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Did Kevin Rudd’s daughter predict his downfall?

Did Kevin Rudd's daughter predict his downfall?

Jessica Rudd

Jessica Rudd’s first novel was about an Australian prime minister bought down by his female deputy. It was written just months before her father Kevin was rolled by Julia Gillard.

There some people who believe that everything happens for a reason and Jessica Rudd is one of them. How could it be otherwise?

Quite by chance, in June of 2010, she found herself in Canberra, just as her beloved father, Kevin Rudd, was being rolled by his own party and removed from the job he had wanted all his life, that of prime minister of Australia.

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“I was living with Albert [her husband] in Beijing,” says Jessica, in a low voice, the emotion still raw. “Dad phoned me and said he had to go to the Midwinter Ball [an elegant, black-tie fundraiser, hosted by the federal parliamentary press gallery]. Mum was away on business, and would I be his date?”

She quickly flew “home” to Canberra (she means to The Lodge), slipped into an exquisite, floor-length gown and pinned a dramatic flower in her hair.

She was photographed that night in the Grand Hall of Parliament House, beaming, on her dad’s arm. “We went to the ball and we danced,” Jessica says, shrugging. “I had no inkling at all that anything was wrong.”

A little over a week later, there was Jessica again, standing on the steps of Parliament House, this time supporting her father on the lowest day of his life, as he wept for what he had just lost.

Again, there were photographers. Jessica wasn’t all dressed up and beaming this time; her face was white with the strain and the grief, but there was something else going on, too.

Just months earlier, Jessica had delivered the final manuscript of her first novel, Campaign Ruby, to her publisher.

It was about an Australian prime minister brought down by his female deputy, who then becomes Australia’s first female prime minister.

“It was a genuine fluke,” says Jessica. “I predicted stuff and there I was, standing there as it happened.”

Well over a year has passed since that awful day and Jessica is again in what she calls “a good place”.

She has just completed her second novel, Ruby Blues, to be published on October 31, the contents of which are just as startling as the first.

It features a prime minister, Max Masters, who is struggling in his first term and getting whacked in the polls.

Newspapers are describing him as “incompetent” and “uninspiring”, “disappointing” and “overweight”. He wears “crisp white shirts” and ice blue ties, and rubs his steel-rimmed glasses on his sleeves.

His government is being accused of “rushing” to implement its agenda, leading to problems with the programs it rolls out. The PM himself says, “A lot of the time, we just swing from disaster to disaster.”

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I have to ask, is the PM modeled on your dad? Jessica has anticipated the question. “I think you see Kevin because the reader expects me to write about my dad,” Jessica says.

“When I see Max in my head, he’s not my dad. He looks a bit like George Clooney and my dad does not look like George Clooney.”

Read more of this story in the November issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

Your say: Do you think Jessica Rudd’s novels are just a ‘fluke’ as she says, or do they offer more valuable insights into Australian politics?

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Words of wisdom from women of influence

Words of wisdom from women of influence

ABC Director of News Kate Torney, Governor-General Quentin Bryce and midwife Robin Barker.

Some of Australia’s most admired women share the secrets of their success.

Quentin Bryce, Governor-General of the Commonwealth of Australia

Take care of yourself.

When a woman is fit and healthy, everything else falls into place. We are conditioned to put others first, that “burnt chop syndrome” we observed in our own mothers. It takes discipline to pay attention to our diets, to exercise, to leave time for refreshment of mind, body and spirit. And the lesson I pass on to young women I see juggling so many responsibilities, is stop! Yes, you can have it all, but not all at the same time. Set your own priorities, trust your gut and follow your heart.

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Take time.

Time is the most precious gift we have to give — spending time with the people we love and care about. It must be the “best” sort of time — listening, giving our full attention. When you think of a person whom you love, who is frail or having a rough patch, stop what you’re doing, call, go and see them. Don’t put it off. Do it now.

Robin Barker, Midwife and baby expert

Get regular exercise.

Like most kids who are not particularly good at sport, I avoided routine physical activity for the first 40 years of my life. Then, struck by the jogging bug, I became a runner, swam regularly and discovered, to my surprise, that I was quite competent at both. The benefits for my health and wellbeing were significant: excellent sleep, weight control and a sense of achievement. I have now given up jogging and go for long walks instead. Twelve years ago, I swapped pool swimming for the ocean.

Humour is essential.

I couldn’t survive without humour. The joy of collapsing into paroxysms of wild laughter with family and friends, the relief of finding humour in dark moments, the delight of shared fits of snorting laughter between two people.

Kate Torney, Director of News at the ABC

Treasure family and friends.

They are there long before and after careers and job titles. My husband and I have three children, Ruby, 13, Sadie, eight, and Jack, five, and no matter what’s happening at work, when I get home, they help put things into perspective pretty quickly. My daughter’s response to this article was, “Really? What exactly do you do at work?” For my family and friends, my job is a small part of who I am, and that’s great. Embrace all your roles.

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Several years ago, I was working with Barrie Cassidy on the ABC’s Insiders and, like dozens of other journalists, we were trying to get an interview with the US Secretary of State. I was dealing with a very formal official at the State Department and I had little hope of breaking through.

Early one morning, I woke to find that my then six-year-old daughter had answered the phone and she was busily describing what she had planned for an upcoming birthday party. I assumed she was speaking to her grandmother, but she handed me the phone and I discovered that it was my contact at the State Department. He laughed and told me about his own kids and when we got back to business, it was a lot smoother. Sometimes, your worlds collide and that’s fine.

Read more of this story in the November issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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Get supplement savvy

Get supplement savvy

With our demanding, stressful lives, many people are turning to vitamin supplements in an effort to maintain health — but are they really doing us any good? Karen Inge reports.

The supplement industry is growing at a phenomenal rate in Australia. No longer the sole realm of the health food store, naturopath clinic or pharmacy, you’ll now find rows and rows of vitamin and mineral combinations for every life stage and health concern in the local supermarket, on line, at your gym and even at the petrol station.

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According to Research Australia’s annual public opinion poll on health and medical issues, more than half the population took multivitamins in the last year to help combat a lack of energy and 30 per cent of Australians took vitamin C pills to prevent colds.

While we all want to be well and feel fit and fabulous, if you think swallowing a supplement means instant good health, think again. It’s not that simple. In fact, while some may be valuable for particular conditions, they may not be helping us at all. So let’s get supplement savvy.

Food first

The best way to get your vitamins and minerals is from food which is naturally high in that nutrient, such as calcium from milk, vitamin C from oranges, iron from red meat, zinc from oysters and so on.

This is because, in most cases, the nutrient is more available in the food form, plus other components of the food may assist in absorbing that nutrient and support its function once absorbed.

In other words, vitamins and minerals from food work better than the supplements. The exception is folate where the synthetic form, either as a supplement or fortified food, is better absorbed.

Know if you need them

Most of us will be able to meet all our nutritional needs through the food we eat but some, for a number of reasons, may benefit from a specific vitamin or mineral supplement.

If you are feeling “out of sorts” and concerned about nutritional deficiencies, the best thing to do is see a doctor who will arrange a blood test to check your health and nutrition status. That way you eliminate the guesswork.

If you want to take a supplement, it is much better to take multivitamins at the Recommended Dietary Intake (RDI) level, rather than single nutrient supplements or high-dose multivitamins unless you have had a blood test to confirm a dietary deficiency.

Maximise your intake

Most nutrient supplements are better absorbed when they are taken with food; the exception is folate. Some nutrients such as the fat-soluble vitamins E, A, D and K are better absorbed when they are taken with a small amount of fat — preferably healthy fats like a slice of bread spread with avocado or peanut butter, a few nuts or even a small glass of low-fat milk (not skim).

Other supplements, like calcium, may be better taken with food or something acidic, like fruit juice.

Generally the body will not absorb more than 500mg of calcium at once, so if you have been advised to take more than this daily as a supplement, then you should split the dose and take it at different times in the day. Also, calcium will not be optimally metabolised by the body if you have low vitamin D levels, low phosphate levels or low magnesium or zinc levels.

Iron absorption is enhanced with vitamin C, so having a glass of OJ with your iron supplement is smart. But we also know that tannins in tea inhibit iron absorption, so save the cuppa for later. As iron and calcium compete for absorption sites, it’s best not to take them together.

Ask the experts

Supplements need to be treated with respect, and ideally only used on the advice of trained professionals including doctors or Accredited Practicing Dietitians.

And don’t expect instant results. If you have been advised to take a particular nutrient, you may not ever feel different but your body will be functioning better. For some nutrient deficiencies, such as inadequate iron or vitamin D, it may take months to show the benefits of the supplement and this may only be when your doctor retests the levels of that nutrient to see whether your levels have returned to acceptable levels.

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You might need a vitamin, mineral or dietary supplement if:

  • You follow a strict vegan diet

  • Your doctor has recommended a supplement because tests show your body has low levels of a nutrient.

  • You are planning to become pregnant

  • You are following a very low-energy weight-reduction diet or have had weight-reduction surgery.

  • You have low bone density

  • You have been unwell and are eating less

  • You have a poor appetite and eat small or infrequent meals — this is of concern for the elderly.

  • You regularly drink more than 4 standard drinks of alcohol a day and/or you smoke.

  • You are taking medications that increase or decrease your need for some nutrients. People taking warfarin, for example, need to be careful about their vitamin K intake.

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So happy for you – not

So happy for you - not

More than any other emotion, jealousy can seriously undermine your sanity, as you obsess over a person’s every gesture, seeing them all as ‘proof’ that they are doing you wrong.

While having a partner who is actually unfaithful is one of the most painful experiences you can have, it is also true that jealousy without cause is a curse that can destroy a perfectly good relationship.

It is relentless — as soon as you deal with one cause for jealousy, another comes along — and it grows like a weed.

The more suspicious and needy you are, the more suffocated the other person becomes, to the point that you may push them away — a bitter self-fulfilling prophecy, that you “knew would happen”.

The good news? Jealousy is a habit — and it can be broken with these simple tips.

Name it:

Jealousy is a difficult emotion to own up to. However, true personal power comes from knowing your whole self, including your ‘shadow’ — the bits of you that you don’t really like much. Naming an emotion is the first step towards letting it go.

Dig deeper:

Consider jealousy as a mirror. Why does this person make you feel this way? What qualities do they have that are making you feel insecure? Sit and concentrate on your feelings and see what comes to the surface. You may be surprised to discover that an attribute you thought you found attractive in a partner — he’s so good with people — actually triggers a negative response in you, for example, ‘I don’t have his confidence, so no one will ever warm to me in the same way’.

Change gears:

Odds are, you just identified a fear that you’ve had for some time. Fears are nearly always the product of an imaginary reality. Clinical psychologists tell their patients that the word “fear” is an acronym: False Evidence Appearing Real. When you torture yourself with jealous thoughts, you may be fuelling a vision of your future that only exists in your mind. Ask yourself: is this actually true? Then shift your focus and face the real fear; working on it offers you potential for genuine growth.

Know that you have a choice:

You can continue to stew in your jealousy, or you can let these feelings go. Working on your self-esteem is the first step. Although it may appear that your main emotional relationship is with the other person, in fact it is with yourself. If you believe you are nothing without the other person, you can’t celebrate the many gifts you have. But when you begin to claim your own gorgeousness, you can more readily experience joy, independent of anyone else. Jealous or not, this is something that most of us need to cultivate.

In Buddhism, it is called “sympathetic happiness” — the ability to find contentment in ourselves which moves us beyond the notion that we can be diminished by anyone else.

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The secret to losing tummy fat: Target belly fitness

Lose the jelly belly and achieve your desired beach body with these clever tips. With a little bit of exercise and the right diet, you’ll have a flatter stomach in no time.

That lower belly paunch is actually composed of two types of fat. One kind, subcutaneous, is right under the skin and it’s soft and pinchable. The other kind, inside the abdominal cavity, is visceral fat, it’s a hard fat which helps protect organs. Visceral fat produces various chemicals and excess amounts of it are associated with heart disease and diabetes.

No matter what you weigh, experts agree that a waist circumference over 88 cm for a woman and over 94cm for a man indicates that you may have unsafe levels of visceral fat that may place you at increased risk of obesity-related conditions.

Breathe out before you measure (do not suck in your breath). Wrap the tape measure around your middle. Men should measure around the belly button, and women measure four centimetres above your belly button.

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It may sound odd, but celebrity trainer James Duigan, the man who shaped Elle Macpherson, swears by eating good fats every day to burn body fat.

The fats found in nuts, avocados, oily fish and olive oils encourage your body to burn fat, giving you a nice, flat tummy. Avoid bad fats, such as hydrogenated oil, hydrogenated vegetable fat and partially hydrogenated vegetable fat.

By feeding yourself smaller meals more often during the day, you keep the metabolism ticking over throughout the day. This constantly keeps the fat fires burning and is a simple adjustment to make to your daily routine.

The microflora colony in the digestive tract should be made up of 85 percent friendly bacteria to 15 percent harmful bacteria. But imbalanced gut flora can lead to gas and bloating. Taking a probiotic supplement and eating foods that include probiotics will help relieve the bloating and rebalance your tummy health.

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There is no diet that targets tummy fat alone. But when you lose weight, belly fat usually goes first. Here is a list of foods that are best to eat for a flat tummy:

• Water and cranberry juice will flush out toxins;

• Vegetables;

• Protein. Opt for organic chicken and meat because they have less hormones and bacteria;

• Low-GI foods. Look for the label on foods in supermarkets:

• Fibre. It regulates your bowel movements so include wholegrain bread, cereal and nuts in your diet.

• Too much fruit, wheat and dairy can cause bloating. Reduce your servings to two a day.

• Avoid Alcohol, caffeine and fizzy drinks.

• Salt makes you retain water. Beware of processed (takeaway, packet) foods which are high in sodium and sugar.

• Sugar, which promotes weight gain.

• Go easy on chillies and spices. While they can kick-start your metabolism, they can also upset your stomach, so just monitor your body’s reaction to spicy foods.

Anything that raises your heart rate above its resting level will help burn fat. A combination of cardio, such as cycling or walking, and weight training is the best if you want results. Start with three cardio work-outs a week for 40 minutes each. But cardio exercise has been shown to trim fat, and also slow the build-up of visceral fat over the years. Whether you choose to hit the treadmill, swim, walk, do an aerobics class or jump on a bike is up to you.

Adding strength to your training can supercharge your fitness, boost your metabolism and burn off that extra fat. If you increase your lean body mass, you increase your metabolic rate, which in return makes it easier to lose fat.

The bad news is that there aren’t any moves that specifically target belly fat. While you may be able to lose weight overall, it’s very difficult to spot reduce certain parts of our body. The good news is that there are exercises that strengthen the abdominal muscles. Try the following 3 exercises to achieve that chiselled six pack.

Sit-ups are great, but your muscles need to be challenged and abdominal exercises don’t have to be done just on the floor. The best abdominal exercises are those that stabilise and strengthen the entire core area, not just the six-pack muscles. Kayaking offers great resistance training. If you can’t get access to a kayak, try the rowing machine at your local gym.

Try the yoga position ‘the plank’. Lie on your stomach on the floor, raise your body off the floor and onto your hands and toes, making sure you keep your body in a straight line and your stomach in. Breathe normally and hold for as long as you can. Try aim for a minute.

The beauty of the ‘zip and hollow’ Pilates move is that you can do this anywhere without anyone noticing. Next time you are in the supermarket queue, or standing on the bus, give this move a go. As you exhale, draw up your pelvic floor muscles and gently hollow your lower abdominals back towards your spine.

Managing your stress matters. When you’re under stress, the body makes cortisol, a hormone that encourages fat storage in the belly. Find an outlet for your worries like boxing, reading, swimming or painting.

A lack of sleep plays a role in the build-up of fat. According to nutritionist and exercise physiologist Caitlin Reid, a lack of sleep increases the production of the stress hormone cortisol, as well as insulin secretion after a meal. Both these hormones promote weight gain. During sleep, our bodies produce hormones that help to control appetite, energy metabolism and glucose processing.

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Celebrity trainer James Duigan says many of his model clients take an Epsom salts bath just before a bikini photo shoot. Epsom salts are an ancient remedy for drawing out toxins. And according to James, soaking in one or two of these baths a week will speed up your weight loss.

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What The Family Needed

What The Family Needed

What The Family Needed by Steven Amsterdam, Sleepers Publishing, $24.95.

There’s something fresh and engaging about Steven Amsterdam’s writing — a lightness of touch with some of life’s more troubling human scenarios sprinkled with a frisson of other worldliness; in this instance the idea that we may all have a special power that could reveal itself when we least expect it.

This is the Melbourne-based author’s second novel and like his 2009 debut Things We Didn’t see Coming is packed to the brim with fascinating ideas that play on your mind and characters so vivid they seem to leap from the page.

The tale opens with Ruth descending on her sister Natalie’s house with kids Ben and Giordana in tow having abandoned her husband — and this time for good.

From there we immediately experience the scene through 15-year-old Giordana’s eyes, who at first sees her cousins’ suburban ordered home as a place of normalcy but soon discovers there’s no such thing.

“Tell me which you want: to be able to fly or to be invisible,” poses her precocious and slightly disconcerting cousin, seven-year-old Alek. “Can I walk through things?” replies Giordana. “Yes, but you can’t steal stuff, like from the bank,” comes the reply.

Soon Giordana is developing her special power and using it to gain an insight into her family’s world.

Each chapter increases our knowledge of this sprawling family unit through a different character’s eyes and also at a different time during a 30-year period.

En route each character unlocks their own special power. Giordana’s father — a disgruntled stay-at-home dad unable to find employment — literally soars above his world when he discovers he can fly while Giordana’s mother Ruth, a nurse, hears people’s inner thoughts — including those of a dying patient.

It’s a magical concept that doesn’t necessarily enrich the characters’ lives but does add an out of body dimension and sense of playfulness to this deep study of the tensions dividing and binding family life. Steven Amsterdam is definitely a new talent worth watching.

About the author: Steven Amsterdam

Born in New York City, the son of a literary agent mum — “who taught me much but did not sell my book,” — and a city planner dad, Steven Amsterdam, 45, always had a yen for writing.

In 2003 he moved to Melbourne where he divides his time between writing and palliative care nursing. “Nursing impacts my writing,” he says. “The whole strangeness of being briefly but intimately involved in people’s lives exposes me to all sorts of behaviour.”

His first book, Things We Didn’t See Coming won The Age Book of the Year in 2009, was shortlisted for the 2010 NSW Premier’s Prize, and long-listed for The Guardian First Book Award in the UK.

The inspiration for What The Family Needed, says Steven, came from “…several stay-at-home dads I knew who weren’t quite getting along with their working wives, largely because they didn’t have jobs. The question came: what if one of them discovered he could fly?”

And so a recognisable but magical world was created.

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Has Jennifer Aniston abandoned her stroke-stricken mother?

Nancy Dow and Jennifer Aniston

Jennifer Aniston was nowhere to be seen when her once-estranged mother was discharged from hospital last week after a life threatening health scare.

Jen’s mum, Nancy Dow, 75, was admitted to Los Angeles hospital a month ago after suffering a brain seizure. At the time a source told the Daily Mirror that “…Nancy is desperately ill, and it is no exaggeration to say people fear the very worst.”

Jennifer was quick to arrive at her mother’s side for a hospital visit with new boyfriend Justin Theroux back in September, which she reportedly found very distressing, not helped by her mother’s inability to speak at the time, brought on by the stroke.

The emotional bedside reunion was thought to be a step forward in the mother and daughter’s fractured relationship, but since then Jen has been living it up — photographed on numerous occasions looking loved-up and carefree with Justin in New York. Meanwhile her mother has started on her slow, arduous recovery.

Furthermore, when Nancy left hospital last week it was with the aid of carers, not her family, who escorted the visibly weak and struggling 75-year-old to a pharmacy and then back home to her apartment in North Hollywood.

She could only manage a strained, “I’m okay” when asked how she was feeling, reported the Daily Mail.

Jennifer and Nancy were previously estranged for 12 years following an appearance by Nancy on a TV show where she talked about her daughter and then later wrote a book entitled, From Mother and Daughter to Friends: A Memoir (1999) about their problems, which led to her not receiving an invite to Jen’s wedding to Brad Pitt in 2000.

Nancy, who had Jennifer with actor John Aniston in 1969, divorced John in 1980. Jennifer has revealed that it was her own divorce from Brad in 2005 that prompted her to reach out to her mother for reconciliation.

Jennifer has described the progress of her new relationship with her mother as “baby steps”, saying “It’s good. It’s okay. Things are now fine between us. All of that is over, and we’re in touch with one another. We speak and it’s all over.”

It remains to be seen whether their relationship has progressed to a point where Jennifer will take an active role in assisting in her mum’s continued recovery.

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The odd couple: Queen and Duke swap glares onstage

The odd couple: Queen and Duke swap glares onstage

Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip in Brisbane today.

Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip might be two of the world’s most famous people, but today they showed they are just like any other old married couple.

The royals were in Brisbane’s South Bank region to open a new storm water storage facility.

The queen rose to make a short speech, praising Queenslanders for their courage and fortitude during the recent natural disasters, and was returning to her seat when Philip began gesturing wildly at her.

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Her Majesty paused and shot Philip an irritated look as he continued to point behind her, to the plaque she had forgotten to unveil.

With another withering stare at the Duke, the queen tottered back across the stage to do her duty, while Philip barely concealed a roll of the eyes.

Plaque unveiled, the queen resumed her place next to her husband, shooting him one more frosty glance as he smirked and looked away.

Fortunately, the queen’s reception in Brisbane was far from frosty. The crowds in the Queensland capital were by far the biggest of the royal tour so far.

More than 45,000 people packed into the South Bank to welcome the queen, many bringing British flags and one woman even taking along her three corgis.

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After the opening, the royal couple attended a private meeting with 200 people affected by the state’s recent natural disasters, including survivors and members of the emergency services.

They then returned to Canberra, where they will tomorrow visit the National War Memorial before flying to Melbourne on Wednesday.

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Hugh VS Shane: Liz’s men at war!

Liz Hurley: Shane can’t compete with Hugh

Hugh Grant warns Shane Warne not to cheat… and gets told to rack off!

Shane Warne and Elizabeth Hurley’s all-too-perfect engagement has hit its first serious bump in the road – and it’s because her ex and best friend, Hugh Grant, doesn’t trust the cricket legend to treat her right. Although Liz and Hugh split up 11 years ago after 13 years together, you wouldn’t know it. They speak to each other almost every day, attend cooking, Italian and guitar-playing classes together, and the English actor continues to play a large part in Liz’s personal life as her best mate and confidante.

At first, Hugh, 51, and Shane, 42, seemed to get along fine, with Liz, 46, even raving that they “often play golf together”. In fact, Hugh was the first person to hear of the couple’s engagement. Although he initially reacted with a beaming smile and hugs for the couple, Woman’s Day earnt his tone changed as soon as he was alone with Shane. A close friend of Hugh’s, who has known the star since his early twenties, tells us, “Hugh had an old-fashioned man-to-man talk with Shane and told him to play things straight with Liz.”

Referring to Hugh’s notorious encounter with Los Angeles prostitute Divine Brown in 1995, the source continues, “Hugh had a moment of madness and he lost Liz forever – and he just wanted to tell Shane not to make the same mistake. “He thought he was well within his rights given that he is godfather to Liz’s son Damian, and because Shane has a reputation as a love-rat.” owever, Hugh’s staunch speech didn’t go down too well with the Aussie sporting icon, who apparently answered with a series of grunts and monosyllabic answers. One of his best mates tells us that Shane is fuming over Hugh’s lecture.

“Shane thought Hugh was a good bloke and they got on fine,” says the friend, speaking exclusively to Woman’s Day.“He’s never understood why Hugh is still so possessive of Liz, even though they don’t have kids together and broke up years ago. But he wasn’t really bothered until Hugh started laying down the law to him. “Like Shane says, this is coming from a guy who cheated on Liz with a Hollywood hooker off the street when he was her boyfriend!” the friend continues. “Shane thinks he’s bang out of order coming on all high and mighty, and he should keep his nose out of other people’s business.”

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After a horror year, it’s baby joy for the Newtons

The Newtons: 'The little miracle we needed!'

Following a difficult year, the famous showbiz clan has reason to celebrate. They share their exciting news.

A smile is making its way across Bert Newton’s famous moon-face – an infectious grin that instantly lights up his features and the faces of those around him. The entertainment legend’s blue eyes twinkle as he reflects on the most joyous of news while watching his grandchildren, Eva, 2, and Sam, 3, excitedly blow bubbles in the air – he’s going to be a grandfather again. After what has undoubtedly been a harrowing year for one of Australia’s best-known families, Bert and the rest of the tight-knit Newton clan are preparing to welcome a new life into the world.

Bert and Patti’s daughter Lauren, 32, and her former swim champ husband Matt Welsh, 34, are expecting their third child next March. And nothing, it’s abundantly clear, could make them happier. “I’m really thrilled,” Bert says. “It’s almost like going into a show that you know is a success – because we’ve already got two of the most beautiful grandchildren. To think that another one is on the way is wonderful. “These two grandkids have brought something into Patti’s and my life that is just so special. If you’ve had a hard day or if you’re working hard… just to get back and hear them say, ‘We’ve missed you, Poppy’, is the highlight of my life.”

“These simple pleasures are what we enjoy,” agrees Patti. “Because of that, we couldn’t be more pleased with this third pregnancy. “With your grandchildren, really all you need to do is just be there when they hurt their knee and give them love. And how could you not love this face?” asks Patti, beaming down at her adorable granddaughter, now playing happily at her feet. Having been in the public eye for most of their lives, Patti and Bert know all too well there will be times when the spotlight can be anything but welcome. Certainly, that was the case on occasion in the past year, with the pair’s actor son Matthew, 34.

“It’s a day at a time, but he [Matthew] is very excited about my news,” Lauren reveals. “He loves being an uncle. He adores Sam and Eva.” Life became tougher still for the Newtons in June this year when Bert, still treading the boards at 73 in the hit stage musical Wicked, was admitted to the intensive care unit of a Melbourne hospital suffering from a severe bout of pneumonia. “He was pretty sick,” recalls Lauren. “It definitely was a tough time, but you just get through it. Mum’s very strong. And even being as sick as Dad was, I brought the kids in to see him in intensive care and he still did his performance and showed them how the bed went up and down and played games for them with his oxygen mask.” Bert now chuckles at his illness. “I didn’t realise until I came through it how serious it was – when I got the green light from one of the 19 doctors looking after me.”

Read more about the Newton family’s baby joy in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale October 24, 2011.

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