifestyle.

Is there a common mistake woman are making when it comes to choosing clothes?

The most common mistake is shopping for trend first and body shape second — it should be the reverse!

Do under garments and the way they fit make a big difference to feeling confident in an outfit?

Underwear is the most powerful part of a woman’s wardrobe, because you would never build a house on soggy soil!

How can older woman keep their outfits young and fun without dressing too young for their age?

There is no such thing as dressing too young for your age — ever. I don’t believe in it — I think it’s about dressing for your body shape first.

Once woman know how to dress do they get a confidence boost?

Yes — absolutely 100 percent — I think that the best accessory any women can wear is her confidence.

Do you have any stand out success stories?

I’d like to think all my dressing of women has been successful, but perhaps the most notable was when I dressed Di Cramer, who is a blind woman in the UK and I taught her about colour for the first time since she was 17. She’s in her 60s now and that was quite remarkable.

Westfield have launched a body shape calculator, can you explain how this tool works?

Go to westfield.com.au/bodyshapecalculator and you input your details for your bust, your waist and hips, and it calculates your individual shape instantly — in just moments. It’s a tool that every single person should use to determine their individual shape — it is easy, very effective and will change the rest of your lives when it comes to shopping.

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Parenting tips: It’s hard to be good

Naughty children and stressed mum

It’s far easier to be a rubbish parent than a good one, the struggle to parent effectively without falling out with your kids can sometimes just feel too hard.

The older they get the more you have to worry about and it sometimes seems much easier just to let them run riot, horrible though the consequences might be. Being constantly on their backs can be exhausting so giving up on discipline for the sake of peace seems very attractive.

But alas we all know this route will inevitably end in some sort of disaster so here’s some tips for managing those tricky parenting problem areas.

With toddler tantrums, go down to the child’s level and speak calmly and clearly, keeping instructions short and simple. Stay consistent, don’t give in to screaming, and be prepared to be friends once it’s over.

Children learn that actions have consequences from around three years of age. Hitting or biting should be dealt with by a time-out, where a child is put to sit by themselves for a minute for every year of their lives, or by withdrawing privileges.

Nurture confidence from an early age by letting them take the lead in shops, learning how to speak politely and clearly and try and eat out sometimes so they know how to talk to people and also realise what’s acceptable in public.

Encourage them to get involved in activities which involve public speaking which mean they have to organise something and make themselves heard, such as taking drinks orders at family gatherings.

Keep communicating, listen to what they’re saying and expect them to do the same to you. Try to be reasonable, compromising on the small things can make it easier to get the more important things done.

So the teenager who resents being picked up by her parents can agree to them waiting around the corner, thus saving face in front of her friends but still being safe.

The issues where compromise won’t work are the hardest, such as not letting young people be exposed to R18+ rated films so you have to explain that some rules are there to keep people safe but be willing to discuss different approaches as they get older. Maybe you won’t have TVs or computers in bedrooms but if a teenager comes up with good exam results that can be discussed again or if younger children can go out to play and be home at the right time, further freedom can be granted.

If the worst happens do it all calmly and without fighting or covering old ground. You’re not meant to be your child’s best friend and rules and limitations are a big part of loving them.

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The best moisturisers for your age

The best moisturisers for your age

Are you unsure of what moisturiser to use for your age? Woman’s Day beauty editor Mary Zavaglia has the answer!

In the video above, Mary explains the ageing process of the skin and the best moisturising options for each age group.

From simple tinted moisturisers in your 20s through to vitamin C brightening moisturiser for your mid-40s, Mary has your skin covered.

Watch the video of Mary above where she shares her tips and tricks for how to maintain glowing healthy skin through the ages.

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Tom Cruise’s most embarrassing moments

Tom Cruise stunned onlookers last weekend when he took part in an impromptu dance-off at his friend’s wedding – but it’s not the first time he’s embarrassed himself in public.

The 49-year-old actor is famous for his questionable public behavior and never seems embarrassed by the mortifying things he does.

From the infamous “couch jumping” incident on The Oprah Winfrey Show in 2005, to accidentally farting on live TV in 2008, Tom can’t seem to stop humiliating himself.

Here are some of his most outrageous incidents.

Tom Cruise

Tom professes his love for Katie Holmes to Oprah in 2005.

A pirated video of Tom rambling about his love of Scientology became a viral hit in 2008.

Tom dancing with Jennifer Lopez at the 2010 MTV Movie Awards.

Tom laughed so hard he farted on *Late Night with David Letterman* in 2008.

Tom laughed so hard he farted on Late Night with David Letterman in 2008.

Tom hams it up as rocker Stacee Jaxx in upcoming movie *Rock of Ages*.

Tom hams it up as rocker Stacee Jaxx in upcoming movie Rock of Ages.

Tom during his dance-off at producer David Ellison’s wedding.

Tom kept speaking through two attempts to get him offstage at the 2007 Bambi awards.

Tom lost his temper during a *60 Minutes* interview with Peter Overton in 2005.

Tom lost his temper during a 60 Minutes interview with Peter Overton in 2005.

Tom criticised Brooke Shields’ use of anti-depressants in 2005, saying mental illness was a myth.

Tom later exploded when US *Today* show host Matt Lauer brought up Shields in an interview.

Tom later exploded when US Today show host Matt Lauer brought up Shields in an interview.

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Pinch the salt from your diet

Pinch the salt from your diet

Doctors say it could be as deadly as nicotine – but Australians are still overdosing on salt without even realising it.

Last night, A Current Affair revealed the alarming amount of salt in food items we eat every day.

Here are some tips for reducing the amount of salt you eat every day:

  • Read the labels when shopping. Look for lower sodium in cereals, crackers, pasta sauces, canned vegetables, or any foods with low-salt options.

  • Ask about salt added to food, especially at restaurants. Most restaurant chefs will omit salt when requested.

  • If you need to salt while cooking, add the salt at the end; you will find that you need to add much less.

  • Limit your intake of high-sodium foods like pickles, olives, cured meats, soy sauce and other condiments.

  • Keep the salt in your pantry instead of on your table where it is so easy and tempting to use.

  • Snack on fresh fruits rather than salted crackers or chips.

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Gok Wan: How to look good with any body shape

Gok Wan: How to look good with any body shape

Celebrity stylist Gok Wan

Feeling fat and frumpy? Celebrity stylist Gok Wan is here to help you banish those feelings forever with his top tips for looking fabulous no matter how old you are (or what those numbers on the scale say).

AWW: What are the three biggest fashion mistakes women make?

Gok: Not dressing for your body shape, not dressing for your body shape And not dressing for your body shape! It’s the biggest and most common mistake I see women make every day. Far too many gorgeous women hide their best asset and make themselves look larger!

AWW: Lots of women lose their body confidence as they get older or after having children — what can they wear to start feeling good about themselves again?

Gok: Here are Gok’s Golden Rules for those that need a confidence boost:

    1. Form an honest relationship with the mirror
    1. Buy yourself some good underwear
    1. Clear out all the rubbish from your wardrobe
    1. Learn what your body shape is.
    1. Go shopping and buy items that will show off your best bits

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AWW: Do you have some fast tips to update your wardrobe without spending too much money?

Gok: Simple solution — accessorise! There are so many amazing accessories this season that can really lift your outfit taking your look from simple to sensational. Reinvent your wardrobe favourites with a bright scarf, statement neckpiece or clutch and when in doubt, you can never go wrong with a fabulous pair of killer heels!

AWW: How old is too old for short skirts and cleavage?

Gok: For me, age isn’t important: it’s all about accentuating your best assets, whether it’s womanly curves or killer pins. While I wouldn’t recommend a plunging neckline or mini-skirt for a more mature lady, it’s really about finding your comfort zone and working within that.

AWW: Support undergarments: figure-fixing miracle or uncomfortable myth?

Gok: A figure-fixing miracle! A great look always starts with great underwear. There are many great support garments on the market that there is no excuse to settle for uncomfortable underwear!

AWW: Lots of women have wardrobes bursting with clothes, but still don’t have anything to wear. What is your advice for editing down your closet and what should you restock it with?

Gok: First and foremost, if it hasn’t been worn in over 12 months it has to go. An overstuffed wardrobe of unworn items only creates clutter and prevents you from recognising your fabulous favourites. And if it doesn’t fit, get rid of it. There’s no use holding onto that ‘dream’ pair of pants if they’re ultimately not right for your body shape. Focus on items that fit well and flatter your figure.

AWW: What are your tips for dressing a fuller figure?

Gok: The common error that many fuller-figured women make is hiding what they’ve got! Understanding your body shape is key. Whether you’re a big-bottomed beauty, a round, luscious apple or a top heavy inverted triangle shape, the rules are the same: Draw attention away from the areas you want to hide by bringing the focus to your best bits. If you’re blessed with a great bust, then don’t be tempted to cover it up — go for wraparound dresses that show a little cleavage (but not too much) and invest in a good quality bra to keep your best assets firmly in place. If it’s a generous lower half that you’d like to play down, accentuate your waist and disguise a big bottom with a swirly full skirt. The curvy figure really is back with a vengeance so ladies, if you’ve got it flaunt it!

AWW: We’re coming into summer — what can more mature women wear to work to keep cool without flashing too much flesh?

Gok: We’re all in charge of our wardrobes, girls, not the other way around! It’s simply a matter of seeing what works best for you and what showcases your beautiful bod best. And, remember babes, natural fibres are your best friend! Cotton and linen breathe and feel gorgeous, so drape yourself in them. Find a maxi in a light, summer fabric and with a big and bold print or be daring in a flowing kaftan, just remember to cinch it in at the waist with a pretty belt.

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AWW: How can more mature ladies adapt the new season fashions without looking like mutton dressed as lamb?

Gok: The key is dressing for your shape regardless of the trend you want to adapt. And remember you don’t have to go top-to-toe in the latest trends to be considered fashionable.

Gok Wan is in Australia from today until October 16 on his second Westfield Style Tour, which will see him jetting around the country to advise women on this season’s hottest trends. For dates and times at your local centre, visit Westfield’s website.

Your say: Do you have any style questions? Post them below and we’ll do our best to answer them for you.

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Is reality TV making girls mean?

Is reality TV making girls mean?

Since the first series of Big Brother Australia aired in 2001, the nation has been in the grips of reality TV fever — but are the constant arguments and vicious gossip captured on today’s hit shows making our kids mean?

Parenting expert and psychotherapist Robi Ludwig is convinced the bad behaviour flaunted in popular programmes like Jersey Shore, The Real Housewives and The Only Way is Essex is negatively influencing teen audiences.

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While girls might not imitate the violent brawls seen on their favourite shows, Ludwig says they do mimic other behaviour because TV tells them that “nasty and mean” girls are the most popular.

“Relational aggression, which is very common amongst girls, is where there’s increased gossip and being nasty to one another,” Ludwig told the US Today show yesterday.

“The truth is, if kids are watching these kinds of interactions, the message is ‘You’re popular if you’re nasty and mean.’ Girls who identify with that will certainly make that a part of their mental script.”

Ludwig says it is up to parents to make sure their daughters don’t become mean girls. She recommends watching shows with children and pointing out the negative consequences of TV character’s gossiping and nastiness.

Related: Are we raising a generation of brats?

“If parents train their kids to think critically, that makes all the difference in the world,” Ludwig says.

“Train your child to say, ‘How do you think the victim feels in this situation?’ Then you’re really teaching empathy and you’re using what’s part of this media diet in an effective way.”

Your say: Do you think reality TV shows are making girls nastier?

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Kids do the cutest things!

Kids do the cutest things!

As most parents know, kids can sometimes do the cutest things!

Take this little girl, who took it upon herself to clean up after her fellow flower girl who is dropping flower petals down the aisle.

To the enjoyment of guests and the wedding party, the adorable little girl makes sure she picks up every rose petal before she gets to the end of the aisle.

Has your child done something cute lately? Share it in the comments box below.

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